Umkami ulokhu eveza iphutha lami elidlule. Ngicela ungeluleke.

Umkami wangibamba ukuthumela imiyalezo nomuntu wangibhebha kodwa ngenze izinto zilungile. Ngemva kokubona umonakalo owudalile ngiye ngaba qotho futhi ngithembekile, angizange ngingene lutho futhi ngizama ukumgcina ejabule. Kodwa-ke, noma nini lapho silwa ngezinye izindaba ezivamile, uveza 'ukukopela' kancane. Kuyangicasula kangangokuthi ngezinye izikhathi ngiye ngibone sengathi ngingase ngiphinde ngixhumane nokwedlule. Ngimtshela kanjani umkami ukuthi angakhulumi okwedlule?

Kungase kumangaze uma ungekho ekugcineni kwakho, ukuthi kunzima ukwethemba noma ukuthethelela abathandekayo bethu lapho bekhaphele ithemba lethu. Lokho akusho ukuthi njengabantu asisoze sayeka ukusethemba abantu esibathandayo. Zombili ziyizinto zemvelo nezijwayelekile ukuthi zenzeke.

Nobabili kudingeka nibe nombono onozwela ngakho. Njengoba ngikubona, ukuxhumana ngokukhululekile mayelana nokulimala kanye nobuthakathaka bomuntu kulungile. Cishe, unombono wakhe engqondweni, usakhuluma ngendlela oqonda ngayo ukuthi ulimele futhi ufuna ukumsiza akucubungule ngokusemandleni akho. Kuzodingeka aqonde ukuthi uyaxolisa ngempela futhi ukuyiveza, kaningi, kungase kungasizi ekwelapheni ukuhlukana nokusungula ukwethembana okwengeziwe ngekusasa.

Futhi khumbula, 'ukuxhumana nomlando wakho' ukuze ufakazele iphuzu, ukujezisa, noma ngenxa nje yokungakhululeki kwakho ukugconwa ngeke kusisize nhlobo isimo. Awubhekani nezinkinga zokwethembana ngokuzikhipha kakhudlwana.

Ukukhungatheka kwakho ngakho kungase kungamsizi ukuthi afinyelele iphuzu ukubuyisana lokho kunenzuzo kini nobabili. Ukukhulumisana ngokuzimela, okunesineke nomusa kuwukubheja kwakho okuhle kakhulu.

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