Mu 2010, World Association for Sexual Health (WAS) idatcha mabungwe onse ogwirizana kuti azikondwerera, Seputembara 4 chaka chilichonse ngati Tsiku Laumoyo Wadziko Lonse Lapansi. Uku kunali kuyesetsa kulimbikitsa chidziwitso chachikulu cha anthu pazaumoyo padziko lonse lapansi. Chaka chilichonse pa Seputembara 4 kuyambira 2010, World Sexual Health Day ndi tsiku lodziwitsa anthu motsogozedwa ndi World Association for Sexual Health (WAS), bungwe lolimbikitsa anthu padziko lonse lapansi lodzipereka kulimbikitsa machitidwe abwino mu kugonana. Tsikuli limakondwerera pofuna kuthetsa mikhalidwe ya chikhalidwe ndi chikhalidwe chokhudzana ndi kugonana komanso kulimbikitsa thanzi labwino la kugonana padziko lonse lapansi.
Kudziwitsa Za Thanzi Lakugonana
M'ndandanda wazopezekamo
Tsiku loyamba la Umoyo Wogonana Padziko Lonse linakondwerera ndi mawu akuti "Tiyeni tikambirane!". Tsiku la World Sexual Health Day ndi tsiku lodziwitsa anthu omwe adzipereka kulimbikitsa njira zabwino zokhudzana ndi kugonana.
Dr Sharmila Majumdar, katswiri wodziwa za kugonana ndi psychoanalyst mwa ntchito amayendetsa chipatala cha zachiwerewere ndi maganizo pachipatala cha Avis, Hyderabad kumene iye ndi wamkulu wa kugonana ndi wotsogolera. Akufuna ndi mtima wonse kuona dziko lathu likuphwanya maunyolo a umbuli ndikuphunzitsidwa za thanzi la kugonana.
Amalimbikitsa mwamphamvu kuteteza kugonana kotetezeka. Pamene tikukhala mu nthawi ya matenda opatsirana pogonana, kusadziŵa bwino kapena kusadziŵa bwino za nkhani zachipatala zokhudza kugonana kumawononga kukula kwa munthu.
“Kugonana kwabwino kumalimbikitsa maunansi abwino m’banja, kugwetsa pansi kusudzulana kuchuluka, matenda, kusabereka komanso kupangitsa achinyamata athu kudziwa komanso kuzindikira za thanzi lawo pakugonana,” adatero Dr Majumdar.
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Kodi achinyamata ayenera kudziwa chiyani?
Achinyamata ayenera kudziwa njira zodzisungira kukhala ndi thanzi labwino pakugonana akumva Dr Majumdar.
Payenera kukhala:
- Luso monga kugwiritsa ntchito kondomu ndi kukambirana za HIV ndi okondedwa awo
- Maphunziro okhudza kugonana
- Ntchito zothandiza achinyamata
- Zoyeserera zaumoyo wa anthu ammudzi zomwe zimaphatikizapo achinyamata
- Young LGBT kulemekezedwa ndi kuyamikiridwa monga iwo ali
- Pomaliza liwu mu chisankho chomwe chimawakhudza kukhala ndi moyo wathanzi wogonana
Zambiri zaku India zokhudzana ndi kugonana
Pakati pa Amwenye omwe amagonana, oposa 90% adagonana koyamba asanakwanitse zaka 30, malinga ndi kafukufuku wa National Family Health Survey (NFHS), kafukufuku woimira dziko lonse yemwe adachitika mu 2015-16.
Amuna amakhala ndi mwayi wogonana koyamba ali ndi zaka 20-24, zomwe zikuwonetsa. Kwa amayi, zaka zapamwamba pakugonana koyambirira ndizotsika pa 15-19. M'badwo wapakati pa kugonana koyamba kwa akazi aku India ndi otsika kuposa amuna
Kusiyana kwa amuna ndi akazi kuli makamaka chifukwa cha kusiyana kwa zaka zimene amakonda kukwatira. Kugonana kochuluka ku India kumakonda kukhala kwamtundu wa anthu okwatirana, malinga ndi kafukufukuyu. Choncho, akazi amakonda kugonana ali aang'ono chifukwa amakwatiwa ali aang'ono.
Maphunziro amachedwetsa kugonana
Deta ikusonyeza kuti kugonana musanalowe m’banja akadali wonyansa m'madera akuluakulu a dziko. Pafupifupi 11 peresenti ya amuna osakwatiwa ndi 2 peresenti ya amayi osakwatiwa azaka zapakati pa 15-24 adanena kuti adagonana. Kuchuluka kwa amuna osakwatiwa (azaka zapakati pa 15-24) omwe amafotokoza za kugonana asanakwatirane anali ochulukirapo ku Chhattisgarh (21.1%), Punjab (21%), Madhya Pradesh (20.7%) pakati pa mayiko akuluakulu. Deta ya NFHS yokhudzana ndi kugonana imachokera pa zitsanzo za amuna ndi akazi oposa 100,000 aliyense.
Deta ikuwonetsa kuti Amwenye akumpoto amafotokoza za moyo wogonana wotanganidwa kwambiri poyerekeza ndi aku South.
Oposa 55% mwa amuna ndi akazi omwe adafunsidwa m'maboma monga Haryana, Punjab, Chhattisgarh, ndi West Bengal adanenanso kuti adagonana masabata anayi asanafufuzidwe. Mayiko ena komwe anthu ambiri adanenanso kuti ali ndi moyo wogonana ndi Madhya Pradesh ndi Rajasthan.
Amwenye akumpoto adanenanso za moyo wogonana wokangalika poyerekeza ndi waku South. Padziko lonse, 47% ya amuna ndi 48% ya amayi adanena za kugonana m'masabata anayi apitawa. Chochenjeza chimodzi choyenera kukumbukira ndi chakuti ziwerengerozo zimachokera ku deta yodzipangira nokha ndipo n'zovuta kudziwa kuchuluka kwa malipoti abodza.
Chiwerengero cha anthu osakwatira omwe adanena kuti ali ndi moyo wogonana ndi wochepa poyerekeza ndi chiwerengero chonse: 3% ya amuna osakwatiwa (m'magulu onse azaka zonse) adanena kuti adagonana masabata anayi asanafike kafukufukuyu. Pakati pa akazi osakwatiwa, chiwerengerocho ndi chocheperapo kuposa 1%.
Kuchuluka kwa amuna osakwatiwa omwe amagonana ndi amuna okhaokha ndikokwera kwambiri (kuposa 5%) m'maboma monga Punjab, Haryana, Chhattisgarh, ndi Madhya Pradesh. Gawo la akazi osakwatiwa omwe amagonana ndi amuna ndiokwera kwambiri ku Karnataka (2%) ndi Gujarat (1.9%). Anthu osakwatira kapena osakwatiwa akuphatikizapo anthu amene sanakwatirepo kapena amene anakwatira kapena kukwatiwa koma panopa sali pabanja.
14 peresenti ya amuna omwe sanakwatirepo ndi 2 peresenti ya akazi osakwatiwa adanena kuti adagonana.
Miyezoyi imasiyanasiyana m'maboma, koma pali mgwirizano wapakati pakati pa amuna omwe sanakwatiwe ndi kuchuluka kwa akazi omwe sanakwatiwe omwe adanena kuti adagonana.
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Kugonana pakati pa anthu osakwatira
Mwa osakwatiwa omwe adanena kuti adagonana, ambiri adagonana ndi zibwenzi kapena atsikana (omwe sakhala m'nyumba imodzi). Pafupifupi gawo limodzi mwa khumi mwa iwo adanena kuti adagonana ndi abwenzi awo omwe amakhala nawo.
Kodi amuna ndi akazi osakwatiwa amagonana ndi ndani?
12 peresenti ya amuna osakwatiwa omwe adagonanapo adanenapo kugona ndi mabwenzi wamba pamene 6% ya amuna otere adanena kuti amagwiritsa ntchito ntchito zamalonda. Ziwerengero zofananira za akazi osakwatiwa ndizochepa kwambiri.
Koma poganizira kuti chiwerengero chachikulu cha amayi adanena kuti "ena" monga ogonana nawo ndizotheka kuti chiwerengero chenicheni cha amayi omwe adagonana ndi anthu omwe amangodziwana nawo ndi chachikulu kuposa zomwe amasankha kufotokoza.
Deta iyi yasonkhanitsidwa ndi National Health Family Survey.]
Ibibazo
1. Kodi anthu aku India amadziwa bwanji za thanzi la kugonana?
Kudziwitsa za thanzi la kugonana kukuyenda bwino ku India, makamaka m'matauni komwe mwayi wodziwa zambiri kudzera pa intaneti ndi maphunziro ukuwonjezeka. Komabe, kumadera akumidzi, kulibe maphunziro okwanira okhudzana ndi kugonana, ndipo miyambo yachikhalidwe nthawi zambiri imalepheretsa kukambirana momasuka pamutuwu.
2. Kodi anthu aku India amagonana bwanji?
Deta ikuwonetsa kuti kugonana ku India kumatengera chikhalidwe, chipembedzo, komanso chikhalidwe cha anthu. Ngakhale mibadwo yachinyamata, makamaka m'matauni, imakhala yomasuka pa maubwenzi ogonana, malingaliro osamala akadalipobe m'madera ambiri, zomwe zimakhudza momwe anthu amachitira ndikukambirana za moyo wawo wogonana.
“Kafukufuku waposachedwapa akusonyeza kuti mibadwo yachichepere ikuyamba kumasuka ponena za kugonana kwawo, koma ambiri amakumanabe ndi zitsenderezo za chikhalidwe ndi chikhalidwe zimene zimasonkhezera kugonana kwawo ndi malingaliro awo.”
3. Kodi mwayi wopeza njira zakulera komanso chithandizo chaumoyo ku India ndi wotani?
Kupeza chithandizo cha kulera komanso chithandizo chaumoyo pakugonana kumasiyana kwambiri ku India. Madera akumatauni amakhala ndi kupezeka kwabwino komanso kukambirana momasuka za mautumikiwa, pomwe madera akumidzi nthawi zambiri amakumana ndi zovuta chifukwa chakusalidwa ndi anthu, kusowa mwayi wopeza, komanso mabodza.
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Pamene India akupitirizabe kukula, malo odziwitsidwa za kugonana ndi zochitika zikuyenda pang'onopang'ono. Mibadwo yachinyamata ikukhala yomasuka kwambiri pa maubwenzi ogonana, pamene mwayi wopeza chithandizo chamankhwala ogonana ukuyenda bwino, makamaka m'matauni. Komabe, kusalidwa ndi anthu komanso kusowa kwa maphunziro athunthu okhudzana ndi kugonana kukadali zopinga zazikulu. Ndikofunikira kupitiliza kulimbikitsa zokambirana zapoyera, maphunziro athunthu okhudzana ndi kugonana, komanso mwayi wopeza chithandizo chamankhwala kuti zidziwitso zokhudzana ndi kugonana zifike mbali zonse za dziko.
Tsiku la Umoyo Wogonana Padziko Lonse limakhala chikumbutso chakuti kupititsa patsogolo chidziwitso cha thanzi la kugonana sikungokhudza ubwino wa munthu payekha komanso kupanga gulu lomwe anthu angathe kuchita nawo maubwenzi odziwa, otetezeka, komanso olemekezeka. Kuyesetsa kopitirizabe kuchokera ku boma, mabungwe a maphunziro, ndi madera ndikofunika kuti zinthu zipite patsogolo m'derali.
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