Kei te maumahara koe ki tō aroha tuatahi? I te wā kura tuarua pea. Ka hikoi rātou ki roto i te akomanga. Ka piki te wera o ō paparinga, ā, ka ngana koe kia kaua e whero ō kanohi. Ka mea mai rātou "Kia ora" ā, ka pātai atu koe "Kia ora" me te kī atu ki a koe anō "kia pai, kia pai." Kāore rawa koe e whakaaro ki ngā tohu e pai ana tō aroha ki a koe.
Kua tawhiti kē tātou katoa i ngā rā o mua, engari he rite tonu te wheako o te aroha ki tētahi hoa mahi. Tērā pea he tangata koe e aroha ana ki tētahi hoa mahi, he tangata rānei e aroha ana ki tō hoa noho ataahua. Kei konei ahau hei whakaako i a koe mō ngā tohu pono e 27 e aroha ana tō hoa ki a koe, ā, kaua e tukua kia waiho hei kōrero whakama anō hei kōrero i tētahi pāti.
Ki te ako koe i te toi me te pūtaiao o te hopu i ēnei tohu kaha, ka whiwhi koe i te whakautu ki te pātai e whakararuraru ana i tō hinengaro: "Me pēhea te mōhio mēnā kei te pai taku ipo ki ahau me te kore e kōrero ki a rātou mō taua mea?"
27 Ngā Tohu e Pai Ana Ki A Koe - Engari He Māmā
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Kāore te katoa e whai māia ana ki a John Cusack i roto i te waiata Say Anything ina whakapuaki ia i ōna kare ā-roto aroha mā te whakatangi i tētahi jukebox i waho o te matapihi o Ione Skye. Inaa, e iwa i roto i te tekau, e pai ana te tangata ki te pupuri i ō rātou kare ā-roto kia mārire. E rua ngā take kei muri i tēnei: Tuatahi, kāore rātou i te mōhio mēnā ka whakahokia mai ō rātou kare ā-roto e tā rātou e aroha nei. Tuarua, kāore rātou e hiahia ki te whakauru i te marea whānui ki ā rātou mahi tūmataiti.
Ka uaua ake te mōhio ki ngā kare ā-roto hohonu o te tangata mēnā he mā, he tangata huna rānei. Ehara i te mea ngāwari. Engari mā te aro nui ki ngā taipitopito me te manawanui nui ka hua mai ngā hua ina rapu koe i ngā tohu pai e whakaatu ana i te rite o ngā kare ā-roto o tō hoa aroha.
Engari ko te moemoeā mō te heke mai me tō hoa aroha, me mārama koe mēnā kei te pirangi rātou ki a koe, kāore rānei. Tērā pea he mea nui tēnei māramatanga mō tō pumau hinengaro me tō hauora kare ā-roto. Whakawhetai ki te Atua mō ēnei tohu e 27 e pai ana tō hoa aroha ki a koe, tika? Haere. Pānuihia tēnei tuhinga, ā, whakamutua ō raruraru.
Kua kite koe mēnā ka mahara noa tō hoa aroha ki ngā kōrero iti mō tō oranga? Ahakoa ngā mea i kōrerotia e koe i te taha o te tākuta niho, ka mau tonu ki roto i tōna mahara me te tino tika. Koinei tētahi o ngā tohu pai rawa atu e whakaatu ana ko koe anō hoki te hoa aroha o tō hoa aroha, nā te mea e tohu ana kei te aro nui rātou ki tō oranga. Ā, ki te kite koe i a rātou e kōrero ana i ngā mea kāore rātou e mōhio ana, ka taea e koe te koa ki te mea kua tirohia e rātou ō pāpāho pāpori, kua kōrero noa rānei rātou mōu me tētahi atu.
2. Kei te hiahia tonu rātou ki te kite i a koe
Ina aroha tātou ki tētahi, ka tino hiahia tātou ki te whakapau wā ki a ia. Ina koa ko te wā mokemoke. Ki te kitea ngā kare ā-roto o tō hoa aroha mā te kanapa o ōna kanohi i te whakaaro ka noho tahi tāua, he painga nui tēnei. Ko te hiahia ki te whakapau wā ki a koe, ahakoa he poto noa iho, he tohu tēnei i te aroha ki a koe. E hiahia ana rāua, e harikoa ana hoki ki te noho tahi me koe. He tohu tēnei o te hiahia tahi ? Ki taku whakaaro.
3. He tino aro mai tō hoa aroha ki ō waea me ō karere kuputuhi
He maha ā tātou kōrero, kāore he tangata e tino pukumahi rawa; ko ngā mea nui te mea nui. Ā, koinei te mea nui mōu. Ki te hoki mai tō hoa aroha ki a koe i ia wā ka whakapā atu koe ki a ia, me whakaaro he tohu tēnā. Me whai wāhi motuhake koe i roto i tōna ao. Inaianei, e rua ngā huarahi hei whakatau i te urupare.
Ko te tuatahi ko te tere o ngā whakautu. Ka tukuna e koe he karere kuputuhi, ā, ka whakautua tonutia mai e rātou (tērā pea i roto i te rima meneti). Me te mea nei kei te tatari rātou kia tukuna atu e koe he karere kuputuhi.
te tuarua te tikanga tuku karere a tetahi e hiahia ana ki a koe ko tā rātou whakarite wā ki te whakautu ahakoa pēhea. Kī tonu tā rātou maramataka i te mahi engari ka hoki atu rātou ki a koe i te wā e wātea ana rātou
I ngā āhuatanga e rua, ka ōrite te kaha o tā rātou tuhinga ki tōu. Ko te aro tere tētahi o ngā huarahi pono hei mōhio mēnā kei te pai mai tētahi ki a koe.
4. E hiahia ana rātou ki te whakapuaki i ngā taipitopito whaiaro
Ki te tangata whakama, he tohu nui te whakapuaki i ngā kōrero mō tōna ao. Ka whai wā rātou ki te whakatuwhera i ō rātou whakaaro ki te tangata. Mena ko koe tētahi o te hunga torutoru kua tukua e rātou kia uru mai, ko te tikanga kua whiwhi koe i tō rātou whakawhirinaki. Ina kaha ake tō hoa aroha ki te kōrero mō tōna rā, mō ngā raruraru katoa e pāngia ana e rātou, mō ngā whakatutukitanga iti rānei, ka taea e koe te whakaaro he whanaketanga tēnei o tō āhua whanaungatanga. Ka puta te whakaipoipo i tētahi tangata whakama i roto i ngā wāhanga, ā, kua oti pea i a koe te tuatahi.
5. Ka kite koe i te kukume i roto i ō rātou kanohi
I tuhituhi a Samuel Richardson, "Ina herea ngā kupu, he maha ngā wā ka kōrero nui ngā kanohi." Nō nā tata nei, i kī mai tētahi o ōku hoa ki ahau, "Ka titiro mai taku i aroha ai me āna hoa ki ahau i a rātou e kōrero ana." Ā, kei te whakaaro tonu ia mēnā he aroha tōna ki a ia. I taua wā, i kōrero atu ahau ki a ia i taku e mea atu nei ki a koe, "Ko ngā kanohi, e chico, kāore rātou e teka!"
Ina rapu koe i ngā tohu reo tinana e pai ana tō hoa aroha ki a koe, he mea nui te titiro kanohi. Ki te kite koe i a rātou e titiro mai ana ki a koe i ētahi wā, he tohu tēnā kei te aro nui rātou ki tō aroaro tinana. I tuhituhi tētahi kaipānui nō Minnesota, "He maha ngā wā ka titiro mai taku hoa aroha ki ahau mai i tawhiti i te tari; e whakaaro ana ia kāore au i kite. Engari inaianei kua tino mōhio ahau he nui ake tana pai ki ahau i taku i whakaaro ai . I kitea e ōna kanohi!"
6. He tino āwhina rātou
Me whai wā anō koe ka tono āwhina ki tō hoa aroha mō tētahi mea. He aha tā rātou huarahi ki te tono? He tino hiahia tonu rātou ki te āwhina, ahakoa kāore i tonoa? Mena āe, koinei tētahi o ngā tohu e pai ana tō hoa aroha ki a koe. Engari kaua e whakapoauau i tōna āhua āwhina me te hiahia motuhake ki te āwhina i a koe. He rerekētanga i waenga i te ngākau me te hiahia.
7. "E pai ana taku tangata e aroha nei ki ahau?" Ae, mēnā kei te whakapaipai tonu rātou i a rātou mōu
Ka aro nui tātou ki tō tātou āhua ina he wā pea kei te taha o tētahi hoa aroha. Ki te hiahia tō hoa aroha ki a koe, ka nui ake tā rātou whakapau kaha ki te whakapai ake i tō rātou āhua. Mēnā e pā ana tēnei ki a koe, kōrero mai mēnā e pā ana tēnei ki a koe:
He tino ātaahua rawa ō rātou kākahu ina tūtaki kōrua
Kua oti katoa te mahi i ō rātou makawe, kua kutikutia rānei ō rātou pahau
He tino pai tō rātou akuaku
I tētahi ara, ka 'whakakorehia e tō hoa aroha tā rātou mahi'
A te wā anō ka hongi koe i te hinu kakara hou ki a rātou, whakaarohia te mea kua pania pea i mua tata tonu i tō rātou taenga mai ki te kite i a koe.
He pūkenga te pātai i ngā pātai tika; he tohu anō hoki tēnei kei te tīmata te tangata e arohaina ana e koe ki a koe. Nā te mea ina aroha tātou ki tētahi, ka hiahia tātou ki te mōhio atu mō tōna oranga. Nō reira, he maha ngā pātai a tō tangata e arohaina ana mō ō wawata, mō āu mōkai, mō ngā mema o te whānau me ngā hoa, mō ngā pukapuka me ngā kiriata tino pai, tae atu ki te āhua o tō rā. Mā te aro nui ki tō oranga ka kitea ōna kare ā-roto. Koinei tētahi o ngā tohu mārama, ā, me kanikani harikoa koe i tēnei wā tonu.
9. Ngā tohu e pai ana tō hoa ki a koe: Kei te tuku tonu rātou i ngā mihi
Āe, he tino mārama tēnei – He tohu ngawari hoki mō te takaro. Engari me whakamārama e au ētahi mea; he rerekē te mihi a tō hoa aroha ki a koe i tā rātou whakamoemiti i ētahi atu. He whaiaro ngā mihi ki a koe, ehara i te mea kotahi noa iho. Ko te hoa mahi e pai ana koe ki te kī atu he ātaahua tō āhua, ehara i te tohu o ngā kare ā-roto e whakahokia mai ana; he whānui rawa. Engari ko te kī mai a te aroha ki a koe "I rerekē tō makawe? He ātaahua ki a koe" he take whakanui.
10. Kei te āhua mataku rātou i a koe e noho tahi ana?
He mea nui tēnei. Kei te mataku rātou i a koe? Ko ngā panonitanga o ngā whanonga i a koe te otinga pea ki te mōhio me pēhea te mōhio mena kei te pai mai tetahi ki a koe, engari he whakama. Ka taea e ia te haere i ngā huarahi e rua - te whakama o te manukanuka, te maia rānei o te manukanuka. Ko te tuatahi e akiakihia ana e te hiahia kia kaua e mahi i tetahi mea wairangi, ko te tuarua he ngana ki te miharo. Ka taea e te manukanuka te whakaatu i a ia anō i roto i te paheke o te arero, te kōrero puku, te nekeneke, ngā ringa mākū, me te kata whakamā. Pērā i a Chandler Bing. He wāhi nui tō te reo tinana ki ngā whanaungatanga hauora , nō reira kia tūpato.
11. He ataata nui rawa atu tō hoa aroha ina kite ia i a koe
Āe, he aha atu te huarahi pai ake hei whakaatu i ngā kare ā-roto o tō hoa aroha i tua atu i te ataata nui i tōna mata? Ko te tikanga he aroha rātou ki a koe, ā, he harikoa ki te kite i a koe (ka kite koe i a rātou e ataata tonu ana). Kia maumahara ki ēnei e whai ake nei:
He whakaata te ataata i te whanaungatanga e tohaina ana e kōrua
He mea nui kia mōhio koe mēnā ko tō aroaro te mea e menemene ai koe. Kaua i te wā e kite ana koe i a rātou e kōrero ana, e kata ana me tētahi atu i te wharekai.
Kāore rānei, kei te pāngia rātou e te rā kino ina tomo koe ki te rūma – Ka titiro mai rātou ki a koe, ka huri i ō rātou kanohi ki raro? Ki te mea āe, kia harikoa ki tō wikitoria.
12. Ki te mea kei te tawai tonu rātou i a koe, he tino hiahia nui rātou ki a koe
He mea tika tēnei mēnā he aroha tōu ki tō hoa pai, he hoa rānei tō kōrua. Ko te tawai ngākau pai tētahi o ngā tohu rongonui e pai ana tō hoa ki a koe. Ko te tawai ki a koe he tohu o te whanaungatanga i roto i tōna pūtake; he herekoretanga e tangohia ana nā te mea e mōhio pai ana kōrua tetahi ki tetahi. Nō reira, i te wā e whai ake nei ka ngahau kōrua, kia tino mātakitaki i a rāua. Ko te tūponotanga, e pai ana rāua ki a koe, nui atu i te hoa.
13. He aro nui rātou, ā, he pai hoki te whakarongo
Kei te aro nui mai tō hoa aroha ki a koe, ā, kāore e whakararuraru i a koe ina noho tahi kōrua. Anei ngā tohu e tautoko ana i taku kōrero:
Kaore ratau phub (waea-whakakore) koe, kōrero ki ētahi atu tāngata, te āhua ngaro rānei i roto i te hinengaro
Kei te pupuri tonu rātou i te titiro kanohi i a koe e kōrero ana
Kei te tino kitea rātou i roto i te kōrero ki a koe, e aro nui ana hoki
Hei tāpiritanga, he hunga whakarongo pai rātou nā te mea he tino hiahia tō rātou ki tāu e kōrero nei.
Kāore he whakararuraru, kāore he kōrero whaiaro – He wā kounga noa iho
14. He tino pārekareka rātou ki te tangata? Tērā pea ka pai anō rātou ki a koe
Kāore au i te kī he takahi i ngā rohe, he takahi rānei i te whakaaetanga. He hononga tonu te aroha me te whakaute hauora mō te wāhi whaiaro. Ko te tikanga, ka pakaruhia e te tangata te 'arai pā' me te hiahia aroha. He tikanga tēnei hei hanga hononga aroha ki tētahi tangata. Ki te pa atu ō rātou ringa ki tōu, ka pā atu rātou ki a koe pērā i te awhi mahana, ka mirimiri i ō makawe, ā, kei te pai ō rātou tinana ki a koe, he tohu pea tēnā. (kinikini)
15. E rapu ana rātou i tō whakaaro
He huarahi pai tēnei hei mārama ki tō hiranga ki a rātou. Whakaarohia tēnei āhuatanga: Kei te hokohoko kākahu tō hoa aroha, ā, kei te pōhēhē rāua i waenganui i ngā hāte e rua. Ka tukuna atu e rāua he karere Snapchat ki a koe, e pātai ana he aha ō whakaaro. He tohu tēnei e whai tikanga ana tō whakaaro ki a rāua. Ka taea tēnei te tupu i ngā wāhi katoa e tahuri atu ai rāua ki a koe mō ngā tohutohu, mō ō whakaaro rānei. Tino reka!
16. He paku kakariki ō rātou kanohi
Anei taku wheako whaiaro mō te hae hauora . I aroha nui ahau ki tētahi o ōku hoa i te wā o te kāreti. I te whakaaro he taha kotahi ōku kare ā-roto (ā, kāore au i hiahia ki te whakangaro i te whakahoahoa), ka tīmata ahau ki te tūhura i ētahi atu kōwhiringa. I kite ahau ka titiro mai taku i aroha ai ki ahau mai i tawhiti i ngā wā katoa ka kite ia i ahau e kōrero ana ki tētahi hoa pea. I te pōhēhē, ka whakahē ahau ki a ia mō taua mea i muri i ētahi rā. Hei whakarapopototanga, kei te whakaipoipo tonu māua. Ki te whakawhāitihia ngā kanohi o tō i aroha ai ina kōrero koe mō ētahi atu, kua mōhio koe inaianei ki ō rātou kare ā-roto.
17. He maha ngā huarahi e whakaata ana tōu aroha i a koe
He aha ngā tūponotanga ka pai anō tō hoa aroha ki a koe? Āe, koinei te wāhanga e tino mārama ai koe. He maha ngā kōrero kua pā ki tō tātou āhua ki te 'whakaata' i ō tātou hoa aroha, engari he aha te tikanga o tēnā? Tukua ahau kia whakamārama.
Ko te whakaata he tārua i ngā mahi i te taumata hinengaro kore
Mena kei te noho te tangata e arohaina ana e tātou me ōna waewae whiti, tera pea ka pērā anō tā tātou mahi ina kōrero ana tātou ki a ia.
Ko te whakaata tētahi o ngā huarahi tino pai ki te kimi mēnā e pai ana tētahi ki a koe engari e whakama ana ki te whakaae
Ki te mea he kupu whakahirahira, he kupu whakarāpopoto rānei tāu e pai ana ki a koe, kaua e miharo mēnā ka kitea e koe kei te whakamahi i tō reo.
18. Me pēhea te mōhio mēnā kei te pai mai tētahi ki a koe? Ka tino āwangawanga rātou mōu
I te wā e amuamu ana tō hoa aroha mōu, ka hiahia koe ki te kī atu "Kāore he aha, kei te pai ahau!"? Ki te rongo rātou kei te pāngia koe e te kirika, me tatari rātou kia whakapā mai i ngā wā maha i te rā mā te karere kuputuhi. Tērā pea ka pātai mai rātou mēnā he mea e hiahiatia ana e koe, ka ngana rānei ki te whakahari i a koe i runga ipurangi. He tohu katoa ēnei e hiahia ana rātou ki a koe mā te karere kuputuhi (i roto i te ao whānui). Hei whakarāpopoto i ngā kupu a Morrie Schwartz, "Ko te aroha ko te wā e aro nui ana koe ki te āhuatanga o tētahi atu, pērā i tō āwangawanga mō tō ake āhuatanga."
19. He atawhai rātou ki te kata
Āe, kāore ō katakata i te tino kata. Engari ki taku whakaaro ka kata nui tō hoa aroha me te mea ko koe te wairua katakata rawa atu kua takahia e koe i te ao. He momo tautoko ātaahua tēnei, ā, e kiia ana ko te hononga i runga i te katakata he āhuatanga pai mō te whanaungatanga. Ki te puta he rerenga o ngā emoji kata i roto i tētahi kupu whakakatakata, ā, ki te tino harikoa te hunga e pai ana ki ngā meme e tohaina ana e koe, kei te titiro koe ki ngā tohu e tino kaha ana rātou ki te ipurangi!
20. Mā te reo tinana e whakaatu ō rātou kare ā-roto mōu
Ehara i te mea uaua ki te kite i ngā tohu o te reo tinana ina pātai koe, "Kei te pai mai anō taku i aroha ai ki ahau?" Kia tūpato ki tōna tū me tōna whakatata mai. Ahakoa kei te ngana rātou ki te huna i ō rātou kare ā-roto pono me te whakaari noa iho, ka puea ake tō rātou aroha ki a koe i tētahi ara, i tētahi ara rānei.
He tohu pai te reo tinana 'tuwhera': Ina kore ngā ringa, ngā waewae rānei e whiti hei ārai i te mate, ā, e tuwhera ana te tangata ki te whiwhi
Kia mōhio koe mēnā kei te anga mai tō hoa aroha ki a koe ina kōrero koe. I ahu mai tēnei i te hiahia ā-roto kia tata ki te tangata e pai ana ki a tātou.
Ā, ko te tikanga, ko rātou e takaro ana ki ō rātou kanohi? — Ko te tohu tino kaha rawa atu tēnei. Ki te āe, ka kite mātou kei te tata kōrua te noho tahi
21. He kata tā rāua mō kōrua e whakaipoipo ana?
Ka katakata tō hoa aroha mō te whakaaro kei te whakaipoipo kōrua, ā, ka mutu mā te kī "Kei te katakata ahau"? Hei tauira, i a kōrua e kōrero ana i runga i te WhatsApp, ka tukuna atu rānei e ia he karere pēnei i te "Kei te mahi koe me te mea ko koe taku hoa rangatira"? E tino mōhio ana ahau kei te hunaia tēnei e te kī "Kei te katakata ahau!". He tohu ēnei e rua kei te pirangi rātou ki a koe mā te karere kuputuhi. He rongo pai te tohu i tētahi hononga aroha (ahakoa he ahua rerekē) māu. Ko te tikanga kua whakaarohia tēnei kōwhiringa e tō hoa aroha.
E te kaiāwhina nama 1! Anei tētahi o ngā tohu tino pai e whakaatu ana kei te pai tō hoa aroha ki a koe – He tino tautoko rātou i ō wawata me ō moemoeā. Kāore rātou e aukati i a koe, e aukati rānei i a koe ki te whakamātau i ngā mea hou. Nā te mea he tino whakapono rātou ki tō kaha ki te eke ki te taumata teitei. Ko tō hoa aroha e whakatenatena ana i a koe i ngā wā katoa o te ara ko ia e whakahoki mai ana i ō kare ā-roto.
23. He whakaute rātou ki a koe
Anei tō whakamaumahara kia kaua e manaaki i te tangata kāore e pai ana ki a koe. Ko te tohu o te aroha pono ko te whakaute i te tangata kē. Ki te tino aroha tō hoa ki a koe, e kore rawa ia e whakaatu i ngā tohu o te whakaute , pēnei i:
Kāore rātou e whakakore i a koe e kōrero ana, e kōrero kino ana rānei, e kata rānei ki tō kino
Kāore rātou e whakahe i a koe mō tētahi wāhanga o tō āhua. Ahakoa te whakama o te tinana, ehara i te tohu whakaute.
Kāore he kōwhiringa mā rātou mō te whakaara i ō rātou reo whakahe ki a koe
Waihoki, ka ngaro tetahi momo mahi tinihanga, mahi tukino rānei i roto i ā rātou whanonga.
24. Ngā tohu e pai ana tō hoa aroha ki a koe i runga ipurangi — Tata tonu rātou ki te whakaae i runga karere kuputuhi
Kua tata te whaki hara? Tērā pea kei te tuku karere kōrua tae noa ki te pō, ā, ka tīmata rāua ki te kōrero mō te kaupapa. Engari, ka hoki whakamuri rāua, ka huri kaupapa, ka wehe atu rānei i te kōrero i waenganui. Engari, kua tata pea rāua te whakaae ki ō rāua kare ā-roto. He mea whakarihariha, kāore? Ahakoa te whakarihariha, ko te tikanga kei te aroha tō hoa aroha ki a koe, engari kei te whakama ki te kī atu ki a koe.
Kua hipa ngā rā o te whakawhanaungatanga i te hunga kino. Ki te mea kei te whakaae tonu koe ki te whakaaro he momo aroha te tukinotanga, kati te mahi pera - Inaianei! Ko te tohu pono o te aroha rua ko te atawhai. He aroha tō hoa aroha, ā, e mārama ana ki ō whanonga me ō whakatau. Ka ngana hoki rātou ki te whakauru i a koe ki roto i ō rātou ao. Ina uru koe ki tētahi kōrerorero rōpū, ka ngana rātou ki te here i a koe kia mōhio ai koe. He momo reo aroha anō hoki tēnei.
26. Kei te rite rātou ki te whakarite whakaaetanga māu
He pono kāore mātou e whakapau kaha ki te whakahari i ngā tāngata katoa. Ki te hiahia tō hoa aroha ki te whakarerekē i ō rātou hiahia mā te puta atu i roto i tō rātou rohe whakamarie i ia wā, i ia wā, he tohu mārama tēnei kei a rātou te aroha ki a koe. He pai ki a rātou te noho tahi me koe, he hiahia noa rānei kia menemene koe, me te kore whakaaro whaiaro. Nō reira, kia tūpato ki ngā āhuatanga pēnei:
Kāore rātou e māharahara ki te mahi i ngā mea kāore e tino pai ki a rātou, mena ka koa koe. He huarahi tino reka tēnei hei whakaatu he mea nui pea koe i roto i tō rātou ao.
Ka ngana tonu rātou ki te whakataurite i tā rātou kaupapa ki tāu kaupapa kia kore ai e ngaro te whai wāhi ki te tūtaki ki a koe.
Tērā pea ka whakaatuhia e rātou ō rātou kare ā-roto mā nga tohu aroha iti pērā i te tunu kai māu, te kawe mai rānei i ngā putiputi māu
Kia mahara ki te mahi i taua mea anō, me te whakarite i ngā whakaaetanga iti hoki. A te wā ka pātai koe "Kei te pai mai rānei taku i aroha ai ki ahau?", kua mōhio kē koe ki tāu whakautu.
27. He pono te huarahi e whakatata atu ai tō hoa aroha ki a koe
Me pēhea te mōhio mēnā kei te pai taku ipo ki ahau, ahakoa kāore au e kōrero ki a ia? He āhuatanga utu nui te pono, engari kua mōhio kē koe ki tēnā. Ko tāu e hiahia ana kia kite, mēnā kei te pono tō ipo ki a koe. Ki te whakatutukihia e rātou ā rātou kupu whakaari, kāore e teka mō ngā mea iti noa iho, ā, kāore hoki e rūpahu i ngā āhuatanga o ō rātou tuakiri, ka taea e koe te whakapūha i te manawa mārie. Ko te tikanga tēnei ko rātou te tino pono o tō rātou tuakiri i a koe. He aha te mea nui ake?
Tēnā koa, kōrero mai kua kitea e koe te mea e rapu ana koe. Ko te tumanako kua tohua e koe neke atu i te whitu ngā pouaka o ngā tohu kei te aroha tō hoa aroha ki a koe. Tērā pea ētahi atu tohu engari, ko te tumanako, kua mōhio koe ki te whiriwhiri i a rātou. Ki te mea kua tino whakapono koe ki te aroha o te tokorua, ka taea e koe te kōrero tika ki tō hoa aroha. Me mahi i te nekehanga tuatahi mā te tono i a rāua kia haere tahi!
I tētahi atu taha, ki te mea kua kitea e koe kāore tō hoa aroha e whakaaro aroha ana ki a koe, kaua e manukanuka. Kua motuhia ō moemoeā pai, ā, kua kore koe e uru atu ki aua moemoeā. Me aro atu koe ki te pōuri i tēnei wā tonu, engari ngā mihi nui ki a koe mō te karo i te ao mamae. Heke i te ngaru kotahi, kia pai ki ngā wāhanga katoa.
Ehara tō takoha i te koha aroha . Mā tēnei ka taea e Bonobology te kawe tonu mai i ngā mōhiotanga hou me ngā mōhiotanga hou ki a koe i roto i tā mātou whainga ki te āwhina i te tangata o te ao ki te ako me pēhea te mahi i tetahi mea.
Nā tōku aroha ki ngā kōrero pakiwaitara ahau i akiaki. Nā tēnei ahau i ārahi ki te whai i te tuhituhi, ki te noho hei kaitoi whare tapere, ki te whakamāori i tētahi pukapuka pakiwaitara, me te tito i aku ake pakiwaitara. Kei te hononga o ngā mea katoa e arohaina ana e au te tuhituhi; he huarahi tēnei hei hono atu ki te tangata i roto i te huarahi piripono me te pono. Kua riro te Bonobology hei huarahi e tino pono ai taku whakapuaki i a au anō. He mea whakamiharo te tūhura i ngā hononga o te ora, te aroha, ngā whanaungatanga, me ngā kōrero i ia rā. He nui ngā mea e akohia ana e au i ia kaupapa e tuhituhia ana e au, ā, ka tipu haere ahau i ia kaupapa e tuhituhia ana e au; he haerenga ataahua tēnei.
