Nakuba kungakhululekile ukuthi owesifazane afinyelele i-orgasm ngesikhathi socansi kunokuba owesilisa afinyelele kuvuthondaba, kusengenzeka. Owesifazane angafunda amasu okuqinisekisa ukuthi uyakwamukela ukuba ne-orgasm, kuyilapho indoda yakhe ingafunda indlela yokuqinisekisa ukuthi ulwazi lwakhe yikho konke akulindele.
Chofoza lapha ukuze ufunde: Umzimba wowesifazane ushintsha kanjani ngemva kokulahlekelwa ubuntombi bakhe?
Khumbula lezi zikhombisi mayelana namathuba amahle kakhulu okwenza i-orgasm yowesifazane.
I-Orgasm yinto yengqondo.
Okuqukethwe
Ukulala komzimba kuthonywa 'umzimba' kanye 'nengqondo' kwabesifazane (kanye nakwabesilisa). Ngezinye izikhathi, umzimba wakho ungase uhileleke, kodwa ingqondo yakho ayikho. Ngamanye amazwi, ungase ungabi njalo uvukile futhi ujabule njengangezikhathi ezahlukene. Uma ukhathazekile noma uphazanyiswa ezinye izenzakalo empilweni yakho noma mhlawumbe unezinkinga zobudlelwano, ungase ungakwazi ukuqeda ukuvuthwa komzimba ngokushesha njengangezikhathi ezahlukene, noma mhlawumbe ungabi nhlobo. Lokhu kungenzeka kwabesifazane nakwabesilisa.
Chofoza lapha ukuze ufunde: Izinto zasendlini zokushaya indlwabu kunokuba zinikeze abesifazane i-orgasm.
Ukufunda okuhlobene: Amathiphu ayi-7 kwabesifazane abazama ucansi okokuqala
Akuwena kuphela
Ukungakwazi ukufinyelela ekufinyeleleni ukuvuthwa komzimba kusakazeke kakhulu kwabesifazane. Mhlawumbe kungenxa yokucindezelwa kwabesifazane ngokocansi okudala , okuphoqelelwa yizinkolelo zenkolo namasiko. Kungaba ngenxa yokwenqaba kwakho ubulili bakho ngokujulile, noma ngenxa yokukhuliswa ngendlela yokuziphatha. Ngezinye izikhathi, kunenkinga yemvelo (engokomzimba) evimbela owesifazane ekufinyeleleni ekuphumuleni komzimba. Lokhu cishe kungabangela inkinga ngesenzo sangempela socansi, esingaba buhlungu noma kube nzima ngisho nokusenza. Imithi ethile kanye notshwala obuningi kungathinta isifiso sakho socansi futhi ngenxa yalokho, kwenze kube nzima kakhulu ukuvuthwa komzimba. Abanye besifazane abakaze bazizwe befike ekuphumuleni komzimba, kodwa ngesiqondiso esithile, iningi labo lingafunda ukufeza ukuvuka komzimba komzimba.
Chofoza lapha ukuze ufunde: Indlela yokungena esimweni sengqondo ngomyeni wami.
Ukufunda okuhlobene: Izizathu ezi-5 zokuthi kungani wonke umuntu wesilisa kufanele 'asize' owesifazane wakhe ukuze afinyelele i-orgasm
Ukulingana kobulili
Umuntu wesifazane uyakwazi ukuba ne-orgasm njengabesilisa. Okudingayo nje ukwamukela kwakhe kwangempela nokuphelele ubulili bakhe, uthando nokukhanga kozakwethu, umoya okhululekile, ubumfihlo obuphelele kanye nothando olungavinjiwe. Ezimweni ezinjalo, umuntu uvele athole indlela yokufinyelela ku-orgasm yakhe.
Funda indlela yokwenza i-orgasm
I-Orgasm iyisinqumo, hhayi isibopho. Uma kukhulunywa nge-orgasmic, kungenzeka kube nezinkinga ezingokwengqondo njengokulawula nokwesaba. Kodwa-ke, zombili zinganqotshwa, futhi ungathola futhi uziqeqeshe ukuze ube yi-orgasmic. Izinyathelo zokuba ne-orgasmic zihlanganisa: Ukufunda ukubona ukuthi yini ekujabulisayo ngesitho sangasese kanye nangokwejwayelekile; ukufunda ukuzizwa ukhululekile futhi ukhululeke kakhudlwana ukutshela ngisho nokubonisa umlingani wakho indlela yokukujabulisa; ukufunda ukuphumula nokugeleza nemizwa yobumnandi; ukugxila enjabulweni ngaphandle komgomo, nokubandakanya ukuzijabulisa ndawonye ngendlela yokudlala kwangaphambili.
Iqiniso alifani namamuvi
Njengoba kubaluleka kokuzibandakanya ocansini lwe-peno-vaginal, kanye nendlela oluvezwa ngayo kuma-movie, imibhangqwana eminingi esencane neyakhulile inokulindela okungenakwenzeka ngakho. Izinsizwa eziningi nezintombi zilindele ukuthi kube yilolu lwazi olumangalisayo nolumangalisayo oluhlanganisa ukuqhuma kwenjabulo enkulu. Abesifazane abaningi abasebasha bayadideka futhi badidekile ngokuqondakalayo lapho bezama izikhathi ezimbalwa futhi abakutholi kujabulisa futhi kuthakazelisa kubo njengoba bebelindele. Bayaqhubeka nokwenza ngoba bakholelwa ukuthi ulwazi olulindelwe kumele lube seduzane, uma nje beqhubeka bezama. Banalezi zifiso ezingenakwenzeka ezingasoze zafezwa. Kuthiwa wonke umuntu uyakujabulela, ngakho lokho kumele kubonise ukuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle ngaye uma engakwenzi. Lokhu akulona iqiniso!
Uthando nokuphumula
Abesifazane abaningi abayizwa i-orgasm 'ngokungena' kodwa bangathola i-orgasm 'ngokuphulula ama-vulvar' ngenjabulo enkulu njengabanye. Kunzima kwabanye abantu besilisa ukwamukela ukuthi ipipi labo alimniki ubumnandi kumaqondana. Inkanuko yomunye umaqondana akumele ifane neyomunye, futhi ucansi akukhona nje ukuhlangana kwepipi nesitho sangasese!
Kumele abambe iqhaza elibonakalayo
Esinye sezici ezibalulekile ekufinyeleleni i-orgasm kowesifazane 'ukuhlanganyela kwakhe okusebenzayo' kulesi senzo . Ukuhlanganyela okusebenzayo kungenzeka kuphela uma engenazo izithiyo ngesikhathi sesenzo socansi, futhi 'ethandana' nomlingani wakhe. Udinga futhi ukukhululeka ngokuphelele ngesikhathi sesenzo. Lokhu kwenzeka kuphela uma ekhululekile ngokuphelele ngocansi lwakhe futhi engenazo imibono emibi ngesenzo socansi. Abesifazane abaningi abangakwazi ukuzwa i-orgasm ngokuvamile, bayakuzwa lapho bekhululekile, behilelekile, behlanganyela ngenkuthalo futhi benza ucansi besesimweni 'sowesifazane ophakeme' (ophezulu kwabesifazane).
Chofoza lapha ukuze ufunde: Indlela yokuthuthukisa impilo yakho yocansi.
Isikhundla sibalulekile
Kumuntu wesilisa, kulula ukungena nokufinyelela esicongweni ngomzamo omncane kakhulu, njengoba isitho sakhe (ipenisi ye-glans) singavuselelwa kunoma yisiphi isikhundla; kodwa lokhu akunjalo kowesifazane. Ukuze aneliseke esenzweni socansi, udinga nokufinyelela esicongweni; futhi lokhu kungenzeka kuphela uma i-clitoris yakhe ivuselelwa ngendlela efanele ukuze i-clitoral orgasm noma kube ukunyakaza okuthile okungamnika i-orgasm yesitho sangasese sowesifazane.
Chofoza lapha ukuze ufunde: Izikhundla zobulili ezi-5 zokuzijabulisa okukhulu kwabesifazane.
Futhi, uma kuqhathaniswa nendoda, owesifazane uthatha isikhathi eside ukuvuka . Uma owesifazane ephezulu nendoda ingaphansi, owesifazane anganyakaza ngendlela ezomnika i-clitoris yakhe isikhuthazo esifanele, bese ekwazi ukuqeda ngokuphelele futhi ezwe injabulo yokuvuthwa ngokocansi nomlingani wakhe noma ngisho nangaphambi kwakhe.
Ukufunda okuhlobene: Izikhundla zobulili ezi-5 zokuzijabulisa okukhulu kowesifazane
Ibambe ize ilunge
Ukuhlangana kocansi okuhle kungaba yilapho kukhona khona i-foreplay eyanele , futhi indoda akufanele ikwazi ukungena ngaphandle kokuthi owesifazane ubonisa ukuthi uvukile ngokuphelele. Indawo 'yokuba ngumfazi oqokiwe' iqinisekisa ukukhuthazwa okufanele. Lesi sikhundla lapho indoda ingathathi hlangothi khona kanti owesifazane oqokiwe siqinisekisa ukuthi indoda ihlala ivukile ngokwanele ukuze igcine ukuma kwayo kuze kube yilapho owesifazane eselungele ukuqeda. Lokhu kuphikisana nesimo 'sokuba yindoda oqokiwe', lapho indoda isondela ekukhipheni kwayo yonke intshukumo, kodwa owesifazane angase abe kude kakhulu nokufinyelela umvuthwandaba.
Chofoza lapha ukuze ufunde: Ukudla okungu-12 okuthuthukisa ukusebenza kwakho kocansi.
Uma indoda isichamile, iphelelwa isidoda bese ingakwazi ukuletha owesifazane kuvuthondaba. Ngakho-ke, isihluthulelo kungaba ukwelula i-orgasm yabesilisa kuze kube yilapho owesifazane esesondela e-orgasm yakhe. Khona-ke bangathola noma uvuthondaba ndawonye, noma owesifazane uvuthondaba kuqala kulandele owesilisa. Kufanele kube nohlobo oluthile lwesignali phakathi kwabalingani ukukhombisa ukuthi sekusondele uvuthondaba ukuze kubekwe isikhathi ngendlela yokuthi nowesifazane akwazi ukufinyelela kuvuthondaba. Uma owesifazane esefike ku-orgasm yakhe (kwezinye izikhathi ngisho nama-orgasm amaningi), isenzo socansi singaqhubeka, njengoba kungekho lutho olufana nokulahlekelwa ukuqhanyelwa kwabesifazane, ize ifinyelele kuvuthondaba. Lokhu kuzonikeza ukwaneliseka okuphelele kocansi kubo bobabili abalingani.
UProf. Dr.Rajan Bhonsle, MD
U-Hon.Professor: Inhloko yoMnyango Wezokwelapha Zocansi, Isibhedlela i-KEM, i-Seth GS Medical College, eMumbai
I-Diplomate, I-American Board of Sexology, I-American College of Sexologists (Ibizwe njenge-TOP SEXOLOGIST yase-India yi-INDIA TODAY, UProf. UDkt Rajan Bhonsle ubhale izindatshana ezingaphezu kuka-1200 ekushicilelweni kukaNdunankulu wase-India njenge-India Today, Times of India, DNA, Hindustan Times, Asian Age, Mid-Dasmopoli Life, The Mirror, Mumbai, Femina, The Femina, The Femina Okuhle, Owesifazane Omusha, Ohlakaniphile, Umhlaba Wabesilisa njll.)
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