5 Ngā Tohu o te Tūkino Hinengaro me Tūpato Koe, e Whakatūpato ana te Kaiwhakaora

Ko te tangata whakamīharo e piri tahi ana koe he tangata tukino kare ā-roto pea. HE AHA??? I mōhio ahau i meinga koe e au kia mutu. Engari e mōhio ana koe? Tukino i te kare a roto He tukanga tino tinihanga tēnei, ā, he hohonu rawa te keri, ā, i te nuinga o te wā kua roa rawa te wā ka kitea e koe. E kite ana ahau i ngā tohu o te tukino kare ā-roto i roto i te tini o aku kiritaki. Ka haere mai rātou ki ahau nā te mea e whakaaro ana rātou kāore rātou i te pai mō tā rātou hoa; e kī ana rātou ka mutu ka whara rātou i tā rātou hoa, he maha ngā wā kāore i te mōhiotia, ā, e whakaaro ana rātou kei te tukinotia e rātou tā rātou hoa. Engari ko te mea kāore rātou e mōhio ana ko tēnei e tupu ana nā te mea kei te piripono rātou ki tētahi kaitukino.

I muri i ētahi wā, ka tīmata te tango i ngā paparanga, ā, ka kite koe me pēhea rātou i meinga ai kia whakapono ki tēnei mānukanuka, ā, ko rātou ngā tino patunga o te tukino kare ā-roto. Ahakoa he tino uaua ki te kite i ngā tohu o te tukino kare ā-roto i ngā wāhanga tuatahi o te whanaungatanga, ki te mōhio koe, tera pea ka taea e koe te āta tupato ake ina hinga koe ki tētahi.

5 Ngā Tohu o te Tukino Hinengaro me Mātaki Koe i te Wā e Whakaipoipo Ana

Ka pā mai te mamae ki a koe ina kite koe i te tangata ataahua, ka taea hoki e ia te whakararuraru i a koe i ngā wā katoa. Kei roto koe i te āhua ruarua me te whakarihariha ki a koe anō. Koinei ngā tohu e rima o te tukino kare ā-roto me tūpato koe.

1. Nui rawa, wawe rawa

He pai ki ngā kaipahua te whakatū hononga tino tere ki a koe. Koinei anake te huarahi hei whakarite kia tino piri koe ki tā rātou ataahua. Nō reira ka tere tonu tā rātou whakatata atu ki a koe me ngā tohu aroha me te ataahua, tētahi i muri i tētahi; he tere rawa atu, kāore koe e whai wā ki te hopu manawa, ā, i mua i tō mōhio, kua hiahia koe ki a rātou.

Nō reira, ki te mea kei te whakaaro koe he tino pai rawa atu tēnei hononga 'whakamiharo', he pono rawa atu pea. Ki te mea kei te haere tonu ia i te wā whakaipoipo, kei te waea atu ki a koe ahakoa kei te tūtaki koe i ia rā, kei te aroha ki a koe me ngā putiputi me ngā koha, ngana ki te kimi wāhi. He mea whakamiharo ēnei mahi katoa, engari ko te mea nui e rapu ana koe ko te tere o te whai wāhi kia tino mohio ia kei roto katoa ia i roto i tō hinengaro, ā, e kore rawa koe e mōhio kei roto koe i tētahi whanaungatanga tukino kare ā-roto.

2. Mana whakahaere ngawari

Ka āta tīmata ia ki te whakahau i ō whiringa engari he tino whakararuraru. Pēnei i te, "Kei te tino hiahia koe ki te mau i tēnā?" Te tango i ngā whiringa tahua i a koe e tono ana i te wharekai, te maha rawa o ngā pātai mō ō hoa i a koe e pātai ana mō tō rā, te whakapuaki i ngā whakaaro kino mō te hunga e noho tahi ana koe – ko ēnei katoa kei raro i te hipoki o te "hiahia i te mea pai mōu" ā, he tohu tino pono ēnei o te tukino kare ā-roto.

3. Ngā mihi kino

Tērā pea koe e whakaaro ana he aha rawa ngā mihi whakakino? He kōrero ēnei e whakamahia ana e ngā kaipahua hei mea i a koe kia rite ki te mihi maioha ki a koe, engari ko te mea pono he kukume i te aro ki ō ngoikoretanga, nā te mea ka noho pōhēhē koe, ka rapu hoki i tā rātou whakaae.

Tērā pea ka pēnei te ahua o tētahi kupu whakamihi kino, "He pai ki ahau tō makawe hou; he tino pai mō te tangata he iti te mata", "He pai ki ahau te kākahu pango; he pai tonu te mahi a te pango ki te hanga i te āhua hiroki, kāore?"

Nā, ki te hiahia koe ki te tātari i ēnei kōrero, me te kōrero ki tētahi atu mō tēnei, tera pea ka kī atu rātou ki a koe, "Haere mai, i mihi ia ki a koe, kei te nui rawa ō whakaaro." Engari whakawhirinaki ki tō kare ā-roto.

4. Wehenga

Ko tāna rautaki kia noho ko koe anake – ehara i te mea nā te aroha – engari kia tino mana tō mana ki runga i a koe, nā te mea ka nui ake tō noho mokemoke, ka nui ake tō whakawhirinaki ki a ia mō tōna whakaae, ā, ka iti ake ngā tūponotanga ka whiwhi koe i tētahi atu whakaaro mō ngā mea e kīia ana e tō kare ā-roto ki a koe.

Nō reira, ka āta kumea māriretia koe e ia i ō hoa – i ētahi wā mā te pupuri i a koe i roto i te pōuri harikoa e hua mai ana i te aroha, i ētahi wā mā te tohu puku he tawai noa iho tā tētahi o ō hoa ki a ia, engari he tino reka rawa koe ki te kite.

Ā, nā te nui o tō aroha ki a ia, kāore e taea e koe te aro ki te whakapataritari a tētahi o ō hoa i a ia; nō reira ka tīmata koe ki te rapu whakamārama ki a koe anō – “Āe! Kāore rātou e mārama ki a ia”, “Kāore ia i rite ki ētahi atu tāngata kuware, nō reira kei te hae pea rātou”, ā, kei te whakapono tonu koe ki a ia.

5. Te kēmu whakapae

Ā, hei whakamutunga, ko te patu whakamutunga kei roto i āna patu – ko te kāri patunga. Ina tīmata te piki haere o ngā āhuatanga – tōna riri, tōna kino – ka tīmata ia ki te mea i a koe kia whakapono ko KOE te mea e whakaoho ana i a ia kia tae ki ngā taumata teitei rawa atu; kātahi ka whakaitihia e ia ō parepare mā te rewa ki roto i te puna o te whakama nui me ngā tono murunga hara, tae noa ki te wā e 'whakaohooho' anō ai koe i a ia. Koinei te huringa kino o te tukino. Kei roto ko te nui o te aroha me te ngākau atawhai hei pupuri i a koe kia mau tonu, kia ruarua ai koe i a koe anō.

Nō reira, ki te whakaaro koe he rite tetahi, he rite rānei ēnei tohu katoa ki tō whanaungatanga o nāianei, waihangahia he wāhi, haere ki tētahi wāhi ka whakaaroaro anō. I tēnei wā, ki te piki haere tōna riri nā te mea kei te tangohia e koe tēnei wāhi, kua tae pea te wā ki te rapu āwhina.

WHAKATŪPATO: Tērā pea ka kitea ētahi, ētahi rānei o ēnei mea katoa i roto i te tangata kāore i te tukino i a ia, mō ngā take tino rerekē. Nō reira, me whai wā koe ki te tino mohio kei reira ngā tohu katoa i mua i te whakarērea, i te whakapae rānei i a ia.

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