Zizindikiro 21 Zomwe Amakondwera Kukupangani Chikondi Kwa Inu

"Izi zikadakhala nthawi yosiyana, malo ena, ndikadakutengani kuti mukagone nane ndikukukondani kwa masiku angapo."
- Anne Stuart, Black Ice.

Ndi zizindikiro ziti zomwe amakonda kukukondani? Ngati mwadzifunsapo kanthu pazimenezi panthawi kapena mutatha nthawi yocheza ndi wokondedwa wanu, dziwani kuti simuli nokha. Talandira mafunso ambiri kuchokera kwa amayi omwe akufuna kudziwa izi: kaya amuna awo akupanga chikondi kapena amangowagwiritsa ntchito pogonana. Amafuna kuonetsetsa kuti mwamunayo amasangalala kuchita nawo zibwenzi monga momwe amachitira.

Akazi masiku ano amafuna kukhala ndi magawo okondana kwambiri komanso okondana. Amafuna kufufuza za kugonana kwawo ndi munthu amene apereka mtima wawo kwa iye. Izi zimakhala zosavuta mutadziwa kuti zomwe muli nazo ndi mnzanuyo zimayenera kukhala chikondi, osati chilakolako chokha. Kodi amakukondani kapena amangogonja ku zilakolako za thupi?

Ngakhale kuti palibe cholakwika ndi chilakolako chaching'ono m'moyo, kugonana kumakhala kosangalatsa komanso kokhutiritsa pamene kumayendetsedwa ndi chikondi champhamvu. Kukuthandizani kudziwa mbali ya sipekitiramu yomwe mwagonapo, tikulembani zizindikiro zomwe zikuwonetsa kuti mwamuna wanu amakonda kukukondani.

Zizindikiro 21 Zomwe Amakondwera Kukupangani Chikondi Kwa Inu

Kupanga chikondi kungakhale chinthu chokongola kwambiri chomwe tingakhale nacho polumikizana ndi munthu wina yemwe timamukonda. Ngati muli m'chikondi, mukufuna kuti kugonana kuyendetsedwe ndi chikondi chonsecho. Mukufuna kudzitaya mwa mnzanu, ndipo mukufuna kuti mnzanuyo adzitaya mwa inu. Mchitidwe wa kugonana wamba, womwe nthawi zambiri umakhala wopanda kugwirizana kwambiri kwamalingaliro, poyerekezera ndi kupanga chikondi, ukhoza kukhala wosiyana monga choko ndi tchizi.

Azimayi ambiri amakumana ndi izi, kaya ali pabanja, ali pachibwenzi, kapena ali pachibwenzi. Mwachitsanzo, ngakhale muwona zizindikiro zosonyeza kuti mnyamata watembenukadi ndi inu, zingakhale zovuta kudziwa ngati ndi chifukwa chakuti amakonda kukukondani kapena kutengeka ndi zofuna zake zakuthupi.

Chifukwa cha zimenezi, mungaganize kuti mukuphonya mbali yamalingaliro ya mchitidwe wakuthupi umenewu ndi kumva kusakhutira pang’ono. "Kodi mnzanga akundigwiritsa ntchito kungogonana? Kodi zomwe tili nazo ndizochitika zakuthupi?" Chochititsa chidwi n’chakuti, maganizo amenewa ndiponso kufunika kotsimikizira kuti kugonana kumachokera kumalo achikondi n’zofala kwambiri pakati pa akazi.

Amayi nthawi zambiri amapereka zambiri ndipo amazolowera kuyembekezera zochepa, makamaka pakati pa mapepala. Ngati awona zizindikiro kuti kupsompsona kumatanthauza kanthu kwa iye, akhoza ngakhale kupanga mtendere ndi kusapeza gawo lake la chisangalalo m'chipinda chogona. Koma ndikofunikira kudziwa momwe wokondedwa wanu amachitira ndi inu pabedi ndi njira yodziwira zomwe mukutanthauza kwa iye kunja kwake.

Ngati zochita zake zonse zikufuna kukulowetsani pabedi mpaka nthawi ina mukadzamuwona kapena kulankhula naye, ndiye kuti ali pachibwenzi chifukwa chogonana. Koma ngati akhudzidwa ndi mtima wake, maganizo ake ndi thupi lake ndipo amaganiziranso zosowa zanu, akupanga chikondi ndi inu osati kungogonana. Nazi zizindikiro 21 zoti mudziwe ngati angakonde kukukondani motsimikiza:

1. Zikuwonekera m'maso mwake

Mmene amakuonerani zimanena zambiri za mmene amakuonerani. Pamene mukugonana, ngati atenga nthawi yopuma pang'ono kuti ayang'ane m'maso mwanu ndi chikondi ndi chilakolako, zikutanthauza kuti ali mwa inu ndipo akufuna kutenga nthawiyo ndi inu. Pamene mnyamata akuyang'ana iwe pamene akupsompsona, ndi njira yake yowonetsera kuti amakukonda popanda kunena.

Mutha kumva chikondi chake kwa inu m'maso mwake, ndipo mudzadziwa kuti wamizidwa kwathunthu mumchitidwewu ndipo akusangalala kupanga chikondi kwa inu. Zoonadi, ngati malo ogonana omwe muli nawo sakupangitsani kuyang'ana maso, ndi nkhani yosiyana. Koma tinene kuti muli mu umishonare, ndipo nkhope zanu zimagwirizana, kupeŵa kuyang'anana maso kungawoneke ngati kodabwitsa.

Ngati ayesa kupeŵa kuyang'anizana ndi maso, pakhoza kukhala njira ziwiri: akhoza kukhala wamanyazi kapena wovuta, kapena akhoza kukhala chizindikiro kuti angafune kugonana nawe koma samakukondaninso. Ngati ayima kaye kuti akuoneni pang'ono pakati pa kugonana, zimasonyeza kuti amakukondani koma akhoza kuchita manyazi.

Koma mwamuna akamatsekera maso anu m’maso mwanu pochita zachikondi, ndi njira yowerengera mayankho anu kuti akusangalatseni kwambiri. Dziwani kuti iye ali ndi inu chifukwa cha chikondi.

2. Adzakupsopsonani

Kodi mungadziwe bwanji kuti amakukondani mwa kukupsopsonani? Chabwino, tangoganizirani kupsompsona kwanu koyamba ndi momwe zinakupangitsani kumva. Agulugufe amene ali m'mimba amachulukana mukapsompsona munthu amene mumamukonda. Akakufunani, nonse inu, inu ndi iye nonse mudzakhalanso ndi malingaliro ammutu nthawi zonse milomo yanu ikatseka.

Amuna omwe ali nanu chifukwa chogonana amangoyamba kuchita bizinesi ndikuchita nawo. Mudzamva kupsompsona kwake mwachangu, ngati kuti akungoyembekezera zomwe zikubwera. Pamene kupsompsona pakokha kumakhala njira yosonyezera zakukhosi kwanu, kumapangitsa chinthu chonsecho kukhala bwino kwambiri.

Adzakupsompsonani thupi lanu lonse mobwerezabwereza. Adzakupsompsonani ndipo imeneyo ndi njira yosonyezera kuti sangakukwanireni. Pochita kukupsompsonani, chikhumbo chake pa inu chimawonekera kwambiri kuposa china chilichonse. Mmene amakupsompsonani zidzakupangitsani kumva kuti akukondani kwambiri. Izi ndi zizindikiro zonse kuti kupsopsona kumatanthauza kanthu kwa iye.

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3. Adzakhala wopereka

Imodzi mwa njira zomwe amakuwonetsani kuti amakukondani osanena kuti ndi pamene amaika zofuna zanu patsogolo ndi zosangalatsa zanu pabedi. Iye adzakudzutsani ndi kukubutsani. Adzadzipereka mu foreplay. Iyenso adzakulimbikitsani madera a erogenous kuonetsetsa kuti mwalowa mu mood.

Atsikira kwa inu ndikukufunsani zomwe mungasangalale nazo. Adzakufunsani ngati akuyenda mofulumira kapena mochedwa. Zidzakhala zomveka kuwona kuti chochitika ichi ndi chogawana nawo, osati kuyesa kudzikonda kuti amuchotse. Kubuula kwake ndi kukhudzidwa kwake kudzakuuzani momwe amasangalalira kukhala ndi inu komanso m'manja mwanu.

4. Nonse mudzakhala ndi zambiri zoti mukambirane

Kupanga chikondi sikungokhudza kugonana. Pali zokambirana zakuya komanso zatanthauzo pambuyo pa gawo, zomwe zimatchedwanso pillow talk. Ndipo pamakambirano apamtima amenewo, adzanyamula moyo wake kwa inu, mantha ake ndi mphamvu zake, maloto ake ndi zokhumba zake, zowawa zake zakale ndi momwe adachizira nazo.

Nkhani zambiri zobisika zimatuluka pa zokambiranazi ndikupita kutali kuti ubale ukhale wolimba komanso wokongola kwambiri. Zina mwa izo zikhoza kukhala za inunso. Adzakuuzani zinthu zomwe mwina sanauzepo aliyense. Kuzama kwa zokambiranazi kudzasonyeza kuti mumamukonda kwambiri.

Sikuti amangokwaniritsa zosoŵa zakuthupi, koma amasangalala kukuululirani zakukhosi ndi kugawana nanu nthaŵi zapamtima. Izi ndi zizindikiro zonse zomwe amakonda kukukondani. Ngati muwona izi muubwenzi wanu, pumani momasuka. Mwamuna wanu amasangalala ndi inu.

5. Adzakulitsa chilakolako

Adzadzipereka kwambiri foreplay kuti mutenthetse inu ndikupangitsani kumva kuti akusangalaladi kupanga chikondi ku gawo lililonse la thupi lanu. Mwamuna wanu adzakufunsani za malingaliro anu ogonana ndi maloto. Adzatenga nthawi kuti adzuke mokwanira, mwina mwa kupsompsona pang'onopang'ono kapena kusewera ndi zone zanu.

Chimodzi mwazizindikiro zodziwika bwino zomwe munthu amatembenuzidwa ndi inu ndikuti adzaonetsetsa kuti mwakonzeka monga momwe alili pazochitika zomaliza ndikuzifuna monga momwe amachitira. Sadzathamangira kuchita chilichonse. Mwamuna akamasangalala kupanga chikondi ndi mkazi, amasangalala ndi mphindi iliyonse ya mchitidwewo ndipo samakhazikika pa orgasm yake yokha.

Kumbukirani kuti nthawi zonse mukugonana, sikuyenera kukhala motalika komanso momveka bwino. Nthawi zina amangofuna kukwera njinga, ndipo nthawi zina inunso mungakhale. Koma chomwe chimalekanitsa kupanga chikondi ndi kugonana ndikuti ngakhale magawo ofulumirawa samamva ngati opanda pake.

6. Adzatenga dzina lako

Ngati mukuyang'ana zizindikiro zomwe amakukondani popanga chikondi, mvetserani zomwe akunena panthawi yamasewera. Taonani mawu ake pamene iye ali mu kukhudzika mtima. Ngati amatchula dzina lanu pafupipafupi, ndi njira yake yosonyezera kuti ndi INU, paliponse!

Inu ndi amene mukumupatsa chisangalalo chotere, ndipo kunong'oneza dzina lanu panthawi yamasewera kumangowonjezera chisangalalocho kwa iye pomupangitsa kuti azimva kuti ali wolumikizana ndi inu. Kumva dzina lanu panthawi yapamtima yotere kumatha kusungidwa m'chikumbukiro mpaka kalekale. Kumbukiraninso kutchula dzina lake ndikumupangitsa kumva kuti ndi wapadera.

7. Akukufunani zambiri

Amuna nthawi zambiri amachitidwa akafika pachimake. Nthawi zambiri, amuna amakonda kugona akamaliza. Muzochitika zomwe kwenikweni anali munthu yemwe anali kuchita zambiri zonyamula katundu mu malo ogonana, m’pofunika kukumbukira kuti angakhale atatopadi.

Ngakhale zili choncho, mwamuna akamakukondani kwambiri ndipo amalumikizana nanu, amatenga nthawi kuti akuwonetseni momwe amasangalalira kukhala nanu. Ngakhale akafika pachimake, adzakukokerani mwa iye ndi kukumwetsani mwachikondi. Adzapeza njira zosonyezera kuti amasangalala ndi inu, ngakhale zitakhala kwa mphindi zochepa. Izi ndi zizindikiro zonse zomwe amakonda kukukondani.

Chinthu chinanso chofunika kwambiri chomwe muyenera kuchiyang'anitsitsa ndi chakuti akuthandizani kuti mufike pachimake? Kumbukirani, amuna omwe amasamala za akazi awo amatchera khutu ku kufufuza ndi kuphunzira za chibadwa cha akazi. Ndizofunikira.

8. Adzakhala muyaya

Izi ndi za maanja omwe sanakwatirane kapena kukhalira limodzi. Ngati mwamuna amangotsatira njira yake pambuyo pogonana, zikhoza kupangitsa mkazi kudzimva wochepa kwambiri. Chibwenzi cha Karen chimakhala ndi chizoloŵezi chotere cha kuvala mopupuluma n’kuchoka pambuyo pa kugonana, pa zifukwa zina.

Iye anauza bwenzi lake lapamtima kuti, “Zimaoneka ngati atachita zimene ankafuna, sangakhalenso pamalo amene ine ndilimo. Ndiyeno, amayamba kudabwa ngati iye ankangofuna kuti akwaniritse chilakolako chake chakuthupi.

Ngati amakukondani, sadzakhalapo chifukwa akudziwa mmene mukumvera. Mwina nonse mungathe kuphika limodzi kapena kungomwa vinyo ndi kucheza. Kapena penyani pulogalamu limodzi. Kapena kukumbatirana mwamphamvu ndiyeno kugona.

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9. Nthawi zina amakhumudwa

Nthawi zapamtima izi ndi nthawi imene amuna ambiri amagawana ndi kufotokoza zakukhosi kwawo. Ndi pamene mbali zawo zofewa zimatuluka. Madandaulo onse omwe mungakhale nawo onena za iye kuti samalankhula akhoza kuthetsedwa panthawi yachikondi kapena pambuyo pake.

Chimodzi mwa zizindikiro zosonyeza kuti amakukondani popanga chikondi ndi chakuti ubwenzi udzakhala wofunika kwa iye monga mchitidwe wokha. Akhoza kutengeka maganizo, makamaka, mopitirira muyeso, panthawiyi ndi inu. Musamachite mantha mukaona mbali ya maso ake ikung'ung'udza kapena kuwoneka kosiyana kotheratu - mawonekedwe amtundu uliwonse m'maso mwake.

Mwina adzabisala pachifuwa chanu kuti mumve kukhala wotetezeka, kapena adzakukumbatirani mwamphamvu kusonyeza kuti mudzakhala otetezeka naye. Chilichonse chomwe angachite, chimawonetsa kumveka bwino, momwe mungadziwire ngati mwamuna akukupangani chikondi.

10. Akusonyeza kukulakalakani Kwanu

Iye sangasamale ngati afika mosimidwa. Iye amakukondani, amakonda mchitidwe umene inu nonse muli nawo, ndipo sadzazengereza kusonyeza mmene amakufunirani inu, mwakuthupi ndi m’maganizo. Atha kutenga chiopsezo chokhala wopezeka kwambiri komanso wosatetezeka.

Akhoza kusungitsa malo okhala pamalo ochezera a nyenyezi zisanu kapena kuyatsa malo ake pamagetsi okongola ndi makandulo onunkhira kuti akupangitseni kumva kuti mumakondedwa ndi kukondedwa. Wokondedwa wanuyo angakupatseni vinyo ndi ma canapes kuti akusonyezeni kuti akufunitsitsa kukhala nanu.

Musadabwe akakugulirani choyala chapadera cha satin kapena mwinjiro wa silika kuti mupange kupanga chikondi kukhala kwapadera kwambiri. Izi ndizizindikiro kuti mnyamata watsegulidwadi ndi inu komanso amalumikizana ndi inu.

11. Adzayesa kuyesa

Mwamuna akakhala ndi chidaliro mwa mkazi amene amamukonda ndi wotsimikiza za malo amene ali naye, akhoza kumufunsa za malingaliro ake ndikudzipereka kuti afufuze naye. Adzapita kutali kuti amvetsetse momwe angapangire orgasm yake, kukhala ndi ma orgasm angapo, ndikuchitapo kanthu.

Zina mwa zisonyezo zoonekeratu kuti amasangalala kukukondani ndi mayendedwe ake kuti akukhutiritseni pabedi, mobwerezabwereza. Akhoza ngakhale kuyesa zoseweretsa zogonana kapena ukapolo ngati zili zochulukirapo ndipo muli bwino nazo. Iyi ndi njira yake yokufotokozerani kuti akufuna kuti chikondi pakati pa awiriwa chikhale cholemera komanso chokwaniritsa. Amuna amafuna kuyesa kokha pamene amasangalala kupanga chikondi ndi munthu wina.

12. Adzakuitanani pambuyo pake

Chimodzi mwa zizindikiro zosonyeza kuti amakonda kukhala nanu ndipo amasangalala kwambiri ndi gawo la kupanga chikondi ndi pamene akukonzekera kukumananso nanu, mwinamwake khofi kapena chakudya. Ingocheza ku paki kapena ndi anzanu. Akakuimbirani foni n’kukambitsirana, ndiye kuti munamukhudza mpaka kalekale ndipo sasiya kukuganizirani.

Amakukondani ndipo amasangalala kukhala nanu pachibwenzi. Onani momwe mawu ake amamvekera polankhula. Kodi ndi chikondi? Yankho lanu loti kaya amasangalala kukupangani chikondi lagona pamenepo.

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13. Adzawoneka wokondwa ndi wokhutira

Pambuyo pogonana, nonse mukagona pabedi pafupi ndi mzake, pamakhala kuwala ndi kumwetulira pa nkhope yake. Sangotembenukira kumbali kuti agone, zomwe zingakhale zokhumudwitsa kwambiri. Adzakuyang’anani mwachikondi, kutanthauza kuti, m’njira inayake, n’kunena kuti ndinu munthu womuyenerera. Amuna ena amangogwirana chanza mchitidwewo, ena amapita kukapangira mkazi wawo tiyi.

Ngati gawo lanu lopanga zachikondi linali lofunikira mwapadera, nenani kuti inali nthawi yanu yoyamba kukhala limodzi, ziwoneka bwino kuti ali mumtendere pambuyo pogonana. Mukakumana ndi izi, mudzapeza yankho la "Kodi kupanga chikondi kumatanthauza chiyani kwa mwamuna?" Kuyang'ana pa nkhope yake kudzakuuzani zonse zomwe muyenera kutero.

14. Adzakukonzerani chakudya cham'mawa

Pamene mwamuna akumva kugwirizana kwambiri maganizo kwa mkazi, amakonda kumusangalatsa. Ndi njira yake yosonyezera kuti amakukondani osanena. Ndipo amuna ambiri amadziwa kuti ndi zinthu zazing’ono zomwe zimadzetsa chimwemwe chenicheni kwa akazi. Mwachitsanzo, kuchita zinthu moganizirana ngati chakudya cham'mawa pabedi pambuyo pa usiku wokondana kwambiri ndi chinthu chomwe munthu sangachilakwitse.

Kotero, mwamuna wanu akhoza kuyesa. Ngati akupanga tiyi ndi khofi wanu momwe mukufunira, kapena ngati ngakhale kuti ali ndi luso lochepa la zophikira, ayesa kupanga kufalikira kwabwino kwa mazira oponderezedwa ndi soseji, nyama yankhumba, ndi toast, mwina samangokhalira kuima usiku umodzi. Ndi awa njira zosonyezera chikondi izo ziyenera kukuuzani inu zonse muyenera kudziwa.

Kuti akukonzereni chakudya cham'mawa, mwina adakukonzerani masoseji omwe mumakonda, ndi nyama yankhumba pasadakhale kapena adakupangirani ma blueberries omwe mumakonda kukhala nawo. Adachita kugula pa intaneti ndikumakumbukira zomwe mumakonda. Ndizokongola bwanji!

15. Akunena - nthawi zonse mosalephera

Mwamuna akakonda zomwe wagawana nanu, amapeza njira zowonetsera. Adzakutumizirani zambiri, mwinamwake kukutumizirani moni wa m’maŵa, angakutumizireni maluwa, ndipo angakugulireninso tinthu ting’onoting’ono tomwe timakupangitsani kudzimva kukhala wapadera.

Kachitidwe kakang'ono kalikonse ndi njira yake yokuuzani kuti amakukondani popanda kunena. Muyenera kuwerenga zizindikiro, ndizo zonse. Ndipo ngati muli ndi mwayi wokhala ndi mmodzi wa amuna ochepawo amene angathe kufotokoza maganizo awo m’mawu, ndiye kuti mungakhale otsimikiza kuti mwatsekerezedwa ndi kusonyeza kwawo chikondi.

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16. Mudzakhala omasuka kwambiri ndi iye

Ngati mukuyesera kudziwa momwe mungadziwire ngati amakukondani pogona kapena ayi, mwina yankho lagona pa mmene mungakhalire omasuka pocheza. Mukakhala ndi munthu yemwe amakupangitsani kumva ngati mungakhale nokha, zoletsa zanu zonse zimatuluka pawindo.

Simudzakhala ndi nkhawa ndi miyendo yomwe munayiwala kumeta, mpweya wa khofi womwe mungakhale nawo kapena kusatetezeka kulikonse komwe mungakhale nako muubwenzi. Panthawi imeneyo, simukudandaula kuti ndinu weniweni, ndipo mudzawona kuti ali, nayenso. Popanda chisamaliro padziko lapansi, mukhala mukusankha kukumbatira umunthu wanu ndikumuwonetsa iye. Mukakhala omasuka naye chonchi, ndi chizindikiro kuti akupanga chikondi kwa inu, osati kungokwaniritsa chosowa choyambirira.

17. Mutha kuseka naye

Kugonana sikovuta kwambiri, ngakhale kuti anthu ena amaganiza kuti ndizovuta. Ngati inu ndi iye mukhoza kuchepetsa pakati pa kugonana, kugawana kuseka, kugawana kamphindi limodzi, ndi pamene mumazindikira kuti zosowa zanu zolakalaka zatenga kumbuyo. Sikuti nthawi zonse ziyenera kukhala "machitidwe onse apite", nthawi zina zimatha kungokhala ngati kuseka phokoso loseketsa lomwe matupi anu adapanga.

Mwina chimodzi mwazizindikiro zazikulu kuti akukukondani osati kungofuna kutsika ndi pomwe akudziwa kuti atha kuyimitsa ndikugawana nanu. Pakati pawo, kuyang'anana m'maso, kuseka chinthu choseketsa chomwe mwanena. Ubwenzi sumakhala wabwinoko kuposa pamenepo.

18. Sadasiye mwala pakudzikongoletsa kwake

Ngakhale nthawi zambiri amakhala aukhondo, mudzatha kuona khama lowonjezera lomwe limayikidwa pakudzikongoletsa, chifukwa cha inu. Mwina wavala chovala chodula kwambiri, kapena wavala malaya ake abwino kwambiri. Ngati inu awiri anatuluka pa tsiku, zovala zake mwina sadzakhala shabby ndi zauve, ndipo iye adzaonetsetsa kuti iye akuyang'ana zabwino kwa inu.

Ngakhale mutangokumana naye kunyumba, adzaonetsetsa kuti sakupatsani chifukwa chodandaulira. Misomali? Odulidwa mwaukhondo. Tsitsi? Wodulidwa. Kumeta? Pokhapokha ngati mwamuuza kuti ndevu zakuyatsani, muyembekezere kuti adzametedwa bwino.

19. Amakumbukira zimene mwakonda;

Ngati ino si nthawi yanu yoyamba kugunda udzu naye, mukhoza kuona kuti akuchita zinthu zingapo zomwe mwamuuza kuti mumakonda. Chimodzi mwa zizindikiro mwamuna amatembenuzidwa ndi iwe ndi pamene amaonetsetsa kuti inunso mukusangalala, ndipo angachite zimenezo mwa kuchita zimene munamuuza nthawi yapitayi.

Choncho samalani ndi mayendedwe omwe amagwiritsa ntchito kapena ngati achita zomwe mudamuuza. Mukafuna kudziwa ngati akukukondani kapena ayi, kusamala kwake komanso kusunga zomwe mwamupatsa ziyenera kukuuzani zonse zomwe muyenera kudziwa.

20. Amalankhula zambiri osati thupi lanu

Yembekezerani kuyamikiridwa monga "Ndinu wotentha kwambiri" kuti asakhale onse omwe amapitako. Pamene mukuganizira momwe mungadziwire ngati amakukondani pabedi kapena ayi, zindikirani mitundu ya zinthu zomwe amalankhula pa kutentha kwa mphindi. Ngati akulankhula za momwe amakukonderani monga munthu komanso momwe mumamvera, ndi chizindikiro chomwe akupanga. kukonda kwa inu.

“Mumandisangalatsa kwambiri”, “Ndimakonda mmene mumalankhulira, zimandipangitsa kumva kuti ndine wotanganidwa kwambiri”, “Ndinu munthu wokoma mtima kwambiri amene ndimamudziwa, ndimakukondani” zonsezi ndi mawu oyamikira omwe mungabwere ngati akuyang’ana mopitirira thupi lanu. Chomwe ndi chinthu chovuta kuchita, kutengera momwe mumakokera.

21. Nthawi zonse mumasangalala kwambiri pamodzi

Nthawi zina, kugonana kumatha kukhala ngati chibwenzi chopanda mzimu, chomwe mukuchita kuti mukwaniritse zosowa zanu zakuthupi. Zikakhala zosemphana ndi zimenezo ndi iye, dziwani kuti ndi umboni woonekeratu wa ubwenzi umene mumagawana naye. Kodi “kupanga chikondi” kumatanthauza chiyani kwa mwamuna? Kupanga chikondi kumatanthauza kusunga mphindi iliyonse yomwe amagawana nanu, osati kungogonana. Ngati inu nonse mukumwetulira ndi kutekeseka ndi kukumbatirana mukakhala ndi mwamuna uyu, muyenera kupuma mosavuta podziwa kuti kugwirizana kwanu ndi iye si thupi lokha.

Mukakhala paubwenzi ndi munthu amene mumamukonda, si thupi lokha limene limakhala lausiwa ndi lamaliseche. Anthu aŵiri pamene ali m’chikondi amaulula zofooka za wina ndi mnzake ndi zofooka zawo. Lemekezani ake ndikukhala oona mtima ndi anu ndikusangalala ndi mgwirizano wokongola uwu wa matupi awiri okha koma miyoyo iwiri. Kukumana ndi izi pakokha ndi chimodzi mwa zizindikiro zazikulu zomwe amakonda kupanga chikondi kwa inu ndi inu kwa iye.

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