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Iingcebiso ezili-18 ezithembisayo zokusinda ekunganyaniseki kubudlelwane- kulowo ungcatshayo kunye nongcatshwayo.

Njengoko singathanda ukukholelwa, ukungathembeki akuqhelekanga. Ubudlelwane bunzima. Ukuba uziva uphelelwa luthando emva kokungathembeki kwaye ufuna ukushiya iqabane lakho ngenxa yokukopela kuwe, amandla amaninzi kuwe. Kodwa ukuba wena kunye neqabane lakho nifuna ukusebenza kubudlelwane benu, kuya kuba nzima kwaye kufuna umgudu ongakumbi ukusuka ekupheleni kwakho.

Iingcebiso ezili-18 ezithembisayo zokusinda ekunganyaniseki kubudlelwane- kulowo ungcatshayo kunye nongcatshwayo. Funda ngokugqithisileyo "

izizathu zokuqhatha abantu

Izizathu ezili-11 eziqhelekileyo zokukopela abantu kubudlelwane

Impendulo ethi “kutheni abantu beqhatha?”, ngokungafaniyo neenkolelo ezithandwayo, ayisoloko ‘ingomnye umntu’. Abantu bayazibuza ukuba kukho naziphi na izizathu ezivakalayo zokuqhatha, kodwa kunzima ukutsho ukuba kukho naziphi na, ngaphandle kokuba ubudlelwane okhoyo ngoku buxhaphaza. Kwiimeko ezininzi, ukukopela kunokuziva kumnandi kangangexesha elithile, kodwa ngaphezu komntu omnye ubandezeleka ngenxa yezenzo zakho.

Izizathu ezili-11 eziqhelekileyo zokukopela abantu kubudlelwane Funda ngokugqithisileyo "

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Ngaba kufuneka uqhagamshelane nalo Mntu iqabane lakho liqhatha ipaneli yeengcaphephe zeBonobology-Izinto eziluncedo kunye ne-Cons

Ngaba kufuneka uqhagamshelane nomntu iqabane lakho eliqhatha naye? Enjani yona ingxaki! Ukufumana nje impendulo ethi ewe/hayi kule nto kunokukuxabisa ubusuku obuninzi bokulala. Kodwa sinokusiqonda isizathu sokuba lo mnqweno uphambeneyo wokudibana nalo mntu uyimfihlelo uyinyani. Umlingane wakho ubakhethe ngaphezu kwakho – ukuba akunjalo

Ngaba kufuneka uqhagamshelane nalo Mntu iqabane lakho liqhatha ipaneli yeengcaphephe zeBonobology-Izinto eziluncedo kunye ne-Cons Funda ngokugqithisileyo "

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