"He aha te mea hei tuku karere ki tētahi kōtiro hei tīmata kōrero?" Kei te hiahia koe ki te ako atu mōna engari kaua e puta he āhua tino hiahia, he tino piripono rānei. Kāore hoki koe e hiahia kia tino tawhiti rawa atu, kia ngaro ai tōna hiahia ki a koe. He uaua te whakataurite. Ae, ka taea e koe te tīmata mā te kōrero poto noa, te kōrero mō ngā mea e pai ana ki a kōrua, engari he aha te mea ka tupu i muri mai? Kua pau āu kaupapa kōrero pai hei kōrero māu mā te karere kuputuhi, ā, kei te whakaaro koe me pēhea te wawahi anō i te hukapapa i muri i te mutunga o te kōrerorero. Kaua e manukanuka, kei konei mātou hei kōrero atu ki a koe i ngā huarahi ahurei hei tīmata kōrerorero karere kuputuhi me tētahi kōtiro. Kia rite ki te poroporoaki ki ō rā e waiho ana koe ki te pānui.
Me pēhea te tīmata kōrero ki tētahi kōtiro mā te karere kuputuhi?
Ripanga o Ihirangi
He rerekē te mōhio ki ngā kupu pai hei tīmata kōrero ki tētahi kōtiro mā te karere kuputuhi, he rerekē te pupuri i tōna aro me te pupuri i te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero o ngā whakamōhiotanga. Ki te hiahia koe ki te tīmata kōrero ki tētahi kōtiro i runga i te WhatsApp i mua i te haere whakamua ki a ia i te ao tūturu, ko tēnei whakawhitiwhiti kōrero te mea nui. He tohu tēnei kei te hiahia ia ki tāu e kōrero ai, ā, e hiahia ana ia ki te kōrero tonu ki a koe.
He mea nui kia mārama he āhua motuhake tō te katoa ki te tuku karere kuputuhi, ā, e kitea ana tēnei i roto i tana āhua tuku karere kuputuhi.
- Ka whakatakoto i ana tuhinga
- Ka whakamahi i ngā emoji
- ā, ka whakautu atu ki a koe
Mā te aro ki ēnei kōrero taipitopito ka āwhina i a koe ki te kōrero i ngā mea tika i te wā tika. Hei whakatutuki i te angitu o tō mahi tuku karere kuputuhi, whakarongo ki ēnei tohutohu ngaio mō te tīmatanga o tētahi kōrero mā te tuku karere kuputuhi ki tētahi kōtiro:
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1. Whakaarohia ko wai ia
Ko te āhua, te reo, me te wā o ō karere kuputuhi me whakawhirinaki ki te āhua o ia ki a koe.
- Kei te ngana koe ki te tīmata kōrero ki tētahi kōtiro e pai ana ki a koe?
- He hoa mahi ia e arohaina nuitia ana e koe?
- He hoa kua riro hei kōtiro moemoeā māu ināianei?
- He tangata tauhou rawa atu e whakapā atu ana koe ki āna karere whaiaro?
- Kāore rānei te tuku karere kuputuhi mō ngā whanaungatanga hou i tīmata i runga i tētahi taupānga whakaipoipo i ēnei wā tata nei?
Ko tō whanaungatanga ki a ia – te kore rānei o taua whanaungatanga – e whakatau ana i tō huarahi whakawhitiwhiti kōrero.
2. Arataki ki tētahi mea whakamere
Ahakoa kei te hiahia koe ki te tīmata kōrero ki tētahi kōtiro kāore koe i te mōhio, ki tētahi rānei kua roa e mōhio ana koe, kāore he kupu 'kia ora' e āwhina i a koe. Ki te kore ia e mōhio ki a koe, tera pea ka tukuna koe ki te rohe e kitea ana. Ā, ki te hiahia anō hoki ia, ka kore ia e tino miharo ki te huarahi e whakatata atu ai koe. Engari, ngana ki tētahi o ēnei huarahi:
- Pātai atu mō tōna rā
- Maka etahi ngā mihi mōna mō tētahi mea i mahia e ia i a kōrua e noho tahi ana
- Pātai atu i tētahi pātai matapōkere mō āna hiahia hei kukume i tōna aro
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3. Uia nga paatai tuwhera
Ina ngana koe ki te whakaaro me pēhea te tīmata kōrero mā te karere kuputuhi me tētahi kōtiro, ko te whakaaro kia kukume ia ia ki te kōrero, ā, ko ngā pātai tuwhera te hoa pai rawa atu hei whakatutuki i taua whāinga. I muri i tō tīmatanga kōrero ki tētahi kōtiro, ko te kī ki te pupuri i te rere o te kōrero ko te kōrero mōna. Mā tēnei ka:
- Me whakaatu e ia kei te whakapau kaha koe ki te mōhio pai ake ki a ia
- Me akiaki ia ia ki te kōrero ki a koe me te aro nui ake.
- Tukua koe kia ārahi i te kōrero ki tētahi wāhi, kia puta ai koe hei tangata e tino hiahia ana ia ki te kōrero ki a ia.
Kia mahara, kāore tetahi e pai ki tētahi kaituhi tuhinga marokeKia tūpato ki ngā kaupapa whaiaro pērā i tōna oranga whakaipoipo i te tīmatanga. Whakamātauria ēnei take ā tōna wā, kaua e meinga kia rite ki tētahi uiuinga.
4. Kia poto ō karere
Ahakoa kei te hiahia koe ki te tīmata kōrero ki tētahi kōtiro e pai ana ki a koe, ki tētahi rānei e ngana ana koe ki te whaiwhai, he ture pai kia kaua e nui rawa ō tuhinga. Kāore he tangata e hiahia ana ki te pānui i tētahi tuhinga poto mō te tuhinga, ahakoa te pūkenga o tō kīanga, te kaha rānei o tō whakapuaki i ō kare ā-roto. Ko ngā rārangi pai hei tīmata kōrero ki tētahi kōtiro mā te tuhinga ko ngā mea poto, tika tonu, ā, e waiho ana i a ia kia hiahia anō.
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5. Kia manawanui i te tatari mō ngā whakautu
Me pēhea te tīmata i tētahi kōrerorero kuputuhi me tētahi kōtiro? Kei roto hoki i te whakautu me pēhea te kore e tuku karere kuputuhi ki tētahi kōtiro. Ki te kore ia i whakautu mai ki tāu karere o mua, pupurihia ōu hōiho. Kaua e whakakīkī i a ia ki ngā karere, kaua hoki e whakamahi i tētahi atu tikanga. tuku karere takiruaHe tino matekiri, ā, kāore he tangata e pai ki te aro atu ki tēnā. He tino whakarihariha tēnei mēnā ka ngana koe ki te tīmata kōrerorero kuputuhi me tētahi kōtiro kāore koe e mōhio ana, ā, ka whakamahi koe i te rerenga kuputuhi hei kukume i tōna aro. Kāore rawa! Ki te kore koe e whiwhi whakautu, hoki atu, kati te tuku kuputuhi, he māmā noa iho!
6. Ako ki te tango i tētahi tohu
Ina tīmata koe i tētahi kōrero ki tētahi kōtiro kāore koe e mōhio ana, tuhia te wā hei ture matua.
- Ki te tīmata te kōrero ki te ahua akiaki, ki te roa hoki, me poroporoaki i runga i tētahi take.
- Kātahi, tatari mō ngā rā e rua, neke atu rānei, i mua i te pā anō ki te turanga.
- Ka ora tonu te hiahia, ā, ka ārai i te mutunga whakamā.
Koinei pea te mea tino nui hei whakaaroaro māu ina ngana ana koe ki te tīmata kōrero ki tētahi kōtiro i runga ipurangi.
Ahakoa kei te whakaaro koe me pēhea te tīmata kōrerorero mā te karere kuputuhi me tētahi tangata tauhou, me tētahi rānei e mōhio ana koe, waiho ēnei tohutohu mō te tuku karere kuputuhi hei tūāpapa mōu ki te hanga i ētahi kōrerorero whakamiharo.
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Ki te tino pai koe ki tētahi kōtiro, ka hiahia koe ki te mea i a ia kia kata, ā, ka hiahia hoki koe ki te meinga ia kia whakaaroaro ahakoa kāore kōrua e tuku karere kuputuhi ana. Me maumahara tonu te kōrero kia waiho hei whakaaro pumau ki a ia. Me mōhio koe ki te pupuri i tōna hiahia, me te mōhio ki ngā mea hei kōrero kia mau tonu ai te kōrero i runga i te karere kuputuhi. Me whakaaro ki tēnei hei mahi toi ātaahua kia mōhio rawa koe ki te whakamahi.
He ahua uaua? Kaua e manukanuka, e mōhio ana mātou ki ngā mea tika hei tīmata kōrero ki tētahi kōtiro mā te karere kuputuhi. Mā ēnei mea ka taea e koe te pātai ki a koe anō, "Me pēhea taku pupuri i te hiahia o tētahi kōtiro i a au e tuku karere kuputuhi ana?". Anei ngā tauira e 25 mō te tīmata kōrerorero ki tētahi kōtiro mā te tuku karere kuputuhi hei miharo i a ia mō ō pūkenga kōrero:
He tīmatanga kōrero pai i runga i te tuhinga hei tīmatanga noa iho
He pai ēnei tuhinga hei hanga hononga, ina hiahia koe ki tētahi mea iti te pēhanga, ā, he haumaru hoki hei whakamahi i ngā wā katoa.
1. Hei, e te pī pukumahi!
Me tīmata tātou ki tētahi o ngā momo karere kuputuhi māmā engari he pai hei tīmatanga kōrero. Ki te mea kei te whakaaro koe he aha te mea hei tuku karere kuputuhi ki tētahi kōtiro hei tīmatanga kōrero, ko tētahi huarahi ngāwari ki te kukume i tōna aro ko te tuku karere hei whakamahara i a ia ki a koe, me tētahi, e rua rānei ngā emoji.
2. I pēhea tō rā?
Kei te hiahia koe ki te whakamārama i tana ahiahi? Tīmatahia he kōrero mā te pātai atu mōna i te rā, me te whakapuaki mai i ngā kaupapa nui o tō rā. Whakauru atu ki a ia mā te pātai i ētahi atu pātai whakamere hei pupuri i tōna hiahia.
3. He aha tō whakaaro mō tētahi pō Paraire tino pai?
Ko ngā Paraire te tīmatanga o te mutunga wiki, ā, ko tāu mahi i te pō Paraire e whakaatu ana i tō tuakiri.
- Ki te pai ia ki te whakamutu i te wiki mā te pāti tae noa ki te ata, ko te tikanga he tangata tuwhera ia, he tangata pāpori hoki.
- Ki te pai ake ia ki te noho ki roto, ki te mātaki i tana whakaaturanga tino pai, ko te tikanga he tino tangata ia kāinga.
4. Ka taea e koe te whakaaro mai i tētahi raupapa hei matakitaki mā te hunga whakarongo?
Ki te hiahia koe ki te tīmata kōrero ki tētahi kōtiro, ā, e rapu ana koe i ngā karere kuputuhi noa hei wawahi i te hukapapa, he wāhi haumaru te kōrero mō te pouaka whakaata me ngā raupapa tukutuku.
- Mā tēnei koe e āwhina ki te aromatawai i te ōrite, te rerekē rānei o ōu hiahia.
- Mena he kaiwhaiwhai koe nō te whakaaturanga/raupapa e taunaki ana ia, he wāhi pai tēnei māu hei whakapakari hononga.
- Tērā pea ka ārahi i a koe ki Netflix me te whakangā tahi rawa.
5. Kei te pēhea te mahi e pā ana ki a koe?
He aha te mea hei tuku karere ki tō hoa aroha hei tīmatanga kōrero? Pātai atu mō te mahi, ā, tukua ia kia puta ōna whakaaro.
6. Kia ora! Kei te pēhea te kiriata inapo?
Mena kua roa kē te wā kāore kōrua i kōrero tetahi ki tetahi, ka taea e kōrua te tīmata kōrero mā te pātai atu ki a ia mō tētahi mea i mahia e ia i ngā wā tata nei, pērā i te haere ki te kiriata. He pai te pātai atu ki a ia he aha te kaupapa o te kiriata, me pēhea tana pai ki te kiriata, hei tīmatanga kōrero.
He pai te tīmatanga kōrero i runga i te tuhinga hei whakaoho i te wairua takaro
Whakamahia ēnei karere kuputuhi ina wātea koe, ā, e hiahia ana koe ki te takaro noa. Ka pai ēnei mēnā kua mahana kē te kōrero.
1. Āe, kati te whakaaro ki ahau!
Ki te rapu koe mo kuputuhi flirty Hei tīmata kōrero ki tētahi kōtiro, me whai i tēnei. Koinei tētahi o ngā tauira pai o te tīmatanga kōrero pai mā te karere kuputuhi. Ko te paku whakakatakata te huarahi pai ki te pupuri i te ngahau o te karere kuputuhi. Ka menemene ia, ā, ka kite ia i a koe he tāne e mōhio ana ki te mea kia kata te tangata. He kupu ātaahua, he kupu whakakatakata hoki e menemene ai tōna mata, ā, ka taea e koe te haere tonu i te kōrero mai i reira.
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2. Āe, i te mātakitaki i a Spiderman ka whakaaro ahau, mēnā ka taea e koe te whiwhi i tētahi mana nui, he aha tāu e hiahia ana?
E moemoeā ana te katoa me pēhea te āhua mēnā he toa rangatira rātou. Tērā pea kua whakaarohia e ia tēnei whakaaro whakamīharo. Koia te take he tīmatanga kōrero pai tēnei hei whakauru i tētahi kōtiro, hei whakamōhio atu hoki ki a ia.
3. Kēmu matapōkere Yo! Whakaahuahia koe i roto i ngā kupu e toru.
Kāore e kore, koinei tētahi o ngā ngā pātai pai rawa atu mō te whakaipoipoEhara i te mea ka āwhina tēnei i a kōrua kia mōhio tetahi ki tetahi, engari ka hoatu hoki he wāhi ki a koe ki te mahi wairangi me te whakamahi i tō whakaaro. Mena kei te whakaaro koe he aha te mea hei tuku karere ki tētahi kōtiro hei tīmata i tētahi kōrero hei whakakata i a ia, koinei tētahi ka taea e koe te whakawhirinaki.
4. Āe, i kite ahau i tēnei meme whakakatakata, ā, kāore i taea e au te ārai i te whakapuaki atu ki a koe
Kei te hiahia koe ki te tīmata kōrero ki te kōtiro e pai ana koe? Rukuhia ki te ao o ngā meme! Kōrerohia ō meme tino rorirori, ā, uru atu ki tētahi pakanga meme, me te whakautu tetahi ki tetahi me ngā meme rorirori.
5. Nā tēnei ahau i whakaaro ai ki a koe
Me whakaatu ki a ia kei te whakaaro koe ki a ia ahakoa kāore kōrua e kōrero ana. He kupu pai hoki tēnei mō te wā e hiahia ana koe ki te kōrero tonoa ia kia haere ki tētahi rā, ā, me whakaae ia nā te mea, i muri i tēnei karere kuputuhi, kua hemo kē ia ki a koe!
Ngā tuhinga hei tūhura i ngā hiahia tahi
He rawe ēnei tuhinga hei whakamōhio i a ia ki ōna hiahia, hei kimi hoki i ētahi huarahi e ōrite ai ō whakaaro.
1. I tino kata ahau ki tēnei ataata. Ki taku whakaaro me mātaki koe
I tēnei ao o ngā meme me ngā rīra, ko ngā ataata te huarahi māmā ki te tīmata kōrero me te mārama ki te wairua whakakatakata o tētahi ki tētahi. Engari kia tino ngahau, kia kaua e whakapataritari i tētahi ara. Ina mutu te kōrero, ina tata rānei te mutunga, ka taea e koe te tohatoha i tētahi meme, i tētahi ataata rorirori rānei hei whakahou i ngā mea.
2. He aha te momo puoro e pai ana ki a koe? He kupu tohutohu?
Ina pau ngā mihi, ā, kāore he mea hei kōrero māu i te wā e tuku karere ana, tīmatahia he kōrero whakahihiri mā te matapaki i ngā waiata e pai ana ki a koe. He huarahi pai tēnei hei kimi i tētahi huarahi hei hono atu, hei whakawhitiwhiti waiata mā ngā papaaho pēnei i a Spotify, Amazon Music rānei.
3. He kai reka koe? Me whai whakaaro pea ahau
Ki te mea ko koe te kai aroha, he mea nui tēnei pātai ki a koe. Mā te mōhio ki te hiranga o te kai ki a ia ka āwhina i a koe ki te whakatau mēnā ko ia te wahine tika. Ki te rite ōna whakaaro ki a koe mō te kai, he nui atu ngā mea hei kōrero mā kōrua, ā, e kore tēnei kōrero e mutu.
4. Nō reira, e hiahia ana ahau ki te haereere ki tētahi wāhi, he whakaaro anō?
He kaupapa whakahihiri te haereere, ā, he maha ngā wā ka puta he kōrero whakahihiri mō:
- Ngā wāhi tino pai
- Moemoea hararei
- Me ngā wheako e kore e warewaretia
Ehara i te mea ka huaki noa iho te kuaha ki ngā kōrero whakamere mā tēnei tuhinga, engari ka āwhina anō hoki i a koe ki te hura i ngā whai wāhitanga pea mō ngā mahere haere tahi me ngā mahi mōrearea ā muri ake nei.
5. Kua oti noa te pānui pukapuka. He kupu tohutohu?
Ka whakakotahi pai i ngā hiahia ōrite, ā, ka tono atu ki a ia kia whakapuaki i ōna whakaaro. Hei tāpiri, ka taea e ia te arahi ki ngā kōrero whakahihiri mō:
- Ngā pukapuka tino pai
- Kaitito
- me ngā reka tuhituhi
Ka āwhina i a koe ki te aromatawai i te momo te whanaungatanga hinengaro ka taea e koe te tumanako ki te whakapuaki i tēnei ā muri ake nei.
Ngā tīmatanga kōrero hōhonu
Ka tino whai hua ēnei tuhinga ina kua whakatūria he whakawhirinakitanga/hononga. Kāore mātou e tūtohu kia whakamahia ēnei ki tētahi kua tūtaki noa koe.
1. Nō reira, i kite ahau i tētahi rotarota whakamere nā Emily DIckison i tēnei rā. He aha ō whakaaro mō āna mahi?
He mahi tino pai tēnei kamata korero he maha ngā take. Ka whakaurua mai he kaupapa whakaoho whakaaro, ka tono atu ki a ia kia whakapuaki mai i ōna tirohanga, ā, ka taea e tēnei te arahi atu ki ngā kōrero whai tikanga.
2. Kia ora, me whakawhitiwhiti kōrero porangi tāua. Ko koe te tuatahi
He aha te mea hei tuku karere kuputuhi ki tētahi kōtiro hei tīmata kōrero kia kore ai ia e kaha ki te ātete i te whakautu? Kua tae ki te wā ki te haere ki te tāone mahara, ki te kōrero mō ētahi o ngā mea tino porangi kua mahia e koe. Koinei tētahi o ngā karere pai rawa atu hei tīmata kōrero ki tētahi kōtiro i roto i te karere kuputuhi, nā te mea ka āwhina tonu i a koe ki te kite i tōna taha mōrearea, me te kore e kitea he tino pokanoa.
3. Āe, he mea ngaro tāku hei whakapuaki, engari tuatahi, kōrero mai ki ahau i tētahi mea kāore anō kia kōrerotia e koe ki tētahi.
He mea ngaro pea tēnei, he mea tauhou, he mea whakakatakata, he mea whakama rānei. Ahakoa he aha, he mea pai hei tīmatanga kōrero māna, hei whakaoho i a ia ki te whakaaro me te whakapuaki i ngā mea kāore anō kia whakapuakina e ia ki tētahi atu i mua. Ki te whakatuwhera ia i ōna whakaaro ki a koe, he tohu pai tēnā.
4. Nā, he rā kino tōku, ka taea e koe te whakapuaki mai i tētahi waiata hei whakakatakata i tō kanohi?
He tīmatanga kōrero pai te pātai atu ki tētahi kōtiro mō te waiata e whakamārama ake ana i tōna rā.
- E whakaatu ana i te hiahia pono ki ōna kare ā-roto,
- Ka whakauru i tētahi kaupapa pai, whakahihiko hoki
- Ā, he whai wāhitanga anō hoki mō tētahi wheako tahi mā te puoro.
He huarahi māmā engari he huarahi whai hua hei hono atu i te taumata kare ā-roto, hei kimi tahi pea i tētahi waiata hou tino pai.
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Ngā tuhinga hei hono anō i muri i te āputa i te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero
1. Kei te wareware kē koe ki ahau?
Whakaara anō i tētahi kōrero i memeha haere nā te pukumahi o ngā mahi mā te aro atu ki te take. Ko tētahi o ngā karere pai hei tīmata kōrero ki tētahi kōtiro i muri i te wā o te wā whakarongo puku i te reo irirangi ko te whakaae ki te korenga o te whakapā atu, me te waihanga i tētahi whai wāhitanga hei tīmata anō i te wāhi i mutu ai koe.
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2. Kia ora, kua roa kē! He aha ngā mea hou o tō ao?
He tīmatanga kōrero pai tēnei nā te mea e whakaae ana ki te hapa o te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero engari kāore he whakama. E whakaatu ana:
- He hiahia pono ki tōna oranga
- Te whakaatu i a ia e manaaki ana koe
- Te mea kia whakaaro ia he mea nui ia
- Te waihanga i tētahi wāhi manaaki māna hei whakapuaki i ngā whanaketanga hou, me te tīmata ngāwari i te kōrero mai i te wāhi i mutu ai
3. Mārama mai, ka whakamātau ahau i te wāhi hūhi i tūtohutia mai e koe. He aha te mea me tono e au?
Ehara i te mea ko te kai anake te kī ki te ngākau o te tāne. Koia anō hoki te kī ki tētahi kōrerorero kuputuhi whakahihiri, ā, koinei tētahi o ngā tauira karere kuputuhi tuatahi pai māna. Ae, kāore e taea e koe te whakamahi i tēnei hei tīmata kōrerorero ki tētahi kōtiro i runga i te kuputuhi kāore koe i te mōhio engari he tīmatanga pai mēnā he pai tō kōrua whanaungatanga i mua engari kua memeha haere inaianei.
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4. He pātai tere: Āhea te wā pai ki te kōrero? I hiahia ahau ki te kōrero ki a koe mō tētahi mea
He tīmatanga kōrero pai tēnei mō ētahi take.
- Tuatahi, he mea tika, ā, e whakaatu ana i tō hiahia pono ki te whai wāhi atu ki a ia.
- Tuarua, ko te āhua o te hiahia ki te kōrero me te oati ki te kōrero mō tētahi mea motuhake, e kore e kore ka whakaoho i tōna hiahia.
- Ka waiho hoki he wāhi mōna ki te whiriwhiri i te wā e pai ana ki a ia, me te whakaute i tana kaupapa mahi, ina koa mēnā kua roa kōrua kāore anō kia kōrero.
He huarahi ātaahua, he huarahi whai hua hoki tēnei hei tīmata kōrero hei arahi atu ki ngā kōrero hōhonu me te hanga hononga.
5. I tūpono atu ahau ki tēnei tuhinga i tēnei rā, ā, ka hoki anō ahau ki tētahi o ā māua kōrero. He aha tō whakaaro mō tēnei tuhinga ināianei?
He tīmatanga kōrero pai tēnei nā te mea ka uru atu ki ngā maharatanga kua tohaina, ka waihanga i te wairua o te mahara ki ngā wā o mua. E whakaatu ana i te nui o tō whakaaro ki ō kōrero ki a ia kia maumahara ai koe ki ngā taipitopito. Ehara i te mea ka whakaoho anō tēnei tuhinga i te kōrero engari ka poipoi hoki i te wairua o te aroha hohonu. hononga kare ā-roto mā te hoki anō ki tētahi kaupapa i kitea e kōrua he mea whakamere.
Ngā Hapa hei Ārai i te Tuku Karere
Ko te tīmatanga o tētahi kōrero mā te tuhinga ka rite ki te hikoi i runga i tētahi taura angiangi; e hiahia ana koe ki te waihanga i te whakaaro tika, engari he ngāwari te paheke. Anei ētahi hapa noa e hiahia ana koe kia matara atu.
- Te tuku "Kia ora" noa iho rānei: Kua whakamahia pea e koe i mua, āe, he haumaru. Engari he mea ngāwari hoki te wareware. Ko te "kia ora" noa iho, kāore e hoatu he mea hei mahi māna, ā, i te nuinga o te wā ka warewarehia. Ki te hiahia koe ki tētahi whakautu, hoatu he take ki a ia hei whakautu.
- Te tuku karere tino whakawai, tino moepuku rānei i taua wā tonu: Ki te tere rawa te peke atu ki te wāhi whakawai, ka hoki kino mai pea. Ki te kore koe e whai wāhi atu ki taua momo whakamarie, ka rite koe ki te tere, ki te kore rānei e whakaute.
- Te pātai mutunga kore: Ae, he pai ngā pātai hei tīmatanga kōrero mō te tuku karere ki tētahi kōtiro. Engari ki te rite tō karere tuatahi ki te pātai, "Nō hea koe? He aha tāu mahi? He aha tāu kai tino pai?", ka hoha. Pātaihia tētahi mea whakaaro nui, ā, tukua kia puta noa te kōrero.
- Te tuku karere kuputuhi ina haurangi koe, ina kare ā-roto rānei: He mea whakamātau, engari kāore rawa e angitu. Tērā pea ka kōrero koe i tētahi mea kāore e taea te tango mai, he kino atu rānei, ka puta he āhua mangere. Taria kia mārama tō hinengaro i mua i te pēhi i te tuku.
- Te tiritiri nui i te tuhinga tuatahi: Kāore ia e hiahia kia mōhio ki tō kōrero mō tō oranga i te wā kotahi. He mea nui te kōrero ki a ia mō tō tamarikitanga, mō ō raruraru mahi, me tō whanaungatanga whakamutunga i roto i te karere kotahi. Kia māmā te tīmatanga.
- Te noho kino: Mā te amuamu mō tō rā, te whakapuaki rānei i ō raruraru ka taumaha te kōrero. Waiho mā muri ake nei, ina oti i a kōrua te hanga hononga. Me ātaahua te ahua o ngā karere kuputuhi tuatahi, kaua e ngenge.
Ngā Mea e Tika ana, Ngā Mea Kāore e Tika ana mō te Tuku Karere ki te Kōtiro
Ka taea e te tuku karere kuputuhi te whakatuwhera i te kuaha ki tētahi kōrero whai tikanga, te kati rānei i mua i te tīmatanga. He nui te whakawhirinaki ki te āhua o tō whakatutukitanga i te taurite i waenga i te whai wāhi me te whakaute. He māmā noa ngā kaupapa matua: kia māmā, kia whaiaro, kia ngāwari hoki te whakautu atu i ō karere kuputuhi, me te karo i ngā āhuatanga e whakaatu ana i a koe he pēhi, he mangere, he tinihanga rānei.
| hoki | Nga Tangata |
| Whakaarohia ko wai ia | Tukuna he kupu māmā noa iho, "Kia ora" rānei |
| Arataki ki tētahi mea whakamere | Tukuna tonutia ngā karere tino whakawai, tino moepuku rānei |
| Patai i nga paatai tuwhera | Pātaihia ngā pātai mutunga kore |
| Kia poto ō karere | Tukua he karere kuputuhi ina haurangi koe, ina kare ā-roto rānei |
| Kia manawanui i te wā e tatari ana mō ngā whakautu | Te tohatoha i te tuhinga tuatahi |
| Akohia te tango i tētahi tohu | Kia tino kino rawa |
FAQs
He poto, he motuhake te karere tuatahi, ā, he mea hei whakautu māna. He ngāwari rawa te wareware i te "kia ora" noa iho nā te mea kāore e whakaoho i te hiahia. Engari, whakahuatia tētahi mea e pā ana ki a ia, pērā i tētahi pou i tohaina e ia, i tētahi waiata i tūtohutia e ia, i tētahi mea rānei i kōrerohia e kōrua i mua. Mā tēnei momo kupu whakatuwhera e whakaatu te whakapau kaha, ā, ka meinga ia kia whakaaro kua kite koe i a ia.
Ae, engari ko te mea nui kia pono, kia whai whakaaro nui hoki. Kaua e aro noa ki te āhua o te tinana, engari me aro ki ngā mea iti pēnei i tana hiahia ki te puoro, te āhua o tana whakaahua i tētahi pukapuka, tōna wairua whakakatakata rānei. Hei tauira, ka taea e koe te kī, "He tino pai te rārangi waiata i tohaina e koe. He tino pai tō hiahia ki te puoro." He āhua whaiaro ake i te kī noa "he ātaahua koe." Mā te mihi kua whakaritea pai ka kitea ia, engari kāore e nui rawa te pēhanga ki te kōrero.
Ko te huarahi pai ki te pupuri i te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero kuputuhi ko te hanga i runga i ana mea e hoatu ana ki a koe. Ki te kōrero ia mō tētahi whakaaturanga, pātai atu he aha āna e pai ana ki taua whakaaturanga. Ki te kōrero ia mō tana mutunga wiki, me whai ake me te hiahia nui kaua e huri tere i ngā kaupapa. Āta karohia ngā pātai tere, ngā whakautu kupu kotahi rānei. Mā te ranunga maori o ngā pātai, ngā urupare, me ō whakaaro ake ka taurite ngā mea.
Tohutohu Matua
- Me rite te momo whakatuwheratanga ka tukuna e koe ki te taumata o te whanaungatanga. He hoa ia, he hoa aroha, he tangata rānei kua tūtaki noa koe ki te ipurangi? Kōwhiria kia rite ki tēnā.
- Kaua tō karere tuatahi e rite ki te taumaha hei whakautu. Ko ngā pātai poto, ngāwari, me te ngāwari te mea pai rawa atu nā te mea ka whakatuwhera i te kuaha me te kore e meinga ia kia tino whakaaro nui.
- Kāore he kupu makutu kotahi e whai hua ana i ngā wā katoa. Ko te mea nui ko te reo: he whakaute, he hiahia, he pono. Mā te whakaaro nui rawa ka ahua mārō koe, ā, ka rongo ia.
- Kaua e tuku karere kuputuhi i waenganui pō ki te kore koe e whai hononga pērā. He āhua noa ake te tuku karere kuputuhi i te ahiahi, i te ahiahi rānei i te wā tika.
- Ki te poto, ki te roa, ki te māhana rānei āna whakautu, whakarongo ki te tohutohu. Kāore e hiahiatia ana he karere kuputuhi whai muri. He nui te painga o te whakaute.
Thoughts Final
Ki tā mātou whakaaro, kāore koe e whakaaro ana, "He aha te mea hei tuku karere ki tētahi kōtiro hei tīmata kōrero?". Whakamahia ēnei tohutohu me ngā tauira mō te tīmata kōrero ki tētahi kōtiro hei akiaki i ō kōrero, ā, kāore koe e manukanuka ki te kore e pai. Kōwhiria ēnei me te whakaaro nui, ā, hangaia kia rite ki te mea kei te tuku karere koe ki tētahi kōtiro hou, ki tētahi rānei kua mōhio koe, ā, e hiahia ana koe ki te hono atu anō.
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