Ifa Lasendulo LamaNdiya: Ukuxhumanisa nezinkanuko zethu ezedlule

Kungaba uhlobo lokudansa lwe-Kalbelia oluvela e-Rajasthan noma imifanekiso eqoshiwe etholakala emathempelini asendulo aseNdiya noma ukuboniswa kwabesifazane baseNdiya abagqoke i-saree emidwebeni kawoyela ka-Ravi Varma - banokuthile abafana ngakho - bonke banenkanuko, bayathandeka, bayathinteka, futhi yebo - bangcwele. Ifa lasendulo laseNdiya libonisa ngokucacile ukuthi inkanuko iyingxenye yezinto ezingcwele. Umuntu ukwenza kanjani lokhu, uyazibuza ngeBonobology uShail Gulhati?

UMadhuri Maitra unomuzwa wokuthi “konke okwenzeka ekuphileni komuntu kungcwele ngoba abantu yibona kuphela izidalwa ezikwazi ukweqa imvelo yazo ukuze bathole injabulo engokomoya. I-Sensual iyingxenye yezinto ezingcwele ngoba wonke umqondo wokuzinikela usekelwe esimisweni senjabulo.

Umuntu ozinikele uthola injabulo ekuzinikeleni kwakhe. Ngisho nama-austerities anika injabulo. Futhi ubumnandi bomzimba, kanye nengqondo, kubaluleke ngokufanayo ngoba kokubili kufanele kuhambisane ukuze kunikeze ukwaneliseka.

U-Amit Shankar Saha uthi, "Ezikhathini zasendulo umzimba nengqondo kwakuyimithombo emibili yokuzuza uhlobo oluthile lokudlulela enjabulweni. Zonke izinganekwane zethu - ziyizinganekwane zokuzala nokuhlangana kowesilisa nowesifazane okuhlanganisa ne-foreplay eholela ekuhlanganeni."

Ifa lasendulo laseNdiya belilokhu ligubha ifomu lesifazane njenge-Shakti, naphezu kokucindezelwa kwabesifazane emphakathini wanamuhla wamaNdiya wezinzalamizi. Ifomu lesifazane liyavusa inkanuko ngempela. Ezinganekwaneni zamaNdiya nasemibhalweni yamaHindu yasendulo njengeVedas, abesifazane badalelwa ukuba babe nenkanuko, njengoba babeyizithunywa zokuzala. Kungabo lapho impilo entsha yaba khona kulo mhlaba futhi yingakho ukuzwela kwabo kwabungazwa njengesandulela socansi nokuzalwa. Emcabangweni wasendulo we-Shivling, i-Linga noma ipipi lizungezwe i-Yoni noma isibeletho - sikhulekela lokho Shivling njengophawu lapho zonke izifiso (ezokugcina kuwubumnandi bocansi) zihlangana futhi zinikeze ukuzinikela. Ngakho-ke inkanuko ibilokhu ingcwele eNdiya. Nokho, ngokudabukisayo, “iminyaka eminingi ukubusa kwamaBrahmin nokuhlasela nokuphanga okuphindaphindiwe kwabahlaseli bakwamanye amazwe kwaphoqelela umphakathi wamaNdiya ukuba ufihle abesifazane bawo kanye nokukhanuka kwabo ngaphandle kweminyango,” kukholelwa uSaheli Mitra.

Ngokuthakazelisayo, inkanuko yayihlale iyingxenye yokuphila ezikhathini zasendulo. “Kodwa-ke, kuye ngokuthi wawuluphi uhlangothi lobulili, ubungcwele bungaba ukweqa noma ukweqa,” kuzizwa u-Utkarsh Patel. Kodwa isenzo socansi sasihlale siyingxenye ebalulekile yokuphila, uyavuma. Ekhuluma ngomdwebo wezikhundla zocansi ezindongeni zamathempeli asendulo afana noKhajuraho, uDkt Sanjeev Trivedi uthi ezikhathini zakudala lapho abantu bekhonza kakhulu futhi beqala ukungayi ocansini, isibalo sabantu saqala ukuncipha. Amakhosi abe esekha amathempeli (njengoKhajuraho) ukuze abonise ngisho nonkulunkulu nonkulunkulukazi bezitika ngokuzijabulisa kwenyama, ukusabalalisa umyalezo wokuthi ubulili bunempilo futhi buyadingeka. Umuntu ukhululekile ukuba nomuzwa wokuthi kukhona okungcwele ‘ngemfundo yobulili’ yasendulo.

Imidwebo ibonisa ukusekelwa kombuso ngalezo zikhathi. Kodwa i-India yesimanje ibonakala icindezelwe, njengoba singakutholi ukuboniswa kocansi kwezobuciko kuvunyelwe. “Ngeke sicabange umholi eqasha abaqophi bezithombe noma abadwebi noma abadwebi bezakhiwo ukuze bakhe izithombe zobulili ingcaca ezindongeni,” kububula u-Devraj Kalsi.

Ukuxhumana phakathi kwenkanuko nokungcwele kwagqashuka kudala. Manje okungcwele kungcwele ngaphandle kwesikhala sokuthinta inkanuko. Siyajabula ukugcina lezi zinto zombili zihluke ngokusobala futhi asinakubekezelela nhlobo kulabo abazama ukuvuselela lezo zikhathi. Asiyithathi imidwebo njengengcwele, kodwa amatshe esikhumbuzo aseyingxenye yefa lethu.

U-Urmi uveza i-engeli ehluke ngokuphelele futhi uthi, "Ingxenye yenkanuko yengcwele ingumbono osuselwe kumaTantras. U-Tantra ubheka umzimba womuntu njengenguqulo encane yendawo yonke ngokwayo, egcwele uShiva noShakti. Uma uNkulunkulu ehlala kuyo, ingcwele." Ngokungafani nendlela yokuzincisha injabulo, ebheka umzimba njengesithiyo sentuthuko engokomoya, amaTantra ayebheka umzimba njengethuluzi lokuzuza ukukhanyiselwa. Kodwa kufanele kukhunjulwe ukuthi ubumnandi obuvusa inkanuko/obunkanuko obuvame ukuhlotshaniswa ne-Tantra, buyingxenye encane nje. Umgomo omkhulu uwukukwazi ukweqa umjikelezo ongapheli wesifiso. Ngokwesiko le-Tantric, lapho umuntu enza umzimba ngocansi, umuntu ubona kuphela njengokuhlangana ndawonye kukaShiva noShakti hhayi nje isenzo sokuzijabulisa. Kudinga isiyalo esingokomoya esikhulu ukugcina lo mbono engqondweni, futhi ukhuphuke kancane kancane ekwazini unkulunkulu. Umzimba ube usuyeka ukuba yikhaya lemizwelo engokwemvelo eyisisekelo futhi uba yindawo yokuhlala yamandla angcwele angangcolisiwe.

Umnikelo wakho awuhlanganisi inhlangano esiza abantulayo umnikelo. Izovumela i-Bonobology ukuthi iqhubeke nokukulethela ulwazi olusha nolwakamuva emzamweni wethu wokusiza noma ubani emhlabeni ukuthi afunde ukwenza noma yini.

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