Ukubonisa njani ukutyumza kwakho ngeendlela ezili-10 ezilula

Ngamanye amaxesha, ukuthabatheka komnye umntu kubuhlungu kwaye kumnandi ngaxeshanye. Inyaniso yokuba usemathandweni yanele ukwenza uzive ungoyena mntu wonwabileyo emhlabeni. Noko ke, inyaniso elusizi yokuba abayazi indlela ovakalelwa ngayo kodwa inokwenza intliziyo yakho ibe mbi. Yiyo loo nto silapha ukukufundisa indlela yokubonakalisa ukutyumza kwakho kwaye ubenze bakho bonke. 

Xa uthabathekile ngomntu othile, uphawula ezona nkcukacha zincinane ngaye. Isandi sokuhleka kwabo, indlela amehlo abo akhawuleza ngayo xa bencuma, kunye nendlela abayonwabela ngayo itshokolethi eshushu ngobusuku bemvula. Unqwenela ukwazi ngakumbi, ukanti uyoyika ukufumanisa. Ukukunceda kule meko, siye saya kwi-Astrologist Nishi Ahlawat ukufumanisa ukuba kuthetha ukuthini ukubonakalisa umntu kunye nendlela yokubonakalisa umntu ukuba akuthande.

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UNishi uthi, “Ukubonakalisa umntu othile kuthetha ukuba nomfanekiso-ngqondweni wakhe ebomini bakho ngokumqinisekisa, ukuphupha emini, okanye nangayiphi na enye indlela ukuze ajike abe yinyani, yindlela yokwenza iminqweno yakho ibe yinyaniso. iimpawu zakho akakuthandi umva kwaye ufuna ukuyitshintsha loo nto. Ufuna ukuba bakuthande kwakhona. Olu lweyiseko linyathelo lokuqala lokufunda indlela yokubonakalisa ukuthanda kwakho - kukuziqhelanisa nje nokucinga ngezinto ofuna zenzeke.

“Masikucinge oku njengohlobo oluthile lwengcamango enqwenelekayo. Umahluko apha kuphela kukuba ukucinga okunqwenelekayo kukubonakaliswa ngaphandle kokukholelwa. Ukubonakala kuxa amandla enziwe ngabom uwakhuphela kwindalo iphela ngokuzithemba nangokunethemba. Ke, ufuna into, uyayibonakalisa, ngethemba lokuba iya kujika ibe yinyani. Yinkolelo yokuba uthando lwakho luya kubenza bathandane nawe.

Ukubonisa njani ukutyumza kwakho ngeendlela ezili-10 ezilula

Ngoku siyazi ukuba ukubonakalisa kuyinyani, masifumane indlela yokubonakalisa umntu ukuba akuthande ephepheni, kwaye ngokwenene:

1. Cacisa into oyifunayo 

UNishi uthi, "Inyathelo lokuqala lokubonakalisa ukutyumza kwakho ukukubuza kukucaca malunga nezinto ozifunayo kunye neemfuno zakho. Thatha ixesha kwaye ufumanise ukuba kutheni umfuna kakubi lo mntu. Ngaba abangatshatanga? Ngaba kungenxa nje yokuchitha ixesha lakho okanye ngaba uye wawela kubo ngokunyanisekileyo?

Nazi ezinye imibuzo onokuzibuza yona ukuze ucace ngakumbi ngeemvakalelo zakho:

• Ngaba ndiyamthanda lo mntu njengomhlobo okanye ndibafuna njengeqabane lothando?
• Yintoni enditsalayo kubo?
• Ngaba ndibona ikamva kunye naye?

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Xa uyayazi into oyifunayo kubo, la mandla angabom aya kukunceda ekufumaneni amandla afanayo kubo. Indalo iya kuzisa into oyifunayo kuphela xa ubeka elubala ngeemvakalelo zakho.  

2. Sebenzisa amandla omfanekiso wakho 

UNishi uthi: “Abantu abaninzi abakuqondi oku kodwa bayakwazi ukubonakalisa nantoni na abayifunayo kobu bomi ukuba banolweyiseko olwaneleyo.” Ekuphela kwento omele uyenze kukusebenzisa amandla akho okucinga ngokujolisa iingcinga zakho uze udlulisele amandla angcangcazelayo aphezulu aya kufikelela kumntu omthandayo.” 

Ukubonisa njani ukuzithemba kwakho? Ngoncedo lweengcinga zakho, kuba iingcamango zinamandla amaninzi. Elona xesha lilungileyo lokubonakalisa uthando kuxa iingcinga zakho zinyulu kwaye zidlulisela kanye le nto uyifunayo. Nantsi indlela umthetho wo mtsalane Sebenza. Nantoni na ogxininisa kuyo iingcinga zakho, iya kubuyela kuwe. Ukuba ufuna ukubonakalisa ukutyumza kwakho ukukubuza, ngoko sebenzisa amandla entelekelelo yakho kwaye usebenzise iingcinga ezilungileyo onokuthi uziphindaphinde rhoqo. 

3. Yiyeke loo nto imbi 

I-Negativity lutshaba lwakho xa usasaza amandla aphezulu okungcangcazela ngothando, inkathalo, kunye nokudumisa. Umsebenzi wakho ophambili kukuba ugxininise apho uthumela i-positivity ngendlela yabo. Nanga amanye amacebiso okuphelisa i-negativity:

• Ukuba uziva unoxinzelelo, nqumama kwaye uphumle
• Musa ukucinga ngezi ngcinga zimbi
• Ziyeke ezadlulayo kwaye wonwabe
• Zama ukutshintsha iimvakalelo ezingakhiyo ngeenkumbulo ezimnandi 
• Zama ukuphambukisa ingqondo yakho ngokubukela imuvi okanye ukufunda incwadi 
• Cinga ngento ethile ekwenza wonwabe. Njengesandi samaza okanye umfanekiso welanga liphuza ulwandle 

Zama ukubonakalisa ukutyumza kwakho xa ukwimeko entle yengqondo ngelixa ugxininise iingcinga zakho kunye namandla akho ngamaxesha olonwabo nobabini nabelana ngawo.

4. Ziqheliseni iziqinisekiso zothando 

UNishi uthi, “Xelela indalo iphela ukuba ukulungele ukuthandwa ngokucengceleza iziqinisekiso zothando.” Ezi ziqinisekiso zothando ziyindlela elungileyo yokuphelisa iimvakalelo ezingakhiyo.” Bonisa ukuthanda kwakho ngokubhala into eyakhayo yonke imihla. Zininzi iziqinisekiso zothando ukutsala uthando kunye nothando. Apha ngezantsi kukho iziqinisekiso zothando onokuzisebenzisa ukubonisa umntu ukuba akuthande ephepheni:

• Ndivuya ngokwenene xa ndicinga ngabo
• Ndiyalwazi ukuba yintoni uthando kwaye yile nto ndiyifunayo
• Ndikulungele ukuthanda nokuthandwa 
• Ndikulungele ukumamkela lo mntu nako konke ukungafezeki kwakhe 
• Ndimthanda ngentliziyo yam yonke lomntu 
• Lomntu uyandithanda back
• Sinobudlelwane obunempilo

Phinda-phinda rhoqo. Kubalulekile ukuba uhlale ukhumbula ukuba xa uthetha la mazwi aqinisekisayo othando, kufuneka ukholelwe ngamandla kuyo yonke into ephuma emlonyeni wakho. Ukuba awukholelwa kuyo, ngoko awuyi kubufumana ubomi obunqwenelekayo. Indalo yonke iya kubamba ubuxoki bakho kwaye awuyi kukwazi ukubonisa umntu ukuba akuthande.

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5. Ukubonakalisa njani ukutyumza kwakho? Bayeke 

UNishi uthi, "Ewe, ukubonisa umntu ukuba akuthumelele umyalezo kwaye umenze athandane nawe kuthetha ukuba kufuneka umkhulule. Musa ukumbamba ngemiyalezo kunye neefowuni. Ungamcengi ukuba akuthande kwakhona. Ungamnyanzeli ukuba adibane nawe. Suka kuye kwaye uvumele indalo yenze umsebenzi wayo."

Akunyanzelekanga ukuba uziyeke nje kodwa kufuneka uyeke izinto ozilindeleyo. Kuya kufuneka ube nomonde kwaye uthembele kwindalo iphela ngobumfama ngokwaneleyo ukuba ikuvumele ukuba ikhokele kwindawo oya kuyo. 

6. Yiba nomfanekiso-ngqondweni wendlela ekumele ukuba ivakale ngayo ukuthandwa sisithandwa sakho 

UNishi uthi, “Yiba nomfanekiso-ngqondweni wendlela ekunokuba kunjani ukuthandwa sisithandwa sakho. ukuba sesichengeni omnye komnye, kwanokwanga kwakho kokuqala. Akukho mda kumbono wakho logama nje iinjongo zakho zinyulu. ”

Eyona ndlela ilungileyo yokuziva ngathi ukubudlelwane kukuphupha nje ngalo. Yiyo loo nto ukuhambisa amandla aphezulu okungcangcazela ngoncedo lokujonga iimeko entlokweni yakho yenye yeendlela ezilula zokubonisa ukutyumza kwakho ukuthetha nawe kwaye uwele kuwe. Ukuba ubonisa umntu ukuba akuthumelele umyalezo, nantsi indlela ongayenza ngayo:

• Fumana indawo ezolileyo kwaye uhlale kwindawo yokucamngca
• Thatha umoya onzulu 
• Khawube nomfanekiso-ngqondweni wobuntu bakho, indlela abathetha ngayo, nendlela abaziphatha ngayo 
• Khawucinge nje ngendlela oya kuvakalelwa ngayo xa uthandana
• Khawucinge ukuba uya kuvakalelwa njani xa bekuthumelela imiyalezo 
• Khawucinge indlela oya kuvakalelwa ngayo xa sele unayo utshintshiselwano umbhalo wothando yonke imihla
• Lathisela kubo amandla afanayo  
• Kuya kufuneka wenze oku kugxilwe kugxininiso yonke imihla ngaphandle kokulahla ithemba

7. Musa ukuvumela ubudlelwane bakho obudlulileyo bufike kwindlela yokubonakala kwakho 

Ungaze uvumele eyakho ubudlelwane obudlulileyo buchaphazela ixesha lakho langoku. Sukubambelela kwiinkolelo ezingakhiyo njengokuba ungalufanelanga uthando okanye ukhohlakele kubudlelwane. Eso sahluko sivaliwe. Lixesha lokuqhubeka. 

Nazi ezinye izinto ekufuneka uzitsho kuwe ukunqanda ukucinga ngexesha elidlulileyo kwaye ungayivumeli ukuba ikulawule ngoku:

• Ndiye ndayamkela ipast yam ndaqhubekeka
• Ndibufanele ubomi obupheleleyo nobunyulu
• Ndiyaphila yonke imihla

8. Bonisa ukutyumza kwakho ngamanzi 

U-Nishi uthi, "Ufuna ukwazi indlela yokubonakalisa ukutyumza kwakho? Zama ngeekomityi ezimbini zamanzi. Ngaphambi kokuba ugqibe ukuba ndiyadlala, ndivumele ukuba ndichaze. Oku ngokuqhelekileyo kwaziwa ngokuba yindlela yekomityi ezimbini. Konke okufuneka ukwenze kukuthatha iikomityi ezimbini zamanzi kwaye ubhale phantsi nganye kuzo. Enye iya kubhalwa njengenyaniso kwaye enye indebe iya kuqulatha amaphupha akho. Ngoku, gawula iminqweno yakho yamanzi.

Ungayifumana le nto isileyo kodwa kukho inkcazo yesayensi emva koku. Phakathi kwiminyaka yee-1990, UGqr. Masaru Emoto wenza uvavanyo apho wathatha iisampulu zamanzi kumthombo omnye, wawagcina kwiingqayi ezahlukeneyo, waza wancamathisela amagama ahlukeneyo kuzo.

Emva kweentsuku ezimbalwa, waqaphela ukuba iingqayi ezinamagama akhuthazayo afana nothando, umbulelo, kunye nolonwabo ziye zaqulunqa iimolekyuli ngendlela yeemilo ezintle ngelixa amanzi asengqayini anamagama amabi afana nentiyo, ilahleko, kunye nomona ajika amdaka kwaye aneemolekyuli ezikhubazekileyo. Olu vavanyo lungqina ukuba iingcinga kunye neenjongo zinamandla kwaye zinokuchaphazela ubomi bomntu ngokulungileyo nangokubi.

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9. Zama i-369 indlela yokubonakalisa 

Obu buchule kutshanje buhambe ngentsholongwane kwiTikTok nakwamanye amaqonga eendaba ezentlalo. Nantsi indlela onokuthi uzame ngayo indlela yokubonakalisa i-369 ukuba ufuna ukubonakalisa ukutyumza kwakho ukukuthanda emva kobomi bokwenyani: Bhala ukubonakaliswa kwakho phantsi kathathu ekuseni, amaxesha amathandathu emva kwemini, kunye namaxesha alithoba ngokuhlwa. 

Yiloo ndlela umthetho womtsalane osebenza ngayo. Ubhala into oyifunayo kwaye iya kukuthanda kwakhona. UNishi wongeza ukuba la manani mathathu yenye amanani engelosi ukuba usendleleni elungileyo. Xa usaphula la manani ngamanye, akwabaluleka ngokwezibalo:

• Inani lesi-3 limela unxibelelwano lomntu kwindalo iphela okanye nawaphi na amanye amandla aphezulu. Ikwamele ukuzibonakalisa kwabo ngokuyilayo
• Inani lesi-6 limela amandla omntu angaphakathi kunye nemvisiswano
• Inombolo yesi-9 imela ukuzalwa ngokutsha komphefumlo apho umntu anokuvumela ukuba ayeke izinto ezingasebenziyo nayiphi na injongo ebomini bakhe.

10. Zoba ivili eligxininisayo 

Ungawubonakalisa njani umnqweno wakho ukuba uthande umva? Zoba ivili eligxininisayo. Le yenye indlela yokubonakalisa ukunceda amandla akho ngabom, azele luthando kunye nomnqweno, afikelele ekuqhekekeni kwakho. Ungakhuphela okanye uzobe elakho ivili lokugxila. Yahlula ivili libe ngamacandelo amathandathu. Bhala ingxelo eyakhayo kuzo zonke iindawo ezili-12 ngelixa ushiya indawo esembindini ingenanto. 

Zonke iinkcazo zakho kufuneka ziqale ngokuthi "Ndiyathanda". Umzekelo, "Ndiyayithanda i-crush yam kwaye ndifuna ukuba bandithande emva" okanye "Ndiyayithanda i-crush yam kangangokuba ndifuna ukuchitha ubomi bam bonke kunye nabo". Bhala isivakalisi esinye ngosuku okanye naliphi na ixesha evekini xa uziva unethemba ngenxa yokuba kufuneka UKHOLELWE kwezi nkcazo ukuze umthetho wokutsala kunye nendalo yonke isebenze umlingo wabo. Uza kubona kungekudala iimpawu ezivela kwindalo yonke olo thando luyeza ngendlela yakho.

Sitsala into esiyiyo nesiyicingayo. Ukuba sicinga ngobuninzi, uthando, uxolo, ububele, nombulelo, amandla afanayo aya kubuyela kuthi. Nokuba awukholelwa kwezo ndlela zokubonakaliswa, unokuzisebenzisa kwinzuzo yakho ngokucinga ngazo njengezithethe zokubeka iinjongo kuba zonke ezi ndlela zokubonakaliswa ziya kukwenza ube ngumntu onombulelo. Iziphumo zisenokukothusa ngokwenene. 

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