Maubwenzi a Gay Polyamorous Sindigwira Ntchito

Chifukwa chakuti ndine wochezeka, wowoneka bwino komanso wodziwa kusonyeza amuna nthawi yabwino - anzanga amaganiza kuti ndine woyenera kupita ku zochitika zachiwerewere za polyamory. Ndili ndi zaka za m'ma 20 ndipo izi zikuyenera kukhala zaka zobangula komanso zonyansa kwambiri pamoyo wanga. Koma mwanjira ina, kuwona amuna angapo nthawi imodzi sichinthu chomwe ndimakonda kuchita.

“Eric, sindikumvetsa chifukwa chimene suli mbeta! anafunsa mnzake, akulozera ku tebulo lalitali la chakudya chamadzulo cha azibambo amene anakhala patsogolo pathu. Ndidasisima kwambiri ndikuganizira momwe ndingayankhire funso lomwe ndimafunsidwa nthawi zambiri.

Gay Polyamory: Kodi Ndikoyenera Paubwenzi Wanu Wa Gay?

Choyamba, gulu ili la gay ndi laling'ono kwambiri ndipo pafupifupi aliyense patebulopo adagonanapo ndi wina aliyense panthawi ina. Iwo ndi akale a gay polyamory ndipo izi zimandipangitsa ine kale mantha kuchita.

Ndilibe vuto ndi anthu omwe ali ndi chilakolako chogonana kwambiri komanso omwe amachita zogonana nthawi zonse , sindikufuna kutsatira njira imeneyi ndekha. Ndikadatero, zingandipangitse kukhala ndi nkhawa. Kulowa muubwenzi ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi chinthu chomwe sindikusangalala nacho chifukwa lingaliro lokhala ndi zibwenzi zogonana zoposa chimodzi limandiopsa pang'ono.

Chachiwiri, kunena zoona, ndine munthu wokwatira mkazi mmodzi. Ndi kusankha kwa moyo chifukwa, kwa ine, kulumikizana mwamphamvu ndikofunikira kuti musangalale ndi kugonana. Chifukwa chake moyo wamba wamba-ndi-kupita sungandikomere. Ndikanakonda kutero chifukwa moyo ukanakhala wosavuta. Koma zachisoni, gay polyamory kapena kunyamula munthu wotentha ku bar sikuli kwa ine.

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Ndilibe chilichonse chotsutsana ndi chibwenzi cha gay polyamorous

Musananditchule kuti ndine munthu wanzeru kapena woweruza, chonde dziwani kuti ndilibe chilichonse chotsutsana ndi gay polyamory. Kwa aliyense, zawo. Ndine wokondwa kuti anthu amatha kusangalala ndi zibwenzi komanso maubwenzi mwanjira yatsopano komanso yomasuka. Koma nkhani yanga ndi yaumwini komanso yozama.

Ubwenzi wanga weniweni komanso wofunika kwambiri ungakhale wa mwamuna mmodzi, koma anthu okonda amuna kapena akazi okhaokha komanso chikhalidwe chawo masiku ano ndi okonda akazi ambiri. Vuto lomwe limandikwiyitsa kwambiri ndi kusawonekera bwino pankhani imeneyi. Inde, anthu amanena kuti ali paubwenzi wa mwamuna mmodzi, koma amangochita chigololo patatha chaka chimodzi ali limodzi.

Anthu ena amaganiza kuti ali paubwenzi wa mkazi mmodzi, pamene kwenikweni ali paubwenzi wa polyamorous. Sanadziwebe za zomwe mnzawo amachita pamaphunziro owonjezera kapena amangofuna kubisa diso ndikuyembekeza kuti zinthu zikhala bwino pakapita nthawi. Gulu la gay la polyamorous ndi ena osakhulupirika lomwe ndilo vuto langa lokha.

N’chifukwa chiyani zili choncho? Ndi liti pamene munthu angangonena zoona ndikudzinenera kuti ali paubwenzi wa gay poly? Koma ambiri (osati onse - ndisanayambe kuukiridwa!) Maubwenzi apamtima ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha masiku ano amangokhala chifukwa ndi polyamorous. Ndikudziwa izi chifukwa ndakhala ndikuyang'ana anthu ammudzi ndi mabanja awo kwa zaka zopitilira khumi. Ngakhale kuti ndine wokondwa kuti moyo woterewu umagwira ntchito kwa anthu ambiri, sikugwira ntchito kwa ine.

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Ubale wa gay si wa ine

Sindingasangalale kuti mnzanga azindigwira kapena kugwiriridwa ndi amuna ena. Sindikadakhala omasuka pachakudya pomwe aliyense amakamba za momwe adagona ndi munthu wanga kaye kapena adachita chiyani ndi ndani.

"Tinangopsompsona - sizinali kanthu - ndife abwenzi." Pepani, koma sindimapsompsona anzanga achi French komanso sindimagona nawo ndikakhala wotopa kapena wotopa. Sindinapangire gay polyamory.

Sindingasangalale ndi mwamuna wanga kuthamangira amuna ena ndikuwona zosowa zawo paphwando pondinyalanyaza. Sindingathe kukhala patebulo pomwe bwenzi langa limakhala mbali ina ndikugawana chakudya chomwe adaitanitsa, ndi mnyamata wina. Sindidzakhala m'modzi mwa mabanja omwe adayesa atatu.

Masiku ano ma gay ambiri sachita chidwi kwambiri ndi zinthu zimenezi moti ukalowa m’chipinda ndi munthu amakuuzani amene anagona naye komanso zimene anachita ndi munthuyo. Kodi polyamory imagwira ntchito? Zedi. Koma ndiike mu equation imeneyo ndipo ndi ayi-ayi. Gulu la anthu ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha ndi gulu la anthu okonda kupsompsonana ndikuuzana ndipo sindisamala, chifukwa zimandithandiza kudziwa amene ndiyenera kupewa.

Ndikuyang'ana kwamuyaya

Sindinafunepo kukhala ndi anthu ambiri ogona nawo kapena kulowa muubwenzi wamba . Nthawi zonse ndimafuna kukumana ndi mnyamata, kukhala naye pachibwenzi, kukondana naye, kumukwatira, kumanga nyumba ndi moyo naye.

Zinthu monga kupsompsona, chikondi, ndi kugonana ndi nthawi yapadera yomwe ndikufuna kugawana ndi munthu yemwe ali ndi tanthauzo kwa ine. Ngati ndigawana chibadwa changa chogonana kapena chikondi changa ndi aliyense amene amandiponyera fupa, sipangakhale chinthu chapadera chogawana ndi munthu amene ndimamusamaliradi. Kodi ndimakukondani bwanji ngati ndalankhula kwa mnyamata wina miyezi itatu iliyonse?

Ndipo potsiriza, sindingathe kupirira lingaliro la kunyengedwa kachiwiri. Ndikudziwa kuti sindidzapulumuka m'maganizo ndi m'maganizo pa nkhani ina ya kusakhulupirika. Gay polyamory imangowonjezera mantha amenewo kwa ine.

Ndikuchita mantha kuvulazidwa

Ubale wanga womaliza unali imfa ya ine. Sindidzaiwala usiku umenewo. Ndinakhala ndikulira maso anga, mtima ndi moyo pambuyo pozindikira za kusakhulupirika kwanga wakale pazaka zitatu za ubale wathu. Zinandisintha m’njira imene sindikanaiganizira.

Ndaona zimenezi zikuchitika kwa anthu ambiri. Ndinaona kuwala m’maso mwawo kumazimiririka pamene mnzawo amapeza mpando watsopano woti akhale nawo pa game ya mipando yoyimbayi ndipo ndinazindikira kuti sindingakhale nawo pa game imeneyi chifukwa chikondi simasewera komanso maganizo amunthu sakhala nawo. Palibe chokhumudwitsa kwa gulu la gay polyamory, ndikungodziwa ndikudziwa kuti gay polyamory imatenga mphamvu ndipo mwina ndilibe.

Ndili bwino ndi mwayi woti ndidzakhala wosakwatiwa mosangalala kwa moyo wanga wonse. Ndikudziwa kufunika kwanga chifukwa ndakhala ndikudzimanganso mobwerezabwereza. Ndikudziwa zomwe sindingathe kuzipirira ndipo sindidzadzinyenga ndikuganiza kuti ndili ndi chiyembekezo chodzakhala ndi mapeto abwino a nthano.

Musanandiyandikire, dziwani kuti sindikhala dzina lina lomwe mungadutse mu buku lakuda la anyamata omwe mudawamenya. Sindisewera nanu masewerawa. Ndikadakhala panja ndikukhala otetezeka m'malingaliro ndikupereka chikondi changa, nthawi ndi moyo wanga kuti ndipeze ndalama zopindulitsa: Ine.

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