Kutumizirana Mameseji Pa Tsiku - Malangizo 15 Kuti Muzichita Bwino

Mutha kuwatumiza mwachisawawa "Wyd?" ndi memes opusa kwa nthawi yayitali zinthu zisanayambe kufa. Pamene iwo atero, ndipo pamene malemba anu awiri akumana popanda kalikonse koma chete, inu mungakhale mutafika poti simungabwererenso. Kuonetsetsa kuti simufika kumeneko, kudziwa mmene kuyamba mameseji kwa tsiku kwenikweni wopulumutsa moyo. 

Tonse takhala tiri kumeneko. Mukutumizirana mameseji pa pulogalamu ya zibwenzi kapena mwasamutsa zinthu ku Instagram. Mwalankhula kwa pafupifupi mlungu umodzi kapena kuposerapo ponena za kukoma kwa nyimbo ndi zokonda (zokambitsirana zomwe zimadzetsa imfa) musanasiyidwe mukukanda mutu wanu momwe mungawasungire chinkhoswe. 

Nonse mukudziwa kuti mumagawana chikondi cha agalu, sushi, ndi Taylor Swift (chinthu chomwe mwina akunama), koma kukambirana kulikonse kumangomva ngati kukupita ku Ghostville. Tiyeni tikuthandizeni kuchotsa zinthu zosasangalatsa mpaka zosangalatsa pophunzira momwe mungayambire kulemberana mameseji ndi munthu wina.

Kutumizirana Mameseji Pa Tsiku - Malangizo 15 Kuti Muzichita Bwino 

Mukudziwa chomwe chili choyipa kuposa bio yotopetsa pa pulogalamu yapa chibwenzi? Kuwumitsa mameseji. Munthu amene mumatumizirana naye mameseji akhoza kungoyang'ana "Palibe zambiri, kungokhala chete!" yankho mumawatumizira. Choyipa kwambiri, atha kungojambula zithunzi ndipo mudzapeza kuti muli pagulu lotsatira la #textingfails.

Ngakhale palibe malamulo ovuta komanso ofulumira otumizirana mameseji a deti, zolozera zochepa zitha kukhala zothandiza. Mwachitsanzo, onetsetsani kuti mumapewa kutumizirana mameseji kwazaka khumi monga kugwiritsa ntchito "XD" kapena mawu ngati "Awesomesauce". Pokhapokha ngati mukuyang'ana kuti mudziwe zomwe zimamveka kuyimitsidwa, chonde khalani kutali ndi awesomesauce.

Musanafunse munthu amene mukulemberana naye mameseji funso lina ngati, “Ndiye… anasiya kuwerenga:

1. Khazikitsani ubale 

Musanayambe kuganiza za momwe mungakhazikitsire tsiku pamalemba, yambitsani ubale ndi munthu amene mukulankhula naye. Tembenuzani ma tebulo kwa kamphindi ndipo ganizirani izi: Mwangofanana ndi munthu pa pulogalamu ya zibwenzi, ndipo uthenga wachitatu umene amakutumizirani ndi wakuti, "Mukuchita chiyani pakali pano? Mukufuna kukumana? Tikumane? Pakali pano?" Major serial killer vibes. Kufunsa munthu pa tsiku posachedwapa kwambiri ndithu sindipita ntchito mokomera wanu ndipo m'malire Creepy. Makamaka ngati mukutumizirana mameseji ndi mtsikana kuti mukhale naye pachibwenzi, onetsetsani kuti simukufulumira.

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2. Musakhale wouma mawu 

Osayankha ndi mayankho a liwu limodzi, musati “Hei ndikupemphera” (kutumiza Hei ndikuyembekeza kuyankha), mwachidule, musakhale otopetsa. Yesetsani kupewa kukhala mawu owuma, ndipo mudzakhala ndi nthawi yabwino. Ngati mukudabwa mmene kufunsa munthu pa tsiku pa lemba, kupewa cliched "Ndikufuna chibwenzi inu" mauthenga. Tikudziwa, tikudziwa, ndizosavuta kunena kuposa kuchita pamene manja anu akutuluka thukuta mukamalemberana mameseji ndi chibwenzi.

Komabe, ngati zokambirana zanu zimakupangitsani kufuna kuyasamula, n'zosadabwitsa kuti mumadzifunsa kuti n'chifukwa chiyani mwakhala mukulemberana mameseji kwa mwezi umodzi koma palibe tsiku lomwe lakhalapo. Posachedwa, atha kukhala abwenzi apaintaneti omwe mumatumizira ma memes nthawi ndi nthawi. Chifukwa chake, muyenera kudziwa momwe musakhale wowuma texter. Yesani malangizo awa otumizirana mameseji pa intaneti:

• Pewani mayankho monga, 'K,' 'Ayi,' 'Cool,' 'Eya” Pangani mameseji kukhala osangalatsa ndi ma GIF ndi ma emoji ndikusintha mawu ena monga mtima, milomo, vinyo, nyanja, nyumba, pitsa
• Ngati mukutumiza meseji yoyamba kwa mtsikana yemwe simukumudziwa, pewani mizere yotopetsa yomwe yabedwa pa intaneti.
• Yang'anani zitsanzo zamameseji amasiku oyamba ndi ma meme oseketsa okhudzana nawo
• Osawopa kufunsa mafunso osangalatsa kwa okondedwa anu

3. Khalani wokopa pang'ono

Pamene inu kulemberana mameseji munthu tsiku, makamaka mameseji kwa tsiku lachiwiri, inu muyenera kuwapangitsa iwo kuyembekezera izo. Mukamakopana (pang'ono pokha), mukuyesa madzi kwinaku mukulengeza kuti ndinu otsimikiza komanso kuti tsikuli likhoza kukhala losangalatsa * wink *.

Tikhulupirireni, sikovuta kukopana mukakhala mu PJs, mutagona pampando. Akakutumizirani chithunzi cha ulendo waposachedwa, muyenera kungonena kuti, “Kodi wokongola uja ndi ndani? Ndikudabwa kuti ndimutulutsa liti.” Musanatumize izi, onetsetsani kuti avala zofiira, osati bwenzi lawo lapamtima.

4. Asekeni 

Mukufuna kupeza tsiku m'malemba afupiafupi 5? Mukudabwa momwe mungatumizire mtsikana kwa chibwenzi? Kuganizira chidwi tsiku uthenga kapena akhungu deti lemba? Yesani nthabwala. Ngati inu kuseka mtsikana kapena mutengere munthu akuseka pa mameseji, mwawapangitsa kale kuyembekezera kukumana nanu. Nthabwala zingapo zamkati kapena zoseketsa zipangitsa munthu amene mukutumizirana mameseji kukhulupirira kuti simudzatero “Ndiye… nyengo yomwe tili nayo, huh?” iwo pa tsiku lanu. Nawa maupangiri pazibwenzi okuthandizani kuwongolera mbali yanu yoseketsa osapangitsa kuti ziwoneke ngati mukuyesera molimba:

• Ngati mukukumana ndi munthu kwa nthawi yoyamba mutatumizirana mameseji, yesani mzere wopusa (osati wodetsa kapena wotopetsa). Mwachitsanzo, "Kodi umakhulupirira za chikondi poyang'ana koyamba? Chifukwa ndikhoza kuyendanso"
• Gwiritsani ntchito luso lanu lokopana komanso nthabwala ngati mukufuna kudziwa momwe mungagwirizane ndi mtsikana pamutu. Osangolemba mameseji kuti, “Malo anu kapena anga?”
• Jambulani ndikutumiza zomwe mukufuna. Ngati mukuganiza momwe mungayankhire mawu omwe mumakonda, chitani m'mawu awo omwe amawakonda kwambiri
• Tumizani ulalo ku TikTok oseketsa kapena tweet yomwe idakupangitsani kuseka mokweza

5. Adziweni 

Ndikudabwa pamene kupempha tsiku pambuyo mameseji? Zilibe kanthu ngati mukuyesera kuyambitsa kukhudzana ndi mkazi kudzera pa meseji kapena kuyesera kupeza mwamuna kuti akumane nanu, chinthu choyamba ndikuwadziwa momwe mungathere. Zidzakulitsa khalidwe la "ubale" wanu ndi iwo ndipo mudzakhala ndi lingaliro labwino la mtundu wa munthu yemwe iwo ali. Nazi zitsanzo zingapo zachidziwitso:

• Munati ndinu okonda kwambiri nyimbo zamoyo. Pali gulu loimba lomwe likusewera pafupi ndi malo Loweruka lino madzulo. Kodi mungakonde kupita limodzi? Tikhoza kusangalala ndi nyimbo ndi kukambirana za nyimbo zomwe timakonda
• Ndine wokonda kwambiri masewera a board. Kodi mungakonde kukhala limodzi nthawi yayitali ndikusewera Scrabble?
• Ndimakonda kuyang'ana zophikira zanu. Nanga bwanji kuti tikhale ndi mini cook-off kwathu Lachisanu lino?

6. Onetsetsani kuti mumakondana wina ndi mzake 

Khama lanu lonse pa kutumizirana mameseji kwa deti akupita pansi kuda ngati mmodzi wa inu sakonda munthu wina. Yesani kuzindikira zizindikiro za kukopana ndipo onetsetsani kuti simukungotumizirana mameseji chifukwa cha izi. Izi zidzakuthandizani kudziwa zomwe munganene kwa wosweka wanu kapena tsiku limene lemba kutumiza kuphwanya wanu, m'malo kupita patsogolo ndi wotopetsa "Ndikufuna kukuwonani" malemba.

Komanso, yesani kudziwa zambiri za zinthu monga momwe angakukondeni, ngati ali ndi chidwi, komanso ngati mbeta kapena ayi. Zingakhale zokhumudwitsa ngati mutapeza kuti ali pachibwenzi ndi munthu wina pamene muli pa "tsiku" ndi iwo, omwe amaganiza kuti anali kukumana nawo mwaubwenzi.

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7. Kodi ndandanda yawo ndi yotani? 

"Wow, ukuoneka ngati njuchi yotanganidwa. Ndiye umakhala bwanji masiku ako?" ndizokwanira kuti mumvetsetse momwe amatanganidwa mkati mwa sabata komanso akakhala omasuka. Musanayambe kudziwa momwe kukhazikitsa tsiku pa lemba, muyenera kumvetsa ngati ndi pamene iwo ali mfulu mokwanira kuti apite limodzi ndi inu.

Izi zikuthandizani kuti mubwere ndi lingaliro lalikulu la tsiku loyamba lomwe anganene kuti inde. Mwachitsanzo, ngati ali akatswiri ophika komanso amagwira ntchito usiku ndipo muli ndi 9-5, mukudziwa kuti muyenera kukhala ochenjera kwambiri kuposa tsiku lachakudya chamadzulo cha 8 PM. Nazi zitsanzo zochepa zamawu kuti mudziwe zadongosolo lawo lisanafike tsiku loyamba:

• Moni! Ndakhala ndikufuna kuyang'ana malo odyera atsopano aku Mexicowa mtawuni. Kodi mulipo kuti mudzadye nawo chakudya sabata yamawa? Ndidziwitseni ndandanda yanu, ndipo tikhoza kukonzekera chinachake pamodzi
• Ndimasangalala kwambiri tikamakambirana. Ndinali kudabwa ngati mungafune koyenda koyenda paki kapena kukaonera kanema nthawi ina. Ndidziwitseni kupezeka kwanu kuti tidziwe tsiku
• Zingakhale zabwino kukumana posachedwa. Kodi sabata ino ikufunani bwanji?

8. Osachita zachiwerewere mopambanitsa

Tikudziwa kuti tinakuuzani kukopana polemba mameseji pa tsiku, koma onetsetsani kuti musapitirire nazo. Pokhapokha ngati mukugwirizana ndipo zokambiranazo zatsogolera ku ... tiyeni tingonena kuti "zojambula", simukuyenera kukhala ndi chilakolako chogonana mwamphamvu. Komanso, kumvetsa pamene kupempha tsiku pambuyo mameseji ndi kukumbukira zone chitonthozo cha tsiku lanu kuthekera.

9. Limbikitsani malingaliro osangalatsa atsiku

Mwakhala mukulemberana mameseji kwa nthawi yayitali, ndipo tsopano pakubwera gawo lomwe muyenera kulipira. Ichi ndi "kupanga kapena kuswa" mphindi ya chinthu chonsecho, kotero onetsetsani tsiku lanu maganizo si wotopetsa. Kaya mukulemberana mameseji kwa tsiku lachiwiri kapena loyamba, kapena ndikungodabwa zomwe munganene kuti mutengerepo kuti mutenge zinthu zina, dziwani kuti "Ndikufuna kukuwonani" mauthenga sangakufikitseni kutali.

Muyenera kuganizira za kulenga njira kufunsa munthu pa tsiku. Malingaliro ochepa osangalatsa a tsiku loyamba akhoza kukhala kusiyana pakati pa kuyankha koyipa kapena kolimbikitsa. M'malo motopetsa "ukufuna kucheza?", nawa malemba angapo omwe mungagwiritse nawo ntchito:

• "Ndili ndi matikiti awiri opita kuwonetsero kasewero koyimirira Lamlungu lino. Kodi mukufuna kujowina nane?"
• "Ndimangofuna kukupatsirani moni ndikuwona momwe tsiku lanu likuyendera. Shifiti yanga yangoletsedwa, ndipo ndikanakonda kuyenda nanu koyenda madzulo ngati muli omasuka"
• “Ndimasangalala kwambiri kuyankhula nanu. Nanga bwanji tipitirize kukambirana pa khofi kumapeto kwa sabata ino?”
• “Sindimachita bwino pamasewera a bowling, koma ndikuona kuti ingakhale njira yosangalatsa kuti tidziwane bwino.
• "Ndakhala ndikufuna kukawona malo odyera atsopano aku Korea kutawuni. Kodi tipange tsiku lake?"

10. Kapena itengereni mmwamba ndikunena zachindunji 

Chifukwa chonse chomudziwa bwino munthuyu chinali kuonetsetsa kuti mwabwera ndi malingaliro amasiku oyamba omwe amakwaniritsa zomwe amakonda. Kodi iwo ndi ochita masewera olimbitsa thupi? Patsani fumbi panjinga yanu ndipo pemphani kuti mukwere nawo m'mawa kwambiri. Kodi iwo ali aakulu pa kuimba? Yang'anani malo abwino kwambiri a Karaoke. Kodi iwo ali mu Scientology? Mwina lingalirani kupitilira…?

Nthabwala padera, onetsetsani kuti mwapereka malingaliro enieni a tsiku kuti angakonde kunena kuti inde. Ngati mupitiliza kukankhira lingaliro la shopu ya khofi mobwerezabwereza, mutha kutumizirana mameseji kwa mwezi umodzi, koma palibe tsiku lomwe likubwera posachedwa.

11. Khalani otsimikiza 

"Heyyy! Ndiye Pichesi ya Pichesi ikubwera mtawuni… Ndikudziwa kuti mumawakonda, haha, mwina titha? Sindikudziwa, koma ndidziwitse." Mwina tingathe…chiyani? Zonse zimene lembalo likuchita n’kuwasokoneza moti sakudziwa n’komwe zoti ayankhe. Ndipo monga choncho, tsopano muli ku Ghostville. Anthu: Inu.

Kaya mukuyang'ana zitsanzo za meseji ya tsiku loyamba, ndikudabwa momwe mungafunse munthu pa tsiku palemba, kapena kupeza tsiku mu malemba 5 achidule, chidaliro ndichofunika kwambiri. Lamulo labwino losunga chidaliro ndi: tumizani mawu abwino oyamba, pewani chilankhulo cholakwika, ndipo musachedwe kuyankha. Izi ndi njira zabwino zoyambira kucheza ndi okonda anu palemba.

"Eya, popeza nthawi zambiri umakhala mfulu Lachinayi usiku ndipo ndikudziwa kuti mumakonda zaluso, mukufuna kupita nane kokacheza kutawuniyi?" Umu ndi momwe muyenera kuchitira izi. Zilibe kanthu ngati mukutumizirana mameseji ndi mtsikana kuti mukhale ndi chibwenzi kapena kusuntha koyamba pa munthu, onetsetsani kuti akudziwa kuti ndi tsiku komanso ndondomeko yake. 

12. Onetsetsani kuti mwapereka zambiri 

Kutumizirana mameseji kwa mwezi umodzi koma palibe deti? Pepani, koma, "Ine, inu, zakumwa?" amagwira ntchito m'mafilimu okha. Muyenera kukhala achindunji kwambiri kuposa pamenepo. Ayi, simusowa kupanga mayendedwe kuti afotokozere. Ngati ali ndi chidwi ndi tsikuli, kukambirana za zenizeni zidzachitika mwachibadwa. Mwanjira imeneyi, mukupanganso dongosololi kukhala lovomerezeka. Chifukwa chake, onetsetsani kuti mwawadziwitsa:

• Plan ndi chiyani
• Mukafuna kukumana panokha (nthawi yeniyeni, chonde)
• Zomwe mudzakhala mukuchita kumeneko kuti mukhale ndi nthawi yabwino ndi wina ndi mzake
• Kuti ndi tsiku, osati wochezeka kukumana-mmwamba

13. Musakhale okakamizika 

Pamene inu kulemberana mameseji munthu kwa deti, m'pofunika kuti achite bwino ndi kupewa kukhala pushy. Choncho, pamene "Free mawa?" amakumana ndi "Ayi, otanganidwa pang'ono. Pepani!", Yesetsani kuti musawafunse funso lomwelo tsiku lotsatira.

Mayankho ena atha kukusiyani mukuganiza kuti kusuntha kwanu kukuyenera kukhala chiyani. Kupatula apo, chikondi chamakono kudzera m'mawu ochezera a pakompyuta chimakhala chovuta nthawi zina. Koma m’malo motaya mtima, dziwani mfundo zotsatirazi:

• Sikuti aliyense angayankhe bwino mukawafunsa ndipo zili bwino
• Osapita uku ndi uku kuwafunsa kuti asinthe malingaliro awo
• Lekani kuganiza za zifukwa zimene anakana wanu tsiku maganizo
• Kuyesera kukumana pamasom'pamaso kuti muwatsimikizirenso ndi lingaliro loipa kwambiri

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14. Kumbukirani kulemberana mameseji ndi makhalidwe abwino 

Zachidziwikire, simukhala mwamwano mwadala mukayamba kulumikizana ndi mkazi kudzera pa meseji (kapena mamuna), koma ndizosavuta kuposa momwe mukuganizira kuti mwangozi mwangotuluka mwamwano. Simungathe kuyesa kwenikweni kamvekedwe ka munthuyo, ndi kuyesa kukhala oseketsa pamalemba zitha kuwoneka ngati ndemanga yamwano kwambiri. Nawa malangizo othandiza:

• Osabwera mwamphamvu kwambiri
• Pewani kutumiza zithunzi zanu mutangoyamba kukambirana, pokhapokha mutafunsidwa
• Yesani kusamala kamvekedwe kanu
• Pewani kuchita zinthu mwaukali
• Osapanga zisankho zazikulu palemba
• Kumbukirani kuti musamalembe chilichonse chomwe simunganene pamaso panu
• Dziwani nthawi yoyambira kukambirana
• Onetsetsani kuti simukuyesera kukhala oseketsa ndi ndalama zawo

15. Musachiganizire mopambanitsa, pita ndi mayendedwe 

Ndibwino kufunsa mtsikana pa meseji? Ndi zinthu ziti zomwe mungafunse mtsikana pa meseji? Chokoma ndi chiyani kwenikweni kunena kwa mnyamata yemwe umamukonda? Kodi njira yabwino yofunsira mtsikana pa chibwenzi ndi iti? Maganizo ochuluka, mafunso ambiri. Upangiri wathu wakulemberani mameseji muzochitika zotere ndikuti musaganize mopitilira muyeso ndikungoyenda.

Mukuona, WhatsApp chibwenzi malamulo ndi malangizo pa mameseji wosweka wanu zingathandize kwambiri. Koma dziko lonse lapansi likudziwa kuti zonse zimatengera momwe zokambirana zimayendera komanso momwe mumadina. Ngati mukuyesera kukakamiza, mukulimbana ndi mafunde ndipo ngakhale khama lanu silingathe. Koma ngati zonse zikuyenda bwino, sizikhala ngati ntchito yambiri. Choncho musaganizire mopambanitsa mayankho awo. Osadandaula kwambiri za malamulo otumizirana mameseji. Kukambitsirana komwe kumayenda mwachibadwa ndi bwenzi lanu lapamtima, choncho sungani masewera amalingaliro kutali.

Mukangogwiritsa ntchito malangizowa ndikutha kukhala odzikonda nokha ngakhale muli ndi mantha, mudzakhala mukupita ku (mwachiyembekezo) tsiku loyamba lodabwitsa. Ngati tsikulo silikuyenda bwino, tidzakuwonaninso nthawi ina pamene machesi a Tinder adzakusangalatsani kuti mupereke phunziro lina la "kulemberana mameseji pa chibwenzi".

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