Kua whakaaro kē koe me pēhea te waimarie o ētahi tāne ki ia kōtiro e ngana ana rātou ki te kukume i a koe? Tērā pea i hiahia koe kia rite tō pūkenga ki tā rātou. Tērā pea ka whakaaro koe he hunga ātaahua ēnei tāne, he taonga pea nā te atua, engari ko te pono he mahi toi te kukume i a koe, ā, mā te mahi, ka taea e koe te rite te pai ki a rātou. Ko te mea ngaro ko te whakawai i te taha whakarara.
Ko ngā tāne katoa e āhua ana he pai ki ngā wāhine, ka whakamahi noa i te whakawai wehewehe, ahakoa he mōhio, he kore mōhio rānei. He taputapu kaha tēnei hei whakawai i ngā wāhine, ā, kāore he pūtaiao tere hei whakauru atu. Nō te ingoa 'wehewehe' te ingoa, he tukanga wehewehe e wehea ai te ranunga kotahi ki ētahi wāhanga iti. Ki te hiahia koe ki te whai i roto i tā rātou rōpū, ko tēnei aratohu taipitopito mō te whakawai wehewehe hei hoa kaha mōu.
He aha te Whakangau Fractionation?
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Ko te whakawai whakarara he tikanga whakawai e whakamahia ana e ngā tāne, ā, kua whanake haere i roto i ngā tau. Nā te Kaiwhakarite Reo Neuron a John Grinder i hanga, ā, i muri mai ka whakawhanakehia anō e Derek Rake. I tukuna e rātou tētahi akoranga e kīia nei ko Sonic Seduction, e wātea tonu ana i runga ipurangi. Ko te hinengaro whakarara he tikanga e whakamahi ana i te toi o te whakatenatena me te hypnosis hei wetewete me te iriti i te hinengaro wahine. He maha ngā wā ka whakamahia hei huarahi whakahaere kare ā-roto.
E mōhiotia ana ka whakapōrearea i te whakaaro o te wahine mā te rere o ngā kare ā-roto e ranea tonu ana, ā, ka ngaro tōna mana whakahaere, ka tukua ki te kaiwhakawai. Ka hoatu ki ngā tāne te mea kua roa e hiahiatia ana e rātou – te mana ki te kukume, ki te whakawai rānei i ngā wāhine me te kore e uaua. Kei roto i tēnei he mana whakahaere hinengaro, ā, ka mahi i roto i te huarahi e whakaaro ai te wahine kei te hiahia ia ki te noho tahi me te tāne.
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Ki te mea kāore anō kia rongo koe mō te hinengaro wehewehe, nā te mea kāore i te tino noa te tikanga i mua engari kei te piki haere te rongonui i ia rā, i ia rā. E kitea ana koinei te whakautu ki te raruraru tonu, "He aha ngā mea e hiahiatia ana e ngā wāhine?" Ka haria koe e tēnei pūkenga pōuri ki roto i te hinengaro o te wahine, ā, ka āwhina i a koe ki te mārama ki tāna e hiahia ana, ki ōna āwangawanga, me pēhea te whakautu. Kia mōhiotia, ko te whakamahi i ngā raina whakawai wehewehe he huarahi kaha ki te kukume i te wahine.
Ehara i te mea he whai hua noa te whakawai i te whakapohehe ā-ira engari he tere ake te hua, i ētahi wā i roto i ngā meneti ruarua. Haunga ngā kaiwhaiwhai o te ahurea hononga, e whakaaro ana ētahi tāne ko te whakaipoipo auau he wiki te roa o te mahi ki te toa i tōna whakapono, te manaaki i te wahine, te whakapumau i a ia kei te whakaaro tonu koe ki a ia, te hoatu koha ki a ia, te hoko kakahu ataahua me ngā whakapaipai ataahua mōna, me te mōhio ko ngā putea hiako tonu tōna ngoikore. Ko te tikanga he maha ngā rā, he wiki rānei te roa o tēnei tukanga, i ētahi wā he marama, he tau rānei, ā, koinei te wā e waimarie ana koe.
Kāore ngā wāhine e hiahia ana ki ēnei mea mai i te tangata e piri tahi ana rātou, engari e whakaaro ana ētahi tāne e hiahia ana rātou. Mō ēnei tāne kore aro, he whakaora te tikanga wehewehenga nā te mea kāore rātou e hiahia ki te moumou taima nui ki te whakahoki mai i te aroha o te wahine ki a rātou, ki te moe tahi me rātou. E hiahia ana rātou ki te whakahaere wawe i te hinengaro o te wahine, kia whakaaro ia nā te wahine te whakaaro kia noho tahi rātou, ā, waiho ia kia pōhēhē, kia pouri hoki. Kātahi rātou ka haere ki tā rātou whāinga e whai ake nei.
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Ki ētahi atu tāne, ehara i te mea mō te tinihanga engari mō te aroha. Ka whakaroa rātou ki te haere ki te aroha o ō rātou ao, ā, ka whakamahia tēnei tikanga hei whakatutuki i tana hiahia. Mā te wehewehenga, ka taea e koe te whakapoto i te roro o te wahine, ā, ka meinga ia kia aroha ki a koe i roto i ngā meneti noa iho o te haora. Ki te kore te wahine e mōhio ki ngā mahi o roto o ēnei mahi tinihanga, kāore pea ia e mōhio ki tāna e pā ana. Ā, ka tino hinga ia ki tēnei tangata i mua i tana hopu i tōna hinengaro. Ahakoa he hiahia, he aroha rānei, ahakoa pēhea, ehara tēnei i te huarahi tino tika ki te whakaipoipo i tētahi.
Mena he wahine koe e pānui ana i tēnei, whakamahia te wā ki te mārama me pēhea te whakahaeretia o koe, ā, me kimi pea he huarahi atamai ake hei whakahaere i tētahi tāne pēnei. Tērā pea kei te kōrero kanohi ki te kanohi ia ki a koe, kei te whakamahi rānei i ngā karere kuputuhi whakawai fractionation. Mō ngā tāne, inoi kia kaua ngā wāhine e whakamahi ana koe i ēnei ki te toro mai ki tēnei whārangi. Waihoki, ki te hiahia noa koe ki te ako i tēnei tikanga kia taea ai e koe te kōrero ki tētahi wahine, kaua hoki e whakahaere i ōna kare ā-roto, arotahi ki te whakatipu i ngā āhuatanga e whakamoemititia ana e ngā wāhine i roto i ngā tāne hei hoatu i taua painga anō ki a koe i roto i ō mahi ki te toa i a ia. E tino mōhio ana ahau, i tēnei wā, me tino hiahia koe ki te mōhio ki te mahi a te whakawai fractionation. Anei rā.
Ngā Tauira o te Whakangau i te Wehewehenga
Ko tētahi tauira o te whakawai wehewehenga ko te kitenga i tētahi tāne e kōrero ana ki tētahi wahine, ā, i roto i te iti iho i te 15 meneti, ka whakaae ia ki te haere tahi me ia. Koinei te makutu o tēnei tikanga. I mua i tō mōhio, kua ngaro koe i tōna mana. Ko tētahi atu tauira ko te whakaaro o ngā wāhine kua nui rawa ā rātou kōrero i mua tata i tō rātou rā tuatahi.
I tuhituhi mai tētahi kaipānui, a Cameron, ki a mātou, "He tangata tūpato, he tangata mārire ahau i te nuinga o te wā, engari he huarahi tā tēnei tangata hei whakamarie i ahau, ā, aue, i tino kukume ahau ki a ia. I rite ahau ki te mea kua roa ahau e mōhio ana ki a ia. I rite ki te mea he kukume aukume tā māua." I pohehe ia he 'hononga tere'. Kāore he take ki te kī, i tana neke atu, i rite ia me te mea kua tinihangatia ia e ōna kare ā-roto. Me pēhea ia i whakaaro ai ki tāna i mahi ai, ā, i tino hē ia mōna? I whakamārama tā mātou tohunga ki a ia ehara i te mea nāna te he.
He maha ngā wā, ko ngā tāne e whakamahi ana i tēnei tikanga he rapu hononga, he hononga poto rānei. I roto i tēnei āhuatanga, ka tino kino te whakapono o te wahine ki tētahi hononga kāore i te nui ki tētahi atu. Pānuihia tonutia kia mōhio ai koe ina whakamātauria koe kia whakawaia mā te tikanga wehewehe.
Ahakoa he maha ngā ingoa mō te whakawai i te whakapohehe i te wahine, pērā i te toi rāhui, te toi pōuri rānei, ka kiia e au he toi tinihanga. Nā te mea he mahi tinihanga tēnei, kāore te wahine e mōhio ki te mea e tinihangatia ana ia. Ka whakaatu te tangata i te whakaaro o ia anō e hiahia ana te wahine kia kite, ā, i roto i tēnei mahi, ka tukua ia ki ngā mahi tinihanga a te tāne, ā, ka aru noa i a ia ki te wāhi e hiahia ana ia ki te kawe i a ia.
I a ia e tuku karere ana, e kōrero ana rānei mō te whakawai, ka whakaaro ia ka taea e ia te whakakorikori i a ia. Ka kōrero ia mō te wahine kai reka i kitea e ia i te toa, ā, i te aonga ake ka riro mai i a ia. I hiahia tonu ia ki te kai Alexa, nā te aha ia i mōhio ai? Ko te kai Thai tana tino kai, kua tonoa kētia e ia māna i runga ipurangi mai i ngā wharekai katoa o te tāone. Nā, kōrero mai ki a mātou, me pēhea e kore ai ia e aroha ki a ia?
He tino kaha te mahi tinihanga a te tāne e whakamahi ana i te tikanga wehewehe, ahakoa he iti noa iho te whakaaro kei te hē tetahi mea, kāore e taea te karo i tana whai i tana i pai ai. I tuhituhi mai tētahi kōtiro ki a mātou mō te ngaronga o tōna wahinetanga ki tētahi tāne, he tau noa iho ia i runga i tana papa kaute.
Koinei tonu te mea e hiahiatia ana e te tini o ngā tāne, tika? E ngā tāne, ahakoa ka hoatu e mātou he tohutohu hei miharo i te wahine, kia mahara ko te tangata kē atu he tangata kare ā-roto, he tangata manawa, he tangata whai kare ā-roto pērā i a koe. Ki te whakamahi koe i tēnei tikanga hei tinihanga me te wawahi i te ngākau o te wahine, kia mōhio koe ka hoki mai te ora, ā, kāore i tawhiti te karma.
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Me pēhea, ā, āhea hoki te whakamahi i te whakawai wehewehenga?
Ahakoa kua whakamahia hētia ngā mea ngaro o te whakawai i te wehewehenga e te tini o ngā tāne, he mahi pai anō hoki ēnei mō te tāne ngoikore te whakapono kua roa e aroha ana ki tētahi wahine, engari ko te whakaaro kei waho ia i tana taumata kei te aukati i a ia ki te whakatata atu ki a ia. Kia titiro tātou me pēhea te mahi a te whakawai i te wehewehenga, me pēhea hoki te whakamahi pai a ngā mea pai i tēnei.
Ahakoa te āhua ataahua me te whakamātau o tēnei tikanga, ehara i te mea ngāwari ki te ako. Ko te mea nui ki te ako i tēnei pūkenga ko te whakaharatau. I mua i te whakamahi i tēnei tikanga ki ngā wāhine, me mahi koe i ngā pūkenga e whai ake nei:
- Kōrero māia: He mea nui kia pakari ngā pūkenga whakawhitiwhiti kōrero i roto i tēnei tikanga. Me māia koe, me koi, me te pāpori hoki. Kāore he wahine e pai ki te tāne e pōturi ana, e ngunguru ana i muri i ia kupu.
- WhakanohoiaAhakoa tō āhua, me ātaahua tō āhua. Whakaarohia he aha tāu e kakahu ai i tō rā tuatahiHe pai ki ngā wāhine ngā tāne he pai ō rātou kākahu. E ai ki te kōrero, he nui ngā mea ka kitea mō te tāne i runga i ōna hu.
- Kia mau ki ngā au houEhara pea koe i te tangata e whai ana i ngā au hou, engari me mōhio koe ki ngā mea e kōrerohia ana e te tangata. Pānuihia ngā kōrero mō te ōhanga, te tōrangapū, te whakangahau, me ngā hākinakina. Ki te mutu tō kōrero ki te rerekē rawa atu i te whakaaro o tō wahine, kaua e whakaae noa ki a ia. Whakaaturia ō whakaaro mō te take, me whakamana pea mā te whakamahi i ētahi raraunga, me te whakaae kia kaua e whakaae. E mōhio ana koe, ko te whakapono te mea nui, inā koa ki te wetewete i ngā mea ngaro o te whakawai wehewehenga.
- Kaua e whakaaro iti iho ki a koe anōKia maumahara, me rūpahu koe i mua i te whakaaro he pai ake ia i a koe, me mahi me te mea he tika kōrua tetahi ki tetahi.
- Ma te parakatihi ka tino tika: Whakaharatauhia ō kōrerorero me te wehewehe i ngā rārangi whakawai me ētahi atu wāhine. Whakamātauria te takaro ki tō hoa pai hei whakaharatau, whakamātauria rānei te kata i tētahi kōtiro i tō toa o te rohe. Ka nui ake tō whakamātau, ka pai ake koe. I tuhituhi mai a Manny ki a mātou e whā ngā wā i whakaharatau ai ia ki te hanga katakata me āna hoa wahine i mua i tana kōrero i mua i tana hoa wahine o nāianei.
Me mea kia rongo te wahine e hiahia ana ia ki a koe, kaua ko te ritenga kē. Kāore he aha tō āhua. Ko tō āhua me tō pūkenga ki te whakapoauau i a ia me ōna ake kare ā-roto te mea nui.
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Kia mōhio koe ki ngā mea o runga ake nei, kua rite koe ki te whakamahi i te hinengaro wehewehe ki tētahi wahine e hiahia ana koe. He maha ngā mahi hei whakamahi i te tikanga wehewehe hei whakawai i ngā wāhine, engari ko ngā mahi tino whai hua ko ēnei mahi ngāwari e toru ka kukume i a ia ki a koe i roto i te wā poto. E ngā wāhine, me pānui hoki koutou i ngā kōrero katoa mō tēnei mea hei tiaki i a koe mai i ngā kaipahua, hei mōhio hoki ki te wā e takarohia ana koe.
Engari, me kī mai ki a mātou, mēnā kei te whakamahi tetahi i ēnei tikanga hei tautoko i a koe, me te kore e tumanako ki tetahi utu, ka taea e koe te tuku i tētahi whai wāhitanga ki a rātou? Me whakamōhio mai! Anei ngā kaupae o te tikanga wehewehe.
Hipanga 1: Te hopu i tōna aro
He maha ngā huarahi hei kukume i tōna aro. Mā te mau i tētahi kākahu e kitea ngāwari ana i roto i tētahi rūma kī tonu i te tangata ka tino kukume i tōna aro. Ko te peacocking tēnei tikanga. Kia tino ātaahua tō kākahu, kaua e rerekē, ki te kore ka waiho koe hei kata. Ki te hiahia āwhina ngaio koe, he maha ngā kaitohutohu whakaahua hei āwhina i a koe, ka taea rānei e koe te tono atu ki te wahine hokohoko i te toa kākahu mō āna tohutohu.
Ko te whakatata atu ki a ia me te tīmata kōrero ki a ia tētahi atu huarahi hei tīmata kōrero. Ki te kite koe i a ia i tētahi pāti me tana karāhe kau, me tuku atu he inu whakakī, me mihi ki a ia mō tana ataata, mō ōna hu rānei, me tīmata noa rānei he kōrero mō tētahi mea e pā ana ki te mahi. He tīmatanga pai te mihi ki a ia engari kia mahara, me tino pono tō reo. Koinei te wāhi e whakamahia ai tō kōrero kua whakaharatauhia.
Engari e mōhio ana mātou he nui tō aroha ki a ia. Nō reira, ehara i te mea uaua te mihi atu ki a ia, tika? Kōrerotia ki a ia te pānga o tana mahi ki a koe, te nui rānei o tō aroha ki ōna whakaaro mō tētahi kaupapa, te nui rānei o tō kitenga he nui tōna aroha ki te tangata. Me mea kia motuhake ia.
Hipanga 2: Te whakauru i a ia ki tētahi kōrero
Nā te mea kua aro atu ia ki a koe, me whakauru atu ia ki tētahi kōrero wehewehe. Mena i tūtaki koe ki a ia i runga i tētahi taupānga whakaipoipo, me mōhio koe ki ētahi tīmatanga kōrero i roto i ngā taupānga whakaipoipo hei whakaoho i a ia ki te whakahē i a ia. Kia aro atu ki tōna ao engari kaua e pātai atu ki a ia. E pai ana ki ngā wāhine ngā tāne e hiahia ana ki te mōhio atu mō ā rātou mea e pai ana, e kore e pai ana ki a rātou, me ngā mea kāore e pai ana ki a rātou. He tohu tēnei i te hiahia whānui. Kia mahara hoki, he maha ngā wāhine e pai ana ki te kōrero mō rātou anō. Engari kei reira ētahi kāore e pai ana. Kaua e ngana ki te akiaki i a ia ki te kōrero. Kia māmā, kia mārie, me te aro nui me te hiahia nui.
Ko tētahi o ngā tauira o te whakawai i te whakahāweatanga ko te wā e pātai ana ia i a koe, kaua e tino tere te whakapuaki. Engari me kōrero atu ki a ia tētahi mea whaiaro, ā, i roto i ēnei mea katoa, me titiro kanohi ki a ia. Waihangahia he wairua ngaro. Mā tēnei ka hiahia ia ki te mōhio atu mōu. Mā tēnei, ka taea tonu e koe te kōrero ki a ia.
Hipanga 3: Te piki me te heke o te kare ā-roto
Tērā pea kua kitea e koe he tino māmā ngā kaupae e rua o runga ake nei. Nā te mea he māmā noa iho. Ko te tuatoru o ngā kaupae te mea whakamutunga, ā, ko te mea tino uaua. Me tino tupato koe kei puta he kare ā-roto pēnei i te riri i a koe e whakamahi ana i tēnei kaupae. Ko te kaupapa he waihanga i tētahi hononga kare ā-roto ki a ia kia pai ai tōna noho ki te whakawhanake i tētahi hononga hōhonu ki a koe.
Ko te huarahi hei whakamahi i tēnei tikanga ko te kawe i a ia ki runga i tētahi ara hurihuri kare ā-roto. Ko te tikanga tēnei he kimi i tētahi huarahi hei whakaoho i a ia i te harikoa me te pouri nui i roto i te wā poto. Ā, ina pāngia ia e tēnei, ka whakawhanakehia e ia he whakawhirinakitanga kare ā-roto ki te tangata e tuku ana i a ia ki roto i taua ara hurihuri kare ā-roto. He maha ngā wā ka whakamahia tēnei e ngā kaihanga kiriata e whakaū ana i a tātou ki ā rātou kiriata.
Pātai atu ki a ia mō ōna wā tino pai, harikoa hoki i te ao, whakanuia tēnā me ia, kātahi ka haria ia ki tētahi atu pito. Kōrerohia tētahi mea i whakararuraru i a ia. Ka aroha noa ia ki a koe mā te kōrero i tētahi mea uaua mai i tōna ake ao. Whakahokia tēnei kia 3 ki te 4 ngā wā. Mā te whakakotahitanga o tēnei mahi hurihuri ka pōhēhē te roro, ā, ka āwhina i te hanga hononga. Mā tēnei awhiowhio o ngā kare ā-roto i roto i tētahi wā poto nei ka ngoikore te tangata, ā, ka puta te hiahia ki te whakahōhonu ake i taua hononga.
Me whakatūpato mātou i a koe, ehara tēnei i te mea ngāwari pērā i te āhua. Tērā pea ka riri ia, ka mutu rānei tana kōrero. He pai ake te tīmata ki ō wā pouri, ki tētahi wehenga kino pea , kātahi ka kōrero mō te āhua o tō kitenga i tēnei whanaungatanga hou ki a ia, me te āhua o tēnei whakaaro pai e whakarerekē ana i tō tirohanga ki ngā mea katoa. Tērā pea ka uru tēnei kōrero ki tana puku mārō hei wā i kōrero pono ai ia, ā, he kōrero whai tikanga hoki.
Kia mōhio te wahine kua tohaina e ia ōna wā tino harikoa me ōna wā tino ngoikore ki a koe, ka tīmata ia ki te kite i a koe hei hoa whakawhirinaki mōna. Ka hiahia ia ki te whakapuaki atu i ngā mea katoa, ā, ka noho ko koe hei tangata tautoko māna. Engari kia mahara kaua e whakararuraru i a ia, kaua hoki e whakaoho i a ia i tētahi ara ina whakamātau koe i tēnei tikanga, inā koa ka ngana koe ki te kōrero i tētahi mea pouri. Ka taea e tēnei te hoki whakamuri, ka hanga he kore whakawhirinaki, kaua he whanaungatanga piripono.
He pēhea te whai huatanga o te whakawai fractionation ki ngā wāhine?
Nā te mea kua ako koe i ēnei tauira whakawai wehewehenga, ā, kua whiwhi koe i tōna whakapono, nōu katoa ia. Engari me atawhai ia me te ngākau aroha e tika ana māna. Kua hipa atu ōna kare ā-tinana noa iho i te kukume tinana. Ka mau tonu te hononga kare ā-roto kua hangaia e koe mēnā kāore koe e whakakino i a ia ki ngā whanonga papaku, ki ngā mahi tinihanga aroha rānei . E whakawhirinaki ana ia ki a koe me āna mea ngaro, ā, i roto i tōna hinengaro, kua tukuna atu e ia ki a koe te mana whakahaere i ōna kare ā-roto.
Mā te here kare ā-roto ka ārai te wahine i te whakatakoto whakaaro mō ōna kare ā-roto mō te tangata whakawai. Ka mau tonu tōna aro ki a ia i te mea e whakapono ana ia ko ia tōna hoa whakawhirinaki. Nō reira, ka mahi tēnei tikanga i tana mahi ki te kukume i te wahine ki te tāne. Kua kite koe ināianei me pēhea te whakamahi hei whara i ngā wāhine kāore i te mōhio?
He tino whai hua te whakawai i te whakapohehe engari kāore i te tika mēnā ka whakamahia e ngā playboy, e ngā Casanova rānei e pai ana ki te takaro ki ngā kare ā-roto o te wahine. Me whakamahi noa e ngā tāne e aroha ana ki te wahine, ā, kāore e tumanako ana ki tētahi utu mai i a ia. I taua wā anō, ka taea e ngā wāhine te whakamahi i tēnei tuhinga hei mārama i te wā e whakahaerehia ana rātou ki tētahi mea kāore pea rātou e hiahia. Kia tūpato ki ēnei momo kaitukino matua , ā, kia tūpato ki te hunga e whakapuaki ana koe i ō kare ā-roto, he mahi tinihanga noa iho tēnei hei whiwhi i a koe hei taonga, hei takaro hoki ki ō kare ā-roto.
Ehara tō takoha i te koha aroha . Mā tēnei ka taea e Bonobology te kawe tonu mai i ngā mōhiotanga hou me ngā mōhiotanga hou ki a koe i roto i tā mātou whainga ki te āwhina i te tangata o te ao ki te ako me pēhea te mahi i tetahi mea.
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