Ukuba kubudlelwane obuzinikeleyo ngamava amnandi kodwa kufuna umsebenzi omninzi kubo bobabini. Kusenokufika inqanaba ebomini bakho xa ufuna nje ukonwaba ngaphandle koxanduva. Ke, enye into efunyenwe yiMillennials kunye neGenZers yi-NSA okanye ubudlelwane obuncanyathiselwe.
Kwaye ndiyazi ukuba inani lemigaqo yobudlelwane ekujikelezweni inokubhida abo balungileyo kuthi. Une-FWB yakho, i-DTF, kunye ne-NSA (zonke izinto ezahlukeneyo ngendlela) ezithandwayo ngabantu abaninzi. Makhe ndiqikelele, uthathe isigqibo sokuyigcina ingaqhelekanga nalo mntu udibene naye kwi-app yokuthandana. Kodwa ngoku awuqinisekanga ukuba ungabafowunela okanye ungabatsali na kuba baye be-MIA emva kobusuku bokuqala obuchithe kunye. Unomhla nomnye umntu ngokuhlwanje kwaye uyazibuza ukuba kufuneka ubazise ngale nto okanye hayi.
Ewe, nokuba anikhange nithethe, iimpawu zixela ukuba sele nithandana. Namhlanje, sithetha ngobudlelwane be-NSA kwaye sikunika ii-A zabo ukuya kwii-Zs. Ukuba ukubudlelwane be-NSA, kwaye ubhidekile malunga nemithetho, okanye malunga nokungena kwenye kwaye unoloyiko malunga nokuseta, esi sikhokelo siya kusombulula zonke iingxaki zakho ngexesha elinye.
Ndikunye nam, ndinesayikholoji yeklinikhi Devaleena Ghosh (M.Res (UK)/DFT), umseki weKornash Lifestyle School, kunye nengcali kwiingcebiso zezibini kunye nonyango losapho. Ulapha ukuze alinganise ukuba ubudlelwane be-NSA bumalunga nantoni, kwaye ungamkhokela njani ngaphandle kokubetha nayiphi na indlela. Abaninzi ngaphambi kokuba uhambe le ndlela, kwaye beze e-Devaleena ukuze bafumane iingcebiso zobudlelwane obufunekayo kakhulu. Lixesha lokuba uthabathe ezi perile zobulumko nawe.
Yintoni Ubudlelwane be-NSA?
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Ukubeka ubudlelwane be-NSA ngendlela efanelekileyo, ndijika kumzekelo womhlobo wam uMelissa. Owasetyhini oqhutywa kakhulu kunye namabhongo, eyona nto yayiphambili kuMelissa yayingumsebenzi wakhe. Kodwa ukuba likhoboka lomsebenzi wayengathethi ukuba akafuni konwaba. Xa wadibana nomntu awayesebenza naye ebharini, bagqiba kwelokuba baye kwindawo ekulungeleyo ukuba banelise iintswelo zabo zokwenyama. Kwakungekho ukuzibophelela okanye nayiphi na i-angle yeemvakalelo kubudlelwane babo.
Babedibana veki nganye, babe neentlobano zesini, baze bohlukane. Akukho mihla, akukho cuddles, akukho zipho okanye izijekulo zothando. Abantu abadala ababini nje ababandakanyeka kubudlelwane bomzimba baze baqhubeke nobomi babo. Obu bubudlelwane be-NSA. Xa abantu bengenandawo yokuzibophelela komnye umntu okanye besanda kuphuma kubudlelwane obunzulu, banokukhetha uqhagamshelo olungenamitya.
Njengoninzi lweentlobo zobudlelwane, oku nako kuneenzuzo kunye nokubi. Kwelinye icala, kukuvumela ukuba wonwabe kwaye ulinge ngesondo, kodwa kwelinye, kunokwenzeka ukuba ungcole. Ukuba ubonile imuvi, Akukho Mitya encanyathiselwe, edlala no-Ashton Kutcher kunye noNatalie Portman, unokuba nombono ophucukileyo wokuba i-NSA eguquguqukayo inokudubula ibe luthando olunzulu. Kodwa ubomi bokwenyani abuphuphi kangako, kwaye uninzi lobudlelwane be-NSA lusekwe kwizinto eziluncedo.
Kumntu okhululekileyo ngoku ngemowudi yokuhlola ngaphambi kokuba azinze into enzulu, ubudlelwane bohlobo lwe-NSA bubafaneleyo. Njengoko ulungiselelo lwe-NSA lungahambi negatya lokuzibophelela, ukhululekile ukugcina ukhetho lwakho luvulekile, kwaye udibane nabantu ngendlela othanda ngayo ngaphandle kokuziva unetyala ngokunganyaniseki komnye umntu.
Oko kuthethwa, ukuba sifunde nantoni na evela eHollywood, abahlobo abanokuxhamla okanye i-NSA hookups ayifane iphume ngaphandle kokuba uqinisekile ukuba yile nto uyifunayo. Khawucinge nje ngayo, ngaba ulungile ngokungabi yenye yezinto eziphambili ezintlanu eziphambili kwiqabane lakho le-NSA? Kungenxa yokuba le yindlela imithetho yobudlelwane obungaqhagamshelwanga ngayo isebenza ngokubanzi.
Kubudlelwane obungaqhotyoshelwanga, awunyanzelekanga ukuba ugcine naluphi na uhlobo lokungaguquguquki. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba amaqabane achithe yonke impelaveki kunye okanye ameme omnye emtshatweni njengemihla yawo. Ke, awusoze wazi ukuba uza kumbona nini lo mntu emva kokuchitha ubusuku obunye bomlingo kunye nabo. Ngaba ucinga ukuba uya kukwazi ukusingatha ukungahoywa kangangeeveki?
Ukuba ucela iingcebiso zobudlelwane obungadityaniswanga kuthi, kukho izinto ezimbalwa ekufuneka uzicwangcise ngaphambi kokuba uthathe inxaxheba kuhambo olunobungozi olufana nolungiselelo lwe-NSA. Awunakuyilibala into yokubheja apha yimpilo yakho yengqondo. Ngumgca olungileyo ngenene phakathi kokonwabisa ulonwabo olumalunga ne-NSA, kunye nokuwela emntwini okomzuzwana wobuthathaka.
Qinisekisa ukuba ukwindawo ezinzile ngokupheleleyo ebomini bakho malunga nomsebenzi, ukuzithemba, kunye ukuzithanda. I-NSA ekuthandeni inesiqhamo ngokwenene xa ungadingi ukuqinisekiswa kwangaphandle ukuze uzive ulungile ngawe. Ukuba kufuneka ucinge kabini malunga "Ngaba ndiyamthanda yena okanye ingqalelo?", Nceda uphinde uqwalasele lonke ubudlelwane bohlobo lwe-NSA.
Kodwa asikho apha ukukutyhafisa ekunikezeni esi simbo sobudlelwane simnandi. Makhe sithethe ngayo yonke le nto kunye nokunye okuninzi ngezinto ezili-13 omele uzazi malunga nobudlelwane be-NSA, kunye nengcaciso efanelekileyo malunga nentsingiselo yobudlelwane be-NSA. Ezinye iingcebiso zengcali, amava ambalwa obomi bokwenyani, kunye neminye imithetho omawuyazi – Ukhwele uhambo olumnandi kakhulu (olunolwazi)!
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Izinto ezili-13 omele uzazi malunga ne-NSA (Akukho-Mitya eqhotyoshelweyo) ubudlelwane
Ngoku andiyazi into olindele ukuyifumana ngale mithetho yobudlelwane be-NSA, kodwa ndiqinisekile ukuba olunye ulwazi apha luyakwenza ukuba wenze kabini. Uninzi lwabantu endithetha nabo banemibono engalunganga malunga ne-NSA, kwaye bayayibhidanisa nabahlobo-kunye-nenzuzo ubudlelwane okanye i-polyamory.
Kodwa phosa izimvo zakho emoyeni njengoko sijongana ne-13 eyona nto ibalulekileyo yezalathisi zobudlelwane be-NSA. Ngaba ukulungele ukuchaza ubudlelwane be-NSA? Masihambe!
1. Awunangqondo kwaye awunamdla kubudlelwane be-NSA
Konke kusegameni. Eyona njongo ye-NSA bubudlelwane obungenazibophelelo. Kungaxoxwa ukuba igama elithi 'ubudlelwane' linokusetyenziswa ne-NSA kwaphela. Akukho kukhetheka kubudlelwane obulolo hlobo (ngaphandle kokuba kucaciswe ngenye indlela), kwaye uninzi lwamalungiselelo e-NSA aqhelekanga ukuba nomfazi omnye. Abantu bakhululekile ukuba dibana nabantu abaninzi ngokwesondo.
UDevaleena uchaza ubume be-NSA eguquguqukayo, "Unobudlelwane be-NSA kuba awufuni izinto ezilishumi ezibandakanya ukuzibophelela. Uthanda ukugcina izinto zilula kwaye zithe ngqo. Ukwabelana ngesondo okuhle, akukho drama yeemvakalelo, kunye nokuzimela. Ngenxa yoko, ukufuna ukuba nomfazi omnye okanye ukuzimela akubonwa rhoqo. Kwaye xa omnye waba bantu babini efuna uhlobo oluthile lokuzibophelela.
2. Ukufuna ukwabelana ngesondo kuyakhuthazwa!
Ubudlelwane be-NSA busekelwe kwisini, njengoko u-Devaleena ebeka. “Njengokuba indlala isisisidingo esisisiseko, kunjalo ngesondo kubantu abaninzi. Kufuneka izidlo ezithathu ngemini, kwaye kwabanye, ukubaluleka kwesondo kubudlelwane ukwanelisa ukuqhuba kwabo akunakuphikiswa. I-NSA ikho ngenjongo eyodwa yokuzalisekisa loo mfuno. Apha, ufumana ithuba lokufuna ukuba neentlobano zesini, okanye ulingelo ebhedini.” Yindawo ekhuselekileyo kuwe kwaye ukhululekile ukuba uphonononge nawaphi na amakhubalo okanye iintelekelelo (ngemvumelwano kunye nentuthuzelo).
Kubudlelwane obuzinikeleyo, unokuba nexhala malunga nendlela oza kujongwa ngayo liqabane lakho. Kwi-NSA eguqukayo, izinto ezinokwenzeka azipheli. Unokuhamba phakathi kwamaphepha ngaphandle koloyiko lwesigwebo. Umhlobo watyhila indlela awaphinda wayifumana ngayo inkanuko yesini ngeqabane le-NSA; wayeyithanda yonke intwana yenkululeko yesini eyayimnika yona. No-strings-ancanyathiselwe imithetho yobudlelwane akazange ambophe ukuba coyness kwaye wayekonwabela ngokupheleleyo ukuthatha ulawulo (nangaphandle!) kwigumbi lokulala.
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3. Imida, imida, kunye nemida engaphezulu yimithetho yobudlelwane be-NSA
Umba obaluleke kakhulu wobudlelwane be-NSA imida ngokweemvakalelo, ngokwasemzimbeni nangokwesini. (Ngaphezulu) ukwabelana ngamabali obomi bakho okanye iingxaki, ukuthetha malunga nosuku lwakho, okanye ukuthumela imiyalezo emva naphambili akukhuthazwa. Unikezela ngobudlelwane be-NSA xa uzama ukuba konke ukuzibophelela-y. Ditto ngokudibana nabo kwindawo yothando. I-post-sex cuddles yi-no-hayi enkulu, njengokuba i-pillow-talk enzulu.
Kwaye okokugqibela, imida yezesondo ibhekisa ekuzibandakanyeni kwizenzo oziva ukhululekile kuzo. Ulwalamano oluthand’ isini aluthethi ukuba nihambe niye ninyanzeleke ekwenzeni izinto ongazithandiyo. Thetha ngeemfuno zakho, kwaye ufunde ukuthi 'hayi'. Ukusekwa kwe-NSA akunakusebenza ngaphandle konxibelelwano oluvulekileyo!
4. Ayizozihlobo-nge-benefits – i-NSA ithetha ukuba kufuneka uyazi
Le yeyona nto ixhaphakileyo yokungaqondi malunga noqhagamshelo olungaqhotyoshelwanga. U-Devaleena uyicacisa kakuhle, "Umhlobo onenzuzo eguqukayo ibandakanya ubudlelwane obufudumeleyo okanye obufudumeleyo ngaphaya komba wezesondo. Ningaba nihlala kunye, nincokola rhoqo, kwaye nithandane nenkampani yomnye nomnye. I-NSA eguqukayo, nangona kunjalo, iyasebenza kakhulu. Nidibana, nibelane ngesondo, kwaye yiloo nto."
Xa uChandler noMonica baqala ukubonana, yayilulwalamano lobuhlobo kunye nezibonelelo. Babesazana ngaphambili kwaye kwabelwane ngonxibelelwano lweemvakalelo ngaphandle kweyokwenyama. Babengabahlobo kuqala, yaye iingenelo zabakho kamva. Cinga ngobudlelwane be-NSA njengenxalenye 'yenzuzo'.
Akukho buhlobo kuyo kuba lilungiselelo elicacileyo kakhulu. Ukuba ukule ntshukumo kunye nomfana, jonga iimpawu ezifuna ukuba akukho ntambo zincanyathiselwe kuphela. Ezi mpawu ziyakunceda ukuba uyasokola ukuchaza i-equation yakho neqabane ngesondo.
5. Ukukhetha iqabane elilungileyo yeyona nto ibalulekileyo kubudlelwane obusondeleyo be-NSA
Oku ngokuzenzekelayo kususa exes, abahlobo, abantu onomdla wokwenene, okanye abantu abasele bezibophelele. Kuba eyona njongo ye-NSA bond ikukuba ubomi bube nzima, kubalulekile ukuba ukhwebuke ekuzibandakanyeni nabantu otyalwe kubo ngokwasemphefumlweni. Yiba nomfanekiso wakho uqalisa ubudlelwane be-NSA nomntu owayesakuba yi-ex, ufumanise ukuba bekukho imitya emininzi esele ifakiwe.
Iqabane elifanelekileyo kubudlelwane be-NSA ngumntu omaziyo ohambelana naye ngokwesondo. Lo mntu kufuneka ahlukane nawe kuba a ityala uthando unrequited asiyiyo into esiyidingayo. Kuya kufuneka ukwazi ukubona imiqondiso ayifunayo ukuba akukho ntambo iqhotyoshelweyo. Ngaphandle koku, uluhlu lwakho lokukhangela akufuneki lube lude kakhulu. Nobabini kufuneka nabelane ngokuqonda okuthe cwaka ngobume bexeshana bobudlelwane benu.
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6. Ukuseta kulula kakhulu – yindlela obuchaza ngayo ubudlelwane be-NSA
Ethetha ngohlobo lobomi esibuphilayo kule mihla, u-Devaleena uthi, “ayikuko nje ukuxakeka ngokoqobo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, unomsebenzi wakho, imisebenzi yakho, njl.njl. Kodwa uxakene nengqondo. Ukudinwa nokuziva uphelelwe ngamandla ngokweemvakalelo kuya kuxhaphake kakhulu kwezi ntsuku. Ngoko ke, abantu abaninzi bayaqonda ukuba “andinakukwazi ukwabelana nobomi bam nomnye umntu ngamava ngoku” kubanika isithuba se-NSA ngoku. isondo esikhulu esingaqhelekanga kunye neqabane elihambelanayo xa bekulungele.”
Kwaye eneneni, uninzi lwabantu abebekulungiselelo olungaqhotyoshelwanga oluncamatheleyo lula njengeyona nto ibalulekileyo. UJacob (igama elitshintshiweyo ukukhusela isazisi) waseCleveland uthi, "Kwakungekho nkathazo. Emva kokufumana iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zobudlelwane, ndingatsho ngegunya elithile ukuba i-NSA ngokuqinisekileyo iphumelele kudidi 'lokwenza lula'."
7. Ubuchaza njani ubudlelwane be-NSA? Utyalo-mali ngokweemvakalelo nguhayi-hayi
Phakathi kwayo yonke imithetho yobudlelwane be-NSA, le yeyona nto ibalulekileyo. Ukufumana utyalo-mali ngokweemvakalelo lisango lokuya idrama kunye nentliziyo ebuhlungu. Ke ingcebiso yam kuwe yile: umzuzu ufumana i-inkling yayo nayiphi na imvakalelo yothando malunga neqabane lakho elingancamathiselweyo, gxotha izinto. Ngoko nangoko. Sukuchitha ixesha ngokwenza oko kuba uya kuphelela ekuweleni kubo.
Uninzi lobudlelwane be-NSA buba bubi xa elinye iqabane liwela kwelinye. Ekubeni sele usabelana ngobudlelwane bezesondo, kulula ukuba unamathele ngokweemvakalelo. Kodwa yiba nokhuseleko lweemvakalelo kwaye ugcine izinto ezifana neshishini. Imeko apho amaqabane omabini athandana ngexesha elinye ayiyonyani...ayiyonyani? Hollywood? Uyayifumana le nto ndiyithethayo.
8. Ubudlelwane obusondeleyo be-NSA buhlala bumoshakele
Ekhumbula ityala elisuka kutshixo lokuqala lwe-COVID, uDevaleena uyancwina ngokucaphuka. "Yayiyibali elifanayo njengamaxesha onke. Lo mfazi wayesandul 'ukuphuma kumtshato ombi kwaye wayegxile emsebenzini wakhe.Wadibana nalo mfana kwi-intanethi kwaye bangena kubudlelwane be-NSA.Nangona babecace gca ngokugcina isiqhelo, wahlakulela iimvakalelo kuye.
“Yena kwelinye icala, watsaleleka komnye umntu. kwaxoxwa ngobubodwa. Eli bhinqa lamangaliswa kuba lalicinga ukuba liyaqondwa. Kuyamangalisa, ndlongondlongo, kwaye kuyingozi ukunyaniseka. ”
Xa iimvakalelo ziba ngcono komnye wabachaphazelekayo, imeko iba nzima. Umphumo wemeko enjalo unokuphazamisa kakhulu ukuhamba. Kuthekani ukuba ubona imiqondiso efuna ilungiselelo elingaqhagamshelwanga, kodwa sele unentloko phezu kwezithende? Yiyo loo nto kufuneka uvavanye isitayile sakho sokuncamathela kakuhle kakhulu ngaphambi kokuba uthathe isigqibo sokuqalisa ubudlelwane obungadityaniswanga.
9. Ukhuseleko yi-BFF yakho
Kuba uninzi lobudlelwane be-NSA abuhlali nomntu omnye, abantu balala namaqabane amaninzi ngexesha. Kuyabaluleka ukuba wenze ukwabelana ngesondo okukhuselekileyo okanye uqhube umngcipheko wokufumana i-STD. Landela izikhokelo ezisisiseko kwiseshini nganye esondeleleneyo: sebenzisa ikhondom (kunye nepilisi yoqingqo-nzala ukuba uyafuna), phuma uchama emva kokuba usabele ngesondo, yilumkele ukwabelana ngesondo ngomlomo kunye nokusebenzisa ukhuseleko, kwaye uvavanywe ngugqirha wakho wabasetyhini ngamaxesha arhoqo.
Kwakhona, yiba sobala ngembali yakho yezesondo kwaye ubonise neqabane lakho le-NSA. Akukho sizathu sokuzifihla ukuba ulele nabani kuba iqabane lakho le-NSA lilo elisemngciphekweni. Musani ukwabelana ngesondo ukuba omnye wenu wosulelwe yintsholongwane, kwaye nxibelelana ngokunyanisekileyo. Impilo yakho yezesondo yinto ekufuneka uyikhusele ngononophelo olukhulu kwi-no-strings-attached set-up.
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10. Indlela obona ngayo izinto iyatshintsha (engcono okanye embi) xa ufunda intsingiselo ye-NSA
Kukho iindlela ezimbini ezinokuthi ziphume. Okokuqala, ungalonwabela ilungiselelo le-NSA kangangokuba uya kuphelelwa lukholo kubudlelwane obuzibophelele. Usenokuphinda ucinge ngezimvo zothando, ezothando, okanye amaziko afana nomtshato. Ukhetho lwakho olucacileyo luya kuba luseti lwe-NSA ngenxa yobume bayo obulula.
Okanye okwesibini, unokuphinda ulufumanise ukholo lwakho kumalungiselelo emveli. Unokuvela kwi-NSA eguqukayo, elungele ukuzinikela ngokunzulu kumntu omnye. I-NSA ekuthandeni inokuba yeyona ndawo unokuyidinga kwaye ngoku ubuyele kwindlela yobudlelwane obubodwa. Nokuba yeyiphi na indlela, i-mindset yakho iya kutshintsha emva kwamava ancanyathiselweyo ngaphandle kwemitya.
11. Ukucinga okucacileyo kubaluleke kakhulu
Le yindawo endikuxelela yona ukuba ungathathi izigqibo ezisileyo. Kwasekuqaleni kolungiselelo lwakho lwe-NSA, cace KAKHULU malunga nento oyifunayo kubudlelwane, kwaye ubona ukuba iyaphi. Yazi kakuhle ukuba i-NSA dynamic ayizinzeki kakhulu ekuhambeni kwexesha. Sukungena ngethemba lokufumana uthando lokwenyani kuba oko kufana nokufumana i-BFF kwiTinder.
Zibuze imibuzo embalwa ebaluleke kakhulu ngaphambi kokuba uqalise ubudlelwane bakho obungaqhagamshelwanga. Ngaba ndikulungele ukuthandana nje? Ngaba ndidla ngokutyalwa ngokweemvakalelo ebantwini? Ngaba ndiya kukhululeka kubudlelwane obungabodwa? Ngaba ndiyamthanda yena okanye ingqalelo?
U-Devaleena uthetha ngenqanaba elilandelayo, xa ngokwenene ukubudlelwane. “Musa ukuvumela iimvakalelo zakho zibe ngaphezu kwesizathu.Indlela oziphatha ngayo okanye ukulawula indlela oziphatha ngayo, umnqweno ongaguqukiyo wokuthumelelana imiyalezo ngefowuni, okanye ukuzilazila emva kokwabelana ngesondo zizinto zonke ezibonisa ukuba ujonge kumtshato. Indlela enye yothando. Yithathele ingqalelo yonke le nto - ngaphezu kwako konke, yiba nokwenzeka. ”
12. Ukuzingca kulungile-ish xa unobudlelwane be-NSA
Ukulalanisa, ukuzincama, kunye nohlengahlengiso lubaso lobudlelwane obuzibophelele. Kodwa uvumelekile ukuba uzinikele kulungiselelo lwe-NSA ukuya kumlinganiselo othile. Ukubeka phambili uyolo lwakho ebhedini, ukuhlangana ngamaxesha akulungeleyo, kunye nokufuna ukuba nendlela yakho kube kanye ngexesha zizinto zamkelekile kakhulu. Zonwabele kakuhle xa unobudlelwane be-NSA kuba ukonwaba yeyona nto iphambili. Yabelana ngesondo nini, phi, kwaye uthanda njani - ngelixa usenza indawo yokuba iqabane lakho le-NSA lenze njalo.
Inqaku elikhulu lokudibanisa le-NSA alinatyala. Yenye yezo meko apho ungadingi kuzikhathaza (kakhulu) malunga neemvakalelo zomnye umntu. Ukuba awuyithandi indlela abenza ngayo izinto ezithile ebhedini, unokuthetha ngokunyanisekileyo nangobulali ngayo ngaphandle kokuba nexhala lokubenzakalisa. Kwaye isiphumo kukuba ubuyela ekhaya wonwabile kwaye wanelisekile ngaphandle koloyiko lwentliziyo okanye ukuqhathwa.
13. Izinga lempumelelo alaziwa
Enye yezinto zokuqala uDevaleena wayezichazile kukuba izinga lempumelelo lobudlelwane be-NSA alinakwenzeka ukulinganisa. Ziyimithombo egqwesileyo yolwaneliseko ngokwesondo kangangexesha elithile ebomini bethu, kodwa zifikelela esiphelweni ekugqibeleni. Okanye baguqukela kuhlobo olwahlukileyo lobudlelwane. Ngoko imibuzo efana 'Singoobani thina?' okanye 'Iya phi na le nto?' azisebenzi apha.
Uluvo oluqhele ukubanjwa ngabantu kukuba ubudlelwane be-NSA abunayo into. Imbono echaseneyo yepolar kukuba into ibophelela abantu phantsi kwaye ukungaxhunywanga kumnandi. Kodwa yonke into ibilisa ukuba ngaba wakhelwe unxibelelwano olunjalo. Ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, impendulo ku 'yintoni ubudlelwane be-NSA bukhokelela kuyo?' umbuzo uhlala ungaziwa.
Ndiyathemba ukuba eli nqaku liyiphendula yonke imibuzo yakho kwaye lenze ukuba ucinge ngokunzulu malunga nobudlelwane obungadityaniswanga. Ngoku uyazi intsingiselo yobudlelwane be-NSA, ngoko ke ulungele uhlobo olutsha lokuthandana. Inhlanhla kuwe kwiinzame zakho zexesha elizayo, nokuba zineentambo okanye ngaphandle. Adios!
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Ewe, kodwa akunakwenzeka kakhulu. Ucinga ngeemuvi, iincwadi, okanye iingoma xa ubona ukuba kunokwenzeka. Kunqabile ukuba abantu ababini abangazibophelelanga kubudlelwane bomzimba bathandane ngaxeshanye. Phantse rhoqo, elinye lamaqabane alikakulungeli into yexesha elide. Emva koko iba yimeko yothando olucalanye.
Kanye njengokuba ubuya kuphelisa naluphi na olunye ubudlelwane. Ngonxibelelwano olucacileyo, ubuntununtunu, kunye nokuzithemba. Kuya kufuneka unike isizathu esinyanisekileyo sokuyeka izinto kunye neqabane lakho kwaye ubanqwenelele okuhle kakhulu kwikamva. Yiba nembeko kwaye ungabheneli kuhlaselo lomntu.
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