101 Ngā mihi ataahua mō ngā wāhine hei whakarewa i ō rātou ngākau

Ka tupu te tangata i runga i te whakamana. Ka homai he whakaaro haumaru ki a tātou, ā, ka pai hoki tō tātou noho tahi. Nō reira, ki te hiahia koe kia motuhake te kotiro i arohaina e koe, me mihi atu ki te wahine. 

Ko te raruraru, kāore i te maha ngā tāne e mōhio ana ki te toi o te mihi ki ngā wāhine, tae noa ki te whakapuaki i ō rātou kare ā-roto. Koinei te mea e kore ai e tutuki ngā hiahia, me te pōhēhē hoki mō ngā mea e hiahiatia ana e ngā wāhine. Engari, kei konei koe. Kei te ngana koe ki te whakaaro me pēhea te mea kia motuhake ia, ā, he tīmatanga whakamihi tēnā. Hei whakangāwari ake i tēnei haerenga māu, kei konei mātou me tā mātou rārangi o ngā mihi ataahua 101 mō tētahi wahine ka rewa ai tōna ngākau! 

He aha te mihi?

He kupu māmā engari he kupu kaha te mihi: he kupu pai e whakamihi ana i te mahi a tetahi. 

• 'ulungaanga
• ahua
• Ko te kaha
• Te aroaro rānei

Ko tētahi o ngā momo tino ngāwari o hononga kare ā-roto ka taea e tātou te tuku atu ki tētahi atu. Mā te mihi pono ka mea atu ki tētahi, "Kei te kite ahau i a koe, ā, e whakanuia ana e ahau taku e kite nei."

He aha te hiranga o ngā mihi

Ina mihi koe, ehara i te mea he atawhai noa iho koe. Kei te whakapakari koe i te whakaaro nui o te tangata. E ai ki te tohunga hinengaro pāpori a Tākuta Vanessa Bohns o Te Whare Wānanga o Cornell, he maha ngā tāngata e whakaiti ana i te pai o te whiwhinga mai o ā rātou mihi. Ina mangere tātou ki te mihi ki ētahi atu, me te wehi kei ahua tauhou, kei tinihanga rānei, ka ngaro i a tātou tētahi whai wāhitanga ngāwari ki te whakamārama i te rā o tētahi.

Ngā painga hinengaro o ngā mihi

He painga hinengaro, he painga kare ā-roto hoki ngā mihi. Ka whakaoho i te tukunga o te dopamine, te neurotransmitter "pai" e hono ana ki te hihiri me te harikoa. Te whiwhi kupu atawhai:

• Ka whakanui i te kiritau
• Ka whakapakari i te whakawhirinaki me te hononga
• Ā, ka poipoi i te wairua noho tahi

Engari kāore te pānga e mutu ki te kaiwhiwhi. Mā te tuku whakamoemiti pono ka harikoa ake te kaituku, ka hono atu hoki. 

He aha te whakaaro pai ki te mihi ki ngā wāhine? 

He maha ngā wā e hono ana te kupu 'whakamihi' ki te whakapehapeha. Ina whakaaro koe ki te mihi ki tētahi mō tōna tinana, kākahu, me ōna āhua kanohi, he pono tonu taua hononga. Heoi, he nui atu i tōna āhua noa iho tō wahine. Nō reira, ki te hiahia koe kia tino motuhake taua wahine motuhake i roto i tōna ao, kaua e whakaiti i aua mihi pono me Tuhinga o mua. 

Ki ngā tāne katoa kāore i te tino pai ki te whakapuaki i ō rātou kare ā-roto, ā, e whakaaro ana, "He aha ahau me whakapuaki ai i te nui o taku aroha me taku whakamoemiti ki taku hoa wahine? Kāore ianei tēnā i te mea kua oti kē?", anei ētahi take he mea nui ngā mihi ataahua ki te wahine mō te hauora o tō kōrua whanaungatanga: 

1. Ka whakapakari i tō hononga 

Ina kei roto koe i tētahi whanaungatanga, ina whai wāhi rānei koe ki tētahi wahine e whai tikanga nui ana ki a koe, he mea nui ngā mihi ki te whakapakari i te hononga, me te mea kia motuhake ia. Anei ngā mea ka puta ina tukuna e koe ēnei mihi ngākau nui: 

• E mārama ana ia ki te nui o tō whakaaro nui ki a ia, ā, ka whakahoki mai ia i tēnā
• Ka pai ake tōna āhua mōna anō, ā, ka marino hoki ia ina tata koe ki a ia

2. E tumanakohia ana: 

Engari, ko te hanganga pāpori, arā, he nui ake ngā mihi e riro ana i ngā wāhine i ngā tāne. Kua rarangahia ki roto i ā rātou tumanakohanga, ā, ki te kore koe e whakatutuki i tēnā, ka taea te whakamārama he rite ki te whakaata i te hohonutanga, i te pono rānei o ō kare ā-roto ki a ia.

Pouaka Māwhero: E ai ki tētahi ako, e 67.7% o ngā mihi e hoatu ana e ngā wāhine, ā, e 74.3% e whiwhi ana, ko te tikanga kua taunga kē rātou ki te kīia o ngā kupu whakamoemiti me te maioha.

3. Ka whakapai ake i te piri 

I te nuinga o te wā, ko te whakaaro kei muri i tētahi mihi ataahua ki tana wahine, ki tana hoa wahine rānei, he mea nui ake i te mea whakamanatanga aronganui ka whiwhi te wahine i tēnei. I roto i tōna ngākau, e mōhio ana ia he ātaahua ia, he mātau, me ērā atu mea. Engari ina puta mai aua kupu anō i a koe i roto i te ahua o ngā mihi whakaaro nui, ka whakawhanakehia e ia he aroha nui ki a koe.

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Me pēhea te tuku mihi

Ehara i te mea ko tāu e kōrero ana anake te mea e mihi ana, engari ko te āhua o tāu kōrero. Mā te mihi tika, me te whakaaro nui, ka taea te whakapakari i te whakawhirinaki, te hanga hononga piripono, me te whakaharikoa i te rā o te tangata. Anei me pēhea te mahi pai.

1. Whakawhaiarotia

Ka tere te memeha o ngā kupu whakamihi, engari ka mau tonu ngā mihi whaiaro. Kaua e kī, "He mīharo koe," arotahi ki tētahi mea motuhake i mahia e ia, ki tētahi āhuatanga rānei i tino kitea e koe. Mā te whakawhaiaro ka kitea kua aro atu koe, ā, mā taua aro ka whai tikanga te mihi.

2. Kia pono, kaua e whakanui rawa

Ko te pono te tūāpapa o tētahi mihi nui. Kaua e whakapatipati rawa; he maha ngā wā ka rite ki te whakaharatau. Kōrerohia pērā i tāu kōrero ki tētahi hoa tata, me te mahana me te pono. Ina whakaatahia e ō kupu te pono, ka hangaia. haumaru aronganui me te hononga.

3. Kia tupato ki te wā me te horopaki

He maha ngā wā ka ahua piripono ake te mihi tūmataiti, engari mā te mihi tūmatanui ka pai ake te ahua o te tangata i mua i te aroaro o te iwi; engari mēnā he tika. Kōwhiria te wā tika mōu.

• Tika Tangata: He pai mō te whakamoemiti whaiaro, mō te whakamoemiti kare ā-roto rānei. Hei tauira, "E tino mihi ana ahau ki te āhua o tō whakahaere i taua āhuatanga i mua ake nei."
• Panui: He pai rawa atu mō ngā mahi ngaio, mō ngā huihuinga rōpū rānei. Hei tauira, "He tino pai te whakaritenga me te maia o tāu whakaaturanga."

4. He mea nui te reo me te reo tinana

koutou reo tinana kī atu ki a ia mēnā he pono tāu e kōrero nei. Kaua e hohoro te kōrero, kaua hoki e mihi atu i a koe e whakararuraru ana; mā te aroaro ka pono ake. Hei whakanui i ō kupu, whakamahia:

• He reo pono
• Ataata mārie
• Me te tū tuwhera

5. Āta karohia ngā mahanga noa

Ahakoa ngā whakaaro pai, ka hē te hua mēnā kāore i te tika te whakapuakitanga. Anei ngā mea hei karo, me pēhea hoki te kī pai ake:

Hapa	He aha i hoki whakamuri ai	He Maamaa Pai Atu
"He kikokore ake tō āhua i tēnei rā."	Arotahi ana ki te tinana, ki te whakataurite rānei; ka āhua pokanoa pea.	"He māia tō āhua, he hihiko hoki."
"Kāore koe i rite ki ētahi atu wāhine."	He ahua whakahawea ki ētahi atu wāhine.	"He tino ahurei tō huarahi ki te whakapuaki i a koe anō."
"He tino ataahua rawa koe hei takakau."	Ka whakaiti i te uara o te āhua me te tūnga o te whanaungatanga.	"Ka waimarie te tangata ki te whiwhi i tō atawhai me tō mātauranga."
"He tino tika koe."	Kāore i te tūturu, ā, he koretake hoki.	"E tino mihi ana ahau ki tō taurite me tō whakaaro nui."
"He ātaahua tonu tō āhua mō tō pakeke."	Mā te tohu tau ka rite te ahua ki te ringa whakamuri.	"He tino kāhua tawhito tōu."

Ngā mihi nui e 10 mō ngā wāhine

Ina mihi pono koe ki tētahi wahine, ehara i te mea ko te whakamoemiti anake tāu e mahi ai; engari ka meinga ia e koe kia kite, kia whakaute, kia maioha hoki mō tōna āhua. Anei ngā mihi tekau e kore e mutu te whai pānga:

• "Ka whakamarie koe i te tangata mā te noho tahi me rātou"
• "He kaha marino tōu e whakahihiko ana i te hunga katoa e tata ana ki a koe"
• "E mihi ana ahau ki tō ngākau nui ki tāu mahi"
• "He ngāwari noa iho tō atawhai; he pono te āhua"
• "Ka kawea mai e koe te kaha pai ki roto i ia wāhi e tomo ana koe"
• "He tino whakahauora te āhua o tō whakaaro ki ngā mea"
• "Kei a koe tēnei taurite onge o te māia me te ngākau mahaki."
• "He tino pai ki ahau te āhua o tō whakaaro kia whai mana ētahi atu"
• "Ka kitea tō marino ahakoa ngā uauatanga"
• "Ka meinga e koe ngā wā noa kia motuhake"

Tohutohu Bono: Ko ngā mihi tino pai mōna he mea motuhake, he pono, he mea hāngai ki ngā kare ā-roto. Engari i te whakahua anō i ngā mihi whānui, tirohia te āhua o ōna kare ā-roto i ētahi atu, te āhua rānei e motuhake ai ia. Koinei te mea e huri ai te tangata rārangi kohi hei maharatanga pumau.

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101 Ngā mihi ataahua mō ngā wāhine ka rewa ai ō rātou ngākau

Nā te mea kua whakanuia e tātou te hiranga o te tuku mihi ki ngā wāhine, ko te pātai nui e whai ake nei ko tēnei: ​​He aha ngā mihi pai rawa atu mā ngā wāhine kia kitea ai rātou, kia arohaina ai hoki? He uaua pea te mārama ki tēnei, inā koa mēnā koinei tētahi o ngā mea hou o te ao e hiahia ana koe ki te whakamātau.

Ko ngā mihi aroha ki ngā wāhine te mea tino whai pānga. Engari ko te whakaaro nui me te pono he kupu whānui, ā, he maha ngā huarahi hei whakamārama. Hei āwhina i a koe ki te whakawhiti i ēnei wai, ka tukuna atu e mātou he rārangi o ngā mihi aroha 101 ki ngā wāhine hei whakapōrearea i a rātou.

Ngā mihi mō tōna ataahua

Kua pau ngā kupu hei whakanui i te āhua o te kōtiro? Kua tae mai koe ki te wāhi tika. Nā te pēhanga pāpori, he mea nui te āhua o te wahine ki tōna tuakiri. Nō reira, kaua e whakaaro he papaku rawa te whakanui i tōna ataahua, kaua hoki e kōrero ki a ia me pēhea ia e whakakorikori ai i tō ngākau. Whakapono mai, e kore ia e whakama. Engari, ka nui ake tōna māia ki tōna kiri, ā, ka pai ake ia ki a koe i tērā o inanahi. Anei ētahi mihi ataahua mō te hoa wahine hei whakaaweawe māu:

1. Āe! He tino mīharo tō āhua.

2. Kāore e taea e au te whakatau ko tēhea o āu tini ngā āhuatanga ā-tinana ātaahua Ko te mea tino pai ki ahau. 

3. Ko te kitenga i tō mata ataahua te mea tino pai o tōku rā. He mea whakamiharo koe!

4. He pono koe? Kei te kanapa koe. 

5. He tangata tino ataahua koe, i roto, i waho hoki. Āe, me i kite mai ētahi atu i a koe i ōku kanohi.

6. He tino ataahua tōu. E miharo ana ahau me pēhea koe i tino pono ai! 

7. Kāore e taea e au te kite i tētahi atu, te rongo rānei i tētahi reo ina noho tahi tāua, nā te mea ko tō mata ataahua te mea tino pai ki ahau kia titiro atu, ā, ko tō kata te oro tino pai ki ahau.

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8. He tino hōhonu, he tino ataahua hoki ō kanohi. Ka taea e au te titiro ki roto i te rā roa. 

9. I taku kitenga tuatahi i a koe, ka mea ahau ki a au anō, "He rite ia ki tētahi anahera." 

10. Āe, kati tō āhua ātaahua i ngā wā katoa? Māu ahau e hiahia ki te mahi i ngā mea kāore e taea e au te whakapuaki.

11. He tino atua tōu mata. 

12. Kāore e taea e au te tango atu i ōku kanohi i a koe. He tino ataahua koe.

13. Me pēhea te kukume i tētahi kotiro? Kōrero atu ki a ia: Kua waiho e tō ataata motuhake he tohu pumau ki tōku ngākau. 

14. Kāore e hiahiatia he pūkenga motuhake hei mihi ki tētahi wahine mēnā he rite tōna ataahua ki a koe.

15. Ko tāku e hiahia ana i ēnei rā ko te noho ki tō aroaro, me te miharo ki tō tino ataahua.

16. I ngā wā katoa e pōuri ana ahau, ka titiro ahau ki ō whakaahua. Ko tō mata ātaahua te mea e whakaohooho tonu ana i tōku wairua.

17. Kāore au i te whakaaro ka taea e koe te pāngia e te makawe kino i tētahi rā. Kāore au e whakaaro he mea kino kei roto i a koe. He tino parakore koe!

18. He tino ataahua koe, he māia hoki; nōu te mana o ngā rūma katoa e tomo atu ana koe. 

19. E hine, he tino ātaahua tō āhua i tēnei rā, ā, kua ngoikore haere ōku turi.

20. Ko te mea whakamutunga e hiahiatia ana e au ko te hoatu i tētahi atu tāne he whai wāhi ki te toa i tō ngākau, me te ngaro atu i tētahi wahine ataahua pērā i a koe. Nō reira, ka noho koe hei hoa wahine māku??

Me pēhea te whakanui i tētahi wahine kaha

E mōhio ana koe ki tā rātou e kī nei, ko te ataahua he mea hōhonu noa iho. Ko te ataahua, te huatau, me te kaha ngā mea e hanga ana i tō wahine hei tangata. Mena kua hinga ia i ngā āhuatanga, ā, kua puta hei toa, ki te kore ia e tuku i te pōrearea o te ao kia pakaru tōna wairua, ki te hinga ia, kia tū ake, kia tīmata anō, ko tōna kaha te mea e tika ana kia whakanuia. Ko te mihi tino ataahua mō te kōtiro ko te mea e whakamoemiti ana ki ēnei āhuatanga e kore e kitea e te nuinga o te tangata. Anei ētahi huarahi hei mihi ki tētahi wahine kaha, māia. Ahakoa kei te hiahia koe ki te mihi ki tētahi wahine pakeke, he wahine rangatira, whiriwhiria tāu e hiahia ana:

21. He tino pai ki ahau te āhua o tō kawe i a koe me te ataahua me te mana. Ko tētahi tēnei o ōu āhuatanga whakamiharo. 

22. Kāore au e mōhio me pēhea koe i tū pakari ai i muri i ngā mea katoa kua pā ki a koe! 

23. Mā te āhua o tō manaaki i te katoa e karapoti ana i a koe, me te ngana ki te whai pānga pai mā roto i tō mahi uaua, kāore au i te ruarua ka noho koe hei kaiārahi nui i tētahi rā.

24. E mōhio ana ahau ki te aha he wahine mahi kaha nā te mea i whai honore ahau ki te mōhio ki a koe. 

25. Ko ngā wero kua wikitoria e koe ko tō pukupuku nui rawa atu. 

26. Ko koe te tangata tino manawanui kua tūtaki ahau. Ina hiahia te ao ki te tumanako me te maia, ko ngā tāngata pēnei i a koe e tū hei tauira.

27. O ngā mea maha e whakanuia ana e au mōu, ko tō whakaaro nui ki a koe anō tētahi mea hei ako māu.

28. Ko tō kaha te āhuatanga tino ataahua mōu, ā, e kore rawa ahau e mutu te mihi ki a koe mō tēnā. 

29. I ngā wā katoa e ahua pakaru ana tōku ao, e mōhio tonu ana ahau he ara pai kei mua. Ā, ko koe tēnā, e taku e aroha nei. Kei reira tonu koe hei hiki i ahau.

30. He tino whakamiharo te āhua o tō mahi kaha ki te whakatutuki i te putanga pai rawa atu o koe. Kāore koe e mōhio he tauira pai koe mā ētahi atu wāhine rangatahi e karapoti ana i a koe.

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31. He mea nui kia mōhio ki tētahi wahine māia, kaha hoki pērā i a koe. He honore nui ki ahau te kī atu ko koe taku hoa rangatira.

32. Ia rā, ka titiro atu ahau ki a koe, ka whakaaro, he aha rā te mea kāore e taea e koe? 

33. He tino pai koe ki te whakarongo. Kotahi te kōrero ki a koe, kua ngaro katoa ōku manukanuka.

34. He tino pai ō tikanga, ā, he tino pai hoki tō mahi. Nō reira, he mea miharo te aroha o te katoa ki a koe i tō mahi.

35. Me pēhea e noho marino ai koe i roto i ēnei āhuatanga uaua katoa? Me tū te ringa o te tangata ki te whakanui i tō kaha o roto.

36. Ko tōu māia te mea e whakatenatena ana i ahau kia pai ake i ia rā, i ia rā. E hiahia ana te ao ki ētahi atu ngā wāhine uara nui rite koe.

37. He māmā ake te āhua o tōku ao nā tō aroaro noa iho. Ko koe te pou kaha e pupuri ana i ahau me tō tāua whanaungatanga.

38. He mea whakamiharo te mahi a tō hinengaro, me te ngana tonu ki te whakapai ake i tēnei ao.

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39. Etita hono o tētahi maheni ahua rongonui! Āe! Ngā mihi nui ki a koe, e te ipo. Nā tō āhua kakahu huatau whakaharahara, e mōhio ana ahau ka haere koe ki ngā wāhi nunui atu i tēnei.

40. E tika ana kia whiwhi koe i ngā mea katoa o tēnei ao nā te toa o tō tātari i te ao.

Ngā mihi whakakatakata mō te wahine

Nā, ko te wāhanga whakamere tēnei! He wāhanga nui o te toi o te whakaipoipo ngā mihi whakahihi. Ahakoa kei te hiahia koe ki te wikitoria i tētahi kōtiro e kukume ana i ōu ngākau, ki te pupuri rānei i te aroha i roto i tō whanaungatanga, ka tino pāngia koe e ēnei mihi whakaipoipo. He tohutohu poto, kaua e whakaipoipo i a koe anō engari kia tino kore koe e takahi i ōna rohe me ngā kupu whakaute, ngā mihi whakakatakata rānei kāore pea e kata ki a ia.

41. Kotahi noa te titiro atu ki a koe kua nui hei whakapōrangi i ahau.

42. He tauira o ngā mea reka ka taea e koe te kōrero i runga i te tuhingaKa oho ake tōku ngākau i a koe i ia wā ka tūtaki tāua.

43. He tino wera taua kākahu! Kāore e taea te tango i ōku kanohi i a koe. 

44. He aha koe kāore anō kia noho tahi me ahau? Mā ​​tō wairua atamai me tō ataahua, me tōku aroha ki a koe, ka noho tāua hei tokorua whakamiharo.

45. He tangata mātau, he kaha te hiahia moepuku, nāu ahau i hiahia ai ki a koe i ia rā, i ia rā.

46. ​​Kāore he mea mōu kāore e whakahihiri i ahau. 

47. He ranunga tino pai koe o te ātaahua me te ātaahua. E hine, kāore e taea e au te makona i a koe.

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48. Ae, he mea utu nui te ataahua o roto. Engari kāore e taea e au te wareware ki te tino ataahua o tō āhua i roto i taua koti whitiki inapo.

49. Ko ō ringaringa te wāhi tino pai ki ahau. Ko koe te hoa awhi pai rawa atu ka taea e te tangata te whiwhi.

50. Ia wā ka kite ahau i ō kanohi ataahua e kanapa ana, ka mōhio ahau he tino pai tōku hiahia ki ngā wāhine.

51. Nō reira, e hiahia ana koe ki taku āwhina kia puta ai he huringa pai ki tō ao? Ko te mea tuatahi e hiahia ana ahau ki te whakarerekē ko tō tūnga whanaungatanga.

51. Tēnā koa, me kōrero tāua mō tō ātaahua? 

53. He tino mīharo koe, kāore he huarahi pai ake hei whakapau i tōku ao i te whakapuaki atu ki a koe. 

54. Mā tō reo ahau e haurangi. Me te mea nei he rangi waiata ataahua e ringihia ana ki roto i ōku taringa.

55. He mea tika kia tatarihia mō te wa katoa te rere o ō makawe me te mea he awa koura, e rere ana i runga i tōku mata me te manawa o te hau.

56. He reo aroha whakaaro nui te hoatu koha, ae, engari ka whiriwhiria e au te wā kounga ki a koe i tētahi atu rā.

57. Te takaro me ngā kanohi Koinei taku kēmu i te nuinga o te wā, engari ka nui ake te whakamere ina he tino ataahua ngā kanohi o te wahine e noho ana i tōku taha.

59. He ātaahua tonu tō āhua, he kaupapa huna rānei kei te haere i tēnei rā hei patu i ngā tāne katoa i konei?

58. Ahakoa i roto i te papakupu, kāore e ranea ngā kupu hei whakanui i te āhua o te kōtiro ina he ātaahua ia pērā i a koe.

60. Kia ara ake, kia moe i roto i ō ringaringa! Āe, he huarahi pai tēnei hei tīmatanga me te whakamutu i taku rā.

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Ngā mihi reka mō te wahine

Ko ngā mihi reka ngā mea e mahana ai, e māhorahora ai te ngākau o tō wahine. Tērā pea he kōrero ēnei mō tōna ataahua, mō tōna āhua rānei, engari me whai pānga makutu ngā kupu e whiriwhiria e koe. He uaua rawa te tangi? Whakapono mai ki a mātou, ehara. Ka taea e mātou te whakaatu i tēnā mā roto i ēnei. ngā mea ataahua hei kōrero ki tō hoa wahine (he aroha rānei) e tino rewa ai tōna ngākau.

61. He tino huatau te āhua o tō kawe i a koe anō. 

62. Ko koe taku mea whakaharikoa. He tino ngahau te noho tahi me koe. Kāore au e hiahia kia mutu te pō!

63. Ka tino pai ake tōku ao mā te noho noa ki roto. 

64. Nā te mea kua tūtaki ahau ki a koe, kua aroha hoki ki tō ngākau atawhai me ngā mea iti katoa e pā ana ki a koe, kāore he hokinga whakamuri. Kāore e taea e au te whakaaro ki te ora me te kore koe.

65. Te ngā mea iti e mahia ana e koe koinā te mea e tino motuhake ai koe, e tino reka ai hoki. 

66. Kāore au e hiahia ki te whakaaroaro rua ki te whai wā ki te kite i a koe.

67. Tokohia ngā tāngata ka tūtaki tātou ki a rātou he tino ataahua, ā, ka taea hoki e rātou te kata nui i a koe i te wā kotahi? Ko tō wairua whakakatakata te mea tino pai ki ahau mōu.

67. Ko koe te tauira o te aroha. He maha ngā wā reka kua pā mai ki ahau nāu. Ngā mihi nui ki a koe mō te ruirui mai i tō aroha ki ahau i ia rā, i ia rā.

68. Ka nui ake tōku ora i a koe! Kāore he wā hoha ina noho tahi tāua.

69. I ētahi wā ka whakaaro ahau me pēhea rā ahau i kite ai i tētahi wairua ataahua pērā i a koe. Ko ahau te tangata tino waimarie o te ao, kāore rānei!

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70. E hiahia ana ahau ki te aroha ki a koe mō te toenga o tōku ao. He tino paparua ō āhuatanga whakamiharo, ā, ka roa te wā e kitea ai koe e au.

71. He kaha tōu ki te mea kia arohaina te hunga katoa e karapoti ana i a koe. O ngā mea katoa i kukume mai ai ahau ki a koe, ko tēnei te mea kei runga rawa i te rārangi.

72. Kei te ngaro koe i ahau i ia wā e wehe ana tāua; he nui tō pānga ki ahau.

73. Ko koe te tangata tino pai rawa atu kua mōhiotia e au. 

74. He mea whakamiharo te āhua o tō hopu i te aro o te katoa, ahakoa i ngā huihuinga noa, nā ō kupu atawhai, tō ataahua taiao, me tō āhua kakahu ataahua. He pai ki ahau te āhua o tō kawe i a koe anō.

75. Te whakapau moni wā kounga Ko te noho tahi me koe taku mahi tino pai. He tino pai koe ki te whakarongo.

76. E te aroha, ko koe te wāhanga ngaro o tōku ao. Nāu ahau i whakaoti.

77. He rerekē te aroha ki tētahi kōtiro e rite ana ō rātou kare ā-roto. Engari he waimarie ahau ki te kimi i tētahi hoa pai i roto i taku hoa rangatira, ā, kāore he mea hei patu i tēnā.

78. He tino āngere tō aura. E hiahia ana ahau kia piri tonu koe ki ahau ake tonu atu. 

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79. He uaua ki te kimi i te hunga pono i ēnei rā hei whakapuaki i ō rātou whakaaro. Nāu ahau i whakamarie kia taea ai e au te noho ngoikore me te whakapuaki i ōku kare ā-roto hohonu.

80. Ka puta mai i a koe te pai o roto i ahau. Ka pai ake taku noho tahi me koe; koia anake te take e arohaina ai koe e au.

Whakamoemititia tana ataata ataahua

Ko te mihi tino ataahua ki ngā kōtiro ko te wā e whakanuia ana e koe tā rātou ataata ataahua. Koinei te whakapaipai pai rawa atu ka taea e te wahine te whakapaipai, tika? Ki te pai koe ki te mātakitaki i a ia e menemene ana, me kī atu ki a ia te ataahua o tana āhua. Anei ētahi huarahi auaha hei mihi ki tana ataata ataahua: 

81. Whakapono mai ki ahau, ka mea atu ahau he rau atu anō ngā katakata whakakatakata ki te mea koinā te mea e tika ana hei kite i tō ataata mahana ngākau.

82. Ka taea e au te tito rotarota mō tō ataata. 

83. Kāore he mea o tēnei ao e rite ana ki te ataahua o tō ataata.

84. He nui noa atu tō ataata kanapa hei whakamārama ake i te rā o tētahi.

85. Ina menemene koe, ka mutu te wā mō tētahi hēkona.

86. Ka taea e au te whakapau i ngā rā ki te titiro matatau ki aua ngutu cherry me tō ataata miriona tāra.

87. He tino hopuhopu tō ataata. He mana tōna ki te kawe mai i te ataata ki te mata o te tangata i te rangi kapua.

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88. Kāore he huarahi pai ake hei tīmata i tōku rā i te titiro atu ki tō mata ataata.

89. Harikoa rawa atu ahau ki te kite i a koe e harikoa ana.

90. E mōhio ana koe ki ō āhua tino pai e toru? Ko tō ataata, ko tō ataata, me tō ataata!

91. Ina menemene koe, ka mārama ngā mea katoa. 

92. Ka tahaetia tōku ngākau e tō ataata. 

93. Mā tō ataata ahau e whakamārama, ā, e homai he take ki ahau kia ara ake i ia rā.

94. Ka taea e au te mahi i tetahi mea kia ite koe motuhake me te harikoa. Ahakoa he aha te mea hei utu mō taua ataata reka!

95. Mā tō ataata ahau e whakamahara ki te mano putiputi e puāwai tahi ana.

96. Kua tūtaki ahau ki ētahi atu wāhine i mua i a koe, engari kāore anō kia kite i tētahi he ataata whakahauora pēnei i mua. 

97. Ko tō ataata te rongoā pai rawa atu mō te wairua pouri. Ka taea e ia te huri i tētahi rā kino hei rā paki, hei rā kanapa i roto i ngā hēkona!

98. Ko wai e kī ana he wahine koa He pakiwaitara? Kua tūtaki ahau ki a ia, kua aroha ki a ia, ā, ka whakarite ahau kia kore rawa taua ataata ataahua e memeha.

99. Kāore e taea e au te noho mō tētahi rā me te kore e kite i taua mata ataahua. Mā tō ataata ahau e ora ai.

100. Kua kōrerotia atu e tetahi ki a koe tō ataahua tino nui ina ataata koe? 

101. Ko tō ataata te mea e hiahiatia ana e te ao. Kaua rawa e tukua tetahi mea kia aukati i a koe ki te ataata ake i ia rā.

Ngā mihi nui puta noa i ngā ahurea: He aha te hiranga o te horopaki

Kāore ngā mihi e puta whānuitia ana. Ko te mea e pai ana ki tētahi ahurea, tera pea e ahua whakarihariha, e kore rānei e tika ki tētahi atu. Ko te tikanga o te mihi e whakawhirinaki ana ki:

• Tikanga ahurea
• Nga momo korero
• Ā, ko ngā mea e tino whakanuia ana e te tangata

I roto i ngā ahurea o te Hauāuru, he maha ngā mihi e aro ana ki te takitahi me te whakapono ki a koe anō; ka whakanuia ngā āhuatanga pēnei i te maia, te pūkenga, te angitu rānei. Ko te kī "He tino ataahua koe i roto i taua kākahu" me te "He tino kaiārahi tūturu koe" e kiia ana he mihi tuwhera, ā, he onge te hē o te whakamārama.

I roto i ngā ahurea Āhia, he nui ake te taumaha o te ngākau mahaki me te ngāwari. I ētahi wā ka whakamā te whakamoemiti tika rawa atu i te tangata. He maha ngā wā ka nui ake ngā mihi i konei:

• Taihoa
• He whakaaro
• Ā, e ahu mai ana i te uara

Hei tauira:

• "He tini ngā kawenga e taea ana e koe te whakahaere me te marino nui"
• "Ka kitea tō atawhai i roto i ngā mea katoa e mahia ana e koe"
• "Ko te ara e koe taurite te mahi me te whānau he mea whakamiharo rawa atu"
• "Ka kawea mai e koe te rangimārie ki ngā wāhi katoa e haere ana koe"

FAQs

Thoughts Final

Ahakoa kei te hiahia koe ki te tuku mihi whakakatakata ki tō hoa wahine, ki te mihi rānei ki tētahi wahine pakeke e arohaina ana e koe, e whakautehia ana e koe, kia maumahara tonu ki ōna kare ā-roto me ōna rohe. Heoi anō, ko te tuku mihi whai tikanga he huarahi kaha ki te whakaatu i te nui o tōna hiranga ki a koe. Nō reira, awhi mai, whakarērea ō āwangawanga, ka haere tonu ki te kī atu ki tō wahine he tino ataahua, he tino mīharo ia.

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Ki te hiahia koe ki te pānui i te tuhinga i roto i ētahi atu reo, pāwhiritia ki konei hei tūhura i ngā tuhinga e tukuna ana i roto i Kariki.

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