I roto ahau i tētahi hononga tawhiti (LDR) i tētahi wā, ā, kotahi te kupu hei whakarāpopoto i te wheako: he uaua. I pā mai te mokemoke, te koretake, te ruarua, me te kore whanaungatanga ā-tinana ki ahau. Ko te pono, i kaha māua ki te pupuri i te mura o te aroha tae noa ki te kitenga i te whai huatanga o ngā whakaaro mō te whakaipoipo tawhiti hei pupuri i te kaha o tō māua hononga.
Mena, pērā i ahau, kei te raru koe ki te rongo i te whanaungatanga piripono me te hononga ki tō hoa LDR, kei te haere mai ahau me tētahi rārangi hihiri o ngā whakaaro whakatā tawhiti e 25 i hangaia i runga i te kōrero tahi me te kaiako ora me te kaiwhakatakoto whakaaro a Joie Bose , he tohunga ki te tohutohu i te hunga e pāngia ana e te mārenatanga tukino, te wehenga, me ngā mahi moepuku.
Ngā Whakaaro Pai mō te Rā mō ngā Hononga Tawhiti
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He uaua ngā whanaungatanga tawhiti-pāpā? Kāore he whakaroa, ko te whakautu he ĀE tino mārama! Me rapu kaha koe i ngā mahi hei whakawhanaungatanga , koinei te wāhi e puta mai ai ngā whakaaro mō te whakawhanaungatanga tawhiti. He pai te whakarāpopototanga a tētahi kaiwhakamahi Reddit i ngā wero o ngā whanaungatanga tawhiti-pāpā: "Ehara ngā whanaungatanga tawhiti-pāpā i te mea mā te hunga ngākau ngoikore. Mā te hunga toa, mā te hunga manawanui e hiahia ana ki te mahi mō tā rātou e hiahia ana. Ehara te aroha i te mea e pā ana ki te tata, engari, e pā ana ki te hononga."
Ko te pupuri i taua hononga ko te whakapau kaha ki te pupuri i te mura o te aroha. Nā te hangarau hou, kei reira ngā huarahi hei whakakī i taua āputa, me te pupuri tonu i te hononga. Mā te waea ataata ka taea e koe te kite tetahi i tetahi, me te whakapuaki i te wā whai tikanga. Mā ngā whakaaro whakatau ipurangi, ka taea e koe te neke atu i te taumata me te whakapau i te wā kounga ki tō hoa ahakoa te tawhiti. Nō reira, me tūhura tātou i ngā whakaaro whakatau pai rawa atu mō ngā whanaungatanga tawhiti.
Ngā whakaaro whakaipoipo ataahua
He uaua pea te haere ki tētahi rā ina wehea kōrua e te tawhiti tinana. Engari ka taea tonu e koe te pupuri i te ngahau o te whanaungatanga mā te whakamahi i ēnei whakaaro whakatā tawhiti ataahua:
1. Ngā whakaaro mō te rā roa: Whakamaherehia he pō kiriata
Kei te raru koe ki te kimi whakaaro mō te rā mariko ataahua mō te tawhiti ? Āe, ko te mea tuatahi i runga i te rārangi ko te pō kiriata. He tino pai ki ahau te whakaaro a tā mātou tohunga mō tēnei. E kī ana a Joie , "Mātaki tahi i ngā kiriata. Tīmata i te wā kotahi, ā, mutu i ia 15-20 meneti ki te kōrero mō te kiriata."
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2. Whakamaherehia he pō kēmu ipurangi mō ētahi whakataetae hauora
He ngāwari ngā whakaaro mō te whakaipoipo i ngā kēmu ipurangi, ā, he huarahi pai tēnei ki te hono atu. Nō reira, whakaritea he pō kēmu mariko me tō hoa aroha tawhiti. Tākarohia ngā kēmu ipurangi pērā i te Monopoly, Scrabble, chess, he kēmu kāri takirua mariko rānei , ka uru atu ki ētahi whakataetae pai, tawhito, ngahau, hoahoa hoki. Heoi anō, ka taea e koe te tūhura i ngā pātai whanaungatanga maha ipurangi hei whakapakari i tō hononga.
3. Ngā whakaaro whakaipoipo tawhiti ataahua: Whakamātauria he waina
I tino pai māua ko taku ipo ki ngā wā whakamātautau waina nā te mea he mea ngahau mā māua ki te mahi tahi. Nō reira, he mea tika kia haere tonu māua i roto i tō māua LDR. He huarahi ngahau ki te whakakoi i ngā mea i aua wā motuhake i a māua e whakatau ana ki te whakaipoipo. He kōrero mō ngā whakaaro whakaipoipo tawhiti ataahua.
Me tono atu ki tētahi tohunga hei ārahi i a koe i roto i tēnei mahi, hei whakamātautau noa rānei, engari mā te ipurangi. Ehara i te mea ka pārekareka noa iho kōrua i te mutunga o te ataata, engari ka kitea anō hoki ngā kōrero whakamere mō ngā mahi rorirori a tō hoa i te wā e haurangi ana.
4. Waihangahia he rārangi waiata
Me uru te puoro ki ngā whakaaro whakaipoipo tawhiti ataahua. He pai ki a māua ko taku tāne te puoro. Nō reira, i puta mai i ahau ētahi whakaaro whakaipoipo ipurangi whakamere mō te tawhiti. I a māua wā mariko, ka hangaia e māua he rārangi waiata kei roto ngā waiata e kore e taea e māua te ngako. I ngā wā mokemoke, ka whakarongo ahau ki te rārangi waiata, ā, me te mea kei te waiatatia mai e ia ki ahau. I ētahi wā, ka whakarongo māua ki ngā waiata i a māua e waea mariko ana, ā, ka whakaari māua kei te kanikani tahi. Kōrerohia he whakaaro whakaipoipo tawhiti ataahua.
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5. Te mātakitaki whetu mariko
Ko te mātakitaki whetu mariko tētahi o ngā whakaaro whakaipoipo ātaahua, ngāwari hoki mō te hunga e whai hononga tawhiti ana. Nā te hangarau hou, he maha ngā paetukutuku me ngā taupānga ka āwhina i te wheako. Ka tino ngahau te tautuhi i ō tohu whetū me ō rātou tikanga ki tō hononga aroha. Kāore e hiahiatia kia hoha, kia auau rānei ngā whakaaro whakaipoipo ipurangi mō te tawhiti. Mā tō whakaaro me tō hangarau e wātea ana, ka taea e koe te whakapau kaha ki te whakapuaki i ngā momo wheako katoa ahakoa te tawhiti.
Ngā whakaaro mō te rā aroha i tawhiti
Kaua e tukua kia mura te ahi o tō kōrua whanaungatanga nā te mea he uaua te haere ki te whakatā nā te tawhiti. He maha ngā whakaaro whakatā mariko hei pupuri i te wairua aroha i roto i tō kōrua whanaungatanga.
6. Ngā mea hei mahi i roto i te whanaungatanga tawhiti ipurangi: Whakaritea he pō whakaipoipo mariko
Kia auaha, kia rapu whakaaro hoki mō ngā whakaaro whakaipoipo LDR whakamere hei whakangahau i a koutou mā te ao mariko. Me whakarite whakaaro whakamere mō ngā mahi ngahau. Ka taea e au te tino whanoke. Ko taku whakaaro pai ko te pō Kama sutra mariko me te rama rama. Me kī noa kei te kōrero tonu taku tāne mō te rā i muri i ngā tau e rua.
7. Ngā whakaaro mō te rā ipurangi mō te tawhiti: Haere tahi ki te hikoi tahi, he āhua rite
He kōrero hou tāku māu: Kāore e hiahiatia kia noho i roto i te whare, kia mahia rānei i te whakamarie o tō kāinga ngā whakaaro mō te whakaipoipo ipurangi. Me pēhea te hikoi i a koe e kōrero ana i te waea a tō hoa? Haere tahi ki te hikoi aroha i a kōrua e tūhura ana i ngā kaupapa kōrero rerekē. He pai ake te hikoi mariko i te whakatau ki te mātaki i tētahi whakaaturanga pouaka whakaata ko kōrua anake. Tērā pea kei roto tēnei i tāu rārangi hiahia mō ngā tāne me ngā wāhine mena kei roto kōrua i tētahi hononga aroha tawhiti.
8. Pō mirimiri ipurangi
He mea anō kei te karanga i te aroha pērā i te pō spa? Āe, he tino ataahua te huarahi e tutuki ai ēnei whakaaro mō te rā roa. Inaa, e maia ana ahau ki te kī kua eke ki te rārangi o ngā whakaaro rā pai rawa atu mō ngā whanaungatanga tawhiti. Mā te whakaaro mō te rā LDR mō te pō spa ipurangi aroha ka taea e koe te manaaki i a koe anō ma te ipurangi. Whakawhitiwhitihia ngā mea ka taea e kōrua te mahi tahi, pērā i ngā kopare kanohi me ngā mahi tiaki kiri. Whakatakotoria he kōrerorero ataata kia taea ai e kōrua te whakangā i roto i te kamupene o tētahi ki tētahi.
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9. Pāti kanikani mariko
Anei tētahi atu o ngā whakaaro mō te rā roa aroha e kore e hē. Kei te mahara koe ki te rārangi waiata i kōrerotia e au i runga ake nei? Āe, kaua e wareware ki te tāpiri i ētahi waiata aroha ki roto. Ka tino ngahau koe me tētahi rōpū kanikani mariko. Nō reira, whakapōuritia ngā rama, whakapohehetia te awhi, me te kanikani tahi me ētahi waiata whakahihiri. He pai ki ahau te kanikani paru mō taku tāne kia mōhio ai ia ki tāna e ngaro ana.
10. Pō o te ara mahara
He tino pai ki ahau tēnei mō ngā whakaaro whakaipoipo FaceTime mō ngā whanaungatanga tawhiti . He aha atu te huarahi pai ake hei whakapakari i te hononga i waenganui i a kōrua i te whakamahara i ngā kiriata tino pai i tohaina e kōrua? Tirohia ngā whakaahua, ngā reta, ngā ataata rānei, ka matapakihia he aha i tino motuhake ai.
Ngā whakaaro auaha mō te rā tawhiti
Kia mau tonu te ngahau me te whakahihiri o tō whanaungatanga mā te whakamahi i ngā whakaaro auaha mō te whakaipoipo tawhiti. Kia rite ki te tūhura, ki te waihanga, me te whakapuaki i ngā mahi ngahau maha. Kāore koe e mōhio, ka taea e koe te ako i ngā pūkenga hou hei whakapakari i tō hononga.
11. Haere tahi ki tētahi akomanga
Ko ngā whakaaro pai mō te whakaipoipo i tawhiti ko ngā mea e akiaki ana i a koe ki te tūhura i ō hiahia. He aha tāu e hiahia ana? Te hoahoanga Rōmana? Te hoahoa whakairoiro? Te ako mīhini? Te peita? Ahakoa he aha, he akoranga kei te ipurangi e wātea ana. Rēhita mai ki tēnei me tō hoa. He huarahi pai ngā whāinga ōrite ki te whakau i tō hononga ahakoa te tawhiti.
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12. Tīmatahia he podcast ngātahi
Koinei tētahi o ngā whakaaro mō te whakaipoipo tawhiti ka taea e koe te whiwhi moni. Ka taea e kōrua ko tō hoa rangatira te tīmata i tētahi kōrero noa mō te noho hei hoa tawhiti. Mēnā koinā te huarahi e anga atu ana kōrua, ka taea e kōrua te kōrero mō ngā takirua tohu pai rawa atu mō te marena . Mēnā koinei te huarahi e hiahia ana kōrua, he aha atu rānei e ngākau nui ana kōrua ki te mahi - ngā pukapuka, te haereere, te pūtea, he mutunga kore ngā kōwhiringa.
13. Te pō rotarota ipurangi
Kāore kōrua e hiahiatia kia noho hei kaitito rongonui hei pārekareka ki ngā whakaaro auaha mō te pō whakaipoipo tawhiti pēnei i tēnei. Kia auaha, kia whakaatu tetahi i te nui o tō kōrua aroha mā roto i ngā kupu ataahua i te pō whakaipoipo ipurangi. Ka taea e ngā tāne me ngā wāhine tawhiti te whakatipu hononga hohonu ake mā roto i ēnei whakaaro whakaipoipo mariko mō ngā tawhiti.
14. Ngā mea hei mahi i te whanaungatanga tawhiti ipurangi: Hararei mariko
Nō reira, kāore anō kōrua kia tae ki Parī, engari e hiahia ana kōrua kia haere ki reira. Me pēhea te whakamahi i te hangarau hei painga mōu, me te hararei mariko? Kia auaha ki ngā mea ngahau ka taea e koe te mahi i reira. Āe, kaua hoki e wareware ki te whakaahua i a kōrua i runga i te Pourewa rongonui o Eiffel. He aha atu te tohu aroha me te aroha me te auahatanga i tērā?
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15. Te rā mooni mariko
He māmā ake ngā whakaaro auaha mō te whakatā tawhiti nā te hangarau hou. E ai ki ētahi nā te hangarau i pai ake ai te aroha. Hopukia he pane whakarongo mooni mariko, ka haere tahi ki te ao VR. Tākaro kēmu, noho noa, haere rānei i ngā haerenga mariko.
Ngā whakaaro whakamere mō te rā tawhiti
Whakaarohia ngā mea ngahau katoa e pai ana ki a kōrua ki te mahi tahi, ka hurihia hei whakaaro whakatā tawhiti. Ko te mea pai rawa atu mō ēnei whakaaro whakatā tawhiti, he maha ngā huarahi ka taea e kōrua te tūhura. Mai i te tūhura i ngā taputapu me ngā whakaaro hangarau whakamīharo mō ngā tāne me ngā wāhine ki te whakakoi i ngā mea ki te whakatakoto i tā kōrua putanga whakatā ngahau mā te ipurangi, he maha ngā mea ka taea e kōrua te mahi tahi hei tāne me te wahine.
16. Kia rua ngā tāngata e whai karapu pukapuka iti ana
He hunga pānui pukapuka māua ko taku aroha. Nō reira, he pai te noho tahi māua i roto i tētahi karapu pukapuka mō te tokorua, ā, i ētahi wā ka uru atu ki ngā pukapuka whanaungatanga . He pai hoki tēnei mō te noho tahi mā te FaceTime mō ngā whanaungatanga tawhiti, ā, ka taea ai te whai i te huarahi mō te kōrerorero kounga. Kāore e hiahiatia he pātai atu ki a rāua anō, "He aha atu anō te mea hou?"
17. Tunu kai tahi, ka kai tahi
Ka tuku atu anō ahau ki te tohunga mō ngā huarahi hei hanga hononga tawhiti ipurangi. E kī ana a Joie, "Tunua he kai e kore e warewaretia, tunua rānei he keke tahi. Ka taea hoki e kōrua te kai tahi mā te waea ataata." He whakaaro pai te tunu kai me te tohatoha kai ki tētahi e arohaina ana e koe, hei whakatairanga i te hononga.
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18. Haere ki tētahi haerenga whare taonga mariko
Kāore tēnei e rite ki tētahi haerenga whare taonga tūturu, engari ko te kaupapa matua o ngā whakaaro whakatā tawhiti ko te mahi tahi i ngā mea , ahakoa kāore kōrua i te tino noho tahi. Ā, whakaarohia, mā ēnei whakaaro whakatā tawhiti ka taea e koe te tūhura i ngā wāhi hou mai i te whakamarie o tōu ake kāinga. Nō reira, tirohia ngā haerenga whare taonga mariko i runga i te ipurangi, ā, tohua te mea e pai ana ki a kōrua. Ā, ka taea e kōrua te tūhura i ētahi o ngā whare pai rawa atu me te kore e ngenge i te tū tika.
19. Mātakihia he kōnohete mariko ora ngātahi
He huarahi pai te whakarongo ki ngā waiata pai me te hoa noho tawhiti ki te whakapau wā tahi. Mena kāore he whakaaturanga ora tūturu, ko te kōnohete mariko te mea pai e whai ake nei. He maha ngā kaiwaiata e whakaatu ana i ngā whakaaturanga ora mā te Instagram Live, Facebook Live rānei, ā, he kōnohete kua hopukina hei mātaki māu.
20. Kia pai tō pō karaoke
Me uru atu ki ngā whakaaro whakaipoipo tawhiti te karaoke. Tērā pea koinei tētahi o ngā whakaaro whakaipoipo tawhiti tino pai o tēnei rārangi. He maha ngā kōwhiringa ipurangi mō ngā waiata karaoke. He huarahi pai tō rōpū karaoke iti e rua hei whakaatu i te aroha ki tō hoa , ā, koinei pea tētahi o ngā whakaaro whakaipoipo tawhiti tino ngahau!
Ngā whakaaro mō te rā roa me te piripono
Kāore te whanaungatanga i roto i te whanaungatanga e whakaatuhia ana i roto i te taha tinana anake. Ae, he mea pai te pā atu, te awhi rānei a tō hoa aroha. Engari, ki te LDR, he wawata noa iho tēnā mēnā kāore koe e whakatuwhera i tō hinengaro ki ētahi whakaaro pai mō te whakaipoipo tawhiti. Ā, ehara i te mea ka mutu ki te orgasm. I ētahi wā, ka whakapakari ngā mahi whanaungatanga i te hononga i waenganui i a kōrua.
21. Whakaaroaro whakaaro
Tangohia te ahotea o te LDR me te whakaaroaro aro nui . He mea whakamiharo te wheako whakamarie me te arotahi mō māua ko taku hoa. He tini ngā whakaaroaro ārahi ka taea e koe te whakamahi i te ipurangi.
22. Tuhia ō moemoeā
Waihangahia he wā mō ngā wā kōrero whaiaro mō ngā moemoeā me ngā kaupapa kōrero tika . Whakamahia tēnei wā hei kōrero mō ō moemoeā me ō wawata mō te whanaungatanga, mō kōrua anō hoki.
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23. Te titiro kanohi mariko
Whakawāteahia he wā ki te titiro ki ngā kanohi o tētahi ki tētahi. Ka āwhina te titiro kanohi ki tētahi whanaungatanga. Nō reira, peke atu ki tētahi waea ataata ka titiro ki ngā kanohi o tētahi ki tētahi. Whakamātauria mō te 5, tae atu ki te 10 meneti hei whakapakari i tō kōrua hononga. Tukua tō kōrua hononga kia haere mā te ao mariko, kia herea kōrua i tēnei pō whakatau mariko.
24. Ngā karere ataata ohorere
Ko taku tāne te kingi o ngā karere ohorere. Ka hopu ia i ngā karere reo, ataata rānei, ka tukuna mai ki ahau hei whakaatu i tōna aroha. Kei te tumanako tonu ahau ki te whiwhi i aua karere. E mōhio ana koe he aha? E mea ana rātou kei te aro nui ia ki a māua, ā, kei te whakaaro tonu ia ki a māua. Koinei pea te huarahi kāore anō kia kitea ki te ngākau o te wahine, āe?
25. Ngā tīkitipati aroha
Tērā pea tēnei e uru ki roto i te kāwai o ngā huarahi auaha hei pupuri i tō aroha. Engari, he mea whakamiharo te whanaungatanga o te hanga tīkitipati aroha. Ka taea te whakamahi i ngā awhi, ngā kihi, me ētahi atu mea ina tūtaki kōrua. He pai te whakakotahitanga o te ariā o ngā tīkitipati aroha i ngā mea katoa, ā, he rerekē noa iho i ngā whakaaro noa mō te whakaipoipo LDR mariko.
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He uaua ngā whanaungatanga LDR. He uaua te kore e taea te pā atu, te pupuri, te hongi rānei i tō hoa. Ahakoa e taea ai e te hangarau hou te noho whakapā atu me te whakapuaki i ō tātou oranga mariko, ka pāngia tonu tātou e te tawhiti. Ko te huarahi anake hei whakamana i te whanaungatanga tawhiti ko te whakaae me te awhi i a ia.
Haunga ngā whakaaro mō te whakaipoipo tawhiti hei pupuri i te hononga ora, me mahi tonu koe i tō whanaungatanga kia pai ai te noho tahi. Nō reira, kia maumahara ki ēnei mea i a koe e mahi ana ki te pupuri i te hononga ki tō hoa tawhiti.
1. Kia mau tonu te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero
Ki te mea kei roto kōrua i tētahi āhuatanga whakaipoipo tawhiti, whakawhitiwhiti kōrero kia rite ki te taea kia piripono ai kōrua tetahi ki tetahi. E taunaki ana a Joie i tētahi tikanga waea e whakarite ai kōrua i tētahi wā motuhake hei kōrero ki a kōrua. Whakamātauria ngā huarahi rerekē hei kōrero ki a kōrua – waea atu, waea ataata, karere pō pai, karere mihi o te ata pai rānei , reta ā-ringa, īmēra, mēra ngangau, whakaahua, me ngā oro poto.
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2. Kia mau tonu te whakaaro pai
Ko te mea nui kia angitu ai te LDR ko te whakatata atu ki tēnei me te whakaaro pai. Tirohia tēnei hei wāhi ako, hei whakamātautau rānei mō tō aroha. E kī ana tētahi kaiwhakamahi Reddit , "Kaua e tukua ngā mea kē atu, inā koa ngā mea kino, kia pā ki tō whanaungatanga. Kōrerohia ngā raruraru me ngā uauatanga mā te karere kuputuhi, ā, me whakapuaki tonu i ō kare ā-roto."
3. Kaua e mutu te mahi tahi i ngā mea
Nā te hangarau hou kua māmā ake te hononga, ā, kua watea hoki mō te hunga e noho ana i roto i ngā whanaungatanga tawhiti. Ko tā Joie, "Mātaki kiriata, haere ki te hokohoko mā te waea ataata, kōrerohia ngā mea noa, kōrero kino rānei - he maha ngā mea ka taea e kōrua te mahi tahi."
Kimihia ngā mahi ngahau hei mahi mā te tokorua, pērā i te akomanga tunu kai mariko me te kai tahi i te kai kotahi i te wā e waea ataata ana. Tērā atu huarahi, hikoi haere i te māra me te kōrero i te waea.
4. Haereere tetahi ki tetahi i ngā wā katoa e taea ana e koe
Ahakoa rā, he pai pea ngā whakaaro mō te whakatā tawhiti, engari me whakarite kia matua toro atu kōrua tetahi ki tetahi i ngā wā e taea ai e kōrua. He mea motuhake, he mea aroha, he mea piripono hoki te whai wāhitanga mō te pā atu ki te tinana.
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5. Me whakaatu tonu tō aroha tetahi ki tetahi
Whakamaumaharatia tō hoa aroha ki a ia mā te whakapuaki me te whakaatu i tōna aroha. Mā te tuku karere kuputuhi "Kei te aroha ahau ki a koe", mā te kōrero ā-waha rānei i runga i te waea ka whakakorea ngā wehi me ngā āwangawanga mō te whanaungatanga.
Tohutohu Matua
- Ko ngā whakaaro pai mō te rā roa ka pupuri i te mura o te aroha me te whakapakari i tō hononga.
- He maha ngā whakaaro mō te pō whakaipoipo tawhiti, mai i te mātakitaki kiriata ki te haere ki ngā kōnohete mariko, te mātakitaki whetu, te mahi auaha tahi rānei.
- Ka taea te tupu pai o ngā whanaungatanga tawhiti, engari mēnā ka whakapau kaha ngā hoa e rua kia angitu ai rātou.
FAQs
Ae, ka taea te whai hua o te whakaipoipo tawhiti, mena ka pai ngā taha e rua ki te whakapau kaha ki te pupuri i te hononga kare ā-roto. He tino uaua te whakaipoipo tawhiti, ina koa mena he rerekē ngā rohe wā e whakamahia ana, nō reira me whai wā, me kaha, me te auaha hoki kia mau tonu ai.
He maha ngā huarahi hei pupuri i te hihiri o tētahi whanaungatanga tawhiti. Whakamaherehia ngā mahi tahi, pērā i ngā whakangungu tinana ka taea e kōrua te mahi tahi, te haere rānei ki tētahi akomanga ipurangi. Whakaritea he wā mō ngā pō whakaipoipo pinepine. Mā ēnei katoa ka ora tonu te hihiri.
He pai ia rā, engari kāore pea e taea i ngā wā katoa. Nō reira, kia tino tuku karere kuputuhi koe tetahi ki tetahi i te iti rawa i ētahi rā. Kia tino kōrero koe i ia rua, i ia toru rā rānei, ki te kore e taea i ia rā. Ā, whakaritea he wā mō te kōrero roa, kia kotahi, kia rua rānei i te wiki, kia noho tonu ai kōrua hei wāhanga o te oranga o tetahi ki tetahi.
I roto i ngā whanaungatanga tawhiti, he mea nui ngā mea iti, engari he tohu nui anō hoki i ētahi wā. Ko ngā mea iti he pātai mō tō rātou rā, me te maumahara tonu ki ngā huihuinga motuhake. Ko tētahi tohu nui pea ko te tuku atu i ngā kete manaaki ki a rātou ina he rā kino tō rātou, ahakoa kāore he take.
Thoughts Final
He tino pai te whakarāpopototanga a Joie i tēnei tuhinga mō ngā whakaaro mō te whanaungatanga tawhiti. E mea ana ia, "Mēnā ka angitu, ka kore rānei te whanaungatanga tawhiti, kei te tokorua. Kāore he tangata e whiriwhiri i te whanaungatanga tawhiti. Engari ki te mea kei roto koe i tētahi, whakautehia, ā, tautokohia te whakatau, kaua e whakaaro ki te kino, ki te angitu rānei. Ki te taea e koe te hanga hononga kare ā-roto ki tō hoa, ka angitu ngā mea hei painga mōu."
Kia mōhio koe ka rerekē te whanaungatanga i roto i te wā – kāore e taea te karo. Ka puta ngā wā o te aroha me te aroha me te pakanga anō hoki. Engari kia maumahara tonu ki te whakaute i te take e noho wehe ana kōrua, me te mōhio hoki ki te wā e mutu ai. Nā te mea, kāore e taea e kōrua te noho i roto i te whanaungatanga tawhiti ake tonu atu.
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Ehara tō takoha i te koha aroha . Mā tēnei ka taea e Bonobology te kawe tonu mai i ngā mōhiotanga hou me ngā mōhiotanga hou ki a koe i roto i tā mātou whainga ki te āwhina i te tangata o te ao ki te ako me pēhea te mahi i tetahi mea.
