I ngā rā e toru kua pahure ake nei, i tū ahau i waho o te rūma o te tākuta e tatari ana ki te whakaatu i ngā pūrongo hauora a taku wahine ki a ia. Kāore ia i te pai te āhua. I wera tōna rae i te kirika i ia rua, toru rā. E rua, e toru wiki tonu ana te toto e rere ana. I pupuhi tōna puku. I rere toto ia me tana mimi me tana tūtae. He pōrearea ia, ā, kāore ia i pai ki te kite i te tākuta. Engari i tohe ahau, ā, i kawe ahau i te tākuta ki te kāinga, ā, kāore he kōwhiringa māna. I tohua e ia ētahi whakamātautau, ā, i mahia e au. I āwangawanga ahau. He aha te he o Shikha?
I a au e tū ana i waho me āna pūrongo, ka puta ake ngā whakaaro maha ki roto i tōku hinengaro, engari kāore he mea i whakarite i ahau mō ngā kōrero a te tākuta. I whakapono tonu ahau he hononga pono tā māua, he maha ngā āhuatanga pai. Engari kāore au i mōhio ka pakaru i roto i ngā hēkona.
E ai ki a Joie Bose
He tohu tonu rānei te mate pāwera ki te taatai (STD) kei te tinihanga tō hoa?
"E Mr. Goyal, me whakarite koe mō ngā mea ka rangona e koe. Ko tā tō wahine, kua tukuna ki a ia mā te moepuku. Me whakahaere ētahi atu whakamātautau kia mārama ai tātou he aha te mate. Kāore anō kia taea e au te mārama mēnā he mate mōna, kāore rānei. Ka tukuna e au te tūroro ki tētahi tohunga inaianei, ā, ka kī atu ahau kia mahia hoki ēnei whakamātautau e whai ake nei."
Te pānui e pā ana: 12 Ngā Huarahi Hei Tiaki i Ngā Mate Tuku Iho (STD)
Ki taku mōhio he tino pono tonu tā māua hononga, nō reira, me pēhea tēnei i puta ai? Kāore au i te mōhio. Nōnahea ia i moe ai ki tētahi atu tangata, ā, ka pangia ia e te mate tuku iho?
I te pōrearea haere tōku mahunga i ngā pātai. Kua rongo tonu ahau mō ngā mate tuku iho i te taatai, engari kāore au i te mōhio me aro atu ahau ki te mate o taku wahine. Kātahi ka tino taumaha te whakaaro ki aku ake whakamātautau.
Kāore i taea e au te whakahaere, nō reira i haere ahau ki te whare rongoā
I muri i taku rongonga i te tākuta, kāore i taea e au te hoki ki te kāinga. Ko te tikanga o te mate tuku iho kua moe ia ki tētahi atu tangata i tua atu i ahau! Ko wai ia? I aroha ia ki a ia? Ka whakarērea ahau e ia mōna? I aroha ia ki a ia? pai ake i ahau i roto i te moenga? I haere tonu ēnei whakaaro ki te whakararuraru i ahau. Nōnahea rā te pakaru o tā māua hononga pono pēnei?
I te titiro whakamuri, i te mea i ruaruahia te roanga o tōna oranga, i tika kia manukanuka ahau mō tēnā. Engari i taua wā, kāore i tino pā ki ahau. Ehara i te mea nōku anake a Shikha, ā, i whiua ia e te Atua mō tēnā. I hiahia ahau ki te waea atu ki a ia, kaua e waea atu i te wā kotahi.
I pakaru taku waea i te riri, ā, ka haere ahau ki tētahi pae inu, ka ringihia e au ētahi pia. I muri i ētahi haora, ka pai ake te whakaaro, ā, ka kitea ahau e noho ana i roto i te tari o tētahi tākuta rongoā. I hiahia ahau ki te āwhina ngaio hei āwhina i ahau i tēnei. I whakatau ahau i tēnā i ahau e noho ana i roto i te pae inu.
Kāore au i kōrero mō tētahi atu tangata ki a Shikha
Kāore au i kōrero mō te tangata kē atu ki a Shikha i taku kōrero tuatahi ki a ia mō tēnei mea i muri mai i taua ahiahi. I marino ahau, ā, kei te marino tonu ahau. E toru noa ngā rā kua pahure, ā, kei te tirotirohia e māua ngā whakamātautau me ngā tākuta. Ko ia taku wahine kua marenatia turetia, ā, me whakatutuki e au aku mahi. Kāore au e hiahia kia mate ia. He maha ngā hapa a te tangata. Ko taku hui e whai ake nei me te tākuta whakangote kei te wiki e tū mai nei. Kāore au i te mōhio he aha te mea ka tupu i muri mai.
Ka titiro ahau ki a Shikha i a ia e moe ana. He āhua ngoikore, he ngoikore hoki tōna āhua. Kāore e taea e ia te mārama ki te nui o tōku aroha ki a ia, ā, tera pea nāku te he i kore ai ia e mōhio ki tēnei. He hononga pono tonu tā māua, engari i tētahi wāhi kua wehe kē māua hei tāne me te wahine. Ki te kore, me pēhea tēnei i puta ai? E miharo ana ahau ko wai taua tangata. E miharo ana ahau me pēhea tōku ao mēnā ka whakarērea ahau e ia. E miharo ana ahau he aha ka tupu mēnā ka mate ia. Whakawhetai ki te Atua kāore ā māua tamariki. Koinei anake te ara pai i roto i tēnei kapua pōuri.
12 Ngā Tohu e Whakaipoipo Ana Koe me tētahi Kaitautoko, ā, Me Wehe Koe
Kei te Tinihanga ia, kei te Mataku rānei ahau? 11 Ngā Mea hei Whakaaroaro!
Kāore tō koha e kiia he kaupapa aroha takohaMā tēnei ka taea e Bonobology te kawe mai i ngā mōhiotanga hou me ngā mōhiotanga hou ki a koe i roto i tā mātou whainga ki te āwhina i te tangata katoa o te ao ki te ako me pēhea te mahi i tetahi mea.
Kua tino whakaatu koe i tō hinengaro, ā, me mihi atu ki a koe. Ko te take anake i tawhiti atu ai ia, kāore ia e aroha ki a koe. Ko te tangata e aroha ana ki te hoa rangatira, e whakapono ana ki te marena, e kore e mahi i ēnei mahi e whara ai tōna hoa rangatira, e kino ai hoki te whanaungatanga. Mōu nei, he aroha taha kotahi noa iho, arā, i aroha koe ki a ia, engari ehara i a ia. Me i kore ia e pangia e te mate, kua kore ia e kitea ake ake mēnā kāore ia e whakapuaki i ōna whakaaro ki a koe. Mōu nei, ahakoa tōna hiahia, kua akiakihia ia e te ao kia kitea. He whakaaro noa tēnei nō te tangata tinihanga. Ko ngā wāhine tinihanga he maha ngā āhuatanga e kore e taea te whakatutuki, ā, ka puta he tirohanga whānui.
1. E whakaaro ana ngā wāhine tinihanga kua tangohia e rātou ngā mahi ārai katoa, ā, kāore he ara e mōhio ai ā rātou tāne ki tā rātou tinihanga. Ko tā rātou whakaaro nui, kāore e taea e Ghar ki chor Ko God te hopu. Ka whakaarihia e rātou te aroha me te pono i te kāinga.
2. Me mahi te tāne hei pononga, hei kaimahi rānei i te kāinga hei whakaatu ki te hapori he tāne, he whānau tā rātou, hei tiaki i ngā taumahatanga o te whānau, ina hinga te wahine, ka mahi ia ki a ia i te hōhipera, hei horoi i ngā mea katoa i pā ki te wahine i a ia e moe ana me ētahi atu tāne i waho o te marena, ina ngaro te taitamarikitanga o te wahine i te koroheketanga, ā, kāore e ātaahua ki ētahi atu tāne, me hiahia ia ki te tāne hei hoa moe, ā, i te memeha haere o te taitamarikitanga, ka puta mai ngā mate, me tautoko ia e te tāne. Koia te take kāore ngā wāhine tinihanga e wehe atu i te marena, engari ka moe noa me te kore whakama, me te kore whakaute, me te kore mana, me te kore whakahīhī ki a rātou anō, me ētahi atu tāne i waho o te marena, mā roto i ngā mahi moe tahi, mā roto rānei i ngā moe pō kotahi. He rite rātou ki ngā pirinoa, ā, he whakarihariha atu i te werawera i roto i te tūtae.
3. Ko te hunga tinihanga he tino hiahia nui ki te hiahia nui, ki te kore whakama, ki te kore whakaute i a rātou anō, ki te kore mana, ki te pono, ki te pono rānei. Ki a rātou, kāore he uara o ēnei, ā, pērā i te huawhenua mata ka makahia e rātou ki tā rātou e hiahia ai. Nō reira, e kore rātou e whakarērea te marena engari ka haere tonu te tinihanga pērā i te mea e mahana ana i roto i te pātaka.
Ka taea te muru i ngā hapa. Engari ehara i te tinihanga. Ka taea te muru i te hara o te kaikōhuru mō te kōhuru kotahi, mō ngā kōhuru maha rānei? Nā ēnei kaikōhuru, me whakama te hoa rangatira pono, te kore whakawhirinaki me te tinihanga mō te wa katoa o tōna oranga, he mea whakarihariha tēnei i te kōhuru. He whakatau mohio te tinihanga, ehara i te mea he hapa.
Kāore koe i te mokemoke pēnei. He tokomaha ngā wāhine e tinihanga ana i ā rātou tāne me te kore whakama, engari e whakaari ana i te aroha me te pono i te kāinga, kia kore ai e puta ake he ruarua ki roto i te hinengaro o ā rātou tāne.
I tēnei wā, kua mamae kē ia mō te mahi i mahia e ia. Kia ora ake ia, me kōrero te tāne ki a ia, me whakapuaki i ōna kare ā-roto me te pono, ā, me whakatau he aha te mahi tika. E taea e te tangata te muru hara, engari he uaua ki te mārama ki tāna mahi ki a ia mō te wā roa.