Kua kitea e koe te Mea Kotahi, ā, kei te whakaaro koe ki te tono i a rātou hei hoa mōu mō te ora? Ko te wā Kirihimete, i te wā e ngākau nui ana te katoa ki te wairua Kirihimete, koinei te wā tino pai ki te tīmata ki te whakamahere i te tono marena tino pai. Ko ngā mea anake e hiahiatia ana e koe hei tīmatanga ko ngā whakaaro tono marena Kirihimete tika hei rapu i te hihiri.
I mōhio koe ko Hakihea te marama rongonui mō te taumau me te te reiti tono o te 19%Āe, kei te harikoa tō hoa aroha i te noho tahi me te whānau me ngā hoa, i a rātou e harikoa ana ki ngā whakanuitanga — ka taea e koe te whakatakoto i tētahi pātai Kirihimete motuhake hei miharotanga.
Nā ēnei mea katoa, me te mea ka taea e kōrua te whakanui i ia tau hei tokorua marena, ka waiho te Kirihimete hei wā tino pai hei pātai. Nō reira, anei tā mātou koha māu i tēnei wā hararei: He rārangi o ngā whakaaro Kirihimete ataahua mō te tono marena! Ka āwhina i a koe ki te whakarite i ō mahere tono Kirihimete ohorere, me te hanga kia ahurei pērā i tō pūrākau aroha.
He Whakaaro Pai Te Tono Mō Te Kotahitanga I Te Kirihimete?
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He kōrero tawhito te whakaaro me pēhea te tono marena i te rā Kirihimete, pērā i ngā purongo rongonui. Anei tētahi whakarāpopototanga iti mōu. I te tau 2014, i tono a Joe Manganiello i a Sofia Vergara i te Pō Kirihimete i a rāua e haere ana ki Hawaii. I te Kirihimete o te tau 2019, i takahia e te kaitākaro reti reti o ngā Olympics, a Lindsey Vonn, ngā paerewa ira tangata, ā, i pātai atu ki te kaitākaro hoki aihi ngaio o mua, a PK Subban.
I te tau 2011, i te rā Kirihimete, i tuturi te kaiwhakaari a Matthew McConaughey ki te aroaro o te tauira me te kaihoahoa, a Camila Alves, ki te toa i tōna ngākau tino. Ā, koinei te mea pai rawa atu: I neke atu a Jerry Seinfeld rāua ko Jessica Seinfeld i tētahi atu taahiraa, ā, i marena rāua i te rā Kirihimete o te tau 1999. "Koinei te wā tino pai ki te kī atu kei te aroha ahau ki a koe," te kī a Seinfeld ki a ia. Titiro? He rite tonu rātou ki a tātou!
Mō tā mātou kaipānui aroha, he kōrero tēnei mō te tono marena i te Kirihimete i a koe e tatau ana i tō rā: Kāore koe e hiahia ki te whakapau i tētahi hararei nui, ki te toro atu rānei ki tētahi pāmu rākau Kirihimete utu nui, ki te whakanui rānei i tētahi rōpū nui me tētahi rākau Kirihimete nui. Ki te kore koe e hiahia. Tonohia te huarahi e hiahia ana koe ki te whakanui tahi i te toenga o tō oranga, heoi, ko te āhua me te āhua e tika ana māu.
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21 Ngā Whakaaro Tino Aroha mō te Tono Kirihimete
I mōhio koe ko te Kirihimete te wā rongonui hei pātai i te marena ki tō hoa aroha, ā, muri iho ko te Tau Hou me te Ngā whakaaro mō te Rā o ValentineAhakoa he tokomaha kua whai i te huarahi haumaru 'he tina Kirihimete aroha me te mowhiti taumau i roto i te karāhe champagne', he tokomaha anō kua pana i te anga whakamua ki te hanga i ā rātou tono Kirihimete kia whai kaupapa, kia whakamiharo hoki. I ngā tau kua pahure ake nei, kua kitea e au he maha ngā whakaaro tono Kirihimete i te kāinga.
Ko te mea tino whakamiharo ko tā taku hoa a Jeremy. I tono tana hoa wahine mā te whakamahi i te nama 4 i te rārangi i raro nei, ā, i miharo te katoa i te rongonga i te kōrero. Kāore ianei tātou katoa e mōhio ana ki tētahi o aua tokorua? Ko te hunga e kore e mutu te kōrero mō te tino pai o te tono ahakoa he maha ngā tau i muri i te marena. Kei te hiahia koe kia pērā anō hoki tō kōrero?
Kua tae ki te wā kia tahuri koe ki ēnei whakaaro tono marena Kirihimete tino aroha e 21 hei whakahihiko me te whakatenatena. Ka whiwhi koe i tētahi whakaaro pakari mō te huarahi e taea ai e koe te tono marena i ngā huarahi rerekē. Kōwhiria te tono marena e pai ana ki te āhua o tō hoa. Kua tae ki te wā kia tīmata tika tātou – whakatangi pūoro koa – me ēnei whakaaro tono marena Kirihimete!
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Ngā Whakaaro mō te Kirihimete i te Kāinga
He whakaaro pai te tīmata i tā kōrua haerenga marena me te tau hou mai i te wāhi haumaru o tō kōrua kāinga. Anei ētahi huarahi ahurei, rongonui hoki mō te tono marena i te Pō Kirihimete, i te rā rānei, he ngāwari ki te putea, he nui hoki ki te ngākau. He kōrero: Ki te noho tahi kōrua, ko te whakamahere i tētahi tono marena ohorere ka nui ake te auahatanga me te tinihanga.
1. He koha i raro i te rākau Kirihimete
Me whakaata te whakaaro Kirihimete i te wairua whakanui o te hui. Ā, he aha te huarahi pai ake hei mahi i tēnā i te whakaranu i tō 'Ka marena koe i ahau?' he wā whakapuare koha huri noa i te rākau Kirihimete! Koinei tētahi o ngā whakaaro tono Kirihimete pai rawa atu ki te kāinga, nā te mea he tino whaiaro, engari he ātaahua.
Whakauruhia he mowhiti ataahua ki roto i te puranga koha. Ina kitea e tō hoa, miharo ki te mea he aha te mea, me pēhea rānei i tae mai ai. Kia whakatuwheratia e rātou, takoto ki raro (tērā rānei whakatika ake i tēnei āhuatanga, me te whakaaro kei te noho koe i runga i te papa) ki runga i te turi kotahi ka tono kia marena koe. Ka miharo rātou ki tāu pātai, ā, ka whakaae kia mau koe i te mowhiti ki tōna ringa.
2. Ko tētahi o ngā whakaaro tono Kirihimete māmā rawa atu ki te kāinga he tōkena ritenga
He tino māmā te whakarite i tāu tono marena tino pai. Ki te mea he tōkena tāu hei utu mō te whakatakoto koha ki raro i te rākau, tāpirihia he tōkena iti ki raro i te tōkena matua o tō hoa. Whakaritea kia rite ki tōna ingoa, ā, puritia te pouaka mowhiti ki roto. Ka taea hoki e koe te tāpiri i tētahi āhua rerekē ki ngā kupu "Ki a (whakauruhia te ingoa), mō te noho ki te rārangi ataahua. Aroha, e Hāta." He pono, ka whakaoho ake tēnei i te hiahia o te tangata e arohaina nuitia ana e koe.
Mā te whakapau kaha atu i a koe kia kite i taua āhua utu nui o tōna mata ka motuhake ai te wā mōu me tō hoa. Ko tētahi wāhanga nui o ngā whakaaro tono Kirihimete ko te whakarite i te wā o te tonoKi te taea e koe te ohorere i a rātou, kua riro i a koe tō rātou ngākau. Haere ki te tiki i taua tōkena, kia miharo ai tō hoa rangatira o muri mai.
3. Whakatakotoria he tono mā te whakamahi i ngā tiakarete i hangaia e te ringa
Kāore he mea e rite ana ki tētahi tono marena i whakaaroarohia e koe, i whakapau kaha hoki ki te mahi. Heoi anō, ka taea e te tangata te tono i ngā mea kua oti kē te whakarite. Engari mā te mahi aroha ka taea te hanga i te wā tino whakahirahira. Ki te mea he pai ki tō hoa wahine ngā mea reka, akohia te hanga tiakarete mai i te tīmatanga. Ka taea e koe te mahi i tēnei mā te akomanga ipurangi, mā te tono āwhina rānei i tētahi hoa. Nā wai i mōhio ka taea e ngā parāoa tiakarete me ngā poraka te hanga whakaaro tono marena i te hararei, tika?
Tuhia ngā reta "WILL YOU MARRY ME?" ki runga i te poraka kotahi, kātahi ka whakarite kia rite ki te panga me ētahi atu mea māmā. Tukua tō hoa kia āta tirotiro i ō rātou roro kia mārama ai koe ki tāu e kōrero nei. E maumahara ana ahau, he mārama tonu, ki te mata pōhēhē o Jeremy i a ia e ngana ana ki te tika o ngā kupu. Engari i tana otinga, he tino pai te utu.
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4. Te whakaaro mō te rama
Ka taea e koe te tono marena mā te whakamahi i ngā momo huarahi e pai ana ki a koe i te hararei. He tino pai te uru o ngā kānara ki te kaupapa o te hararei. Ko tētahi o ngā whakaaro tino pai mō te tono marena Kirihimete ko te whakarite i tētahi rā nui, me te whakapaipai i te wāhi katoa ki ngā kānara. Ka rite ki te mea kua heke ngā whetū ki roto i te rūma. I waenganui, hunaia te mea kei reira ngā kupu, 'Ka marena koe i ahau?', kua tuhia ki runga. Mā ngā rama patupaiarehe me ngā waiata Kirihimete aroha ka waihanga he āhuarangi whakamarie, he āhua piripono hoki.
Ina titiro miharo tō hoa ki te rūma, hopukia te wā, ka tūohu ki raro i te taha o taua rama. Tangohia tō pouaka mowhiti, hopukia tōna ringa ki roto i tōu, ka pātai atu ki a rātou te pātai whakamutunga. Mea atu ki a rātou kei te te tangata tika māu, ā, kua mōhio tonu koe ki tēnā. He ātaahua tonu ngā whakaaro tono mō te Kirihimete; ka taea e koe te whakaaro noa ki te ataahua o tēnei.
Ngā Whakaaro mō te Hararei
Ka taea e koe te whakaaro ngāwari ki ngā whakaaro tono pai rawa atu i te rā Kirihimete. He aha ai? Arā, tirohia ngā whakanuinga, ngā tikanga Kirihimete, te kakara o ngā rākau Kirihimete, te tumanako ki te tau hou, ngā mea reka, me ngā hakari! He mea ngāwari noa iho tēnei. Ko ngā hararei te wā e noho tahi ai koe me te hunga e tata ana ki a koe, nō reira, ina tono koe ki tō hoa mō ngā whakanuinga Kirihimete mō te wā katoa, ka waiho te wā hei tohu mō tō piripono. Kua rite koe ki te peke atu me te whakarewa i ō rātou ngākau?
5. Tono marena me te kāri Kirihimete
Ki te mea kei te mahi tonu koe i ngā kāri Kirihimete, koinei pea tētahi o ngā hararei māmā engari ataahua. whakaaro tonoKi te kore, he aha te wā pai ake hei tīmata i tētahi tikanga hou? Waihangahia he mea takai maha mai i te tīmatanga, mā te whakamahi i ō whakaahua tino pai o kōrua, ka tuhi i ētahi maharatanga utu nui ki ia takai. I waenganui, whakatakotoria ngā kupu 'Ka marena koe i ahau?' ki te taha mārama.
I a rātou e wetewete ana i te kāri i tētahi ata Kirihimete ataahua, ka taea e koe te tango i te mowhiti i roto i tō pēke ka tuturi ki raro hei whakaoti i te kawa. Ki taku whakaaro koinei tētahi o ngā whakaaro tono marena tino reka i te Kirihimete, nā te mea he māmā noa iho. Kāore he whakaritenga matatini, he pepa takai rānei e hiahiatia ana hei whakatinana i tēnei whakaaro. Me whai kāri noa koe, he kupu aroha, me te wā tika.
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6. He whakaaro mō te kaiwhakahaere Kirihimete hei whakaatu i tō whare moemoeā
Kei te whakaaro koe ki te tono marena i te Pō Kirihimete? He whakaaro Kirihimete whakamiharo tēnei hei aro atu. Whakatūria tō ake whare kai, me te moenga pēpi, a Hohepa, a Meri, a te anahera a Kapariera, me ngā tohunga tokotoru. Kātahi, whakatūria he whare iti ki tētahi wāhi. Mena kua kōrero kōrua ko tō hoa mō te āhua o te whare o ō moemoeā, tikina he whare iti i hangaia e tētahi kaihoahoa.
Ki te kore, ka taea e koe te whakamahi i tō whakaaro auaha, ka tito i tētahi hoahoa e hiahia ana koe kia noho harikoa ake tonu atu me te aroha o tōu ao. Ina pātai mai rātou he aha te mea, tonoa rātou kia whakatuwhera. Kāore he take ki te kī, he mowhiti taumau kei muri i taua tatau iti nei e tatari ana ki a rātou. Tāpirihia ki te "E hiahia ana ahau ki te noho tahi me koe i roto i tētahi whare pēnei i tēnei." E tino mohio ana mātou ka rewa te ngākau o tō hoa aroha, pērā i te hukarere i runga i te nikau, i a kōrua e mimiti ana i te harikoa o e taumau ana.
7. Kāore e warewaretia te whakaaro whakapaipai Kirihimete
Kei te rapu whakaaro mō te tono Kirihimete e kore e kitea e tō hoa? Me pēhea te hanga i tāu ake whakapaipai Kirihimete hei whakaoho i te pātai? Tikina he pere me ngā kupu 'marena māua' kua tuhia ki runga, ka herea te mowhiti taumau ki te wāhi o tōna arero. Mea atu ki tō hoa kia rapu i tētahi mea motuhake e huna ana i roto i te rākau, i a koe e noho ana, e tatari ana. Ki te tūpono rātou ki tēnā, kia rite ki te tūohu ki raro, ka tono atu kia noho tahi rāua i tēnei ao.
Kei te rapu tonu te katoa i ngā huarahi rerekē hei whakaatu i tō rātou hiahia kua rite ki te whakapau kaha, engari he tino angitu tēnei whakaaro. He tino ohorere, he uaua hoki ki te matapae. Ahakoa te nui o te whakaaro, e kore e taea e tō hoa te whakaaro i tētahi tono pēnei. Heoi, kia kaua e whakakīia te rākau ki ngā pere me ngā whakapaipai Kirihimete, ki te kore ka ngenge tō hoa ki te rapu i te mea e tika ana.
8. Hangaia anō te Aroha whakapae
Ina whakaaro koe ki ngā whakaaro tono hararei, ko taua whakaaturanga whaki hara e hangai ana ki tētahi papa kāri mai i Aroha Tērā pea ka puta ake i roto i tō hinengaro. Mena he pai ki a kōrua ko tō hoa wahine ēnei momo kiriata aroha rongonui, ko te hanga anō i taua mea pea te whakaaro tino pai mō te tono marena. Whakaritea he raupapa papa e kī ana he aha me te nui o tō aroha ki tō hoa, ā, hiritia te whakaaetanga ki te pātai "Ka marena koe i ahau?".
Ae, me mahi koe i tō tatau o mua, me ngā rama Kirihimete me ngā whakapaipai hei papamuri. He tino whakaaro nui, he nui rawa atu hoki, ka taea e ēnei whakaaro tono Kirihimete te mahi pērā i te makutu. Ka hangaia he aura motuhake, ā, ka miharo tō hoa!
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9. Ko te tono mistletoe tētahi o ngā whakaaro tono Kirihimete māmā rawa atu ki te kāinga
Kei te rapu koe i ngā whakaaro tono marena Kirihimete whakakatakata? Kaua e rapu atu, nā te mea kei a au… te mistletoe! He kihi i raro i te mistletoe, ā, muri iho ka tūohu koe ki raro, ka tono ki te aroha o tō ao kia marenatia koe, he mea tino pai rawa atu tēnei tono Kirihimete. Kei roto ngā kaupapa katoa e tika ana, ā, kua whakakiia ki ngā kōrero aroha.
Ki te aroha tō hoa wahine ki ngā mea katoa e pā ana ki te Kirihimete, ka rewa tōna ngākau i tēnei. Kua kitea e au he mea whakamiharo te kihi i mua i tō haerenga atu ki te tono i a ia kia marena koe. Tonohia i te wā kāore he tangata i te taha — Mā tēnei, ka taea e koe kia noho tūmataiti tō oranga aroha ā, tiakina tēnei wā ataahua i waenganui i a kōrua. Ka nui atu te utu ina waiho hei maharatanga noa iho mā kōrua.
Te Tono Kirihimete me te Whānau
Hei whakatinana i ō whakaaro tono marena mō te Pō Kirihimete, me tono mai tō whānau me ō hoa. Tērā pea me whakarite e koe tētahi pāti Kirihimete nui me tō hoa aroha i roto i te 'Marriage Proposal Christmas Extravaganza', me manaaki rānei koe i tētahi huihuinga nui a te hunga e arohaina ana, me haere hararei rānei me te whānau, me waea puku atu rānei ki a rātou hei āwhina i a koe ki te whakamahere i tētahi o ō whakaaro tono marena nui mō Hakihea – i muri i te tuara o tō hoa.
E ai ki te Ahorangi Tuarua mō te Hapori i te Appalachian State Institute, a Ellen Lamont ki konei"Ka hangaia e ngā hararei te wairua whānau nā ngā tikanga me ngā tikanga whānau o te whakanuinga. I te wā o te whakanuinga ka tino rongo koe he whānau koutou, ā, mā te tono marena, ka hangaia he whānau hou."
Whakaarohia kei te noho tō whānau tūturu me tō whānau whiriwhiri i te wāhi kotahi i te rā Kirihimete, me tō hoa rangatira me te mowhiti taumau e tatari ana. whanau whakakotahi ka whakaharikoa koe, ka tangi hoki, i a koe e kukume ana i tō hoa aroha mutunga kore me ēnei whakaaro tono marena:
10. Tonohia te marena me ō whanaunga
Mena he whānau piripono tō kōrua ko tō hoa rangatira, ā, e pai ana ki te noho tahi i te Kirihimete, karangatia ō whanaunga katoa ki tētahi tina Kirihimete. Ka taea e koe te mahi i tētahi mea rerekē pērā i te hoko pihikete Kirihimete mō te katoa, engari me tono he pihikete ritenga mō tō hoa rangatira. Mēnā rānei, whakamahia te mowhiti kua whakamatautauria i roto i te putorino champagne, i te keke rānei hei pātai atu. Mēnā rānei, tikina he pōtae Hāta me ngā kupu koura e whā kua whakairohia ki runga.
I te mea kei te tautokohia koe e te hunga katoa e arohaina ana e koe, e arohaina ana e koe, ka nui ake te motuhake o te wā. Ā, ahakoa te āhua o tāu tono marena. Mā te noho mai o te hunga katoa e nui ana ki a koe ka whakarei ake i te āhuarangi.
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11. Whakatakoto tono me ngā ahi ahi kua whakaritea
Tērā pea ka puta tēnei hei whakaaro Kirihimete tino whakamiharo, he auaha, he ātaahua hoki. Tikina he pihikete Kirihimete me ngā ahi ahi kua whakaritea kia rite ki te kupu, "Ka marena koe i ahau?" i te rangi. I a tō hoa e titiro whakamiharo ana, e mōhio ana koe ki tāu mahi i muri mai - herea he mowhiti ki runga!
Ahakoa he nui te utu mō te tono marena Kirihimete, kāore e taea te utu i te aroha. Haunga tēnā, he koha Kirihimete pai rawa atu tēnei tono mai i ō hoa aroha. Kei reira tonu rātou i tō kōrua taha, e titiro ana ki ō kōrua ataata kanapa me te roimata me te aroha. Tērā pea he whaiāipo tūmanako, kia tino mohio kei te maioha tō hoa ki ēnei mahi whakamiharo.
12. Whakatūria he rōpū rapu taonga
Ko te wairua hakari me te harikoa o tētahi ohorere pai ka hanga he ranunga pai. Nō reira, whakamahia tēnei mea rongonui hei whakarite i tō tono Kirihimete ohorere. Kōrero atu ki tō hoa me whiwhi rātou i tā rātou koha i tēnei tau mā te whakaoti rapanga taonga. Ehara tēnei i te mea onge, ā, e kore rātou e whakapae i tetahi mea. Waihangahia he raupapa tohu me ngā panga hei kawe i a rātou ki te wāhi e tatari mai ana tētahi mowhiti kanapa ki a rātou.
Ka taea e koe te hanga i tēnei kia rite ki tāu e pai ai koha tokorua, ngā katakata o roto, me ngā maharatanga. Whakauruhia ngā hoa me te whānau hei āwhina i tō hoa wahine kia tae ki tōna ūnga. Kia ātaahua te āhua o te wāhi whakamutunga, kia kore e miharo. Mō tētahi wā poto, ka pōuri tō hoa rangatira ina kite noa rātou i tētahi kāri Kirihimete. Engari kāore rātou i te mōhio he aha kei roto i te pouaka mowhiti! Ki taku whakaaro, he pai tēnei whakaaro mō ngā tāne me ngā wāhine ngahau e hiahia ana ki te haere tahi.
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13. Te whakaaro mō te keke kanekane
Mō ngā mea rongonui o te Kirihimete, he hapa te kore whakahua i te whare keke kanekane. He nui ngā wāhi hei whakamahi i tēnei hei tito i tētahi o ngā whakaaro tino rongonui mō te Kirihimete. I runga i ō pūkenga tunu kai, hangaia he whare keke kanekane mai i te tīmatanga me tō whānau me ō hoa, me tono atu rānei ki tētahi tohunga mō te āwhina. Heoi anō, ko tāu e hiahia ana kia tino tika ngā wāhanga katoa o tēnei wā nui.
Whakatakotoria he reta tono Kirihimete whakaaweawe ki runga i te taupee o tō whare keke kanekane. Kātahi ka uru atu ki tō hoa me ō whanaunga ki te kai i a koe e tae atu ana ki te mowhiti. Kaua e ngana ki te mahi noa, nā te mea ka tukuna e koe te ngeru ki waho o te putea. Tukua tō hoa kia kai noa kia tae rā anō ki te pouaka mowhiti. Kāore rātou e tumanako ka kitea he kohatu kanapa i roto i tā rātou kai reka, ā, he mea tino pai tēnei hei whakaaro tono Kirihimete ohorere!
Ka taea e koe te pānui i tētahi reta aroha ki tō hoa rangatira i mua i te aroaro o te katoa mēnā e hiahia ana koe. He puku kī tonu i te keke kanekane me te ngākau kī tonu i te aroha, he tauira anō tēnei o ngā mea reka me mā ngā tiakarete ka reka ake ngā whanaungatanga.
Ngā Whakaaro Motuhake mō te Kirihimete
Kāore e pai ngā whakaaro katoa mō te tono Kirihimete ki te whānau. Pātai atu ki a Abby, te kiripuaki a Kristen Stewart, mai i te kiriata Kirihimete. Wa HarakoaI kōrero a Harper ki a Abby kāore ōna mātua i te mōhio mō tō rāua whanaungatanga… I TE HĀERE ki te kāinga o te whānau o Harper mō ngā whakanuinga whakanui! Kāore i taea e Abby te tono marena i te rā Kirihimete i te huarahi i hiahia ai ia. Engari ka taea e koe. Me whakarite noa kia whakaurua mai e koe ngā tāngata e tautoko katoa ana i a koe. Me hanga rānei hei huihuinga whaiaro, me kōrua anake.
14. Maramataka Aranga Whakaritea
He wāhanga nui ngā Maramataka Āweneti o ngā whakanuitanga Kirihimete tuku iho me te wā whakanui. Whakahokia mai mā te whakarite i tētahi mō tō tono. Me hiahia koe ki tētahi whata rakau me ngā putea hessian iti e 24 hei hanga i tētahi. Ka taea rānei e koe te hoko i tētahi mai i te whata ka whakarite mā te tāpiri i ngā tuhipoka mō ngā maharatanga rerekē me ngā tohu whanaungatanga ki roto i ia putea.
Kātahi, i te rā whakamutunga, makahia te mowhiti taumau ki roto i te putea whakamutunga, ka tatari kia huakina e tō hoa. Kia tino whiwhi koe i tō mowhiti taumau te rahi o te mowhiti a te hoa tika, me te kore e ara ake te whakapae. Tohutohu ngaio: he whakaaro pai te whakaroa i te tāpiri i te mowhiti ki te ranunga tae noa ki te rā whakamutunga, nā te mea kāore koe e hiahia kia huraina tō tono Kirihimete ohorere nā te mea e titiro puku ana tō hoa pākiki ki roto i ngā putea katoa i te wā kotahi.
15. Kōrerohia me ngā poihau
Kei te hiahia koe ki te mōhio me pēhea te tono marena i ngā huarahi rerekē? Ka tino pai te whakakotahitanga o tētahi ara o ngā poihau whero ki te whakapaipai Kirihimete i tō wāhi. Ahakoa he rerekē te kōwhiringa a tō hoa rangatira, ka taea e koe te kī he mea whakahihiri tēnei. Nō reira, tikina he poihau nui āhua ngākau, ka huna te mowhiti me tētahi panuku tono marena motuhake ki roto. Kātahi ka hangaia he ara o ngā mea iti āhua ngākau, kei roto i ia ara he he reta aroha aroha mō tō hoa aroha.
Me tono atu ki a rātou kia pakū ia tangata, ia tangata, ka pānui i te karere i roto i a rātou e haere ana, tae noa ki te poihau whakamutunga. Mātakihia te panoni o ō rātou āhua me ngā tuhipoka ā-ringa e tino ngākau nui ana. I te pakūnga whakamutunga o te poihau, pakūhia hoki tō pātai! Ehara ianei tēnei i tētahi o ngā whakaaro tono marena Kirihimete hou rawa atu?
Te pānui e pā ana: Kia pēhea te roa e mōhio ai te tāne e hiahia ana ia ki te marena i a koe?
16. Tonohia māua me ngā rama Kirihimete 'marena māua'
(Kia mataara: Koinei tētahi o ngā whakaaro tino aroha mō te tono marena Kirihimete.) He hononga tahi ngā rama patupaiarehe me te Kirihimete. Nō reira, he aha e kore ai e whakamahi i tēnei huinga tino pai hei tono marena mā te auaha? Kimihia he wā mokemoke hei whakatū i ēnei rama ki te pakitara o tō rūma noho. Ko te mea pai, ki te taha tonu o te wāhi e waiho ana te rākau Kirihimete.
Whakawetohia ngā rama katoa ina mōhio koe kua tae ki te wā tō hoa wairua kia tomo atu. I a rātou e whakakā ana i a rātou anō, mātakitaki i te hinganga o ō rātou kauae ki raro ina kite rātou i te tangi o te kupu 'Ka marena koe i ahau?' i runga i te pakitara. Ae ra, kia rite te mowhiti, te champagne, me te tina Kirihimete motuhake. Ka pai ake tēnei mēnā kei te tono marena koe i te Pō Kirihimete. Kei te menemene ahau i te whakaaro ki tō wā tino pai!
17. Ngā whakaaro mō te Hakihea mō te hunga e aroha ana ki ngā mahi mōrearea: Haere i te hikoi Kirihimete
Ki te mea he pai ki a kōrua ko tō hoa te taiao, whakaarohia he rā hotoke whakamarie i waho. He hikoi ata, he hikoi poto rānei ki roto i te ngahere, he wāhi tino pai mō te tono marena. Me mahi ō mahi kāinga, ā, kimihia te wāhi tino pai hei tono. Rapua he āwhina mai i ō hoa ki te whakarite i te wāhi me te paraikete me te kete pikiniki. I muri i te noho tahi me te whakamarie i te ata makariri o te hotoke, tangohia te mowhiti mai i tō pēke ka tono marena.
He awhi i te ata makariri, he kai reka, he mahana, me te pātai nui. Tērā pea he pai ake? Kāore au i te whakaaro. Mēnā kei te hiahia koe ki te tono marena i te Kirihimete, me te kore e tino whakanui rawa, e tino whakamīharo rānei, koinei te kōwhiringa pai rawa atu ka taea e koe te whai. He kaupapa Kirihimete ngawari tōna, engari kāore e karanga ana i ngā 'Jingle Bells'.
Te pānui e pā ana: 17 Ngā Whakaaro Aroha mō te puni hei whakamarie i tō hoa rangatira
Ngā Whakaaro mō te Takurua
Kāore ianei ngā pāmu rākau Kirihimete e rite ana ki ngā wāhi makutu? Ina koa mēnā he hukarere. Ahakoa he papamuri hukarere tōu, he reti retihuka rānei mō te wā Kirihimete, he rite te kupu 'tono marena hotoke' ki tētahi mea ka taea e koe te whakawhirinaki atu ki roto i ngā tau i muri mai, me te rongo tonu i ngā pō whakamarie e ngenge ana i roto. Ko ngā whakaaro e whai ake nei e whakaatu ana i te mahana, te marino, me te kotahitanga e kawea mai ana e te rangi makariri.
18. Kōrerohia me te tangata hukarere
Ki te hukarere tō Kirihimete, he huarahi ngahau tēnei ki te pātai atu ki tō hoa aroha. Haere ki te hanga i tētahi tangata hukarere i te ata Kirihimete. Ki te wātea, whakamaua te mowhiti taumau ki tōna maihao rākau. Kātahi, tatari kia kitea e tō hoa rangatira, me kī atu rānei, "Tirohia taku i kite ai." I a rātou e ngana ana ki te mārama ki te mahi a tētahi mowhiti ataahua ki te maihao o te tangata hukarere, pātai atu ki a rātou he aha tāu i hiahia nui ai.
Mena he Kaiwhaiwhai Disney, ka taea e koe te whakamahi i te tohutoro rongonui mai i Frozen me te whakahua i a Olaf: "He pai te hono atu ki ētahi tāngata." Mā tēnei ka tāpirihia taua pā motuhake ki tētahi o ngā whakaaro tono marena tino kanapa mō te Kirihimete. He tohu tāpiri atu mēnā kua tono kē koe ki tētahi hoa kia tangohia he whakaahua o tō wā pakiwaitara kia maumahara ai koe ki tēnā ake ake.
19. He whakaaro parakuihi whakamarie i roto i te moenga
Christmas ngā koha mō tō hoa wahine Ehara i te mea ko te marena me te hoa tāne anake te huarahi hei whakarite mō te wā nui. Whakangawaritia tō hoa aroha ki te parakuihi i te moenga i mua i te pātai i te pātai o te hāora. Kātahi, whakamahia te mahi tinihanga matarohia o te mowhiti i roto i te pupuri hua manu. Hei whakapai ake i te āhua, tikina he kapu "Ka marena koe i ahau?" ka ringihia he tiakarete wera reka ki roto.
Tukua te tiakarete wera i te tuatahi, ā, muri iho ka kawea mai te paepae parakuihi. Kia tae atu ai rātou ki te ipu hua manu i te wā e inu ana i te inu whakamutunga, ā, ka tau ō rātou kanohi ki ngā kupu kua tāia ki raro. Ka tino honoa te katoa. Ki te mea he tangata tūmataiti koe, ko ngā whakaaro tono Kirihimete pēnei i te kāinga te huarahi pai hei whai. Ka taea e koe te mātaki i tētahi kiriata Kirihimete, me te takoto kau i roto i ngā paraikete, i muri tonu i tēnei.
20. Haere ki Central Park
Kāo, ehara tēnei whakaaro i te mea mā te hunga e noho ana i Niu Ioka anake. Ki te mea kei a koe te moni hei utu, rere atu kōrua ko tō hoa ki Niu Ioka i te rā i mua i te Kirihimete. He tino pai mō ngā tāngata he utu nui ō rātou, ā, e aroha ana ki te oranga rangatiraKa taea e koe te whakamahi i tētahi herenga mahi ka taea te karo hei whakamārama, me te kī atu e hiahia ana koe kia haere mai rātou nā te mea kāore koe e pai ki te wehe i te Kirihimete. Mēnā rānei he haerenga mutunga wiki mō ngā hararei; he okiokinga e tino hiahiatia ana mai i ngā mahi o ia rā.
Whakaritea he haerenga hōiho mā Central Park i te Pō Kirihimete, kātahi ka heke iho i te mutunga o te haerenga. Tukua mārire tō turi ki raro, ka unuhia te mowhiti. Ka miharo tō hoa rangatira ki tāu tono hararei.
21. Whakamaherehia he pō nui mō tēnei wā whakanui
Anei te whakamutunga o ā mātou whakaaro mō te Kirihimete. He aha e kore ai e peita i te tāone ki te whero i mua i te rā tino motuhake tohu paetae whanaungatanga Kua oti kē? Ki te mea kei te tono marena koe i te Pō Kirihimete, whakaritea he pō whakahirahira hei haerenga mā kōrua ki ngā wāhi tino pai katoa o te tāone. Tiakina te mea he tikanga nui ki a kōrua hei tokorua – ko te mowhiti reti reti pea i kihi ai kōrua, i kī atu rānei 'Aroha ana ahau ki a kōrua' mō te wā tuatahi – ka tono atu ki a rāua kia marena kōrua ki reira.
Ka tino kaha ō kare ā-roto ina hoki whakamuri koe i te wā o ngā maharatanga, ā, he pai ake mēnā he maha ngā wā okioki mō te tiakarete wera me te tina Kirihimete whakakīkī i runga i te paraikete pikiniki. Kāore au e miharo mēnā he harikoa koe, he pōrearea hoki. Kua titiro whakamuri koe ki te tawhiti kua tae mai koe, i mua i te tīmatanga o tētahi upoko hou o ōu oranga. Ka waiho hei wā tino kore e warewaretia.
Ko te tumanako kua kitea e koe tāu mahere tino tika i roto i tēnei rārangi whakaaro mō te tono Kirihimete. Tīmata ki te whakarite, nā te mea i mua i tō mōhio ka tata mai te rā nui. Tuhia mai ki a mātou ka kōrero mai ki a mātou me pēhea koe i whakautu ai i tāu pātai nui — E harikoa ana mātou ki te rongo atu i a koe!
FAQs
Ko te Rā Kirihimete te rā rongonui mō te tono marena, ā, muri iho ko te Tau Hou me te Rā o Valentine. Ka taea e koe te tango i tō pouaka mowhiti ka pātai atu ki tō hoa rangatira i tētahi o ēnei rā motuhake!
Ae, ko te Kirihimete te wā tino pai ki te tono marena. Ko te wairua harikoa me te ngākau harikoa, ko ngā koha Kirihimete, me te pepa takai kanapa, ka taea e ēnei mea katoa te whakanui ake i te mīharotanga o te wā. Ki te mea he tokorua kōrua e uru ana ki te whakanui me te hihiri, ka maumahara tonu kōrua ki te tono marena.
Mai i te huna i te mowhiti taumau ki roto i tētahi pouaka koha i raro i te rākau Kirihimete, i te tākai rānei, ki te hanga Maramataka Aranga, mai i te whakamahi rama ki ngā rama Kirihimete 'Mārena māua!', he tini ngā huarahi auaha hei pātai i te wā hararei. Tirohia tā mātou rārangi i runga ake nei mō ētahi whakaaro hihiri mō ngā tono Kirihimete!
Hei whakatakoto i tētahi tono Kirihimete, ngana ki te whakauru i ngā āhuatanga whakanui pērā i ngā rama patupaiarehe, ngā kānara, he rākau Kirihimete, he tōkena, tae atu ki te tiakarete wera me te whare keke kanekane ki roto i tō mahere. Kei roto i te kaupapa o te Kirihimete he whānuitanga o ngā taonga me ngā mahi. Ka mahi whakamiharo tetahi o ēnei māu me tō hoa aroha!
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