Iindlela ezili-10 zeQueerphobia ziphuma ngaphakathi kweNdlu

Sele kuyiminyaka engama-32 okoko uMbutho wezeMpilo weHlabathi wachaza ubufanasini njengokuphazamiseka kwengqondo. Iminyaka engama-32. Yintanga yam leyo. Ingathi ndizalelwe kobu bugxwayiba obundikhathazayo, ndingulomntu obhinqileyo, andisajongwa ngokugula ngokwasengqondweni ngenxa yesini sam. Umh enkosi, zinkokheli zehlabathi? Kodwa nantsi ngakumbi. Kwiminyaka emithathu eyadlulayo, i-WHO ekugqibeleni yavuka kwaye yathi ayisayi kuphinda ichaze ukuba yi-transgender njengokuphazamiseka kwengqondo. Iminyaka emi-3. Ewe, i-IDAHOBIT eyonwabileyo (uSuku lwaMazwe ngaMazwe oluChasene ne-Homophobia, i-Biphobia, i-Intersexism kunye ne-Transphobia) kuthi sonke!

Akukho ukulahla amathunzi amade okuba 'uxilongo' oluxhaphakileyo lwentlalo nenkcubeko kunye nezonyango luye lwenziwa kwimbono, amalungelo, kunye nokhuseleko lwemihla ngemihla loluntu lwam. La manani sesinye sezizathu eziphambili mna, kunye nabaninzi abavela kuluntu lwe-LGBTQIA +, ndikholelwa ngokuqinileyo ukuba iqueerphobia ivela ngaphakathi endlwini.

Kutheni i-queerphobia iyingozi

SIZONKE iimveliso zenkqubo eyenza kwaye ikhulise i-queerphobia. Ukuya kuthi ga kwinqanaba lokuba abantu basekuhlaleni balwe ne-homophobia yangaphakathi kunye ne-biphobia, kunye ne-transphobia yangaphakathi, ngaphambi kokuba bajongane ngokupheleleyo nento elula njengesondo okanye isini somntu.

Ngokwahlukileyo kuluvo oluqhelekileyo, iimpawu zethu azintsonkothanga. Ukuba ngumntu onesini esibini kufanele kubelula nje ngokuba ngumntu othe tye, kwaye ukuba ngumntu ogqithisayo kufanele kube lula nje ngokuba ngumntu we-cis. Kodwa akunjalo, ngenxa yendlela izazisi zethu ezijongelwa phantsi ngayo, zingabonakali, zibekwe amabala, zifekethelwe, zisongelwa, zicalulwe, kwaye zenziwe lulwaphulo-mthetho luluntu oluphantse lube luqilima.

Xa uxelela umntu wamanqina ukuba uyasokola kuba engoogqada-mbekweni, uyalibala ukuba umzabalazo ubangelwa kukugquba koloyiko – hayi ukuba singoobani. Nabani na uya kutyhubela ixesha elinzima okanye abandezeleke imiba yengqondo xa uluntu luyilwe ngabom ngokuchasene nabo. Nangaphakathi kuluntu, abantu be-cis queer banendlela ende ekufuneka beyihambile ngaphambi kokuba bafunde indlela yokuba ngabalingane kwi-trans, nonbinary (enby), kunye nabantu besini esinye.

Yiyo loo nto iintsuku ezifana noSuku lwaMazwe ngaMazwe oluChasene ne-Homophobia, i-Biphobia, i-Intersexism kunye ne-Transphobia zibalulekile ukuze sikhumbule iintlobo ezahlukeneyo ze-queerphobia ezikhoyo ngaphandle nangaphakathi kuluntu.

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Ilungelo elilinganayo lokutshata nokuthanda

Ngoku ka Phulo loLuntu, kukho amazwe angama-31 kuphela (inani lisenokuba litshintshile ukususela kwixesha lokupapashwa koku) apho umtshato wesini esifanayo usemthethweni. Ukunika umxholo, kukho malunga nama-200 amazwe emhlabeni. Kwakhona, la mazwe angama-31 akakhuselekanga kwi-queerphobia.

Kutshanje omnye umhlobo wakho uvakalise umothuko welo nani wathi, “Uhlangabezana njani nokungakwazi ukutshata nomntu omthandayo? vakalisa iimvakalelo zakho kumntu omthandayo, okanye uthethe malunga nomdla wakho wothando okanye utyumze ngaphandle koloyiko - andiyazi ukuba ivakalelwa njani. Andikwazi ukucinga ukuba ithintelwe, hayi nje ngokwasentlalweni kodwa ngokusemthethweni kakhulu. Oku, kunye nokujongana ne-homophobia, kumele kube buhlungu kwaye kubangele uxinzelelo olukhulu. ”

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Ewe. Ngeli xesha, phantse abantu banengxaki yokusebenzisa ulwimi olungakhethi cala ngokwesini ekhaya nakwiindawo zokusebenza. Kwaye bafuna ibhinari yabo yesini kuyo yonke indawo (Amadoda nabasetyhini! Indoda nebhinqa!) njengokuba bafuna i-oxygen. Kulula kangakanani ukuba bafake amava abantu abaqhelekileyo njengamava ngokwesini, balibala ngokulula kangakanani ubukho obukhulu bokungahambelani nesini (GNC), enby kunye nabantu abahlukileyo ngokwesini.

Ke, ngolu suku lwaMazwe ngaMazwe oluChasene ne-Homophobia, i-Transphobia kunye ne-Biphobia, masithethe ngendlovu enkulu ye-queerphobic egumbini. Nazi, ndiyakholelwa, iindlela ezilishumi apho i-queerphobia ivela ngaphakathi kwamakhaya ethu. (Isilumkiso: ukukhankanywa kobundlobongela obuphathelele kwezesondo kunye nokwesondo kubantu abangoozwilakhe, imizekelo yequeerphobia, ukukhankanywa kokuzibulala)

1. Imitshato enyanzelwayo

Umhlobo obhinqileyo onesini esibini wakha wathi kum, “Ndiyazi ukuba nditsaleleka ngakumbi kumabhinqa yaye ndifuna ukuba nebhinqa, kodwa ndiyazi ukuba ekugqibeleni ndiza kutshata nendoda ukuze ndonwabele intsapho yam. Omnye umhlobo onabazali abangafuni ukutshata wabethwa wasiwa entolongweni lusapho lwakhe ngesizathu sokuba emzini wabo emva kokuba besazi ukuba into ebangela ukuba angafuni kutshata umfazi kukuba usisitabane.

Omnye umhlobo oyindoda wabaleka ekhaya kwinyanga ngaphambi komtshato wakhe, emva kokuzama ngamandla ukukholisa usapho lwakhe iminyaka ukuba angamtshati nomfazi. A owathi ekugqibeleni wavuma ukuba ulilesbian wayetshate ngenkani kwaye ngoku udlwengulwa ngumyeni wakhe rhoqo, kuba unokuthi 'ukwabelana ngesondo' kuvunyelwene?

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Amalungu osapho akhohlakele xa kufikelelwa ekufezekiseni amaphupha awo ngabantwana babo. Bayasikhulisa, besilungiselela umtshato kunye nesini 'esichaseneyo'. Bangaphi kuthi ekwafuneka beve amabali okuba kufuneka sinikwe indoda xa sifika kwiminyaka ethile, mangaphi amakhwenkwe akhuliswayo esazi ukuba afanele ukuba ngabayeni abalungileyo kubafazi babo?

Ngaba kwakha kwakho ubuntwana obusingqongileyo apho abazali basebenzisa ulwimi olungakhethi cala ngokwesini xa bethetha ngamahlakani omntwana azayo? Hayi. Le ntelekelelo yokungagqibeki kwe-heterosexuality yi-heteronormativity. Inetyhefu, kwaye ikhona phantse kuyo yonke intsapho ukuya kumanqanaba ahlukeneyo. Aside sitshate nabantu esibathandayo kuba imitshato yethu ayiqatshelwanga ngumthetho, endaweni yoko, sinyanzelwa ukuba singene kwimitshato engenaluthando ngenxa yeentsapho zethu kunye 'nembeko' yazo.

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2. Ukugculelwa, ukugwetywa, ukuthula

Ngubani umfazi kubudlelwane? Ngubani indoda? Nilala njani nonke? Ayisosini sokwenyani eso. Isondo kwilungu lobufazi kuphela sisondo sokwenyani. Uzakuba nabo njani abantwana? Utsaleleka kuye kuba ufana nendoda. Lol, jonga babambene ngezandla, njani gay. (Ewe, yi-gay, malunga nokulibala ukuba 'sithanda' ukuba gay). Ngawaphi amalungu angasese onawo? Uzakwenza nini utyando lwakho?

Ndikhoyo ulala kwaye ndikhe ndeva abantu bebuza abantu abathandana besini esinye ukuba bakhethe icala, ngokungathi isini yindlela emacala amabini. Sibizwa ngokuba siyabawa, sibhidekile, asithembekanga kwaye asinyanisekanga. Abanye abantu bayabagatya abantu abathandana nesini esinye njengamaqabane kuba bekholelwa ukuba siya kubaqhatha. Enkosi, ummeli weendaba ongenaluvelwano, ngokunyanzelisa loo trope. Konke oku akuyonyani kwaye sisiseko se-biphobia.

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Ukugculelwa kwe-queerphobic ngokubanzi kuvela kwiintsapho zethu. Enyanisweni, indawo yokuqala yokugculelwa kubantu abaninzi abangaqhelekanga yintsapho yabo kunye nabazali babo abachasene ne-gay. Bahlekisa ngabantu abangoonqevu kuba abakayifundi eyabo imikhethe yesini okwangoku. Bahlekisa ngenxa yokuba ubugqwirha busongela iziseko zoluntu lwabo malunga ne-patriarchal. Basinika impatho ethi cwaka ukubonisa ukuphoxeka kwabo okanye ukucaphuka kwabo bengaqondi ukuba sithi abaphoxekileyo ngabo.

Kwakhona, yonke imidiya kunye nembali yefilimu isoloko isenza i-butt yamahlaya abo amabi. Bukela i-Documentary Disclosure (2020) kwiNetflix ukuze uvule amehlo akho kwiindlela ezininzi abantu abaye bachazwa kakubi kwaye bahlekwa kwiscreen ukusukela ekuqaleni kweemuvi. Oku kujongelwa phantsi komntu kuhlutha isidima sabo abantu abanganyanisekanga kwaye ekugqibeleni kungqineke kukubulala.

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3. Ubundlobongela obujoliswe kumakhwekhwe abantwana

Ngexesha lokuvalwa, amatyala obundlobongela basekhaya ayenyuka kwihlabathi jikelele. Nawuphi na umkhamo wobundlobongela basekhaya uya kwanda xa abenzi bobubi behlala besekhaya nomntu ojongelwe phantsi. Kwaye kwaba njalo nabantu abakhohlakeleyo. Ngexesha lo bhubhani, ndiye ndathetha ngokobuqu kwaye ndanyusa imali kuninzi lwabantu abathandanayo (amadoda athandana namanye, abathandana nabasetyhini, abangengabo, abantu abadlulayo) ababexhatshazwe ngokwasemoyeni, ngokuthetha okanye ngokwasemzimbeni emakhayeni abo yonke le mihla - ngenxa nje yokuba bayiloo nto bayiyo.

Iintsuku ezininzi ngexesha lokuvalwa, intliziyo yam yayidla ngokuphuka xa iindaba zomntu okhutshelwe ngaphandle okanye ejongene nazo. ukuxhatshazwa kwabantwana ngabazali uya kuhamba ngezithuba ze-Instagram kunye namabali. “Ndicela undiphe imali ukuze ndiphume kwikhaya lam elinobundlobongela”, “kufuneka ndikhangele umsebenzi kwindawo ekhuselekileyo apho ndingaxhatshazwa ngalo lonke ixesha, ngaba ukhona umntu onendawo ekhuselekileyo endinokuyisebenzisa inyanga yonke?”, “Ndidinga imali ukuze ndikwazi ukufumana unyango lwengqondo endilufuna ngamandla, usapho lwam alundixhasi okanye alundikhathaleli, ndicela uncedo.”

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Ngo-2021, abantu abangama-375 be-trans kunye ne-GNC babulawa ngokwale nto umbiko. Ezi ziimeko ezixeliweyo kuphela. Ababhali bengxelo bathi: “La manani yimbono nje encinane yenyaniso ekhoyo emhlabeni. “Kumazwe amaninzi, iinkcukacha aziqokelelwa ngokucwangcisiweyo.

Kwakhona, njengoko sisazi, amazwe ali-15 aseMelika asandula ukubeka izithintelo kulutsha olufuna ukhathalelo lwezempilo oluqinisekisa isini. Njengoko ukuba oko akulunganga ngokwaneleyo, njengoko per le ngxelo, la matyala aya kuvumela oogqirha ukuba benze i-Intersex Genital Mutilations kwiintsana zesini. Ezi zenzelwe ukubenza bafaneleke kwiindidi zamadoda nabasetyhini - ixesha elide ngaphambi kokuba babe badala ngokwaneleyo ukuvakalisa naluphi na uhlobo lwesazisi sesini.

Ngoku ka lo Inqaku, utyando lwe-intersex - uninzi lwalo lwenziwa xa abantwana bengaphantsi kweminyaka emi-2 ubudala - lunokudala ingozi ehlala ixesha elide kwaye lubangele ukonakala, iintlungu ezingapheliyo, ukungakwazi ukuzibamba okungapheliyo, ukulahleka kweemvakalelo zesini, ukuvala inzala, isabelo esingafanelekanga ngokwesini, kunye nengqondo kunye ukwenzakala ngokwesondo. Ngaba uyayibona indlela i-queerphobia yethu enefuthe elifikelela kude kwimpilo, ukhuseleko, kunye ne-arhente yabantwana, ulutsha kunye nabantu abadala?

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4. Cis abantu misgender ngathi bahlawulwa ngayo

Zama ukungaphathi kakuhle umntu we-cis. Yenza kwakhona kwaye kwakhona. Ngaba uyibonile indlela abasabela ngayo? Ayiphilanga. Kodwa abantu be-cis bahlala be-misgender trans, enby, kunye nabantu be-GNC. Abanye bakwenza ngabom. Okanye 'kulonwabo' njengabaninzi abadumileyo abazimeleyo 'abahlekisayo'. Okanye ngenxa yokuba “kunzima kakhulu” ukuhlonela isini somnye umntu. Abanayo imiba yokwabelana ngesini kuyo yonke into encinci ebangqongileyo, kodwa xa kufikwa kubuntu obupheleleyo obaxelela malunga nesazisi sabo sesini kunye nezimelabizo, ngequbuliso kukho amaqakamba kunye nokubonakala kokubhideka.

Ndiyaqonda ukuba kufuneka ixesha lokuyeka izithethe zesini, into endingayiqondiyo kukwala ukuyenza kuba 'ayiyongxaki' kuwe. Ukufunda ukuhloniphana kufuneka kube yinxalenye amaxabiso osapho, ngokuqinisekileyo? NgokweProjekthi yeTrevor survey, ulutsha olutshintshe isini kunye nolutsha olungenabhinabhi oluchaze ukuba lunezimelabizo ezihlonitshwa ngabo bonke okanye abantu abaninzi ebomini babo bazame ukuzibulala ngesiqingatha somlinganiselo wabo bangazange bahlonitshwe izimelabizo zabo.

Mhlawumbi ungajongana nomba wokunganxulumani kakuhle kolu Suku lwaMazwe ngaMazwe oluChasene ne-Homophobia, iTransphobia kunye neBiphobia. Lungisa abo baphatha kakubi amalungu osapho lwabo, abalingane babo okanye abahlobo. Yimele ukwahluka ngokwesini kunye nabantu abadlulayo naxa bengekho kufutshane nawe.

5. Ukude 'ubudlelwane'

Sidla ngokufumana amalungu osapho kunye nabahlobo bezibhengeza njengamahlakani. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, yenye yezona zinto zithandwayo ezenziwa ngamanqaku amaninzi. Iqinisekisa ukuba bafumana yonke imbuyekezo yokwenza 'umsebenzi olungileyo' bengenalo uxanduva lokuqhubeka nokufunda kunye nokulungiswa kokuziphatha. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, basenokuzenza ngathi baxhasayo phezu komhlaba kodwa ababuvumi ubukho beqabane lelungu losapho lwabo.

Basenokubhala ibali malunga 'nokubaluleka kobomi' kodwa abasayi kujongisisa kubantakwabo abangengosesibini. Abayi kubuza ukuba oogxa babo bayabuhlonipha na ubuni babo nokuba kukho nantoni na abayidingayo malunga nenkxaso yeemvakalelo. Abantu abaninzi bamagqabantshintshi, ngokufutshane, abaziva bebonwa, bexhaswa, kwaye bebanjwe ziintsapho zabo. Oku kungahoywa kuchaphazela uthando lwabo kusapho kwaye impilo yabo yengqondo ithatha umngcipheko.

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6. Akukho mdla wokuzifundisa

Kuye kwafuneka ukuba ndiqhawule abahlobo ebomini bam xa isicelo sam esilula sokuba bazifundise ngobuni bam kunye noluntu lungathathwanga ngokubalulekileyo iminyaka. Uninzi lwabahlobo bam be-queer baye badlula kwilahleko efanayo xa babenokwanela ngabahlobo babo begxotha ukulwa kwabo (okubangelwa yi-queerphobia), okanye ukungathathi nxaxheba okanye ukuqonda ulonwabo lwabo olulodwa.

Ngelixa kuye kwafuneka sifunde indlela yokujongana ne-homophobia, abahlobo bethu kunye nosapho khange bazikhathaze ngokufunda ukuba yintoni na i-homophobia, kwaye ixhaphake njani njengesiqhelo sentlalo. Akukho kuphendula okanye ukuthanda ukufunda nokuphucula.

Eyona nto imbi kakhulu kukuba uninzi luxhomekeke kubantu abangoompondo zihlanjiwe ukuba babafundise. Abaqondi ukuba imibuzo yabo isikhumbuza ngocalucalulo lwethu. Maxa wambi imibuzo yabo ayinantlonipho, njengaxa besibuza ukuba silalana njani okanye ngamalungu esini omntu ogqithisayo. Imibuzo yabo ayipheli kwaye asinakuba singabo abasebenza ngokweemvakalelo ngalo lonke ixesha malunga nokusihlonipha ngokufanelekileyo.

Imibuzo yabo isikhumbuza ukuba kubo, sisezi zidalwa zingaqhelekanga ekufuneka zicalulwe, ziqwalaselwe, kwaye ziqondwe, ngokuchaseneyo nathi singabantu abathanda nje isini esahlukileyo kwesakho, okanye amava ethu ngokwesini ngokwahlukileyo kuwe. Iintlobo zihlala zinzima ngokwesini kunye nobuni bethu xa kungekho mfuneko yokuba.

7. Yonke into isini

Xa malungats kunye izibini ezithe ngqo Ukuqhankqalaza ngathi, “Bayeke abantwana babe ngabantwana”, nditsho njalo kubo. Ewe, ngokuchanekileyo, vumela abantwana babe ngabantwana. Bayeke badlale ngezinto zokudlala abazikhethileyo. Bavumele bathande imibala okanye iilokhwe abafuna ukuzinxiba kwaye bayeke ukunyanzelisa imilinganiselo yakho yesini kubo. Yeka ukuxelela intombazana encinci ukuba ngenye imini iya kuba nesoka okanye umyeni. Yeka ukunyanzela NAPHI na indima yesini okanye indima yesini ebantwaneni. Iyothusa into yokuba abantu abaninzi kwiintsapho zethu ezifundileyo kunye nemibutho yabahlobo beqhubeka nokwenza ezi zinto.

Ukusebenzisa amagama angathathi cala ngokwesini kufuneka kube yinto eqhelekileyo. "Ngenye imini, usenokukhetha ukuba neqabane. Bamele babe nobubele kuwe kwaye bakuthande ngale nto uyiyo." Kulula, akunjalo? Ixelela umntwana kwasekuqaleni ukuba bakhululekile ukuba bazihlole ukuba bangoobani na, kwaye ungumhlobo kunye nendawo ekhuselekileyo.

NgokweProjekthi yeTrevor ka-2022 kuZwelonke Survey kwi-LGBTQ yoLutsha lweMpilo yeNgqondo, i-45% ye-34,000 ye-LGBTQ abaselula (abaneminyaka eyi-13 ukuya kuma-24) kulo lonke elase-United States bacinge ngokunzulu ukuzama ukuzibulala kulo nyaka uphelileyo. Ngaphantsi kom-1 kwaba-3 abatshintshe isini kunye nolutsha olungakhethiyo bafumanise ukuba ikhaya labo liqinisekisa isini. Ukujongana ne-homophobia kunye ne-transphobia iba yinxalenye yobomi kubantwana abaninzi, ngakumbi xa ingamakhaya abo angakhuselekanga kakhulu.

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8. Fihla i-queer

Libala ikratshi, iintsapho ezininzi zinentloni ngabantwana babo abancinci ngenxa yesini okanye ngokwesondo /ukuziqhelanisa ngothando. Abanye bade bade bacele uxolo ngobukho bomntwana wabo phambi kwabanye abantu. Inkxalabo yabo kukuthuthuzelwa ngomnye umntu, kungekhona owakhe umntwana. Ukuba umntwana unqwenela ukuzibonakalisa njengongahambelaniyo nesini ngokubonakalayo, ihlazo losapho liyakhula, kwaye kukwanjalo nonxunguphalo atyhubela kulo.

Sifunda indlela yokujongana ne-homophobia kunye ne-transphobia kwasebancinci kwaye sifunde ukuba kufuneka sizifihle i-queer yethu entle ukuze sithandwe kwaye sihlonitshwe. Yiloo nto ekhuthaza i-transphobia yangaphakathi kunye ne-homophobia yangaphakathi. Iintsapho kufuneka zisifundise ukuzithanda ngokupheleleyo; endaweni yoko, sifundiswa ukuhluza izazisi zethu ezingundoqo kwaye siyazikhupha ukuze sibenze bonwabe.

9. Uguqulo 'unyango'

Unyango loguqulo lubandakanya naluphi na uhlobo lokuziqhelanisa olujolise ekwenzeni umntu ongaqhelekanga malungat. Ngokusisiseko, 'ukuguqula' i-lesbian ibe ngowasetyhini othe tye, okanye owedluleyo abe yi-cis man. Ngamafutshane, benza izinto ezingezozamvelo nezingenabuntu.

abaninzi abazali abayityhefu kwaye iintsapho zinyanzela abantwana bazo ukuba bandwendwele ixhwele, umfundisi, umntu okhupha iidemon okanye umnyangi ongekho sesikweni onokuthi 'anyange' ubugwenxa kubo. Kwezona meko zimbi kakhulu, umntwana uthunyelwa kudlwengulo 'olulungisayo' apho athe wadlwengulwa (ngemvume evela kusapho) ngumntu onesini esisifumana sifanelekile kumntwana wakhe. Ngokungathandabuzekiyo, ezi zenzo zishiya umzobo onzima kwimpilo yengqondo yomntu kunye nomfanekiso wakhe. I-Indiya yaluvala unyango loguqulo kwiinyanga ezi-3 ezidlulileyo ngoFebhu 2022. Kusithathe ixesha elide.

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10. “Yiba nesimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo!” isizwe

Ndiye ndaxelelwa ukuba ndingayihoyi i-queerphobia kwaye "ndonwabele ubomi" kwaye "ndibe nethemba". Ndingathanda ukuyenza loo nto, ukuba unokumxelela loo nto kumqeshi owandigatyayo ngokusekelwe kubugqwirha bam. Okanye uxelele umnini-mhlaba ongazange avume ukunika umhlobo wam oyitransport indlu ngenxa yobuni bakhe. Okanye kusapho lomhlobo wam we-enby owenza kakubi kwaye ubahlukumeza rhoqo.

Uba queerphobic ukuba ucinga ukuba inkqubo ye-queerphobia inokungahoywa. Lihlolisise ilungelo onalo. Yenza umsebenzi onzima wokuba ngumhlobo.

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Ezi zizizathu zokuba 'ikhaya' ligama elilayishiweyo kubantu abaninzi abangaqhelekanga, ngoko sifumana amakhaya kwiintsapho zethu ezikhethiweyo. Ndiyathemba ukuba wena, ngolu suku lwamazwe ngamazwe oluchaseneyo Ukuthandana kwabantu besini esinye, Transphobia, Biphobia kunye ne-Interphobia, jonga kwezi zalathisi kwaye ucinge ukuba yeyiphi kwezi othe wanegalelo kuyo. Nokuba ngokucacileyo okanye ngokuchuliweyo ngamazwi akho, ukuziphatha, imigaqo-nkqubo yakho, indawo osebenza kuyo, ubudlelwane bakho, kunye neenkqubo zakho zenkolelo. Masenze 'ikhaya' indawo ekhuselekileyo yethu sonke.

* I-queerphobia: igama liya kusetyenziswa kwibhlog ukubandakanya zonke iintlobo zocalucalulo abantu abajongana nazo - i-homophobia, i-biphobia, i-transphobia, i-interphobia, njl.

Iiflegi ze-LGBTQ ezingama-21 kunye neentsingiselo zazo-Yazi ukuba Zimele ntoni

Uzithande njani wena kunye nomzimba wakho nokuba ungubani na

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