Zokambirana 5 Zoyenera Kukambirana Musanalowe M'banja Kuti Mupewe Mavuto M'tsogolo

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Ndipamene ukwatiwo ukunyezimira ndi kugunda kwenikweni, pomwe maanja amayamba kudabwa chifukwa chomwe sanalankhulepo zachindunji asanawonjeze ngolo zawo. Amalankhula za kusamuka kwa ntchito, nkhani za chonde, mabanja okulirapo ndi zambiri. Izi ndi zinthu zomwe muyenera kukambirana musanalowe m'banja.

Kaŵirikaŵiri, m’chisangalalo cha ukwati umene ukuyandikira mofulumira, makambitsirano oterowo amene munthu ayenera kukhala nawo asanalowe m’banja, angabwere kumbuyo. Koma ngati chibwenzi chanu chatenga nthawi yochuluka ndipo mukuganiza zomanga mfundo yoti mukwatirane, muyenera kukambitsirana ndithu.

Tithokoze nyenyezi zanu ngati simunalumbiritse kale, chifukwa nayi mitu ingapo yoti mupite ndi khofi wanu (makamaka osati vinyo) yomwe ingakuthandizeni kupanga chisankho chomaliza.

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M'ndandanda wazopezekamo

Malinga ndi kafukufuku wina , akazi 60 pa 100 ndi amuna 52 pa 100 okha ndi omwe amagawana malipiro awo ndi akazi anzawo. Pa mndandanda wa zinthu zomwe okwatirana ayenera kukambirana asanakwatirane, malipiro ndi ndalama ziyenera kukhala zofunika kwambiri, koma monga momwe tikuonera, izi zikadali mbali yosakumbukiridwa kwambiri.

Simukufuna kudziwa za ngongole yaikulu ya mnzanuyo mutabwerera kuchokera ku ukwati wanu wokwera mtengo, sichoncho? Kaya mumakonda kapena ayi, kukambirana za ndalama ndi gawo lofunika kwambiri pa ndondomeko ya ukwati musanakwatirane.

Mungakhale mukukondana kwambiri, kapena mungotsatira zomwe mukufuna. Koma kaya mukufuna, muyenera kukhalabe mu chikondi ndi munthuyo moyo wanu wonse . Chifukwa chake ndikofunikira kuti mukambirane nkhani zisanu izi musanalowe m'banja kuti mudziwe bwino ngati nonse muli pa chinthu chimodzi.

Popanda kuchedwa, tiyeni tichitepo kanthu, kuopera kuti ubongo wanu wozengereza ungakupatseni chifukwa china chozengereza kufunsa mafunso ofunikawa kuti mukambirane musanalowe m'banja.

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1. Chinthu chofunika kwambiri kukambirana musanalowe m’banja ndi ndalama

Tikudziwa, tikudziwa. Nkhani zandalama si nkhani yosangalatsa kwambiri kukambirana, koma mukayamba kukambirana msanga, zimakhala bwino. Malinga ndi kafukufuku wina , "momwe mwamuna kapena mkazi amagwiritsira ntchito ndalama" ndi chifukwa chachitatu chachikulu cha chisudzulo. Sikokomeza kunena kuti nkhani za ukwati izi zoti mukambirane zingakupulumutseni ku vuto lalikulu kwambiri.

Kuchokera pa kusunga ndalama, kusamalira ndalama ndi zolinga zandalama kupita ku kaganizidwe ka ngongole, kukambirana kovutirapo kokhudza ndalama n’kofunika kwambiri.

"Ndinkakonda kwambiri mwamuna wanga, ndipo monga momwe zinalili ndi mabanja ambiri, ndinali ndi njira yoti ' tidzathetsa vutoli pamene tikupita' . Patapita nthawi ndinadziwa za ngongole za mwamuna wanga. Nthawi yomweyo ndinayamba kuyang'anira nkhaniyi, ndinalemba ndalama zomwe tinagwiritsa ntchito, ndipo ndinayamba kuyang'anira ndalama zomwe tinali kubweza. Zinatitengera zaka ziwiri kuti tithetse ngongolezo, koma tikusangalala kuti zatha," akutero Rachel, manejala wogulitsa wazaka 34.

2. Kukambilana zokhuza kugonana ndi nkhani ya m'banja

Zimene zimachitika pakati pa mapepala ndi chinthu chomwe chimayambitsa ukwati wanu. Kodi kugwirizana kwanu pa kugonana kuli bwanji? Kodi zosowa zanu ndi zomwe mukufuna zimagwirizana bwino? Nanga bwanji ngati wina wa inu amakonda zinthu zosiyana kwambiri ndi zomwe mnzanu akufuna?

Katswiri wina wa zamaganizo wa ku Mumbai dzina lake Deepali Shetty, anati: “Simungathe kuuza anthu ena za kugonana m'banja mwanu.

3. Mafunso oti mukambirane musanalowe m’banja: maganizo anu ndi otani pa nkhani yobereka ana?

Musanayambe kukambirana za ' momwe mungalerere mwana' , onetsetsani kuti mnzanu akufuna kukhala ndi mwana mofanana ndi inu. Funso lalikulu ngati limeneli silingasiyidwe mpaka inu nonse mutakwatirana ndipo liyenera kukambidwa musanalowe m'banja ndi mapazi onse awiri. Simufunsa mphunzitsi wosambira m'madzi osambira kuti maganizo ake ndi otani pa matanki a mpweya mukangolowa m'madzi osambira, sichoncho?

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“Kukhala ndi mwana kwinakwake pakati pa zaka ziŵiri kapena zisanu zaukwati kuli chinthu chachibadwa kwambiri, koma pamene ndinautsa mutuwo pambuyo pa zaka zitatu zaukwati wanga, mwamuna wanga ananena kuti sanafune ana, ndipo analingalira kuti sindinkafunanso ana—chifukwa chakuti ndinali kunyansidwa ndi kupenya kwawo m’masiku a koleji,” akutero mlangizi wa Zumba wazaka 33 zakubadwa Natasha.

Zinamutengera nthawi yopitilira chaka kuti atseke mutu wake pozindikira kuti sangakhale mayi, makamaka ndi mnyamata yemwe adakwatirana naye. “Koma mwamuna wanga ndimamukonda, ndipo sindingafune kumusiya ndi kubereka ana ndi munthu wina,” akuuza motero.

4. Kugawikana kwa ntchito zapakhomo

Okwatirana ambiri nthawi zambiri amakangana asanakwatirane, koma mkwiyo umayamba kukula mukayamba kugawana ntchito zapakhomo m'banja . Zingawoneke ngati nkhani yaikulu, koma mukachotsa zinyalala mosamala, simungasangalale kuyang'ana kumbuyo kuti muwone ngati mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu sanatsuke mbale zomwe ayenera kusamba.

“Mkazi wanga anaganiza zopuma pantchito pambuyo pa ukwati, ndipo popeza kuti tinasamukira kumidzi, ndinalingalira kuti adzachita ntchito zina zapakhomo monga kusunga zipatso ndi ndiwo zamasamba, kuyang’anira ophika, kukonza zochapira, ndipo Loweruka ndi Lamlungu ndimachita zonse zomwe ndikanatha,” akutero Richard.

Koma chodabwitsa n’chakuti, iye anayamba kulimbana ndi nkhani zokhudza kukhala pakati pa amuna ndi akazi modzidzimutsa ndipo anayamba kundinena kuti ndine wopondereza.” Chaka chimodzi m’banja, tinagwirizana kuti tisiyane. Choncho “funso lotopetsa” ndi limene muyenera kufunsana musanalowe m’banja.

5. Kambiranani za udindo monga makolo

Musanamanga mfundo, kukhala ndi ana ndi maudindo omwe amatsatira amaoneka ngati kutali kwambiri m'tsogolo moti kukambirana nthawi zambiri kungachedwe. Koma izi ndi zinthu zomwe muyenera kukambirana musanalowe m’banja kuti m’tsogolo, kusamvana kusakhaleko.

Nthawi yokha imene tinkakhala limodzi inali Loweruka ndi Lamlungu. Nditatenga pathupi, nthawi yopita kwa amayi oyembekezera inandibweretsera funso lalikulu - ndani amene ankati azitenga maudindo ochepa kuntchito n'kuthandiza panyumbapo? Patatha miyezi yambiri tikukangana, tinakwanitsa kupeza njira yoti tipeze njira yoti tidzakhale limodzi ndi ana aang'ono azaka zitatu, "anatero mkulu wathu wazaka zisanu ndi chimodzi." Jess.

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Pamene nkhani zaukwati zomwe zidzakambidwe zikupangitsani kuzindikira kuti pali zambiri zomwe zimapangitsa kuti maubwenzi agwire ntchito kuposa chikondi, dzifunseni zomwe zimasokoneza mgwirizano ndi zomwe sizili. Kodi mudzatha kutsutsa kuti mnzanuyo sangakhale / sangakhale ndi ana, pamene inu mumawafuna?

Kupanga chisankho, ngakhale chitakhala chovuta chotani, ndikofunikira pano. Yesetsani kuti musalole kuti kutengeka mtima kukusokonezeni, ndipo pangani chisankho chanzeru pa zomwe simuli bwino nazo komanso zomwe simungathe kuzithetsa.

Mwina upangiri wabwino kwambiri womwe tingakupatseni ndi kukambirana ndi mlangizi wa zaubwenzi. Sikuti mudzangodziwa njira yabwino yochitira zinthu, komanso mudzamvetsetsa bwino zomwe muyenera kuchita kuti mukafike kumeneko. Ngati mukufuna munthu woti akutsogolereni, Bonobology ili ndi alangizi ambiri odziwa bwino ntchito omwe angakonde kukuthandizani ndi mavuto aliwonse aubwenzi.

Mukamudziwa bwino wokondedwa wanu musanalowe m'banja, zimakhala bwino. Zinthu zoti mukambirane tisanalowe m'banja zomwe takupatsani zikuthandizani kuti musankhe zochita pa nkhani zofunika kwambiri. Mukapanda kugwirizana pa zolinga zamtsogolo, mphamvu zanu zidzavutika chifukwa cha izo, posachedwa. Kuti zinthu ngati zimenezo sizichitika, khalani pansi mnzanuyo ndi kukambirana naye! Mudzasangalala kuti munatero.

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