Isini yintlalo yoluntu kwaye phantse yonke into kuluntu lwethu yenzelwe ukugcina isini engqondweni. Ulwahlulo lwabasebenzi lwenziwa ngokusekelwe kwezi mbono zitenxileyo malunga nendlela isini esithile esimele ukuba senze kwaye sisebenze ngayo.
Iindima zesini zesiNtu kwikhaya kubudlelwane 'obuqhelekileyo' bokwabelana ngesondo kwabantu besini esingafaniyo zayilwa ukuze amadoda aphume aye emsebenzini kwaye alwe iimfazwe ngelixa abasetyhini behlala ekhaya ukuze banakekele yonke imisebenzi yasekhaya, kubandakanya ukukhathalela abantwana, ukupheka, ukucoca, ukudlala umongikazi kunye notitshala, njalo njalo njalo njalo. Kodwa zihambile iintsuku apho amadoda ayesiya emideni ukuya kulwa iimfazwe ngelixa abasetyhini behlala ekhaya ukuze banakekele iintsana kwaye ii-queers zazihlala nje kwikhabhathi zizama ukuthula kangangoko kunokwenzeka.
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Iindima zesini kwikhaya manani bonisa ukuba namhlanje amabhinqa enza ipesenti enkulu yabasebenzi kunamadoda. Ukanti, ngandlel’ ithile, xa kufikwa kwimisebenzi yasekhaya, amabhinqa asenza ngokuphindwe kabini kunamadoda. Oku kudala iindima zesini ngendlela ehlekisayo kwimisebenzi yasekhaya apho oomama abasebenzayo kulindeleke ukuba banyamekele imisebenzi yaseofisini kunye nemisebenzi yasekhaya. Uluntu luyamgweba ngokukwazi kwakhe ukulungelelanisa imisebenzi yasekhaya kunye nomsebenzi wobugcisa.
Amabhinqa adla ngokulindeleka ukuba alungelelanise eyedwa uxanduva oluza nomtshato nomsebenzi. Ukuba unobuganga bokugxila kumsebenzi wakhe 'kakhulu' kancinane, uhlala enyeliswa. Kodwa nangona 'umfazi ongakhathaliyo wemisebenzi' eyinto exhaphakileyo, amadoda awasoloko ejongene neengxaki ezifanayo. Iinzame zakhe zokunceda zinconywa njengobuqhawe ngelixa ukungabi namdla kwakhe ekuthatheni inxaxheba kumsebenzi wasekhaya kudla ngokuthathwa njengento eqhelekileyo. Okuvuyisayo kukuba, oku kuguquguquka ngokunyaniseka kunohanahaniso - apho umfazi osebenzayo ekwalindeleke ukuba asebenze iiyure zekhaya esenzela ikhaya ngelixa umyeni engancedi nganto - iqala ukubuzwa ngakumbi nangakumbi kwezi ntsuku.
Mhlawumbi sesinye nje esingalindelekanga, kodwa samkelekile, isiphumo sobhubhane. Njengoko abayeni besanda besebenza ekhaya, banikela ubungqina kwizihlalo ezingaphambili indlela osebenza ngayo umgudu owenziwe ngokomzimba nangokweemvakalelo ukuze kugcinwe ikhaya liqhuba. Ibanceda baqonde indima yosapho kukungalingani ngokwesini. Ngamakhulu amawaka abantwana ahlala ekhaya ngenxa yezikolo ezivaliweyo kwihlabathi liphela, abayeni ngoku kufuneka bangenelele kwaye bamkele ipesenti yomthwalo womsebenzi.
Ngabasetyhini benza ipesenti enkulu yabasebenzi bezempilo abayimfuneko, kukho amawaka eemeko zokuba abayeni bathathe isambatho sengubo kwaye banakekele indlu ngelixa besebenza ekhaya ngelixa amaqabane abo esebenza iiyure ezinde.
Amaxesha a-a-changin 'kwaye ukuphinda kuchazwe indima yesini kwimisebenzi yasekhaya kuye kwabaluleke kakhulu kunangaphambili. Kwathatha ubhubhane ukuqhuba inqaku ekhaya ngokwenene, kodwa sisiqalo ubuncinci.
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Kutheni le nto isini sibalulekile kwimiba yendima eKhaya?
Isini bekusoloko kubalulekile xa kuziwa ekuchazeni indima ekhaya. Umahluko ngowokuba, ukuza kuthi ga ngoku siye sakhetha ukungazithatheli ngqalelo iiyure zokusebenza ngokomzimba nangokweemvakalelo ezingahlawulwanga ibhinqa ekufuneka lizibeke ukuze lilawule ikhaya ngelixa lisoloko ligcina ubomi bomsebenzi. Ibhinqa elibuya eofisini kwaye liqala ukwenza isidlo sakusihlwa ngelixa umyeni ebuya emsebenzini kwaye ehlala phambi kwe-tv ephethe ibhiya ngesandla - umfanekiso oqhelekileyo oqhelekileyo, akunjalo? Njengoko besanda abantu abasebenza ekhaya kwaye abantwana behlala ekhaya bengayi esikolweni, lo mfanekiso 'wesiqhelo' uyaqala ukubuzwa. Yaye ngesizathu esivakalayo.
Abayeni baqalisa ukuqaphela umzabalazo wokulungelelanisa umsebenzi, imisebenzi yasekhaya, kunye nokunyamekela abantwana - into edla ngokuphathwa njengenxalenye yenkcazo yomsebenzi womfazi. Kufuneka kube yinto engabonakaliyo ukuba ukuchaza ngokutsha iindima kunye nokwahlula imisebenzi yasekhaya ngokweemfuno ezizodwa zentsapho nganye kuya kukhokelela kwimiphumo emihle.
Izibini ezabelana ngemisebenzi yasekhaya zidla ngokulwa kancinci kwaye kusenokwenzeka ukuba zixhotyiswe ngcono kakhulu ukuze zikwazi ukujongana neengxaki kunye neemeko zikaxakeka njengamaqabane. Ikhokelela ekuqondeni ngcono phakathi kwamaqabane kwaye ikhokelela amandla dynamics enempilo endlwini. Ukungalingani ngokwesini kwimisebenzi yasekhaya kunye nengxabano yomsebenzi-yentsapho ihambelana ngokuthe ngqo.
Kukho indima enkulu yosapho kukungalingani ngokwesini kwiindawo zokusebenza. Kodwa, amantombazana akhulela kumakhaya apho umsebenzi wekhaya unyanyekelwa ngabazali bobabini aboniswa ukuba anenjongo yokunyuselwa kunye nokuqhubela phambili ngenxa yokuba aqhele ukubona ukulingana ekhaya. Bobabini inkosikazi kunye nomyeni benza inzuzo ngokomsebenzi kulo macandelo omsebenzi - kunye nabasetyhini bekwazi ukwenza ngcono kwiindawo zabo zokusebenza ngenxa yokuncipha kwexhala malunga nemisebenzi yasekhaya kwaye amadoda akufumanisa kulula ukucela amaqabunga abazali, iishedyuli eziguquguqukayo, kunye nezinye izinto zobuchwephesha ezidla ngokucingelwa ukuba "zenzelwe abafazi kuphela."
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Uzichaza njani ngokutsha iindima zesini kwiMisebenzi yaseKhaya
Ulwahlulo olulinganayo lomsebenzi wendlu lubonelela ngezinto ezintle. Ke, ayimangalisi into yokuba izibini ezininzi zanamhlanje zizama ukuchaza kwakhona iindima zesini kwimisebenzi yasekhaya. Ukuba ucinga ngendlela efanayo, nanga amacebiso anokuba luncedo:
1. Yahlula-hlula imisebenzi yasekhaya ngokulinganayo
Ngokwahlulwa ngokulinganayo kwemisebenzi yasekhaya, sithetha ukuba iqabane ngalinye lenza isabelo salo esifanelekileyo somsebenzi. Kakade ke, oku kuya kuthetha ukuba kuthathelwa ingqalelo iishedyuli iqabane ngalinye, umthwalo, kunye nentlalo-ntle jikelele. Ukuba usebenza kade, unokuchola-chola loo ngxaki aze ancede abantwana ngomsebenzi wabo wesikolo owenzelwa ekhaya. Izinto ezincinci njengokungamlindi ukuba abuye emsebenzini kwaye aqalise isidlo sangokuhlwa kwaye ukwahlula iindima zasekhitshini ngokulinganayo zinokusebenza imimangaliso. Uvelwano kunye nonxibelelwano olunyanisekileyo zombini zibalulekile ngelixa kusahlula umsebenzi ngale ndlela.
2. Yenza umsebenzi weemvakalelo ngokunjalo
Musa ukushiya nje ukubulaleka ngokweemvakalelo kumfazi wakho. Ukucwangcisa izidlo, imisebenzi, ukucwangcisa iishedyuli zabantwana ngelixa bephendula imibuzo yabo, kunye nokubenza benze izinto ngumsebenzi odinisayo. Umgudu womzimba ecaleni, umsebenzi weemvakalelo uhamba ekugcineni umkhondo wento ekufuneka yenziwe, kufuneka ithengwe, ngubani ekufuneka ehlawulwe, ngubani ofuna ukutofwa ngowuphi umhla, kwaye ngowuphi umngxuma ofuna ukulungiswa ngokukhawuleza. Khumbula ukwahlula umsebenzi weemvakalelo ukuze uxanduva lonke lungaweleli kwiqabane elinye.
3. Beka phambili imisebenzi yosapho
Kanye njengokuba abafazi befunda ukubeka phambili iimfuno zosapho kunye nemisebenzi, amadoda kufuneka nawo. Umsebenzi akufuneki uvunyelwe ukuba ulawule ubomi bakho ngendlela yokuba ungakwazi ukusa abantwana kwimidlalo yabo yebhola ekhatywayo xa ubutshilo ukuba uya kuze ube nako ukunceda kwimisebenzi yasekhaya. Imisebenzi yosapho kufuneka ifumane indawo ebaluleke kakhulu njengemisebenzi yomsebenzi, ukuba akukho ngaphezulu. Ke, ukugcina umkhondo wentsebenzo yakho kungekuphela nje njengengcali kodwa njengeqabane kunye nomzali kubalulekile.
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4. Bonisa abantwana ukuba injani intsebenziswano
Yiba yimizekelo yabo. Bonisa ukuba ulwahlulo lwabasebenzi lubonakala njani. Xoxa ngokuphandle malunga nocalucalulo ngokwesini kwiziseko zosapho kunye nokuba kufuneka kusingathwe njani oko. Fundisa abantwana bakho ukuba injani intsebenziswano yokwenene, elinganayo. Abantwana bakho baya kukhula belindele kwaye banike amanqanaba afanayo obulungisa kumaqabane abo kunye nabalingane babo nokuba banesini.
5. Inkxaso kumsebenzi weqabane
Njengeqabane lakhe, unokwenza okanye ukwaphule umsebenzi wakhe. Inkqubo yangoku yayiyilwe ukuze abafazi bakwazi ukuxhasa - njengabagcini, abancedisi, abacoci, abongikazi, nabapheki - abayeni babo. Ngelixa iyinkqubo ephelelwe lixesha nengalunganga, ukuxhasa iminqweno yekhondo leqabane lakho kunye nokukhula ayingombono umbi. Kodwa omabini amaqabane afanele akwenze oko ngomlinganiselo olinganayo, amadoda angenelela ukuze ayeke ukuyekelela xa umfazi enezibophelelo ezibalulekileyo zomsebenzi kwaye ngokufanayo.
Yahlula-hlula uxanduva ukuze umsebenzi womfazi wakho ungabi yinto ephambili xa umntwana ezalwa. Thatha amagqabi katata kangangoko ewathatha awabelekayo. Mnakekele umntwana ngezinye iintsuku. Ngokusisiseko, omabini amaqabane kufuneka ahlule ngokuzithandela ixesha kunye nethuba ukuze ubunzima obupheleleyo bungaweli egxalabeni leqabane elinye.
6. Inkxaso yeqabane njengolingana
Okokugqibela kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo hayi kancinci, kubalulekile ukuba amadoda aqale ukuthatha uxanduva kwaye aphakame aye kwindawo yeqabane elilinganayo endaweni yokuba abe ngomnye umntu ekufuneka amkhathalele.
Phatha iqabane lakho njengeqabane kwaye ungalithathi indawo kamama wakho. Sukuvuma nje umsebenzi awenzayo kodwa ungene ngenkuthalo ngelixa unciphisa uxanduva olongezayo kumxube ngokungakhathali ngokwaneleyo. Iipleyiti ezingahlanjwanga kwigumbi lokulala kunye neekawusi ezimdaka ezithe saa emsebenzini. Musa ukulinda ukuba iqabane lakho likubonise. Khumbula ukuba uhlala apho kwaye unoxanduva olulinganayo malunga nekhaya kwaye wenze ngokufanelekileyo.
Ukuphinda uchaze indima yesini kwikhaya lakho kunokuthatha ixesha kunye nokungafundi okuninzi. Kodwa, ekugqibeleni, amagama angundoqo luvelwano kunye nokuqonda. Ngethuba nje bobabini amaqabane bevuma kwaye babelana ngoxanduva ngokufanelekileyo ngelixa bexoxa ngokukhululekileyo malunga nocalucalulo lwesini kusapho kunye nokuba kufuneka kusingathwe njani, yonke inkqubo yokuphinda ichaze indima yesini kwimisebenzi yasekhaya iya kuba yi-cakewalk.
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