Anasiyana nane ndipo sanandibwezere ndalama

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Q: Chibwenzi changa chinandisiya. Poyamba ankandibwereka ndalama ndipo anati andibwezera. Patatha masiku 15 titasiyana ndinamupempha kuti andibwezere ndalama zanga. Anati sangathe ndipo ine ndinati ndiyenera kuchitapo kanthu mwamphamvu ngati sadzabweza. Anayamba kundiimba mlandu, nati sankayembekezera khalidwe lotere kuchokera kwa ine ndipo akuvutika ndi khalidwe langa. Kodi ndachita cholakwika? Chonde ndilangizeni!

Yankho: Kupempha kuti mubwezere ndalama zanu si chinthu cholakwika kuchita. Ngati munapereka ndipo adatenga ndalamazo ngati ngongole, azibweza pofika tsiku loikidwiratu. Ndikukhulupirira kuti muli ndi umboni wotsimikizika wokhudza mauthenga kapena maimelo omwe mudamubwereketsa ndalamazo.

Musagwere mu masewera odzimva kuti ndinu olakwa . Ndi ndalama zomwe mwapeza movutikira ndipo sizikumveka kudzimva olakwa pomenyera chinthu chomwe ndi chanu. Ndinganenenso kuti, kutengera ndalama zomwe mwamupatsa, ndingayiwale kwathunthu ngati ndi ndalama zochepa ndikutsimikizira mtendere wanga wamaganizo ndikuchepetsa kutayika kwanga.

Kuwerenga kofanana: Ndalama, ukwati ndi kuthetsa kusiyana maganizo

Komabe, ngati ndalamazo ndi zazikulu zokwanira kwa inu, ndingakulimbikitseni kuti musadzimve liwongo ngakhale pang’ono poyesa kuchira. Pamapeto pake funso lamalingaliro ndilakuti, "Kodi ndiyenera nthawi ndi mphamvu yanga kuti nditsatire munthuyu pamtengo womwe ndamubwereketsa?"

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