Me pēhea te hanga i tētahi kōtaha whakaipoipo ipurangi whai hua

Ngā tohutohu hei whakarite i tētahi rā ipurangi me te ngāwari

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me pēhea te tuhi i tētahi kōtaha whakaipoipo
Porohia te aroha

Ki te mea kei te rapu koe i te aroha i runga i tētahi pae whakaipoipo ipurangi, he mea nui te whai i tētahi kōtaha pai hei tīmatanga. Ko te tuhi i tētahi kōtaha whakaipoipo me waiho hei kaupapa matua māu kia taea ai e koe te whakatuwhera i ngā tatau ki te whakaipoipo ipurangi. Me titiro pea koe ki ētahi tauira kōtaha whakaipoipo i mua i te waihanga i tētahi pūkete i runga i tētahi taupānga whakaipoipo.

A ako Kua whakamātauhia e te rangahau e 3.2 hēkona te roa o te tirotiro a ngā wāhine i ngā kōtaha "ātaahua" o ngā tāne i mua i te swipe matau, ā, 6.9 hēkona te roa o te tirotiro i ngā kōtaha "kino" o ngā tāne i mua i te swipe maui. Mō ngā tāne, 5.7 hēkona te roa i mua i te swipe matau, ā, 6.3 hēkona te roa i mua i te swipe maui. Nō reira, me mārama, me ātaahua hoki tō koiora whakaipoipo, nā te mea ka taea e ia te whakatau, te whakakore rānei i ō tupono ki te kimi i te hoa tika.

Mena kei te whakaaro koe he aha te mea hei tuhituhi mō te kōtaha whakaipoipo, kua kohia e mātou ētahi tohutohu whai hua - mō ngā tāne me ngā wāhine. Kua kohia hoki e mātou he kōtaha whakaipoipo ipurangi pai hei tārua me te whakapiri. Pānuihia tonu hei mahi i te taahiraa tuatahi ki te waihanga i tētahi aroaro ipurangi whakamiharo me ā mātou tauira kōtaha whakaipoipo.

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Mō ngā whakaaro mō ngā kōtaha whakaipoipo, e whakaaro ana ngā tāne kāore e hiahiatia ana e ngā wāhine te whakapau i te wā nui ki te waihanga kōtaha. He whakaaro hē whānui tēnei e kī ana He māmā ake te whakaipoipo ipurangi mā ngā wāhineĀe, ko ngā wāhine anake e tūhura ana i te moana o ngā kōwhiringa hei hopu ika pai e mōhio ana ki te ao tūturu. He pono, ko ngā wāhine, i te nuinga o te wā, ka whiwhi rau ngā hoa taurite, ka waipuketia rānei ā rātou DM e ngā karere kuputuhi "Kia ora", engari he mahi uaua te wehewehe i ngā kōtaha kounga mai i tētahi puna kei reira pea he rōpū tinihanga aroha me ngā pūkete rūpahu.

"Kāore tō whakaahua kōtaha e hiahiatia kia tino tika - me whakaatu ko wai koe."

Hei tāpiri, he nui atu i te ataahua o te kanohi tōu, engari kāore te hunga ipurangi e mōhio ki tēnā mena kāore tō kōtaha e whakaatu ko wai koe. Nō reira, whai i ā mātou tohutohu mō te tuhi kōtaha whakaipoipo mō tētahi wahine, ā, kua rite koe:

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1. Kaua e huna i muri i tētahi avatar whakairoiro

Tuatahi, ko ngā mea tuatahi! Ki te mea kei te whakaaro koe he aha te mea hei tuhituhi mō te kōtaha whakaipoipo, me kōrero tāua mō te mea kotahi e kitea tuatahitia ana e te nuinga o te hunga e toro ana ki tō kōtaha whakaipoipo ipurangi. Kaua e mangere ki te tuku i tētahi pikitia tūturu, nā te mea, hei kaiako whakaipoipo Ōna Walters e mea ana, "Kei te hokohoko koe i a koe anō ki tō hoa rangatira o muri mai." He mea tino nui ngā whakaahua, nā te mea:

  • Kāore e tino kitea ngā kōtaha kāore he whakaahua
  • Ki te kore e kitea te kanohi o te tangata i runga i tana kōtaha whakaipoipo, he ahua pōuri te kōtaha.

Mena kei te whakaaro koe me pēhea te tuhi i te kōtaha whakaipoipo pai rawa atu, ka āwhina pea ēnei tohutohu:

  • Kōwhiria he pikitia e whakaatu ana i tō tuakiri
  • He pai ake te kore e tango i te whakaahua pōuriuri. He mea nui te kounga o te pikitia.
  • Me aro noa te pikitia matua ki ngā āhuatanga o tō kanohi, ā, me whai ake ko ētahi pikitia roa.
  • Kaua e tuku whakaahua rōpū hei whakaahua whakaatu māu. Ka whakapoauau noa iho ētahi atu, kāore hoki e taea te mōhio ko wai koe.

Anei tētahi tirohanga whakamere mai i tētahi Reddit kaiwhakamahi"He nui ake ngā hoa taurite e whiwhi ana i ngā wāhine e whakaatu ana i ō rātou kiri i roto i ō rātou kōtaha, engari ko ō rātou tinana anake te mea e arohia ana e ngā hoa taurite, ā, mō te nuinga o ngā wāhine, ehara i te aro e hiahiatia ana e rātou."

2. Kia mārama tō 'momo' me tāu e hiahia ana

Anei tētahi o ngā tohutohu tino nui mō te kōtaha whakaipoipo: mā te mārama ki a koe anō me te mea e rapua ana e koe i te whakaipoipo ipurangi ka māmā ake te arotahi ki te mea hei tuhi ki ngā kōtaha whakaipoipo hei kukume i te momo hoa tika. Tērā pea ka pāngia koe e tētahi wheako kino ki te whakaipoipo ipurangi pērā i taku hoa a Sheila.  

I runga i te te rā tuatahi i muri i te tūtaki ipurangi, I haria ia e tana hoa ki te whare pukapuka, kātahi ka haere ki te whare taonga. Ahakoa he tino whakahihiri ki a ia, i tino hoha ia, ā, me rūpahu te kōrero katoa kia tino mohio ai ia e pai ana ia ki a ia. He aha ai? Nā te mea i kī ia he pai ki a ia te pānui pukapuka tawhito, he pai ki a ia ngā mahi toi, engari i te ao tūturu, he tangata whakapakari tinana ia e pai ana ki ngā hākinakina mōrearea me ngā hikoi. 

Ki ngā wāhine, he mea nui rawa te mōhio ki te tuhi i tētahi kōtaha pai mō te whakaipoipo, nā te mea ka tūpono rātou ki te tūponotanga ki ngā karere whaiaro kāore e hiahiatia ana me ngā whakaahua kāore i tonoa. Nō reira, he mea nui kia kīia mēnā e hiahia ana koe ki tētahi whanaungatanga roa, ki tētahi whanaungatanga poto rānei, kia māmā ake ai te take.

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3. Kaua e whakaatu i te nui rawa o ngā kōrero

Ko tētahi o ngā whakaaro tino whai hua mō te kōtaha whakaipoipo ko te kore e whakaatu nui i a koe anō. Tuhinga BBC e whakaatu ana i te 57% o ngā wāhine i whakautua i kōrero kua pāngia rātou e tētahi momo whakatoi i runga i ngā pae whakaipoipo. He āwangawanga tēnei e tipu haere ana i waenga i ngā wāhine puta noa i te ao. Ko te huarahi anake hei whakatau i tēnei me tetahi momo takahi raraunga ipurangi, te whakamahi hē rānei ko:

  • Kāore e whakaatu i ngā mōhiohio whaiaro pēnei i te wāhitau, te wāhi mahi rānei
  • Kāore e tuku whakaahua me ngā taipitopito pēnei i ngā tau waka
  • Kāore e tohatoha i ngā mōhiohio tairongo, pēnei i ngā taipitopito peeke, me ētahi atu.
  • Kaua e tuku whakaahua e whakaatu ana i te kiri nui, kei hopukina pea e te tangata ngā whakaahua, ā, ka hē te whakamahi. 

E mohio ana he aha te mea hei tuhituhi mō ngā kōtaha whakaipoipo kāore e ranea, he mea nui anō hoki kia mōhio ki ngā mea hei whakarērea. 

4. Ehara i te mea he ātaahua tonu te kino

Ki te mea kei te whakaaro koe me pēhea te tuhi i tētahi kōtaha whakaipoipo, āe, he tohutohu nui tēnei mō te kōtaha whakaipoipo ipurangi, ā, me tino aro atu koe ki tēnei: ​​ngana ki te karo i ngā kupu kino. Ahakoa e tonoa ana ngā wāhine kia noho tūpato hei ārai i ngā tāne puremu me te aro kore e hiahiatia, kaua e nui rawa te whakahawea, te whakatoi, me te whakaaro kino. Ki te mea koe "Kāore au i te pai ki a Netflix", ka noho tawhiti atu ngā kaiwhakamahi Netflix. Engari me pēhea mēnā kei te tatari mai tētahi tāne tino pai ki a koe e pai ana ki a Netflix? Kia mahara, kāore he aha ngā kōrero iti. Nō reira, kia iti ake te whakahē, kia tuwhera ake.

Waihoki, ki te mea koe, "Kāore e hiahiatia kia tono ngā tāngata rūpahu", ka whakaaro te tangata he aha te nui o tō whakaaro ki a koe anō. Tērā pea ka whakaaro koe he ātaahua te ahua o te whakahihi i te tīmatanga, engari i te ao tūturu, he āhua whakapehapeha noa iho. Kaiako whakaipoipo Erica Ettin e mea ana, "Ki te mea kei te whakaaro kino koe, hurihia hei mea pai. Hei tauira, hurihia te 'kaua e rapu kaitākaro' ki te 'rapu kaitākaro' hononga pono'. ”

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5. He tino ngahau ngā pane kōrero hopuhopu

Ina titiro matatau koe ki tō mata waea pūkoro me te whakaaro he aha te mea hei tāpiri ki tētahi kōtaha whakaipoipo, whakaarohia he taitara whakamīharo mō tō kōtaha. Hei tauira, ki te mea he tangata kawhe koe, ka taea e koe te tāpiri i tēnei taitara ki te pane matua me te huri ngahau. Kaua e whai i tētahi kōrero noa iho kei roto i te rārangi o ngā whakaaro kōtaha whakaipoipo matapōkere i runga i te ipurangi, pērā i te "He pai ki ahau te kawhe me ngā pukapuka" ā, ka hoha ō hoa taumau. Kia mahara, he pai hoki ki ngā tāne te kite i tō taha rorirori, āhua rerekē. Kāore koe e hiahia kia noho tonu hei "Ms. Goody Two Shoes" i runga i tō kōtaha whakaipoipo. 

Engari, ka taea e koe te tuhituhi, "E hoa aroha kawhe, kei konei ahau. Kawea ahau ki tō wāhi kawhe tino pai i te tāone, ā, kua whai wā anō koe ki te rā tuarua!" Ko te pane te mea tuatahi ka pānuihia e te hoa pea i tō kōtaha, ā, i tētahi ara, koinei tō wā ki te hanga te whakaaro tika

6. Arotahi ki o hiahia

Ko tētahi tohutohu nui mō te kōtaha whakaipoipo ko te whakaaroaro i mua i te tuhi i tō kōtaha. Kia mōhio koe ki a koe anō i te tuatahi, kātahi ka tuku kupumatua e pā ana ki ō hiahia me ō mahi whakangahau. Hei tauira, he ako Ko ngā tauira kōtaha whakaipoipo i whakaatu i te mahi whakamiharo a ngā kupu motuhake pēnei i te ahua, te yoga, me te whakapakari tinana ki te whakamātau i ngā wāhine kia angitu ai ā rātou hoa ipurangi. Nō reira, whakamahia he kupu whakataki poto engari whakamere, kaua e roa rawa ngā whakaahuatanga. Whakamahia ētahi kupu hei whakaatu i ō hiahia matua, ā, kua oti te haurua o te mahi.

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7. Kaua e tino tono nui

Koinei tētahi o ngā tohutohu tino nui mō te kōtaha whakaipoipo. Ae, he mea pai kia whakapuaki i tāu e hiahia ana, kia mārama hoki ō tono. Engari i ngā wā katoa e kī ana koe i ētahi paearu, kia tino kore koe e tino tono, e tino whiriwhiri rānei. Hei tauira, ki te tuhi koe i tētahi mea pēnei i te "E hiahia ana ahau ki te whiwhi manaaki rangatira. E hiahia ana ahau kia haria ahau e taku tāne ki Parī, ā, e hiahia ana ahau ki te wheako i ngā hararei tauhou i ia tau. E hiahia ana hoki ahau ki te hokohoko tae noa ki te mutunga, me te whakamātau i ngā kai tino pono i ngā wharekai Michelin," āe, ko te nuinga o ngā tāne he pai ake ki te swipe maui i te matau. Koinei tētahi o ngā tauira kōtaha whakaipoipo kino rawa atu. Ko tō koiora whakaipoipo nāu. Tuhinga tuatahi i te ao o te whakaipoipo, ā, kāore e taea e tēnā te mea kia tono nui koe me te mea ko tana wahine kē koe. 

Ngā tauira koiora mō te whakaipoipo Wahine

Hei āwhina i a koe ki te kimi i tētahi tauira kōtaha whakaipoipo pai rawa atu mō tētahi wahine, kua whakamāramahia e mātou ētahi o ngā kōtaha whakaipoipo pai rawa atu, tino ngahau hoki o ngā wāhine mai i ngā pae tukutuku maha. Tirohia ēnei tauira koiora whakaipoipo wahine:

Poto, engari tika

He taipitopito, engari he whakakatakata

He whakahihi rawa atu

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Me pēhea te tuhi i tētahi kōrero whaiaro mō te whakaipoipo, e pātai ana koe? Āe, kaua e titiro atu. Ko ngā kōrero whaiaro pai mō ngā taupānga whakaipoipo mō ngā tāne he 'tika tonu' me te miharo, engari kāore e tino whakahirahira. Kei raro nei, kua kohikohia e mātou ētahi o ngā whakaaro pai mō ngā kōrero whaiaro mōu hei āwhina i a koe ki te whakatau i tētahi hoa aroha me te ngāwari.

Whakaahuatanga mō - me pēhea te waihanga i tētahi kōtaha whakaipoipo
Me pēhea te waihanga i tētahi kōtaha whakaipoipo ipurangi whai hua

Ki te tino kia whakaaro te kotiro ki a koe, me waiho e koe he ara mā rātou, kia ora tonu ai te mea ngaro. Me pēhea, e pātai ana koe? Tukua mātou kia āwhina me ētahi tohutohu whai hua mō te tuhi i tētahi kōtaha whakaipoipo mō tētahi tāne. Tirohia ēnei tauira kōtaha whakaipoipo, whakamātauria ēnei tohutohu:

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1. Whakaaturia he tirohanga whānui mōu ake hei tangata

Koinei tētahi o ngā tohutohu pai rawa atu mō te kōtaha whakaipoipo. Te āhua nei, kāore ngā tāne e whakapau kaha ki te waihanga i tētahi kōtaha whakaipoipo. I te nuinga o te wā, ko te "whutupaoro" me te pikitia o tētahi kurī anake ka riro mai i a koe. He Reddit kaiwhakamahi e mea ana, "Tērā pea ka tū motuhake koe mēnā kāore he whakaahua āu e tū tahi ana me te ika i hopukina e koe. Kua tata te pikitia ika te riro hei pikitia whakarihariha e manakohia ana e te hapori."

He aha te mea ka taea e koe te whakanui? Anei:

  • Whakamahia ngā kupu āhua whakamere e whakaahua ana i a koe hei tangata
  • Whakawhanuihia aua kupu āhua. He katakata koe? Tāpirihia he rārangi hei whakaatu i tōu āhua tino katakata
  • Kaua e whakanui rawa, kei puta tō whakapehapeha. 
  • He pai ki te tangata te mōhio ko wai rātou e haere tahi ana. Ka pērā rānei rātou? te whakaipoipo i tētahi kaitoi te haere tahi rānei me tētahi kaipakihi haumi tātari? Ina hanga kōtaha whakaipoipo ipurangi koe, me kī atu koe ko wai koe

2. Tāpirihia he paku whakakatakata

He aha ngā mea e pai ake ana ki ngā wāhine? Haere mai! Ko te whakautu tino noa ki tēnei pātai ko te tāne he "waiata whakakatakata" pea. Nā, me pēhea tātou e kore ai e kōrero mō te tūranga o te whakakatakata i roto i te rapu huarahi ki te tuhi i tētahi kōtaha whakaipoipo mō tētahi tāne? Ehara i te mea ngaro nui te aroha o ngā wāhine ki te taha whakakatakata o tētahi tāne, ahakoa e whakaatu ana ia i tana... whakakatakata marokeĀ, ko tō koiora whakaipoipo te wāhi tuatahi hei miharo i a ia mā te takaro noa. Anei me pēhea te tuhi i te kōtaha whakaipoipo pai rawa atu me te paku whakakatakata:

  • Ka taea e koe te tawai ki a koe anō, me te mea i a rātou kia kata mōu
  • Ka taea e koe te whakatau i a koe anō i roto i te 10 mō ētahi āhuatanga taketake o te hoa tāne, ngā āhuatanga tinana rānei.
  • Ka taea e koe te waihanga i tētahi rārangi painga me ngā huakore mō te ngahau anō
  • Kia tupato kei pāngia koe e ngā katakata e pā kino ai ki tētahi rōpū tāngata. Kāore he mea whakakatakata mō te kore aro.

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3. Whakakitea te mea e rapu ana koe 

Ko te whakautu ki te pātai me pēhea te tuhi i tētahi kōtaha whakaipoipo mō ngā tāne kei roto i te mōhio ka mahi ngā hoa taumau i te mahi e hiahiatia ana mēnā ka rite ō rātou hiahia ki ōu. Mā ngā kōrero whaiaro pai o te taupānga whakaipoipo ka kitea he aha te mea e rapuhia ana e te tangata. Anei ētahi tohutohu mō te kōtaha whakaipoipo hei whakatutuki i tēnā: 

  • Kaua e whakarārangihia ngā mahi whakangahau, te momo tinana, me te mātauranga o tō hoa tino pai – he kotahi noa iho tēnei o ngā mea e pai ana ki a koe ngā ture kore tuhituhi mō te whakaipoipo
  • Engari kaua e kī "Me whai wairua whakakatakata taku wahine tino pai", me kī atu, "He pai ki ahau te noho tahi me tētahi tangata he wairua whakakatakata tōna"
  • Kaua e whakamanamana mō te tinana pakari, engari whakamahia he kupu whai mana pēnei i te 'kaha'. Mā te arotahi ki ngā āhuatanga tinana ka ahua papaku, ka tino whiriwhiri rānei koe. 
  • He mea nui anō hoki kia pono tāu e hiahia ana. Mena he whanaungatanga e rapu ana koe, me kī mai. Mena kei te hiahia koe ki ngā hononga noa, kaua e whakamā ki te pato i tēnā. He mea nui tēnei wāhanga, nā te mea ka kukume noa i te hunga he rite ngā whakaaro.
He huanga alt kau tō tēnei whakaahua; ko On-Datign-Apps.jpg te ingoa kōnae.

4. Whakaatuhia ō hiahia me te kore e nui rawa

Ki te kore koe e mōhio he aha te mea hei tuhituhi ki ngā kōtaha whakaipoipo, kia maumahara, kāore e ranea ngā kupu noa iho. Me whakamārama anō hoki koe i ō pūkenga. Tukuna ake ngā whakaahua e whakaaro ana koe he pai rawa atu mōu, ā, he whakaata hoki i tō tuakiri. Anei ētahi tohutohu mō te mahi i tēnā me te kore e rite ki te whakapehapeha:

  • He pai ki a koe te tito waiata? Mā te tango whakaahua me tō pahu, kitā rānei, ka tino kitea tō taha waiata.
  • Ki te mea he tangata pai koe ki te whare takaro, kia mōhio koe ka kore te nuinga e aro ki te maha o ngā whakaahua whaiaro o te whare takaro (nā te mea he maha rawa!). Heoi anō, he mea whakamiharo te mahi a te whakaahua ataahua o koe e hiki ana i te tinana.

Kaua e tino whakapau kaha. Ko te mōhio ki te taurite tika te mea nui hei whakamārama me pēhea te tuhi i tētahi kōrero whaiaro mō te whakaipoipo. Kei a mātou anō ētahi kōrero whakaipoipo ipurangi pai hei tārua me te whakapiri ki roto i tā mātou tuhinga hei tirotiro māu.

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5. Whakamahia te tirotiro kupu

A Te ako i te wetereo kua whakamātauhia ko ngā tāne he rua noa iho ngā hapa tuhituhi i roto i ā rātou kōtaha he 14% te iti ake o te tūponotanga ka whiwhi hoa. Nō reira, me te arotahi ki ngā mea hei tāpiri ki tētahi kōtaha whakaipoipo, kia tūpato ki te āhua o tō whakatakoto. Kia tūpato ki ngā hapa wetereo me ngā hapa tuhituhi kino. Ko ngā hapa e whakaatu ana i te kore aro, ā, ko te hunga e rapu ana i tētahi mea nui ka whakapono pea he koretake, he ngoikore rānei koe. Kia mātau. Whakamahia he taputapu tirotiro wetereo ipurangi hei whakatika i ō hapa, nā te mea he tino maha ngā Nazi wetereo kei reira. 

6. Kaua e whakamahi i te reo ā-ira tangata

Ko ngā wāhine e hiahia ana ki te whakaipoipo pono, ka whakakāhoretia e te hunga e ārahi ana i a rātou ki ngā kupu whakaipoipo moepuku. Ki te kore koe e rapu hononga, ki tētahi rānei tu kotahi po, ngana kia karohia ngā kupu e whakaatu ana i a koe he tangata e hiahia nui ana ki te moe tāne. Nō reira, kaua e whakamanamana mō tō pūkenga moe tāne, mō tō āhua tinana rānei. Tērā pea kāore ngā wāhine e aro nui ki a koe mēnā ka pēnei koe. Koinei te whakautu māmā rawa atu ki te pātai me pēhea te tuhi i tētahi kōrero whaiaro mō te whakaipoipo.

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7. Whakamahia he 'karanga ki te mahi' 

I te nuinga o te wā, ka mutu ngā tāne te tīmatanga o ngā kōrerorero i runga i ngā taupānga whakaipoipo. He aha e kore ai e whakarerekē i ngā mea, ka hoatu he wā ki ō hoa taumau kia tīmata ai? Hei tāu, he tohutohu ngāwari tā mātou mō te kōtaha whakaipoipo: tāpirihia ētahi pātai tuwhera ki tō koiora, hei akiaki i ō hoa taumau ki te whai ake, ki te tīmata rānei i tētahi kōrero. Nā, kua mōhio kē koe ki te whakaahua i a koe anō i runga i tētahi taupānga whakaipoipo, tirohia ētahi kōtaha whakaipoipo ipurangi pai hei tārua me te whakapiri. 

Ngā tauira koiora mō te whakaipoipo Tāne

Hei whakaatu i te āhua o tētahi tauira kōtaha whakaipoipo ipurangi tino pai, whai hua hoki mō ngā tāne, kua tangohia e mātou ētahi whakaahua poto o ngā kōtaha whakaipoipo tūturu o ngā tāne mai i ngā pae whakaipoipo rerekē. Tirohia ēnei tauira kōtaha whakaipoipo:

"Ehara i te mea ko te ātaahua anake te āhua o ngā kōtaha whakaipoipo; engari ko te tū motuhake me tō tuakiri."

He whai kōrero, engari he rawe

He katakata, engari he tika

He poto me te reka

Pātai Auau

1. He aha ngā mea me tāpiri ki taku koiora whakaipoipo? 

Kia poto, kia māmā hoki tō kōrero whaiaro. Me ngāwari te whakatata atu, me te hoahoa hoki tō kupu whakataki, engari kaua e tino taipitopito rawa. Ko te huarahi tika ki te hanga i tētahi kōtaha whakaipoipo ipurangi ko te whakamahi i ngā kupu me ngā rerenga poto. Whakarārangihia ō hiahia, ō mahi whakangahau, ō wawata, me ō hihiri kia māmā, kia reka hoki. Tirohia hoki ētahi tauira kōtaha whakaipoipo. 

2. Me pēhea taku tuhituhi mōku ake i runga i tētahi pae whakaipoipo? 

Kia noho noa, kia pono hoki. Me kite te tangata i a koe ina kite rātou i tō kōtaha. Tuhia ō hiahia, ngā mea e whakaoho ake ai koe i te ata, me ngā mea e motuhake ai koe. 

"I taku tīmatanga ki te whakaipoipo ipurangi, i pēhia ahau ki te whakanui rawa i aku hiahia. Engari i muri i ētahi kōrero whakamā, i kite ahau he pai ake te noho pono. I whakahoutia e au taku koiora kia whakaata ko wai ahau - he tangata aroha haereere, he tangata mohio ki te pūtaiao pakiwaitara, he tangata aroha kawhe - ā, i tino pai ake te kounga o aku hoa. I tīmata ahau ki te kōrero whai tikanga ki ngā tāngata e rite ana ō rātou hiahia ki ahau."

3. He aha nga kupu e 5 hei whakaahua i a koe ano? 

He maha ngā momo, engari ka taea e koe te whakamātau i ētahi o ēnei: ​​he tangata mōrearea, he tangata e pai ana ki te kiriata, he tangata e pai ana ki te whare, he tangata e pai ana ki te pāti kararehe, he tangata e aroha ana ki ngā kararehe rānei. 

Thoughts Final

Ko te tumanako kua āwhina tēnei aratohu taipitopito mō te tuhi i tētahi kōtaha pai mō te whakawhanaungatanga ki te whakapūmau i tōu āheinga ki te whakaatu i a koe anō ki waho. Mā ētahi mahi taketake, ka taea e koe te kimi ngāwari i te huarahi hei whakaahua i a koe anō i runga i tētahi taupānga whakawhanaungatanga (me te kore e hiahiatia he tauira kōtaha whakawhanaungatanga hei whakawhirinaki). Nā, kua whiwhi koe i ēnei tohutohu, ā, kua oti i a koe ngā tauira kōtaha whakawhanaungatanga katoa i whakaratohia e mātou, haere tonu, ka whakapaipai i taua kōtaha āu kia whai hua ai i ngā mea katoa e tukuna ana e te ao o te whakawhanaungatanga mariko. 

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