'Muli ndi maso okongola.' Ananong'oneza m'makutu mwake ndipo ngakhale kuti sanachite bwino kuti masaya asungunuke, kumwetulira pang'ono komwe kunali pamilomo yake komanso kukomoka kwapakhosi kumatanthawuza kuti adapambana kubetcha kuchokera kwa mnzakeyo kuti atha kumuchititsa manyazi. Amuna amawoneka kuti ali ndi ufulu wopangitsa atsikana awo kuchita manyazi koma ndi zaka zikwizikwi zatsopano zomwe zili zabwino kwa tsekwe ndi zabwino kwa gander. Ndipo inde, awiriwa omwe takambirana pamwambapa ali pachibwenzi. Chimene chinayambika ngati kubetcherana wamba tsopano ndi ubale wathunthu, chifukwa tiyeni tigwirizane kuti amuna amakonda kuyamikiridwa komanso ngati mumadziwa luso la zinthu zotsekemera zomanong'oneza m'makutu mwake mumamufokokera pansi ndikumupeza akusisima kalekale mutachoka.
Amuna aku Bollywood, m'mabuku a chick flick, muzotsatsa, ali odzaza mwamuna chidaliro chomwe amapangitsa atsikana awo manyazi kuchita manyazi ndikupangitsa kuti azikondana ndi ngwazi. Pano tikukupatsirani malangizo achikondi, amwano komanso osangalatsa kuti mumunong'oneze m'makutu ndikumupangitsa kuchita manyazi ndikupangitsa kuti azikondana nanu. Tseka maso ako ndipo yerekezerani kuti wina akunong'oneza m'makutu mwako, mofewa, monyengerera, mopepuka ngati nthenga ikukukhudzani m'mphuno, kumbukirani momwe idatsitsira matupi anu abwino, momwe idapangitsira masaya anu kukhala ofiira, tigwiritsa ntchito izi kwa amuna!
Nchiyani chimapangitsa mwamuna kuchita manyazi?
M'ndandanda wazopezekamo
Kodi kuchita manyazi kumatanthauza chiyani? M’mawu amodzi osavuta, zikutanthauza kuti mukudzimvera chisoni! Physiologically, kuchita manyazi kumachitika pamene choyambitsa maganizo chimapangitsa kuti tiziwalo timene timatulutsa timadzi timene timatulutsa timadzi adrenaline mu thupi lanu. Nthawi zambiri zimakhala chifukwa munthu amene mumakopeka naye wakupatsani malo, malo okoma. Mwina anakukopani kapena kukunyozani kapena kukuyamikirani. Kapena kungoyang'anani mozama. Akazi, popeza ili ndi gawo latsopano muyenera kuyesetsa pang'ono kuti muwone manyazi awo, komanso musaiwale za ndevu zomwe zili m'mafashoni masiku ano. Kodi padziko lapansi mumawona bwanji masaya ofufutikawo amitundumitundu pansi pa tsitsi lonselo? Osati zosavuta, koma mungathe. Nkhopeyo imasonyeza maganizo onse.
Ndiye nchiyani chimapangitsa mwamuna kuchita manyazi? Nazi zifukwa zingapo:-
- Ndi wamanyazi, wongolankhula ndipo akapeza mkazi amene amamukonda ameneyu, lankhulani naye mwachindunji, makamaka pomuyang’ana m’maso, mwamunayo amatha kufooka kwenikweni m’mawondo ake ndipo zimenezi zimamuchititsa manyazi.
- Amadziwa kuti mukudziwa kuti amakukondani. Mwangomuyamikira, 'Ntchito yabwino lero' ndipo mupeza kuti ali ndi manyazi. Izi ndizovuta kwa iye ndipo kuyankha kwake ndikutembenukira ku beet red!
- Akuganiza za iwe ndipo umatembenuka ndikumuyang'ana ndikumwetulira, amachita manyazi.
- Mwamuyika pamalo pomwepo ndipo chomwe angaganize ndikuti mukumuwona nthawi yomweyo. Iye amachita manyazi!
Kuyang'ana, kuyamikiridwa, ndi chidwi chadzidzidzi zonse zimatha kuyambitsa kuwala pang'onopang'ono kwa pinki. Apangitseni mwamuna wanu kuti amve kusekedwa, muzimuseka, khalani wofewa komanso wodekha monga momwe ali ndi inu. Mnong'onezeni zinthu zokoma m'makutu ake ndikusewera ndi kufiira komwe kumatuluka.
Kodi kuchititsa munthu manyazi, ndi njira yovuta kuichotsa?
Chabwino, pali njira yozungulira. Tiyeni tichepetse mpaka zinthu zisanu ndi chimodzi zomwe mungathe kumunong'oneza m'makutu kuti amupangitse manyazi, kuti asinthe.
1. "Ndikupita komando"
Tsatirani mwa iye ndi galasi la vinyo ndikunong'oneza, 'Ndikupita commando' Voila! Izi zimakupatsirani mthunzi wonyezimira wa kapezi wokhala ndi nthenga za masaya ndi makutu ake. Kupita komando kumatanthauza kuti simunavale zovala zamkati. Khalani wodekha ndikuwunika zanu wozunzidwa chabwino, chifukwa kutsegula tsiku lanu usiku ndi ndemangayi kungachititse kuti muthamangire ku Malo Odzidzimutsa.
Ngakhale kuti anaphunzitsidwa kusangalatsa mkazi popanda zovala zake zamkati ali mumkhalidwe wovomerezeka, mwamuna wanu sanakonzekere kukhala pamalo amenewo.
Iwe, msungwana, walandira chidwi chake.
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2. "Tikumane mu zisanu"
Ponyani china chake pansi pa tebulo ndikumupempha kuti aziyang'ana, monyengerera. Pamene akuwerama pansi pa inchi pafupi ndi iye ndikunong'oneza m'makutu mwake, 'tikumane ndi ine asanu'. Yang'anani m'maso ndikumuwona akuchita manyazi. Dikirani, si zimenezo. Ndiloleni ndifotokozere chochitikachi: Tsiku la chakudya chamadzulo ku lesitilanti lidakalipobe. Tsopano mutatsamira pa tebulo, mumanong'ona motere; ndiye imirirani ndikuyenda mwatanthauzo kupita kuchimbudzi. Mtundu wake ukhoza kukupatsani inu njira yoyang'ana maso a woperekera zakudya, palibe chomwe sichingakonzedwe ndi ndalama zomveka bwino. Koma munthu wanu wamanyazi yemwe wakhala patebulo akuwoneka wosasunthika ndi mawonekedwe omwe simungafune kuphonya. Maphunziro ena onse adzakhala pakati pa inu, iye ndi bafa.
3. “Kumalo kwanga?”
Kukambitsirana kosangalatsa pachakudya chathunthu. Tsopano ikubwera nthawi yoyitanitsa chinthu chokoma. Ndi chiyani chomwe chingakhale chokoma kuposa kumuitanira kunyumba kwanu kukagona kapu yausiku? Kapena mutha kukhalanso ndi mchere m'malo mwanu koma ndi zopindika zonyansa. Inde, mwamuna wanu wafika pamalingaliro awa ndi zina zingapo m'maganizo mwake pomwe mumanong'oneza izi. Mwamuna wanu adzapeza zovuta kusunga maganizo ake, chifukwa mtundu wake udzamupereka.
4. "Kodi mukufuna kutsalira?"
Akukugwetsani kunyumba ndipo pamene mukutsegula chitseko cha galimotoyo ndikutsamirani iye ndikunong'oneza pansi kuti 'mukufuna kutsalira', muoneni akuchita manyazi. Wokondedwa wanu wanthabwala amachitanso manyazi akazindikira kuti makolo anu kulibe komanso kuti inuyo, osati iyeyo, mukupanga zikhumbo zonse zakugonana. Mtundu wake udzawuka pamene azindikira kuti kuchita chigololo sikulinso mwayi. Sangalalani ndi zake womangika wamanyazi akapeza malo oti azikhala omasuka mnyumba mwanu. Mpaka nthawi imeneyo mukamupangire sangweji kuti azitha kulinganiza zinthu, mwina?
5. “Ndikufuna ugone tulo”
Inde, ulamuliro ukhoza kumuchititsa manyazi. Ndikuvomereza kuti akhoza kungochita manyazi chifukwa cholamulidwa ndi mkazi, koma kuyenera kwa mwamuna kukadutsa, mtundu wodetsa masaya ake udzakhala wachisangalalo ndi kuyembekezera.
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6. "Kodi ichi ndi chanu choyamba?"
Sindikuimbani mlandu chifukwa chakufunsani, chifukwa amangokhalira kuchita manyazi mpaka madzulo pamene mumabwereza bwerezabwereza zomwe zachitika. Manyazi awa adzafunika chisamaliro chanu: akhoza kukhala manyazi a namwali wa mwamuna wanu wokoma kapena kufinya kofiyira kwa ego wopweteka. Khalani okonzeka kuthana ndi vuto lililonse. Ntchito yanga ndikudziwitsani za njira za 'momwe-to'; tsopano ndinyamuka.
Zinthu zomunong’oneza m’khutu pagulu
Njira imodzi yotsimikizirika yowombera ndikuseka munthu wanu mukakhala pagulu. N’zosangalatsa kuchita zinthu zobisika pamaso panu. Zingakhale ngati chinsinsi pakati pa inu nonse, m’chipinda chodzaza ndi anzanu, ndipo zimenezi zingakhale zokopa kwambiri.
Kodi pali khutu lomwe lili bwino kwa izi? Malinga ndi kafukufuku watsopano, chinsinsi chogwira chidwi cha wokonda chikhoza kulimbikitsidwa kwambiri mwa kunong'oneza khutu lakumanzere. Lingaliro ndilosavuta khutu lakumanzere limayang'aniridwa ndi ubongo wamanja womwe ndi ubongo wamalingaliro monga mbali ina yomwe ndi ubongo wothandiza. Chifukwa chake onetsetsani kuti muli kumanzere kwake, onetsetsani kuti mwavala zonunkhiritsa zomwe amakonda dalirani mwa iye mofatsa ndikunong'oneza pamaso pa anthu. Chitani mwachangu komanso chachifupi koma chokopa. Nazi zina zoti muyambe nazo.
- Damn ndiwe achigololo
- Mununkhiza bwino kwambiri, ndine wokondwa kuti simunavale cologne
- Mumandipangitsa kumva wotetezeka
- Mumandisangalatsa monga palibe wina aliyense angachitire
- Maso anu ndi okongola kwambiri
- Ndimakopeka kwambiri ndikutsuka manja anga m'manja mwanu
- Mukuganiza chomwe ndili
- Chifukwa chiyani zonse zili zokongola masiku ano
- Kumwetulira kwanu kumandichititsa chizungulire
Kukopana ndi maso ndikokopa kwambiri komanso kokopa amuna, mutha kuyesa izi makamaka m'malo opezeka anthu ambiri.
A phunziro ochokera ku yunivesite ya California, Berkeley, adapeza kuti anthu omwe amachita manyazi amangowoneka ngati owolowa manja komanso odalirika koma amakhala owolowa manja komanso odalirika. Pangani mwamuna wanu manyazi ndikukondana mobwerezabwereza!
Zopereka zanu sizikupanga zachifundo Mphatso. Zilola kuti Bonobology ipitilize kukubweretserani zidziwitso zatsopano komanso zaposachedwa pakufuna kwathu kuthandiza aliyense padziko lapansi kuphunzira momwe angachitire chilichonse.
Uwu!!! Ndikufuna kuyesa izi 😛
Zikumveka zosangalatsa!
Ndikudziwa kuti kumwetulira mnyamata wanu ndi chimodzi mwa zinthu sexiest mu ubwenzi! Pali china chake chokhudza momwe nkhope yake yonse imawalitsira ndi chisangalalo pamene akuyang'ana pa iwe!
Tiyeni tiyese!