Abantu be-LGBTQ+ banokuzuza njani kuNyango olukwi-Intanethi: Ukuqhawula imiqobo kunye nokukhulisa impilo yengqondo

Enye yezona zihlukeneyo Zophando ukuza kuthi ga ngoku utyhile ukuba ukuya kuthi ga kwi-45% yolutsha lwe-LGBTQ luneengcinga zokuzibulala. Abantu abanamanqanaba aphezulu enkxaso kwiintsapho zabo banomlinganiselo ongaphantsi kwesiqingatha sabo baziva bengaxhaswa. Ngaphezu koko, ukuya kuthi ga kwi-60% yabathathi-nxaxheba abafuna ukhathalelo lwempilo yengqondo abakwazanga ukufikelela kuyo.

Unyango lwe-Intanethi luqhekeza imiqobo kukhathalelo lwempilo yengqondo kwaye lunceda abantu ukuba bafumane inkxaso abayifunayo. Eli nqaku lixubusha indlela i-LGBTQ + unyango lwe-intanethi lunokunceda ngayo, kutheni lubalulekile, kwaye luphucula njani iinkalo zobomi ezifana nonxibelelwano, ukusombulula iingxabano, ukwakha ubudlelwane obuphilileyo, kunye nokuba nokwanelisayo, ubomi obonwabileyo.

Yintoni i-LGBTQ+ yoNyango lwe-Intanethi?

Ukufikelela kukhathalelo lwempilo yengqondo kunokuba nzima nakubani na, kodwa amalungu oluntu lwe-LGBTQ + anokuba nexesha elinzima ngakumbi lokufumana i-Therapist enobuchule obufanelekileyo kunye nezakhono zokubanceda kwiimfuno zabo ezithile. Ugqirha we-LGBTQ+ kufuneka abe nemfundo efanelekileyo kunye nobuchule ukuze abonelele ngenkxaso efanelekileyo kubantu abangaqhelekanga.

Unyango lwe-LGBTQ+ luzalisekisa le mfuno ngokunikezela ngokhathalelo lwempilo olufanelekileyo, olufikelelekayo, kunye noluyimfihlo kuluntu olungengowabantu. Nantsi into eyenziwa ngabanyangi abaqinisekisa ubuni: Banamava ekusebenzeni nabantu abawela ngaphandle kolindelo lwesini, iindima, kunye nezazisi. Baqeqeshelwa ukuqonda ama-nuances e-queerphobia kwaye bakukhokele malunga nendlela yokuphucula unxibelelwano, ukusombulula iingxabano, kunye nokwakha isiseko esiluqilima sokuzaliseka kobudlelwane - neqabane, abahlobo kunye nosapho.

Unyango lwe-LGBTQ kwi-intanethi lulungisa uluhlu olubanzi lwemiba. Xa ukhetha umboneleli wakho wesevisi, unokukhetha udidi olufunekayo. Imizekelo ibandakanya imiba yobudlelwane, i-dysphoria yesini, ukudakumba, ukuxhalaba, ukuphuma, ukujongana nocalucalulo, ubunzima babazali, kunye nokunye okuninzi. Ngexesha leeseshoni zonyango, abantu abajoliswanga nje ngobunono ekuziqondeni ngcono, kodwa baphinde bafundise indlela yokuphila kakuhle kunye nokuzikhulisa, ukudala imikhwa enempilo, ukuqonda kunye nokuqinisekisa iimfuno zabo, kunye nokuseka iinjongo ezinokwenzeka.

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Ngaba i-LGBTQ+ yoNyango lwe-Intanethi iyasebenza?

Nangona uphando oluninzi lusafuneka, izifundo ezininzi ziqinisekisile ukuba unyango lwe-intanethi lunokusebenza ngokufanelekileyo njengonyango lomntu. Makhe sithethe ngeengenelo. Kwezinye iimeko, unyango lwe-intanethi lukhetho kuphela. Umzekelo, ukuba ukubudlelwane obukude, unyango lwe-LGBTQ+ kwi-intanethi inokuba sisisombululo kuphela sakho kunye neqabane lakho.

Xa ukhetha umboneleli wenkonzo ye-intanethi, unokhetho oluninzi olwahlukileyo lweengcali onokukhetha kuzo xa kuthelekiswa nokhetho lwakho lwasekhaya. Oku kuthetha ukuba unethuba eliphezulu lokufumana unyango olufanelekileyo kuwe kunye neemfuno zakho. Uninzi lwababoneleli bakuvumela ukuba utshintshe amayeza simahla ukuba awonwabanga ngomgangatho weenkonzo.

Unyango lwe-LGBTQ+ kwi-intanethi lukwanceda abantu abafuna indawo eyimfihlo, efanelekileyo. Ungajoyina iiseshini uwedwa okanye kunye neqabane lakho nikwikhaya elitofotofo, ngaphandle kokuhamba uye ekliniki. Unyango lwe-Intanethi luhlala lufikeleleka ngakumbi kuneseshini yomntu. Ngokuxhomekeke kumboneleli wakho okhethiweyo, unokukhetha kwizicwangciso ezahlukeneyo zokubhalisa. Kwakhona, unokukhetha unyango olubhaliweyo, unyango lwefowuni, okanye unyango lwevidiyo, ngokuxhomekeke kwiimfuno zakho kunye nezinto ozikhethayo.

Lungalunceda njani unyango lwe-Intanethi lwe-LGBTQ+ kubudlelwane?

I-LGBTQ+ iingcali zempilo yengqondo zikhethekileyo kunyango oluqinisekisiweyo. Olu nyango lubandakanya ukhathalelo oluqinisekisiweyo, ngoko ke iingcali zonyango zifundiswa kwimiba enje ngezazisi zesini, iintlobo zesini, uqhelaniso, kunye namabinzana. 'Uxinzelelo oluncinci,' umonzakalo, kunye nezinye iinkxalabo zempilo yengqondo zikwajongwana ngexesha lonyango lwe-intanethi, kubandakanywa nemiba yezopolitiko kunye nentlalontle yezoqoqosho evela kwi-homophobia kunye ne-transphobia. Lilonke, unyango lwe-intanethi lunokuxhamlisa ubudlelwane be-LGBTQ+ ngezi ndlela zilandelayo:

1. Ukhulisa ukusondelelana ngokweemvakalelo neqabane lakho

Unyango lwe-LGBTQ+ olukwi-intanethi lunokunceda wena neqabane lakho nikhulise ubuhlobo obusondeleyo ngokweemvakalelo. Ukufunda indlela yokunxibelelana omnye nomnye akusoloko kulula. Ukufunda indlela yokuqinisa ubuhlobo bakho beemvakalelo kunye neqabane lakho ngundoqo ekwakheni ubudlelwane bexesha elide, obunempilo.

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2. Unokujongana nokwenzakala kwakho

Ukuba wena okanye iqabane lakho niye nivezwa kucalucalulo, ekuxhatshazweni, okanye nawaphi na amava abuhlungu kwixa elidlulileyo, ezi zinokubenzakalisa ubudlelwane benu. Ukufuna uncedo lobuchwephesha uwedwa okanye kunye neqabane lakho kunokukunceda ukuba uqhawule umjikelo wokuqikelela kwaye ufunde indlela yokuphucula ukuzithemba kwakho, unxibelelwano kunye nokuqonda kubudlelwane bakho.

3. Unyango lwe-Intanethi lukunceda ukuseka imida

Ukuxoxa nokuseka imida enempilo kubudlelwane kunokuba nzima kakhulu nakubani na. LGBTQ+ iingcali zempilo yengqondo zinokunceda izibini zoyise le mingeni kwaye zibancede baphuhlise unxibelelwano olusempilweni kunye nezakhono zokumamela.

4. Yenza ukuziphatha okunempilo

Ngelixa ukuchitha ixesha kunye nomnye kubalulekile, ukuchitha ixesha elininzi kunokuba yingozi kubudlelwane bakho. Abacebisi abatshatileyo banceda amaqabane aqonde isidingo sokudala indlela yokuziphatha enempilo kunye nendlela yokuyiphumeza ngendlela ezuzisa ubudlelwane. Ngokomzekelo, ubudlelwane obunempilo bufuna amaqabane ukuba athathe ixesha lokuzinyamekela ngabanye ngamaxesha ngaphandle kokukhokelela kwiingxabano, iimvakalelo zokulahlwa, okanye ezinye iziphumo ezibi.

5. Ufunda ukuba liqela

Unyango lwe-LGBTQ+ kwi-intanethi lunokukunceda wena neqabane lakho nifunde ukuba liqela. Ukwakha ubudlelwane bexesha elide, kufuneka ukwazi ukuphuhlisa imbonakalo yeqela - njengokuthi "hayi mna ngokuchasene nawe" kodwa "thina ngokuchasene nengxaki." Ukusebenza nogqirha wezempilo yengqondo kunokukunceda ukuba woyise imiceli mngeni yobomi okanye utshintsho, oluya kukwenza uzive usondelelene omnye komnye ekuhambeni kwexesha.

Unyango lwe-LGBTQ+ kwi-intanethi lunceda abafuna unyango lwe-queer bajonge inkqubo yezempilo engazange yenzelwe bona. Inika ukufikelela kwinkxaso efunekayo ukuze uphile ubomi obunempilo nobonwabileyo, ukwakha ubudlelwane obuqinileyo, kwaye ube nentsebenziswano eyanelisayo. Nokuba lunyango lwesibini okanye unyango lwe-intanethi, i-LGBTQ + ingcebiso kwi-intanethi isebenzisa indlela yokuqinisekisa ukunceda abantu ngempilo yabo yengqondo, kodwa kunye noluhlu olubanzi lwemiba yempilo yengqondo efana nokujongana nomothuko, umlutha, ixhala, kunye nokudakumba, phakathi kwabanye.

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