15 Zoyipa Zazikulu Zazibwenzi Zapaintaneti

Taganizirani izi: Mwagwa mutu chifukwa cha mwamuna amene munamupeza pa pulogalamu ya zibwenzi zapaintaneti. Mumachita chidwi ndi mawonekedwe ake amphamvu, nkhope yake yandevu, komanso mawonekedwe ake. Mukufuna kukumana naye ndipo mumasangalala akakufunsani kuti mudye chakudya chamadzulo. Kenako D-day ifika, ndipo tsoka! Mumadabwa ndi mmene amaonekera mukamakumana pamasom’pamaso. A abs adapita kumimba yozungulira ndipo ndevu zake zidachokanso. "Zithunzizo zinali za zaka 3 zapitazo," akukuuzani! Timadana ndi kuphwanya kwa inu, ichi ndi chimodzi mwa zovuta zambiri za chibwenzi pa intaneti. 

Inde, m'nthawi ino yolumikizana ndi digito, zibwenzi zapaintaneti zatsala pang'ono kutha. Koma kodi ndife okonzeka kukumana ndi zokhumudwitsa, zoopsa, zokhumudwitsa, ndi zododometsa zomwe zimadza chifukwa chokhala ndi chibwenzi pa intaneti? Ndipo kuopsa kwa chibwenzi pa intaneti? Izi zingapangitse wina kuganiza kuti, "Kodi kukhala ndi chibwenzi pa intaneti n'koipa?" 

Chabwino, osati kwenikweni. Koma poganizira zachinyengo zosiyanasiyana zapaintaneti ndi zina zomwe zikuchulukirachulukira, kupha nsomba, kutopa pachibwenzi, munthu ayenera kukhala osamala poyang'ana malo enieni pofunafuna chikondi. Izi zimafuna kudziwa zomwe mungatsutse. Tabwera kukuthandizani pa izi, ndi chidziwitso kuchokera kwa psychotherapist Jui Pimple (MA mu Psychology), katswiri wophunzitsidwa bwino wa Rational Emotive Behavior ndi A Bach Remedy practitioner, yemwe amagwira ntchito pa uphungu wa pa intaneti. 

15 Zoyipa Zazikulu Zazibwenzi Zapaintaneti

Kodi mwakhala masiku ambiri mukulankhula ndi munthu yemwe mudakumana naye pa pulogalamu yapa chibwenzi kuti azisowa popanda kufotokoza kuti ndi mizimu? Kapena kodi munali ndi ziwopsezo zomwe zimakufunsani zithunzi zolaula patatha maola angapo kuti mulumikizane nanu? Kapena kuyika ndalama mwamalingaliro mwa munthu kuti akuuzeni kuti akufuna kusunga zinthu mwachisawawa? 

Ngakhale zili zomvetsa chisoni, zochitika izi ndizofala kwambiri. Chibwenzi chapaintaneti ziwerengero tiuzeni kuti anayi mwa anthu khumi aku America adachifotokoza ngati chokumana nacho choyipa. Malinga ndi ena kafukufuku, Atsikana nthawi zambiri amazunzidwa akamagwiritsa ntchito mapulogalamu a chibwenzi. Momwemonso, pafupifupi 57% ya azimayi omwe adachita nawo kafukufukuyu adalumikizidwa ngakhale atauza machesi awo pa intaneti kuti sakufuna kupitiliza zinthu.

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Izi sizikutanthauza kuti zibwenzi zapaintaneti ndizoyipa mwachibadwa kapena njira yolakwika yopezera chikondi ndi maubwenzi. Komabe, muyenera kudziwa zoopsa zomwe zingachitike pazibwenzi pa intaneti zomwe mungakumane nazo m'njira. Kuti izi zitheke, apa pali kuchepa kwa kuopsa ndi kuipa kwa zibwenzi pa intaneti:

1. Mavuto achitetezo ndi zibwenzi zapaintaneti

Chomwe chimatithawa ambiri aife ndikusowa kwachitetezo komwe zibwenzi zapaintaneti zimatiwonetsa. Ichi ndi chimodzi mwazovuta zazikulu za chibwenzi pa intaneti. Malinga ndi a kuphunzira ndi Kaspersky, aliyense wogwiritsa ntchito 6 pa malo ochezera a pa Intaneti wakhala akuvutitsidwa ndi vuto lina lachitetezo. Jui akuvomereza, monga momwe akunenera, “Chibwenzi chapa intaneti chimamveka chosangalatsa koma chimakhala ndi zovuta zake, chimodzi mwazo kukhala kusowa chitetezo. Tiyeni tiwone zinthu 5 zotetezedwa zomwe zingasokoneze chibwenzi chanu pa intaneti:

1. Mbiri zabodza

Kodi zibwenzi zapaintaneti ndizotetezeka? Malinga ndi chibwenzi pa intaneti ziwerengero, Anthu ambiri amaona kuti zambiri zomwe zatchulidwa mu mbiri ya munthu pa intaneti ndi zabodza. Ngakhale mtima wa munthu amene mukufuna kukwatirana nayeyo uli pamalo oyenera, chimenecho si chifukwa choti abisire zoti anali okwatirana, mpaka tsiku lachisanu ndi chimodzi. 

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Kukhoza basi "mzimu" munthu tsiku lina labwino limapatsa mphamvu anthu kuti agulitse mtundu wawo, ndipo ichi ndi chimodzi mwazovuta za chibwenzi pa intaneti. Umu ndi momwe anthu angakupusitseni ndi zidziwitso zabodza pazambiri za zibwenzi zapaintaneti ndikumachita zachinyengo pa intaneti:

• Akhoza kunama za ntchito zawo. Mwachitsanzo, mutha kupeza munthu wina yemwe amati ndi mabanki ndipo ndi wowerengera ndalama
• Akhoza kunama za banja lawo (kusudzulana, ana, etc.)
• Atha kukusocheretsani pazaumoyo wawo kapena kubisa matenda osachiritsika

Jui anati: “Kukhulupirirana n’kofunika kwambiri pa nkhani ya chibwenzi. Pochita chibwenzi pa Intaneti, ngati munthuyo ndi wosamudziwa n’komwe, n’zovuta kuti ayambe kumukhulupirira.

2. Onyenga achikondi

Chimodzi mwazowopsa za zibwenzi zapaintaneti ndi kukhalapo kwa ochita chinyengo pazibwenzi pa mapulogalamu/mawebusayiti. Zosadziwika zomwe munthu amasangalala nazo kuseri kwa zenera amazigwiritsa ntchito onyenga zachikondi kupusitsa anthu. Wowerenga wathu Sutton Nesbitt, mphunzitsi wa sewero, nayenso anali ndi chokumana nacho chodetsa nkhawa. 

Pofotokoza za vuto lake, Susan anati: "Iye ananena kuti anali wochokera ku Mexico ndipo anali atapita ku New Jersey pamene tinafanana. Tinalankhula pa intaneti kwa miyezi isanu ndi umodzi, kenako anayesa kundipempha ndalama pogwiritsa ntchito matenda a mwana wake monga chowiringula. Ichi chinali chimodzi mwa zizindikiro zofiira zomwe ndinaziwona mwa iye. Ndinayang'ana kumbuyo ndikuzindikira kuti Andy Wescott, dzina lake lenileni la chibwenzi linasonyeza. 

Izi zimatikumbutsa za chiwonetsero cha Netflix The Tinder Swindler, yomwe inasimba nkhani ya mwamuna wina amene ananyengerera atsikana masauzande a madola podzionetsa ngati bilionea m’mavuto. 

3. Kuvutitsidwa pa intaneti 

Kuvutitsidwa pa intaneti ndi chimodzi mwazovuta zazikulu za chibwenzi pa intaneti, ndipo ngati wina akudziwa njira zingapo zabwino zosinthira adilesi yake ya IP (ndipo yavunda m'mutu), atha kungoyamba chizolowezi. 

Ziwerengero za chibwenzi pa intaneti akuwonetsa kuti m'modzi mwa amayi anayi adakhalapo pa intaneti kapena kuzunzidwa pazibwenzi. Kenako, pamakhala zowawa zolandira zithunzi zolaula zosayenera. Ili ndi limodzi mwamavuto ovuta kwambiri okhudzana ndi zibwenzi pa intaneti, zomwe zimasiya anthu ambiri kudzifunsa kuti, "Kodi zibwenzi zapaintaneti ndizotetezeka?"

4. Kusokoneza anthu pogwiritsa ntchito zolaula

Chimodzi mwazinthu zazikulu Zowopsa za chibwenzi pa intaneti ndikosavuta komwe anthu angagwiritse ntchito zomwe mumagawana nawo kuti akunamizeni. Jui anati, “Anthu ayenera kusamala kwambiri ndi zimene amagawana pa macheza, ngakhale kuti zimenezi zingachepetse vuto la kukhala pachibwenzi.”

Ambiri aife tagawana zithunzi, macheza, kapena makanema apamtima ndi wina wapadera pamacheza. Koma chimachitika ndi chiyani zina mwa zithunzi, macheza, kapena mavidiyo ena akagwiritsidwa ntchito molakwika kapena kutayidwa ndi azanyengo pa intaneti kapena, choyipa kwambiri, nkukhala m'manja mwa achiwembu chifukwa chakuphwanya deta?

 Kutumizirana mameseji olaula pogwiritsa ntchito zithunzi zolaula kapena zinthu zina (makaseti olaula, ndi zina zotero) kapena macheza olaula kungakhale kovutitsa maganizo. Onjezani chiopsezo chokhala ngati wozunzidwa ndi zolaula zobwezera pambuyo pokana wokondedwa. Kugawana nkhani zapamtima zotere kungayambitsenso nkhani zazikulu, monga kuba zidziwitso. A Reddit wosuta anakumana ndi vuto lofananalo ndipo anapempha thandizo: "Wina akunyoza bwenzi langa pogwiritsa ntchito zithunzi zake zachinsinsi, akuluakulu sangathandize pa atm chifukwa akaunti ya FB ndi dummy.

5. Kupha nsomba

Nayi imodzi mwazovuta za chibwenzi pa intaneti zomwe nthawi zambiri timazitenga mwachisawawa. Anthu okwatirana amene sanakumanepo m’moyo weniweni akhoza kukhala pachibwenzi kwa miyezi ingapo, koma amadabwa ndi mmene amaonekera m’moyo weniweniwo. Chifukwa chake, zikhale zowonjezera kapena zithunzi za Photoshopped pa intaneti kapena zosefera za Instagram kapena pazibwenzi, anthu tsopano ali ndi kuthekera kosintha osati momwe amawonekera komanso mawonekedwe awo onse pa intaneti. Kusaka amphaka ikuyenera kukhala imodzi mwazanyengo zoyipa kwambiri pa intaneti. Ndipo zakhalaponso kuphunzira kwambiri pa chodabwitsa ichi.

Nayi nkhani yoyamba ya nsomba zam'madzi zenizeni Reddit, "Ndakhala ndikupanga akaunti zabodza kapena zomwe tsopano zimadziwika kuti "catfish" zaka 8 za moyo wanga. Ndinapatulira tsiku langa lonse kusamalira ndi kugwiritsa ntchito maakaunti awa. Ndakhala ndi maubwenzi ambiri ndi anthu omwe ndawanamizira, sindingawakumbukire onsewo. Ndadzipereka zaka 8 za moyo wanga kukhala munthu wina kwenikweni. Nthawi zambiri ndimawonjezera ma profayilo abodza pa Facebook. posachedwapa ndasamukira ku Instagram koma izi zimapangitsa chilichonse kukhala chowopsa kwambiri pamoyo wanga ndi atsikana omwe ndimawabera zithunzi ndikudziletsa kuti ndisagwidwe.

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2. Zotsatira zoyipa za chibwenzi pa intaneti paumoyo wamaganizidwe ndi malingaliro

Ndi chibwenzi kudzera pa mapulogalamu otetezeka zikafika kwa inu Thanzi labwino? Chofunika koposa, kodi malo ochezera a pa chibwenzi amagwira ntchito pobweretsa mtendere wamalingaliro mu maubwenzi? Nkhawa zokhudzana ndi thanzi la maganizo pakati pa ogwiritsa ntchito mapulogalamuwa ndi aakulu kwambiri moti pakhala pali kafukufuku kuyesera kupeza ulalo pakati pa kugwiritsa ntchito mapulogalamu a zibwenzi ndi zovuta zamaganizidwe monga nkhawa ndi kukhumudwa.

Ngakhale kuchuluka kwa zibwenzi pa intaneti kumatha kusiyanasiyana munthu ndi munthu, kutengera luso lawo lochita zinthu zomwe amakonda pa intaneti, pali zovuta zina zobwera pa chibwenzi pa intaneti zomwe zimatha kuwononga thanzi la anthu m'malingaliro ndi m'maganizo mpaka kalekale. Pansipa pali mndandanda wazinthu 5 zowopsa za zibwenzi zapaintaneti zomwe zimabisalira mbiri yachibwenzi:

1. Zimamveka ngati lupu 

Chimodzi mwazovuta kwambiri za chibwenzi pa intaneti ndikuti zimawoneka ngati kuzungulira kosatha. Kusambira koyenera, nkhani yaying'ono yosangalatsa, ndipo ndi tsiku! Koma chemistry yanu pamawu sidzakutsimikizirani zamoyo weniweni. Ichi ndichifukwa chake mumakhala pachiwopsezo cholowa munjira yopanda malire yoyeserera ndi zolakwika. Ichi ndi chimodzi mwa zifukwa zomwe zibwenzi zanu zapaintaneti zingawonekere mobwerezabwereza-komanso chimodzi mwazoyipa zodziwika bwino za chibwenzi pa intaneti.

Mnzanga Carl, loya, wakhala akugwiritsa ntchito Tinder kwa zaka ziwiri tsopano. Izi ndi zomwe adandiuza pokambirana wamba pa chibwenzi pa intaneti, "Ndinkakonda poyamba chifukwa zidapanga chibwenzi ngati introvert zosavuta kwambiri. Kukumana ndi mkazi watsopano Lachisanu lililonse kunali kosangalatsa. Koma pang’onopang’ono, ntchitoyi inayamba kutopa kwambiri. Ndatopa kukambirana za zomwe ndimakonda komanso zolinga za moyo. Zimatenga nthawi ndipo zimangotaya kukongola kwake pakapita nthawi. ”

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2. Nkhawa za ndalama 

Chimodzi mwazabwino zomwe zimakambidwa kwambiri za chibwenzi pa intaneti ndikuti ngakhale mutagawaniza ndalamazo ndikupeza njira yabwino yopangira chisankho. amene amalipira pa tsiku, ndalama zambiri zimawonongedwa. Ndipo popeza simukumudziwa bwino munthuyo m'moyo weniweni, ndalama zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito zimatha kuwonongeka, chifukwa palibe chitsimikizo cha kugwirizana. Ndipo zimenezi zingayambitse nkhawa zandalama.

Reagan, msuweni wanga, adapita naye pa intaneti Rodrigo pa tsiku lawo loyamba kupita ku malo odyera abwino kwambiri ku DC Anaumirira kuti azilipira popeza malo odyerawo anali kusankha kwake. Koma, mwiniwake wa teetotaler, sanayembekezere kuti Rodrigo adziyitanitsa yekha botolo lalikulu la vinyo. Choyipa chachikulu ndichakuti Reagan idawononga pafupifupi $300. Choyipa chachikulu, sanakumanepo pambuyo pa tsiku limodzi.

3. Lingaliro la munthu wangwiro limasewera ndi malingaliro anu 

Chimodzi mwazowopsa za zibwenzi zapaintaneti ndi momwe zimasokoneza malingaliro anu ndikukupangitsani kukhala ndi chiyembekezo pa munthu wina malinga ndi zomwe mukuyembekezera. Kukweza mipiringidzo si chinthu choyipa, koma kuyembekezera kuti anthu akhale mtundu wamaloto anu amuna kapena akazi ndizopanda nzeru. Aliyense wa ife wadzaza kale ndi sewero ndi kutopa kwa kupeza 'yomwe'. Limodzi mwamavuto okhudzana ndi chibwenzi pa intaneti ndikuti zimangokulitsa kusimidwa kwakusakako. 

“Ndimakonda Joe koma si wodya zamasamba.” Paul ndi wodya zamasamba koma akufuna kusamukira ku Alabama. Danny amandikonda mopenga koma sakufuna ukwati. N’chifukwa chiyani palibe aliyense wa anyamatawa amene ali oyenerera kwa ine?” anafunsa motero Liam, woŵerenga wathu. Mafunso ake ndi nkhani yodziwikiratu pazomwe zimachitika pa intaneti. Tili ndi zosankha zambiri, ndipo izi zatipangitsa kukhulupirira kuti pali munthu m'modzi yekha amene angakhale chitsanzo cha zokhumba zathu zonse, kaya ndi maonekedwe, ndalama, kapena makhalidwe. Koma izo, mwatsoka, ndi maganizo olakwika.

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4. Nkhani zodzidalira 

A Nkhani ya CNN ya 2018 akufotokoza momwe chibwenzi chanu pa intaneti chingakupangitseni kapena kukuwonongerani kudzidalira kwanu. Yaikulu miyandamiyanda Intaneti chibwenzi chiopsezo ndi kutaya nokha mu izo. Kuchita zibwenzi zapaintaneti kumatha kusokoneza msanga, pafupifupi ngati masewera. Ndipo zinthu sizikuyenda bwino, algorithm kukhala yokhumudwitsa, kukanidwa mobwerera m'mbuyo, kapena chigwa chakale "Chifukwa chiyani sandikonda inenso?"Zochitika zonsezi zimatha kukupangitsani kumva kuti ndinu wokondwa kwambiri." Kuzungulira kotereku kumatha kusokoneza thanzi lanu lamalingaliro ndikuchepetsanso kudzidalira kwanu. 

5. Zimakupangitsani kukhala osinthasintha komanso osaganizira

Taganizirani izi: Arya akudikirira kuti mumutumizire mameseji mukakhala pachibwenzi ndi Debbie. Chimodzi mwa zotsatira zoyipa za chibwenzi pa intaneti ndikuti mutha kupitako mwachangu kucheza ndi player ndikupangitsa kuti mtima wanu ukhale wosweka kuti mukhale wosewera munkhani ya munthu wina. Ndipo ichi ndiye chowonadi chakuda, mosasamala za kuchuluka kwa zibwenzi zapaintaneti zomwe mapulogalamu azibwenzi amawonetsa.

Ndi nsomba zambiri m'nyanja ya Intaneti chibwenzi mapulogalamu, inu nthawizonse, mozindikira kapena subconsciously, kuyembekezera kupeza 'wina bwino', ndipo mwina mapeto kuswa mitima ina ndondomeko. 

3. Online chibwenzi kuipa ubwenzi khalidwe

Kodi zibwenzi zapaintaneti zimawononga bwanji malingaliro anu okhudzana ndi zibwenzi? Kodi kusankha kochulukira kukutanthauza kuti mudzapeza 'imodzi' mosavuta? Chofunika koposa, kodi 'imodzi'yo ilipodi? Tiyeni tiwone momwe zibwenzi zapaintaneti zingawonongere lingaliro lathu la maubwenzi komanso kusokoneza ubale wathu.

1. Chododometsa cha kusankha 

Chimodzi mwazoyipa zowoneka bwino za maubwenzi apaintaneti ndikusankha kwabodza komwe kumapereka. Dzifunseni kuti, "Kodi malo ochezera a pa Intaneti amathandiza kuti ubale ukhale wabwino?" Kenako jambulani izi: Azimayi anayi odabwitsa akudikirira kuti muwatumizirenso mameseji pamene akudikirira moleza mtima mu ma DM anu ndipo mumapitabe ndi bwenzi lanu lapamtima kusukulu ya sekondale ku chikondwerero cha nyimbo. Eya, inu mukudziwa chimene ine ndikutanthauza. Izi mwina ndi zomwe amachitcha 'chododometsa cha kusankha', zomwe zimakupangitsani kukhala okhumudwa nkhawa pachibwenzi. 

Kafukufuku, Malinga ndi ziwerengero atsopano Intaneti chibwenzi, ananena kuti 32% a daters Intaneti ankaona mochepa wokonzeka kukhazikika ndi kuchita yekha kwa okondedwa limodzi, ndi njira zambiri pa rada awo. Chifukwa chake, zibwenzi zapaintaneti mwina zimathandizira kudzipereka ku phobianso.

2. Gawo lotumizirana mameseji lingakhale losangalatsa koma silingatsogolere ku chilichonse chofunikira

Mmodzi wa chizindikiro Intaneti chibwenzi kuipa ndi kukayikakayika kuti mameseji gawo adzatsogolera chinachake konkire. Kaya mumakumana ndi munthu maola anayi kapena miyezi inayi mutatha kufananiza nawo, koyambirira kwa izi ndi gawo lodziwika bwino lotumizirana mameseji, koma likhoza kukusiyani mmwamba ndikuwuma pakapita miyezi, ngati sizikubweretsa chinthu chachikulu. Ichi ndichifukwa chake gawo lotumizirana mameseji pazibwenzi zapaintaneti lingakhale 'lovuta':

• Simudziwabe kanthu za munthu winayo, kwenikweni. Iye atha kukhala wakupha mosalekeza. Kapena akhoza kukhala wakuda
• Zozungulira zingapo zabwino kutumizirana mameseji mokopana siziyenera kukhala zokwanira kukweza ziyembekezo zanu ndikuyika zoyembekezera zanu mopitilira muyeso. Iwo sangafune kudzipereka kwa inu panobe
• Simungathe kudziwa momwe munthu alili pongomulembera mameseji. Iwo angabise zolakwa zawo kapena kunamizira kuti ali ndi zokonda zofanana kuti angokhala nanu
• Kutumizirana mameseji si njira ina yolumikizirana ndi munthu pamasom’pamaso, chifukwa kumakuthandizani kuti mumvetse mmene munthuyo akumvera komanso mmene akumvera.

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3. Zimamveka ngati zochitika zongopeka 

“Kodi mumakonda zotani?”, “Kodi mumadziona kuti muli pati m’zaka 10?”, “Kodi muli ndi unansi wabwino ndi makolo anu?”, ndipo inde, zoonekeratu, “SIMUKUKONDA. MASEWERA AMAKORONA?! " 

Umu ndi momwe a tsiku loyamba amapita ndi munthu amene mwakhala mukuyankhula naye pa intaneti kwa kanthawi. Ndipo mosiyana ndi chisangalalo ndi chikhalidwe chakukhala ndi mlendo usiku womwe mudawona mukuwerenga buku lomwe mumakonda papaki, zonse zomwe zidachitika pano zimamveka ngati zamakina. Jui anati: “Kukhalapo kwa thupi kumapereka chidziŵitso chochuluka chokhudza munthu amene uli naye pachibwenzi, chimene mwina simungachipeze pa telefoni kapena pocheza.”

Sipamakhala konse kuphulika kwabwino kwa kumverera kwachirengedwe. The banality of the same questions and talks with each new date angakupangitseni kumva ngati mukupita pa maulendo osatha a zoyankhulana ntchito yomweyo. Ichinso ndi chimodzi mwa zoopsa za pachibwenzi pa intaneti zomwe zingawononge chibwenzi chanu.

4. Pali zambiri zomwe mungakhumudwe nazo 

Chimodzi mwazovuta zambiri zaubwenzi wapaintaneti ndikuti anthu amanamizira kwambiri pa intaneti. 'chithunzi cha pambuyo polimbitsa thupi' cha mnyamata chikhoza kukhala chinachake chimene adachidina chaka chatha, atangotsala pang'ono kuonda posachedwapa. Kapena anali atavala sundress yokongola pachithunzi chake koma adawonekera mu sweatpant pa tsikulo? 

Tiyeni tikhale owona mtima, ife tonse tikufuna kuyang'ana mtheradi wathu bwino pa chibwenzi app mbiri. Kaya izi zikuphatikizapo kunama za kutalika kwanu kapena kujambula ndi galu wa mnzanu kuti mungopeza zochepa "Galu wanu ndi wokongola kwambiri!" mauthenga, mfundo ndi yakuti anthu ambiri akhoza kunama pa mapulogalamu awa. 

Koma mongoyerekeza momwe izi zingamvekere, chithunzi cha munthu pa a pulogalamu ya chibwenzi ndi chinthu choyamba chomwe chimatsimikizira ngati munthu akufuna kuyambitsa kukhudzana. Choncho, uphungu wonse wa 'Musaweruze buku ndi chivundikiro chake' umatuluka pawindo. Jui anati, “Nthawi zambiri, munthu amene amawoneka kuti ndi woyenerera kapena wokopa pa macheza a pa intaneti sangamve chimodzimodzi mukakumana naye.”

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5. The aligorivimu palokha 

Kodi chibwenzi pa intaneti chimagwira ntchito bwanji? Mapulogalamu ambiri amadalira ma aligorivimu kuti athandize ogwiritsa ntchito kupeza machesi omwe angathe. Tsopano, ndani anadziwa chinthu chomwe chimayenera kukupezani munthu wamaloto anu chingakhale chifukwa chomwe mumadyera pitsa yoziziritsa nokha Lachisanu usiku, mutakhala nokha pakhitchini yanu?

Pali zambiri zambiri zomwe zimapita pakuyesa ndikufananiza anthu kuposa zomwe ma aligorivimu 'amaganiza' zomwe amadziwa za ife. Kugwirizana pakugonana, luso lotha kuthetsa mavuto, ndi njira yothetsera mikangano ndi zina mwa zinthu zofunika kwambiri poyesa kupeza munthu woyenera kukhala naye pachibwenzi. Algorithm (ngakhale itathandizidwa ndi AI) sadziwa chilichonse mwa izi. Ikuchita zomwe imachita bwino, zomwe zikukufananizani ndi mawu osakira (zokonda, malo, ndi zina zotero). 

Jui akuti, "Mukafuna kupititsa patsogolo zinthu, ndikofunikira kudziwa momwe kupezeka kwa munthuyo kumakupangitsani kumva, m'malo motengera zomwe amakonda pa Netflix.

Taganizirani izi: Nonse mwina mwatchulapo za chikondi chanu cha Red Sox mu bios yanu, zomwe zimapangitsa Tinder kuganiza kuti ndinu machesi. Koma kodi zimenezo n’zokwanira? Nanga bwanji zoti mumakonda kuwerenga ndipo akuganiza kuti owerenga onse ndi opusa? Kapena kuti simukonda kuwononga ndalama patchuthi ndipo amakonda maulendo apamwamba? Ndipotu, a phunziro zikuwonetsa kuti ma aligorivimu samangowonjezera mwayi wanu wopeza munthu woyenera.

Riley, wowerenga wathu wochokera ku Wisconsin, akuti, "Chimodzi mwazovuta zazikulu za zibwenzi zapaintaneti ndikuti mapulogalamuwa amangondiwonetsa mbiri ya anthu amtundu wanga. Sindinadzazepo zokonda zamtundu wanga. Ndiye, bwanji nsanja izi zimangoganiza zomwe ndikuyang'ana? Zochitika zonse zimandilepheretsa. Sindidzatsegulanso mapulogalamu amenewo." 

Kodi Chibwenzi Paintaneti N'choipa Kwa Inu? 

Ndiye, kodi kucheza pa intaneti ndikowopsa? Kodi zibwenzi zapaintaneti zimagwira ntchito bwanji ngati ndizoyipa kwambiri kwa inu? Ili ndi funso lovuta. M'malo mwake, ndi lingaliro lokhazikika. Aliyense wa ife akhoza kukhala ndi yankho losiyana, koma palibe amene angatsutse kuti zibwenzi zapaintaneti zili ndi ubwino ndi kuipa kwake. Ndiye, kodi chibwenzi pa intaneti ndi njira yabwino bwanji yopezera munthu wapadera?

• Ndikosavuta komanso mwachangu kupeza anthu pazibwenzi
• Dziwe la zibwenzi ndi lalikulu, chifukwa silimangokhala ndi malo kapena mtunda
• Kusankha kosefa zomwe mungathe kufananiza potengera mawonekedwe athupi, umunthu, ndi zokonda

Kuwerenga Kofanana: Kodi Kukhala ndi Chibwenzi Paintaneti Ndikosavuta Kwa Akazi?

Koma mfundo zomwezo zomwe zikuthandizirani zitha kukhala zowopsa kapena zowopsa kwa inu. Mwachitsanzo:

• Mfundo yakuti kufulumira kungakupangitseni kupita pamasiku osataya nthawi yochuluka poyesa munthuyo, zomwe zimatsogolera zotheka zibwenzi Intaneti zoopsa ndi zoopsa
• Dziwe la zibwenzi lili ngati dziwe lopanda malire, lopanda malire komanso lalikulu, koma mutha kudodometsedwa ndi zosankha zambiri ndipo osakhazikika konse.
• Ma algorithms ndi zosefera zitha kusefa mosafunikira machesi omwe angakhalepo m'njira yachipatala

Mfundo yaikulu ndi yakuti ngakhale pali zovuta zambiri za chibwenzi pa intaneti, momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito chibwenzi pa intaneti kuti mupindule ndi inu.

Maganizo Final

Ndiye, kodi kucheza pa intaneti kumagwira ntchito? Ziwerengero za zibwenzi zapaintaneti zatsimikizira mobwerezabwereza kuti pali zoopsa zambiri zomwe zimachitika pa chibwenzi pa intaneti. Pamene sitikutanthauza kukukanizani kukumana ndi anthu pa intaneti, tikufunanso kuti mumvetse kuti kudziwa kuipa kwa chibwenzi pa intaneti ndi chinthu chanzeru komanso chanzeru kuti mumasewera otetezeka. Chifukwa chake, ngati mukufuna kulowa m'dziko lazibwenzi za digito, titengereni - muchita bwino kwambiri podziwa zomwe muyenera kuyang'ana.

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