Chifukwa Chake Azimayi Ayenera Kusankha Pakati pa Ntchito Ndi Banja

Kulimbana kwa amayi pakati pa ntchito ndi banja ndi vuto padziko lonse lapansi, kwenikweni 'kusokoneza ntchito ya banja' yafufuzidwa nthawi zoposa 2 miliyoni pa intaneti. Pali kuchepa kwakukulu kwa amayi ogwira ntchito ndipo zonsezi zimabwera chifukwa chakuti amayi ayenera kusiya zofuna zawo chifukwa cha zovuta za m'banja komanso kusamalira ana.

Ndi chitonzo chosalekeza chomwe akazi ayenera kumva, nthawi iliyonse akabweretsa lingaliro lakubwerera kuntchito pambuyo pa ukwati: akazi ndi ntchito siziyendera limodzi, ndi udindo wa mkazi kuyang'anira nyumba osati kulowerera nkhani zamalonda.

Chifukwa Chake Azimayi Ayenera Kusankha Pakati pa Ntchito Ndi Banja

Kodi munayamba mwadzifunsapo chifukwa chake akazi sangakhale nazo zonse? N'chifukwa chiyani iwo ayenera kusankha ntchito kapena banja? Ndi zikhulupiriro za anthu zomwe timakulira nazo komanso kulimbikitsa ana athu - agogo athu adachita izi kwa amayi athu, ndipo tsopano amayi athu akutichitira.

Pali njira imodzi yokha yothetsera vutoli: kuswa unyolo uwu. Kulimbana kwa amayi pakati pa ntchito ndi banja kuyenera kupasuka, ndikulola mkazi aliyense kukhala wokhutira podziwa kuti ali ndi chisankho monga momwe munthu aliyense amafunira. Kaya asankha kukhala kunyumba, kukhala ndi moyo wabwino wa ntchito, kapena kugaŵiratu ntchito zapakhomo kwa munthu wakunja, chosankhacho chiyenera kukhala chake kotheratu.

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Mbiri yanga inali yopita patsogolo

Mayi anga ndi dokotala wachikazi ndipo bambo anga ndi omaliza maphunziro a sayansi ya makompyuta omwe anachita bwino kwambiri pa ntchito yawo. Ine ndi mchemwali wanga tinaleredwa kukhulupirira kuti munthu ayenera kukhala ndi maphunziro abwino nthaŵi zonse ndi ntchito yabwino kuti abwerere, mulimonse mmene moyo ungakhalire.

Chifukwa chake, ndili ndi digiri yanga ya BA English Honours kuchokera ku yunivesite yodziwika bwino mdziko muno komanso MBA ngati chowonjezera, ndidalowa nawo ntchito. Ndinali ndi nyenyezi m'maso mwanga zodzipangira ndekha kanyumba kakang'ono kuntchito ndikupangitsa makolo anga kunyadira. Koma Cupid inagunda ndipo ndili ndi zaka 24 ndinakwatiwa, osadziŵa kumene moyo ukupita.

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Ukwati wanga unali wosiyana

Chifukwa cha chikondi changa chamkuntho, sindinadziwe zomwe mwamuna wanga amayembekezera kwa ine monga mkazi, mpongozi komanso mayi wamtsogolo. Kodi amayembekezera kuti ndisintha dzina langa titalowa m'banja? Kodi tikadakhazikika kudziko kapena kupita kunja? Kodi chingachitike ndi chiyani pa ntchito yanga ana athu atabadwa?

Palibe mphotho ndiye chifukwa cholingalira kuti kusamvana kwakukulu kunali kuyembekezera kuchitika muukwati wathu. Zinthu zazing'ono pang'onopang'ono zinayamba kuyambitsa kusiyana kwa chidwi ndi malingaliro. Ndiyeno mwana wanga wamkazi anabadwa. Makolo anga anali kugwira ntchito ku Dubai ndipo apongozi anga sanali okondwa kundithandiza kulera mwana wanga wamkazi.

Miyezo iwiri inali pafupifupi yoseketsa

Zonse zimene ndinaleredwa zinandiphunzitsa zokhudza maphunziro ndi ntchito zinazinyalanyazidwa ndipo ndinasiya ntchito. Ndinagonja ku zitsenderezo za apongozi anga ndipo ndinakhala wantchito wanthaŵi zonse wapanyumba. Banja lonse linakondwera ndi nsembe yanga pa guwa lachisangalalo laukwati, chifukwa zimaonedwa kuti ndi zabwino kuti mkazi wa m'nyumba aike pambali maloto ake a mwana, nyumba ndi mwamuna wake.

Koma chodabwitsa n’chakuti ndikukakamizika ndi banja lomwelo kulera mwana wanga wamkazi wazaka 8 kuti aphunzire mwakhama kuti akhale ndi tsogolo lokhazikika loyembekezera. Zimandipangitsa kudzifunsa ngati kulimbikira ndi maphunziro onse kuli koyenera, ngati akuyenera kuika patsogolo apongozi ake, mwamuna, banja ndi mwana akadzakwatiwa.

Kupambana kwa mkazi kumangoyezedwa m'nyumba

M’dera lathu, mkazi wochita bwino mwaukatswiri samaonedwa kuti ndi wopambana ngati mwamuna wake sanamupatse chiphaso choyamikira, ngati nyumba yake ilibe spick ndi span, ngati ana ake sachita bwino kwambiri komanso ngati apongozi ake sakukondwera naye. Ndiye kodi sizingakhale bwino nditamuphunzitsa mwana wanga luso la kusamalira m’nyumba?

Kodi ndisamulole kusangalala ndi ubwana wake m'malo mokhala ndi zokhumba za maphunziro? Ndikuwona mwana wanga wamkazi akukula, ndidawona aliyense womuzungulira akuchirikiza maloto ake oti adzakhale dokotala kapena loya mtsogolomo, nthawi zonse ndikudabwa, chifukwa chiyani ndiyenera kutero. sankhani kukhala mayi wokhala pakhomo ndi mkazi wantchito.

Nditasiya dzina langa lenileni m’zaka 11 za m’banja, tsopano ndimadzifunsa ngati ndinali wolondola kuwononga nthaŵi yanga, mphamvu ndi malingaliro anga pochirikiza ntchito yaukatswiri ya mwamuna wanga. Ndidakwanitsa kubwereranso kuntchito yanthawi yayitali mwana wanga atakwanitsa zaka 2, kuti nditsitsimutse maloto anga.

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Koma ikadali ntchito yomwe ndimayenera kusuntha ntchito, kunyumba ndi mwana wanga wamkazi mofanana. Ndinali wophunzira kwambiri pasukulu, wochita bwino kwambiri pazochitika zakunja ndipo ngakhale ndikanachita theka la kuyesetsa kudzidzutsa ndekha ndikukhala ndi maloto anga mopanda malire, ndikukhulupirira kuti ndikadaposa mwamuna wanga.

Atadutsamo panokha, ine ndikudziwa zonse za kulimbana akazi pakati pa ntchito ndi banja, ndi kunyada ndekha (ngati pang'ono pokha) chakuti ndinasankha kutenga kaimidwe ndekha ndi kubwerera kuntchito. Monga amayi amakono, sitipereka chisamaliro chomwe chikufunika pa nkhaniyi, kotero pokhapokha titalankhula zambiri za izo ndikuyimira zomwe timakhulupirira, tikhala tikukhala mu zovuta zopanda malire ndi kusakhutira. Ndipo izi zidzakhala mfundo zomwe tidzapereka kwa ana athu.

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