He pai rānei kia tangi ngā tāne?

Mai anō i te tīmatanga, kua kīia he kaha ake ngā tāne i te taha tinana me te taha kare ā-roto i ngā wāhine, ā, he whakaaro whānui tēnei. Nā te mea he whenua a Īnia e whakamanamana ana mō te hapori matua o ngā tāne, kua roa nei ia e whakatinana ana, e whakatairanga ana hoki i tēnei whakapono. Inaa, ko te whakaatu i tētahi tohu ngawari, i tētahi whakaaturanga kare ā-roto rānei, he mea whakama ki te tāne. E whakaponohia ana kāore e tika kia tangi ngā tāne.

Ko te ngākau māhaki me te ngawari e kiia ana he tohu o te wahinetanga, he tohu matapo tēnei mō te ngoikore o te tini o te hapori Inia, tae noa ki ēnei rā. Inaa, ko te te wehenga tata nei o te rangatira o ISRO, a K Sivan, whai muri i te motuhanga o te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero ki a Vikram Lander o Chandrayaan 2, kua ara ake he nui te tautohetohe, mēnā rānei he tika kia tangi tetahi tangata o taua tūāhua i mua i te kāmera.

E tangi ana ngā tāne Inia. Kua tangi a Aamir Khan, a Salman Khan, a Ranveer Sigh, me Abhishek Bachchan katoa. i ētahi wā, i ngā wā tino kare ā-roto. He whetu tēnehi Te pakaru o Roger Federer i te Kōti o Wimbledon i te tau 2009 whai muri i te hinganga o Nadal i a ia ki te taitara, he wā anō tēnei i roto i te hītori i tangi ai te toa. Engari i whai a Andy Murray i a ia i te tau 2012, ā, he maha ngā wā i heke ai ngā roimata o ngā whetu hākinakina o te ao i muri i te wikitoria, i te hinganga rānei, i mua i te aroaro o te marea.

I te ao uru, kua whakaaetia kētia te tangi o ngā tāne rangatira. Kei te huri kē te āhua o te tāne Inia toa, rangatira? E whakaaetia ana ngā tāne kia noho kare ā-roto? E whakaaetia ana ngā tāne kia tangi?

I kōrero mātou ki tētahi kaitātari hinengaro-pāpori Aman Bhonsle ā, ka pātai atu ki a ia me pēhea te tirohanga a te hapori ki ngā tāne e tangi ana.

He pai te tangi mō te tāne?

Ki taku whakaaro he pai ngā kare ā-roto katoa mō ngā ira e rua. Ko te tangi he whakaaturanga o te pouri, he putanga e hiahia ana te tangata ki te whakapuaki i tōna pouri. Ara, kāore au i te tino kite i ngā kare ā-roto hei mea hei wehewehe i runga i te ira tangata.

Nā, he pai te tangi o te wahine, engari kāore i te pai te tangi o te tāne?

Ki tōku whakaaro he whakaaro tawhito ēnei, ā, e ahu mai ana i te momo whakaaro tangata ana i mua pea, nā te mea i ngā rā o mua, ki te tangi te tangata, ka whakaaro tonu tātou kua takahia tōna kaiārahi me tōna tūranga hei tupuna i ngā huarahi maha. I kitea tēnei i tētahi ara, hei kore e taea e ia te ārahi i tōna iwi.

He tino mana tāne te hapori, inā koa te hapori Inia…

Āe. Koinā te tikanga. Ko te tūranga o te tāne hei kaiārahi, hei kaiwhakawhiwhi moni mō te whānau, he tūranga kaha. Ina hoki, ko te kaha tētahi o ngā whakaritenga matua nā te mea ko te kaha tētahi o ngā mea e whai wāhi ana ki te whakatau kaupapa. Nō reira, i te tangi a te tāne i mua, i kitea ko tōna kore e taea te pupuri i tana mahi, me te waiho pea hei puna whakahihiko mō ētahi atu. I whakararu i te ariā o te pupuri i ngā mea kia kotahi. I kiia ia he ngoikore.

Tena ko tenei, ārahitanga kāore i te herea ki tētahi ira tangata. I ēnei rā, ehara i te mea ko te kaiārahi anake te tikanga o tō āheinga ki te ārahi i tētahi whānau. Ka taea e koe te noho hei kanohi mō ngā mea katoa, ka taea hoki e koe te noho hei whaea me tētahi mahi angitu.

I tēnei ao hou, he mea tika kia tangi te tāne me te wahine. Ehara tēnei i te mea hei tātaritanga motuhake.

Engari e mōhio ana koe, he aha te mea ka tupu, ka whāngaihia ō tātou roro e ā tātou kiriata ki tēnei momo whakaaro, arā, ka puta mai te tangata mā roto i ngā matapihi o te whare putunga hei whakaora i te wahine i te ngā gundas Mā ēnei whakaahua katoa e hanga ō tātou whakaaro ko te tāne te kaitiaki tino nui mō te wahine.

"Mard ko dard nahi hota"," Kāore ngā tāne e tangi "he ariā hē ēnei katoa. He tawhito ēnei, ā, ka ara ake ngā mate pouri.

Ko te mea kino rawa atu, he tokomaha e rongoā ana i a rātou anō, kāore i te kōrero ki tētahi tohunga hauora, kāore hoki i te whai tohutohu a tētahi tohunga, nā te mea kua ngaro rawa rātou, ā, kua whakaakona rātou kia huna ō rātou kare ā-roto, puta noa i ō rātou oranga. Kāore tēnei i te tino hauora - te kare ā-roto, te tinana me te pāpori.

"Kāore ngā tāne e tangi", "Kāore ngā tāne pono e tangi" - he pakiwaitara ēnei?

He pūrākau hokohoko ēnei, he kōrero kua kōrerotia mai i ngā rā o mua, ā, kua roa nei te mau. Ki taku whakaaro, ko te kī kāore te tāne e tangi he rite ki te whakapono ki ngā whakapono pūrākau. He rite tonu ki ahau. Kāore rawa he tikanga.

Ka tangi rānei ngā tāne ina aroha ana rātou?

Ae, ka tangi rātou. I roto i Shah Rukh KhanI roto i ngā kiriata a te kiriata, i tangi ia i ngā wā katoa e aroha ana ia. Ka tangi ngā tāne katoa ina aroha ana rātou. Kua tangi a Rajesh Khanna i te nuinga o ana kiriata! Ko ia te kaiwhakaari matua aroha i te nuinga o ana kiriata. Kua tangi a Amitabh Bachchan; kua tangi a Salman Khan i roto i Tere NaamaKāore he aha ina tangi rātou i roto i ngā kiriata, tika?

Ka tangi tātou ina kore e kitea he otinga mō ō tātou raruraru. Ko te tangi he tohu kei te tuku ō tātou hinengaro me ō tātou tinana i a rātou anō. Ko te tangi te tauhohenga, ahakoa te ira tangata, te hōkakatanga ira tangata, me te nui o te moni a te tangata.

Āhea te wā ka tangi ai te tāne i mua i te wahine?

Ina whakaaro ia tērā pea ka whakakitea e tana tangi ētahi pono ki a ia, me āna kaupapa ki a ia.

Mena he take tō te tangi, ka hiahia pea ia ki te tangi i mua i te wahine. Kāore pea ia e āhei ki te whakahaere i a ia anō i taua wā, ā, ka tangi pea ia hei whakautu, hei whakautu rānei ki tētahi mea i mahia, i kōrerotia rānei e te wahine, i tētahi mea rānei i whakararuraru, i whakararu rānei i te whanaungatanga e noho tahi ana rāua.

He pai rānei kia tangi te tāne i muri i te wehenga?

Ae, he pai ki te tangi te tāne i muri i te wehenga.

Ae, kāore he aha. Me pēhea atu e tukatuka ai ia i aua kare ā-roto, e whakaputa ai hoki i aua kare ā-roto?

Nā te mea, ko te wahine i noho tahi rāua, i hiahia ia kia noho tahi, kua ngaro i tōna ao. He putanga te tangi, ahakoa te ira tangata. Kāore he pānga ki te ira tangata.

Nō reira, kei te huri haere ngā mea. Kaua rawa e kīia ki ngā tama, "Kāore ngā tama e tangi." Engari, me kī atu ki a rātou ka taea e koe te tangi, he āhua tūturu tēnei. Kāore he aha kia tangi ngā tāne.

Kāore tō koha e kiia he kaupapa aroha takohaMā tēnei ka taea e Bonobology te kawe mai i ngā mōhiotanga hou me ngā mōhiotanga hou ki a koe i roto i tā mātou whainga ki te āwhina i te tangata katoa o te ao ki te ako me pēhea te mahi i tetahi mea.

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