Anandinyenga Koma Akufuna Ndimubwezere

Anandinyenga koma ndimubweze? Funso ili linali kundidya ine nthawi ina. Anali ngati mnyamata wamaloto yemwe mtsikana aliyense angafune koma posakhalitsa adakhala maloto oyipa ndikuuzani momwe.

Nthawi zonse ankabwera kudzandilandira kuchokera ku eyapoti ndi siteshoni za sitima. Ayi, sindinkafuna kuti atenge matumba anga. Masutukesi anga anali ndi mawilo, ndinkawakoka. Sindinkadziwa kuti wayamba kusasangalala ndi mkazi wamphamvu wodziyimira pawokha ngati ine. Ndi pamene ndinamugwira akundinyenga, ndinamvetsa zomwe akusowa. Ankakonda siren yovala saree yokhala ndi maso a kohl.

Zinali zaka ziwiri, komabe nthawi zonse ndikabwerako kuchokera kuulendo, ndimaganiza kalembedwe ka Hollywood kampikisano akudikirira ndi duwa ndikupepesa pasiteshoni. Koma zimenezo sizinachitike. Ndikuuzani zomwe zinachitika.

(Monga adauza Dua Prayaag)

Ex Boyfriend Wanga Akufuna Ndibwerere Atandinyenga

Kunena zoona zomwe ndinalandira zinali phone. Mayi ake anayitana. Ine ndi iye tinkakondana kwambiri pafoni tikakhala limodzi. Anandiimbira foni kundiuza kuti mwana wakeyo akumva chisoni ndi zolakwa zake, osati kungondinyenga koma kukhala pachibwenzi ndi mtsikana wokongola yemwe adamugwera uku akulonjeza kuti andikwatira.

Anandiuza kuti mwana wake ali ndi nkhawa, ndipo samadziwa kuti angandilankhule bwanji. Nayenso anali atapusitsidwa. Karma, ndikukuuzani.

Panalibe njira yomwe ndikanatengera mawu ake ndi kupepesa kwake ngati zifukwa zokwanira zomupatsanso mwayi wina.

Nditamugwira zaka ziwiri zapitazo, ndinamupempha kuti atipatsenso mfuti ina ndipo anakana. Katatu. Ndinali wosokonezeka kwa chaka. Ndinaganiza kuti sindidzapulumuka. Sindinkadziwa za mphamvu za amayi ngati ine omwe adamenyera ufulu wawo padziko lapansi. Pomalizira pake tinatero, ndipo ndinapulumuka. Tsopano kubweza munthu amene wandinyenga kunali kosayenera

Ndinavomera kukumananso ndi ex wanga

Ndinavomera kukumana naye kumapeto kwa sabata kuti tidye khofi. Ndinali kumuwona patapita chaka. Mwamuna yekhayo amene ndinakhala naye ndi kumudalira kuposa wina aliyense, mwamuna amene anandipweteketsa mtima wosayerekezeka, anandisiya ndikulira ndekha m’chipinda cha hotelo kundiuza kuti wakula kuchokera pa zaka zisanu ndi chimodzi zimene tinali limodzi, anali atakhala patsogolo panga mutu wake ukulendewera pansi.

Sindinayambe ndamufunira zabwino kuchokera pamenepo, kupatula kuti karma imubwezere.

Zikumbukirozo zinasefukira mmbuyo.

Patatha chaka chimodzi atanena izi, kwenikweni anali kumugwira dzanja ndipo anati amakumbatirana nthawi zambiri koma iye anali atasokonezeka ndi momwe akumvera. Patatha chaka chimodzi, anapitiriza kunena kuti ndiyenera kumulola kuti apitirize ndi chibwenzi chake chatsopano ndipo ine ndipitirire ndi moyo wanga mwaulemu. Pempho loti munthu wachinyengo andipatse ulemu linali lovuta kulilandira panthawiyo. Tsopano ndikuganiza za izi, wakale wanga ankafuna kuti ndibwererenso atachita chigololo.

Anati pepani ndikufuna ndibwerere

Ku cafe anapepesa kwambiri. Analonjeza kuti achoke kuntchito kwake. Apa ndi pomwe awiriwa anachitira chibwenzi chawo. Sindinaganize kuti zimenezo zinali zofunika. Munthu sayenera kugwirira ntchito limodzi kuti awononge chidaliro cha wina. Anati akufuna kuti tikwatirane posachedwa.

Kodi ndinali ndi chifukwa chomukhulupirira? Ndinaganiza kuti ndinali m’banja zaka zisanu ndi chimodzizo. Sindinafune chikalata chodindidwa chalamulo kuti nditsimikizire kukhulupirika kwanga kapena kundisunga muubwenzi umenewu. Malingaliro anga anali asanasinthe.

Tinkacheza. Ndinali kuyesera kuti ndimukhulupirirenso. Sindinasiye kumukonda, koma ndinali wotsimikiza kuti ndisamulole kuti alowe m'malo omwe ndidamulola kupyola zaka 6.

Ine sindimuyika iye patsogolo panga tsopano. Ndimayesetsa kuti ndisamukumbutse zowawa zonse zimene anandikhumudwitsa pazaka ziwirizi. Anzanga ndi achibale anali osamala kwambiri ndi lingaliro langa loti ndiyambe kulankhula naye. Anati wasintha. wandinyenga ndimubweze?

Ndi liwiro lomwe amasinthira nalo lomwe limandiwopseza kwambiri.

Sindikudziwa komwe ndimadziwona ndili naye, koma sindikudziwa choti ndichite.

Kubweza munthu amene anakunyengererani

Ndinaganiza ndi kuganizira za izi. Kumbali ina chikondi changa pa iye chinali kupweteka kwanga. Sindingathe kuchita ngati zaka 6 zabwino zimenezo sizinalipo ndipo ndiyenera kuvomereza kuti pamene anakhala patsogolo panga akupepesa mopanda chilungamo, mtima wanga unamumvera chisoni.

Tinayamba kucheza pa phone ndipo anayamba kuoneka ku office kwanga ndi maluwa. Koma posakhalitsa ndinazindikira kuti kubweza bwenzi lako lakale pamene wakunyengerera si chinthu chophweka. Kapena mwina si lingaliro labwino ngakhale.

Chifukwa chakuti ndinakayikirabe za chikondi chake kwa ine. Momwe amalimbikira kwambiri ndimamva kuti akunama. Ndinamva kuti mbali ina ya ine yafa ndipo maganizo amenewo sakanadzutsidwanso. Anandinyenga ndipo amafuna kuti ndibwerere koma sindinabwerere.

Nthawi zonse zinali kumbuyo kwa malingaliro anga kuti inali nkhani ya nthawi yomwe angayambenso kunyenga, kundipwetekanso. Chikhulupiriro chinatha. Sindinathenso kumanganso ubale pomwe kulibe kukhulupirirana. Kwa ine kubweza munthu amene wandinyenga zinali zosatheka. Ndinayesa koma ndalephera.

Chopereka chanu sichikutanthauza chopereka chachifundo . Chidzalola Bonobology kupitiliza kukubweretserani chidziwitso chatsopano komanso chaposachedwa poyesetsa kuthandiza aliyense padziko lonse lapansi kuphunzira momwe angachitire chilichonse.

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