Mwina mwakumanapo ndi amodzi mwamabanja a Instagram omwe ali ndi zithunzi zopsopsona dzuwa ndi ma vlogs a saccharine omwe amakupangitsani kuchitira nsanje ubale wawo. “Kodi amayenda bwanji nthaŵi zonse? Tonse taganizapo izi kamodzi.
Ngakhale zitha kuchitika mosadziwa, malo ochezera a pa Intaneti monga Instagram ndi chikhalidwe cha pop omwe amalimbikitsa, komanso zotsatsa ndi makanema, amakonda kukhudza zomwe tikuyembekezera pazachikondi zathu. Mukawona okwatirana nthawi zonse akuyenda ndi wina ndi mzake ndikupanga ndalama pochita izi, masiku a mlungu ndi mlungu ndi bwenzi lanu sadzakhalanso ngati okopa.
Kodi malo ochezera a pa Intaneti amakhudza bwanji maubwenzi? Kodi ndi ziyembekezo ziti zomwe timatsatira? Munkhaniyi, katswiri wa zamaganizo Dr. Aman Bhonsle (Ph.D., PGDTA), yemwe ndi katswiri pa uphungu wa maubwenzi ndi Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy, akulemba za momwe malo ochezera a pa Intaneti amakhudzira maubwenzi.
Social Media, Zotsatsa, Ndi Zokonda
M'ndandanda wazopezekamo
Pazochitika zanga za ntchito yotsatsa malonda, ndinazindikira kuti zotsatsa siziri kanthu koma kupaka malingaliro amphamvu. Amagulitsa lingaliro kapena lonjezo kwa anthu kuti moyo wawo udzakhala wabwino mwanjira ina. Kuopa kuphonya ndiko kumalimbikitsidwa.
Mofananamo, mumazindikira kuti malo ochezera a pa Intaneti ndi nsanja chabe yotsatsa. Ndi kuphatikizika ndi chida chothandizana ndi anthu poyamba. Pambuyo pake, ndi chida cholumikizirana ndi anthu. Kulumikizana ndi anthu ndizomwe zimachitika papulatifomu, osati cholinga.
Ndizodziwikiratu kuti chilichonse chomwe chimayikidwa pama social network chimayikidwa kuti chikwaniritse zomwe mukufuna. Sichithunzithunzi cha chowonadi, koma mawonekedwe ake okonzedwa bwino. Izi zimagwirizananso ndi ubale motsutsana ndi ziyembekezo zomwe timapanga.
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Mukuwona akaunti za Instagram za banja lodziwika bwino, ndi otsatira awo onse ndipo mwadzidzidzi amakhala "zolinga zaubale". Mabanja oyendayenda a vlogging nthawi zonse amawoneka okondwa, akumwetulira kutali ndi mavuto awo onse padziko lapansi.
Zikuwoneka ngati pali banja latsopano lomwe likuyenda tsiku lililonse, lomwe limakuyang'anani kumbuyo mukamayendera magombe aku Greece. Banja lomweli likuseka mavuto awo onse tsiku lotsatira, ndipo sabata pambuyo pake, ali ku Cancun, mosangalala sasamala za humdrum yomwe tikuwoneka kuti tikukumana nayo.
Tonse tikudziwa kuti moyo weniweni suwoneka choncho. Masiku ena umakhala wotopa, masiku ena umakhala wokwiya. Masiku ena simukhala okondana kwambiri. Koma m'makanema omwe mumawonera komanso mapulogalamu ochezera a pa TV omwe mumakonda, masiku amenewo sanalembedwe.
Maubwenzi pa malo ochezera a pa Intaneti kwenikweni ndi maubwenzi pa ma steroid. Chovala chowala, chomwe chimayikidwa pa mbale kuti mudye, chimakonzedwa bwino kwambiri ndikusinthidwa kuti chikhale chokoma kwambiri. Tiyeni tikambirane zambiri za momwe zenizeni izi zomwe zapangidwira kudya zingawonongere mphamvu zanu.
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1. Zachibadwa zimanyozedwa
Palibe kukayika kuti zachibadwa ndi zamba zakhala zikunyozedwa kwa zaka zambiri. Mukapita kuntchito, amapita kuntchito, mumakumana ndikudyera limodzi ndikungoyendayenda. Poyerekeza ndi maanja omwe ali pafoni yanu omwe akukhala ku Mauritius kapena Kapadokiya, kusintha kwanu sikukuwoneka kosangalatsa kwambiri.
Komabe, chimene timalephera kumvetsa n’chakuti, nthawi zambiri timakhala tikuchita zinthu wamba. M'malo mwake, ndikukhulupirira kuti zina mwazinthu zosavuta, monga kugula zakudya, zitha kukhala zachikondi ngati muli ndi chidwi chozama ndi mnzanu.
Chifukwa chakuti iwo ndi osonkhezera sizikutanthauza kuti sadzavutika ndi nkhawa kapena kudzikayikira. Chifukwa chakuti mukuchita zinthu wamba sizikutanthauza kuti simungapeze chimwemwe mmenemo. Chifukwa chakuti palibe amene anali pafupi kuti amve, sizikutanthauza kuti mtengo umene unagwa sunapange phokoso.
2. Udzu umawoneka wobiriwira mochititsa chidwi
Monga anthu, nthawi zonse timayesetsa kukonza moyo wathu. Kuti tichite izi, tiyenera kuwunika zomwe zili zochepa chabe. Milingo yocheperako ya chisangalalo, milingo ya kupita patsogolo kwamaphunziro, kuvomerezedwa ndi anthu, kapena kukonzekeretsedwa ndikuyenda bwino.
Mukawona anthu omwe ali ndi ubale wawo pa malo ochezera a pa Intaneti akukhala moyo wawo wabwino kwambiri, miyezo yochepa imeneyi nthawi zonse imasinthidwa. Nthawi zina, imasanduka miyezo yosatheka. Tikufuna munthu amene tingadziyerekezere naye, ndipo mwatsoka, maanja omwe nthawi zonse amakhala osangalala omwe amakhala pafoni yathu amawoneka kuti ndi oyenera.
Osazindikira kuti ulendo omwe maanjawo ayenda ndi wosiyana ndi wanu, mukuyamba kudziweruza nokha. Moyo wawo tsopano ukuoneka kukhala pachimake cha chimwemwe, ndipo moyo wanu uyenera kuunikanso.
3. Nkhani za kukhulupirirana ndi nsanje
"N'chifukwa chiyani mwakonda post yake?" "N'chifukwa chiyani uli ndi zithunzi zambiri ndi munthu ameneyu kuposa zomwe umakhala ndi ine?" "Kodi munthu watsopanoyu ndani yemwe wayamba kuyankhapo pa chilichonse chomwe mumayika?" Kuzembera komanso kuchita mwachidwi kungayambitse vuto kudzera pawailesi yakanema. Komabe, izi zimachitika nthawi zambiri ngati mulibe chikhulupiriro chochuluka mwa mnzanuyo.
Tinene momveka bwino, kukayikirana kwa anthu kwakhala vuto losatha. Malo ochezera a pa Intaneti sangathe kuimbidwa mlandu. Ngakhale itha kukhalabe chida chabwino kwambiri chozembera wokondedwa wanu.
M'zaka za m'ma 90, mukadayenera kupita kwa wopereka chithandizo cha foni yam'manja kuti mukalandire ma rekodi a foni. Tsopano popeza mnzanuyo akudziwa komwe muli, amene mukuyika nawo nkhani/zithunzi, nkhani zokhulupirirana zitha kuchulukirachulukira, makamaka pakati pa achinyamata.
4. Zoyembekeza zimakhala zosafikirika
Tikawona mbali yabwino ya ubale wa munthu koma osawona PR ndi njira zotsatsira zomwe zikusewera kumbuyo kwawo, tikungowona chimango chimodzi cha chithunzi chonse. Gawoli limapukutidwa ndi zosefera ndi zodzoladzola, komanso ngodya zabwino, kuyatsa, ndi zovala kuti zigwirizane.
Mosakayikira, chithunzi chophikidwa bwino si chithunzi cholondola cha moyo. Mukachiwona kudzera mu galasi lozizira, mutha kuwona kuti ndi chinthu chomwe chikuchitika mkati, koma osati kwenikweni chomwe chikuchitika. Zotsatira zake, ziyembekezo zomwe tili nazo kuchokera ku zenizeni zathu zimakhala zosatheka.
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Kumene izi zikutisiya
N'zosadabwitsa kuti chikhalidwe TV zotsatira pa maubwenzi amatha kukhala zowononga. Chofunikira kumvetsetsa, komabe, ndikuti akungokuwonetsani mawonekedwe apadera a mphindi zapadera m'moyo.
Popanda wamba, wapadera alibe tanthauzo. Nthawi zapadera zimapangitsa kuti zinthu zapagulu zikhale zatanthauzo. Chimodzi sichingakhalepo popanda china. Zakudya zakunja zakunja, malo oyendera alendo, kuwombera kokhala ndi dzuwa, ndi zithunzi zabwino zomwe mumawona ndi zidutswa za moyo, osati zonse.
Langizo langa lomaliza lingakhale kuti musiye kuyang'ana msipu wobiriwira pawindo la foni yanu ndikuyang'ana chithunzi chachikulu. Mukalola kuti malingaliro anu asunthike ndi zithunzi zomwe mumawona za anthu otchuka komanso otchuka, mumachepetsa tanthauzo la moyo.
Musakhulupirire chilichonse chomwe mukuwona, zambiri zimasefedwa, kupukutidwa, ndipo zimapezeka kwa inu m'njira yofanana ndi ya Cancun ndi Cancodia, yamikirani zinthu zazing'ono m'moyo . Simungadziwe kuchuluka kwa zomwe mungadziwe za munthu mukamagula naye zakudya.
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