He maha ngā hapa a ngā tāne ina ngana ana ki te hanga i tētahi whakaaro pai ki te wahine. Ahakoa he ahua tino kaha rawa, he mea rānei kia kore ai e tino miharo te wahine, kāore tetahi o ngā mea tino kino e pai. Ko te mea nui rawa atu hei miharo i a ia ko te mea kia noho humarie ia, nui atu i ngā mea katoa.
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I roto i ngā tau, kua rongo au i te maha o ngā kupu whakaohooho - ko ētahi he tino whakakatakata, ko ētahi he āhua whakamataku. Ko te hapa tino noa a ngā tāne i a rātou e ngana ana ki te miharo i ngā wāhine ko te kore whakamahi i te reo tinana tika, i te reo tika rānei, ā, ka taea e ngā wāhine te kite i tō rātou manukanuka.
He mea noa te āwangawanga, engari kia maumahara kei reira tētahi tangata ka taka ki tō ataahua! Kia tupato kei hapa koe i ēnei hapa noa ina kōrero koe ki tētahi kōtiro.
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Kaua e noho hei kaiwhaiwhai pāpāho pāpori
I kite koe i tētahi i tētahi pāti, ā, ka whakatau koe ki te tuku tono ki a ia i runga i te Instagram. Me pena, engari kaua e tuku karere pāme ki a ia. Kaua hoki e 'pai' tonu ki ia o ana pou katoa. Ki te hiahia koe ki te whai i a ia, kia āta whakaaro…kaua e hoki whakamuri ki te pai ki tētahi pikitia o ngā tau e rua ki muri! Ki te nui rawa atu tāu mahi, Ka taea e te pāpāho pāpori te whakangaro i tō whanaungatanga i mua i tōna tīmatanga.
Ko te ngana ki te tino kata ka whakangaro i te kata
Kua rongo pea koe he aroha ngā wāhine ki ngā tāne e kata ai rātou. Ae, e kata ana rātou. Engari ehara i te mea me waiho koe hei pukapuka katakata kōrero noa. Ko ētahi o ngā hapa e mahia ana e ngā tāne ki ngā wāhine ko te mahi i ngā mea katoa e taea ana e rātou kia kata ai te kōtiro, ahakoa kāore te taiao i te mārama, i te whakakatakata hoki.
Ki te kore koe e pai ki te whakakatakata, me noho puku. Kia kaha, kia noho puku. He mea ngāwari tēnei. Kāore e taea, kāore e tika, kāore e tika kia kaua e kōrero i tētahi whakakatakata moepuku nā te mea he mea pai tēnei ki te mahi. Ina koa mēnā kei te tīmatanga koe o tētahi whanaungatanga pea.
Ahakoa kei roto koe i tētahi rōpū, kia tūpato ki ō kupu. Tērā pea ka kata ngā wāhine ki tō whakaaro whakakatakata, engari kāore i te kī he pai ki a rātou. Ki te kī mārire, tērā pea ka āhua pōrangi koe.
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Kāore he tangata e pai ana ki te tangata whakahihi
He rārangi angiangi kei waenganui i te whakapehapeha me te māia. He taonga nui te māia mō ngā tāne me ngā wāhine, engari ka huri hei whakapehapeha mēnā ka ngana koe ki te tangi me te mahi atamai rawa. Ki te hiahia pono koe ki te miharo i ngā wāhine, kaua e whakahua i ngā ingoa waitohu hei mea noa kia pai ai te tangi. Kaua e kōrero tonu mō te whanaketanga o tō umanga. Kaua e whakaatu i tō mōhiotanga ki ngā mahi tōrangapū, ki ngā hākinakina, ki ngā kiriata me te kai – ka taea e ngā wāhine te kite kei te mahi tinihanga koe.
Akohia te whakamutu i tētahi kōrero
He uaua te tīmata i tētahi kōrero, engari he uaua rawa atu te whakamutu! Kāore koe e whiwhi i tētahi tohu parauri ki a ia mēnā ka ngana koe ki te whakaroa i te kōrero ki tua atu i ngā rohe e tika ana. Kia māmā noa iho, kōrerohia te mea e tika ana kia kōrerohia, kātahi ka whakamutua. Aue, kaua e mahi i te tikanga 'he aha atu' 'kōrero mai anō'. Ko te whakaroa i tētahi kōrero mate tētahi o ngā hapa a ngā tāne me te kore e mōhio he aha te āhua o te pouri.
Ehara ia i tō 'pipi'
Ka taea e koe te moemoeā kia whiwhi i tētahi mēnā ka moe koe i a ia, engari kia tae rā anō ki tēnā wā, me kī atu ki a ia mā tōna ingoa. He tino hoha te raruraru katoa o te 'babe', inā koa mēnā ka tīmata koe ki te mōhio ki a ia. He pai te 'babe' mēnā he tino piripono kōrua, engari me tatari kia tae ki taua taumata o te mōhio. Ka taea e ia te tango i tēnei hei whakatūpato. ngā tohu he hoa tāne piripono koe.
Kaua e noho noa
Kāo, kāore ngā wāhine e hiahia ana ki te taka ki te tāne kino, engari mā te tino atawhai ka taea e koe te whakahōhā. Kaua e tukua kia mahi i te mahi a te kuri me ōna kanohi marama. Kaua e tohe kia utua te pire mēnā e hiahia ana ia ki te wehe i te utu, kaua e tohe kia peia ia ki te kāinga ahakoa kua kīia kāo ia mō te 12 o ngā wā, ā, ngana ki te whakarongo ki tana reo tinana kia kite ai mēnā kei te whakararuraru tō whanonga i a ia.
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Te kitea rawatia o te reo tinana
Ko ētahi o ngā hapa e mahia ana e ngā tāne ki ngā wāhine, he tino kitea rawatia te reo o te tinana — he tino nekeneke noa iho rānei mēnā e mirimiri tonu ana i ō rātou maihao me te kuhu ki roto i ō rātou pēke, he tino whakahīhī rānei mēnā ka whiti i ō rātou ringa ka piko atu ina kōrero ana te wahine.
He mea tino nui kia mōhio ngā tāne ki te toi o te reo tinana kia miharo ai ngā wāhine, nā te mea i ētahi wā ka taea e te tinana te kawe karere pai atu i te kupu.
Te tino whakaae
Ki tā ngā tāne he mea ngākau aroha ngā wāhine, ā, ka riri rātou ki a rātou mēnā kāore rātou e whakaae ki ngā mea katoa e kōrerohia ana e rātou. Engari, he pai ki ngā wāhine te whakarongo ki ngā whakaaro rerekē me te whai kōrero hei hoatu i tētahi tirohanga hou ki a rātou. He mea noa te whakahē i ngā mea maha, ā, he mea noa te tautohetohe mō taua mea, engari kaua tēnā e aukati i a koe ki te kōrero mō ngā mea hou. Me ako koe i ētahi mea Ngā tohutohu hei whakahaere i tētahi kōrero ki tētahi kōtiro.
He maha rawa ngā kupu whakahihiko e whakamahia ana
Kua kōrero kē ahau mō tēnei i mua, engari kāore e mutu te kōrero — kaua e whakamahi i ngā kupu whakahihiri hei miharo i a ia. He maha rawa ngā wā ka rongo ngā kōtiro i ngā kupu whakahihiri, ā, kua hoha rātou ki te pouri. Engari ko te whakahihiri, ngana ki te whakawai i a ia ki tō ataahua me tō mohio.
Te toa rawa
Ae, he mea aroha te utu i te pire me te whakatuwhera i te tatau o te motuka mōna, engari i muri i tētahi wā ka hoha. E hiahia ana ngā wāhine kia tū motuhake, nō reira, ina tono rātou kia wehea te haki, kaua e whawhai, engari me whakaute i ana hiahia kaua e tangi whakahihi rawa.
Koinei ētahi o ngā hapa e mahia ana e ngā tāne i a rātou e ngana ana ki te miharo i ngā wāhine. He roa ake pea te rārangi, engari ka mārama koe ki te ngako o te kōrero! He aha ō whakaaro? He nui ake ngā hapa a ngā tāne i a rātou e ngana ana ki te miharo, he rerekē rānei, ā, he maha ngā wā ka hē ngā wāhine? Tukuna mai ō kōrero!
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Kia ora e tama mā!! He pai ki a mātou ngā mahi ātaahua a koutou, engari kia maumahara ki ēnei kōrero.
He tino tūturu rātou!!
Te āhua nei kāore e taea e te tāne te mahi i tetahi mea tika. He maha ngā wā ka rite ki te mea he ātaahua ina mahi ngā wāhine i ngā mea ōrite, engari ina mahi tātou, he whakamataku.
Haha! He rawe tēnei rārangi o ngā mea tekau kāore rawa e tika ana kia mahia! Kia tūpato mai ngā tāne katoa.
E tama mā, he tino pai ngā tohutohu mā koutou katoa. Tuhia ēnei!
Anei tētahi atu tohutohu: Kia mau ki a koe anō, kaua e ngana ki te mahi nui rawa, kaua hoki e whakanui i te tumanako. Kia atawhai koe i te kōtiro pērā i tāu atawhai i a ia i muri mai. Koinei te mea pai rawa atu!
Āe! He tino whai hua ngā tohutohu!