Ndikuchita Chibwenzi ndi Mkazi Wokwatiwa, Kodi Kulakwa Ndikolakwika?

Ndili pachibwenzi ndi munthu wokwatiwa ndipo ndikufuna malangizo pa ubale wanga wapano. Ndili pachibwenzi ndi mkazi wokwatiwa, ndipo timagonananso. Kodi izi ndi zolakwika? 

Ndikuchita Chibwenzi ndi Mkazi Wokwatiwa, Kodi Kulakwa Ndikolakwika?

ndine kukumana ndi munthu wokwatira ndipo ndakhala ndikumva kwenikweni wolakwa za izi. Iye ndi wanga mkazi wa bwenzi. Tinakumana kuphwando kenako tinalumikizana. Sindimadziwa kuti nditha kukhala naye pachibwenzi, ndimatha kukhala pachibwenzi ndi mnzanga. Koma tinabweradi moyandikana kwambiri kudzera muzolumikizana zathu za WhatsApp. 

Kuwerenga kofananira: Ndikanadziwa chifukwa chimene mkazi wanga anandisiyira mwamuna wina wokwatira

Kuopsa kokhala pachibwenzi ndi mkazi wokwatiwa

Ndinazindikira kuopsa kokhala pachibwenzi ndi mkazi wokwatiwa, makamaka amene ndi mkazi wa mnzanga. Anali kwa ine ndipo bwenzi langa linatulukira. Zinalidi zovuta kwambiri ndipo ndidadana ndi momwe amabisalira kubafa. 

Ndinadziimba mlandu kwambiri ndi kuchita manyazi ndi zonsezo. Koma ine ndiri misala mchikondi naye koma amakonda kumangogonana basi. Ndimadana nazo izi koma sakufuna kukhumudwitsa mnzanga yemwe ndi munthu wabwino komanso tuluka wa chikondi. Inenso sindikufuna kuti aleke. Koma ndikhala chonchi mpaka liti? Kodi mumatani mukayamba kukondana ndi mkazi wokwatiwa?

Tili ndi ubwenzi wapamtima

Ndife okondana kwambiri ndipo ndikudziwa kuti ngakhale ndili pa chibwenzi ndi mkazi wokwatiwa koma mnzanga alibe naye ubale. Ali ndi vuto la erectile ndipo adandiuza kalekale. Koma sindikudziwa ngati ubale wanga ndi mkazi wokwatiwa ungakhale ndi malangizo ndipo sindikudziwa ngati ndikuchita zoyenera. 

Chonde ndithandizeni. 

Wokondedwa Munthu Wodandaula,

Inde, kugona ndi anthu omwe angakhale akubera abwenzi awo ndizovuta kwambiri pazifukwa zingapo. Ndili ndi lingaliro kuti udindo wophwanya mgwirizano (poganiza kuti wawo siukwati wopanda mwamuna mmodzi) ndi mwamuna wake si wanu koma wake yekha.

Zinthu zikhoza kukhala zovuta

Ndikufuna kukudziwitsani mbali zina zamavuto ake. Anthu akamabera munthu wina, nthawi zambiri amakhala chizindikiro chakuti sanakonze zinthu zomwe akufunikira, mwa wokondedwa wawo.

Simungawone kukhala chida chomwe munthu amagwiritsa ntchito potulutsa kukhumudwa komwe kuli muubwenzi wawo.

Palinso ndalama zamaganizo ndi zamagulu zomwe zimakhudzidwa ndi kubera okwatirana. Bwanji ngati mawa, mutadzipezera nokha kuti pali zambiri kuposa kugonana pakati pa inu anyamata; izo zikanakhala kutali ndi zophweka, sichoncho izo?

Kukhala pachibwenzi ndi mkazi wokwatiwa kumasokoneza maganizo

Ngakhale mukuganiza kuti si vuto lake ndipo alibe chochita china, muyenera kudziganizira mozama. Popeza simunatchule, sindikudziwa kuti muli ndi zaka zingati. Ine ndikufuna ndikuuzeni inu zimenezo maubwenzi ovuta nzofuna kwambiri, mochuluka kwambiri kuposa “zanthawi zonse,” panthaŵi yake ndi chuma chake, ponse paŵiri m’maganizo ndi m’zandalama.

Osaiwala, kutengera komwe mukukhala m'dziko (kapena dziko lapansi), zotsatira zalamulo zokhala nawo ngati bwenzi logwira nawo ntchito kusakhulupirika Zingakhalenso zosafunikira kunena pang'ono, ngati zifika pamenepo. Ndiye mungafunse choti muchite mukayamba kukondana ndi mkazi wokwatiwa?

Momwe mungalekere chibwenzi ndi mkazi wokwatiwa

Kujambula zochitika za tsiku la chiwonongeko ndi ntchito yokhayo yomwe ndinu wamkulu ndipo muyenera kupanga chisankho chanu malinga ndi chidziwitso chomwe muli nacho. Koma mukandifunsa muyenera kuyesa kuuchotsa pachibwenzi.

Mukuyika nthawi yanu ndi malingaliro anu muzinthu zomwe zilibe tsogolo. Pali zinanso zingapo zomwe muyenera kukumbukira za kuopsa kokhala pachibwenzi ndi mkazi wokwatiwa. Sangakupangitseni kukhala patsogolo pa ana ake ndipo banja lake nthawi zonse limakhala lofunika kwambiri kwa iye ngakhale mutha kukhala phewa lolirira.

Atha kukhala pachibwenzi chifukwa mwamuna wake sangathe kukwaniritsa zokhumba zake koma sangakhale wokonzeka kukhala ndi inu mpaka kalekale. Kotero inu nthawizonse mudzakhala osokonezeka ndi otopa.

Pomaliza koma osati nthawi zonse mutha kukhala m'modzi mwa anthu ambiri omwe amagonana nawo. Choncho zili ndi inu kusankha zimene mukufuna kuchita. Koma chibwenzi ndi mkazi wokwatiwa si lingaliro labwino.

Tikuyembekeza izi zimathandiza

Deepak Kashyap

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