UProf. Dr.Rajan Bhonsle, MD
USolwazi kanye neNhloko yoMnyango Wezokwelapha Zocansi, Isibhedlela i-KEM & Seth GS Medical College, Mumbai
I-Diplomate, iBhodi yaseMelika ye-Sexology kanye ne-American College of Sexologists (Ebizwa ngokuthi yi-TOP in India's SEXOLOGIST yi-INDIA TODAY, uSolwazi uDkt. Rajan Bhonsle ubhale izihloko ezingaphezu kuka-1200 ezincwadini ezidumile zaseNdiya ezifana ne-India Today, Times of India, DNA, Hindustan Times, Asian Age, Mumbai Mirror, Mid-Day, The Afternoon, Femina, Cosmopolitan, Life Positive, New Woman, Savvy, Men's World njll.)
Umbhangqwana ungaba kanjani nokuphila kocansi okungcono nokwanelisayo? Nalu uhlu lwezinto wonke umuntu wesifazane afisa ukuthi umlingani wakhe azazi, okungathuthukisa impilo yabo yocansi ngendlela engenakulinganiswa.
1. I-TALK enhle iyi-aphrodisiac enhle yabesifazane abaningi
Okuqukethwe
Abesifazane abaningi bathola ukukhuluma nge-turn-on enamandla. Kubo, ukukhuluma nokuzizwa bethandwa kubaluleke kakhulu kunocansi. Ikakhulukazi kulabo besifazane abamatasa ekhaya ngemisebenzi yasendlini, ingxoxo ehlakaniphile ingashukumisa. Ingxoxo enhle phakathi nokuhamba kusihlwa noma ngenkathi umbhangqwana uphumule kungaba i-aphrodisiac enkulu. Ukwabelana ngocansi kamuva kuthuthukiswa kaningi ngamazwi othando nanothando. Indoda ingatshela umkayo ukuthi imthanda kangakanani, ingase futhi ihlebe igama lakhe, okusebenza njengesiqinisekiso sokuthi inaye engqondweni phakathi nalezo zikhathi zothando.
2. Amakhosikazi amaningi akhathazeke ngokukhanga ngokomzimba
“Ngikhule cishe ama-10 kg selokhu sashada eminyakeni eyisikhombisa edlule. Kuyangethusa ukucabanga ukuthi umyeni wami angase angithole ngingathandeki. Ngingakhumula izingubo kuphela ebumnyameni.” Amadoda akhathalelayo angahlala ezwa ukukhathazeka okunjalo kumakhosikazi awo. Asikho isidingo sokuqamba amanga athi muhle uma engekho, futhi asikho isidingo sokuthi akasakhangi. Umuntu angakwazisa njalo futhi ancome lokho okukhangayo – ukushelela kwesikhumba sakhe, izwi lakhe elinobukhazikhazi, izindebe zakhe ezikhangayo, amehlo akhe akhangayo noma ukumamatheka kwakhe okujabulisayo. Lezi zinto azithinteki ngisho noma umuntu ekhuluphala noma eguga.
Ukufunda okuhlobene: Izinto abesifazane abafisa sengathi abalingani babo baziqonda mayelana nobulili babo
3. Ucansi aluhlukene nempilo yakhe yonke
Owesifazane usebenza ngenhliziyo. Kuyena, impilo yocansi ayihlukene nayo yonke impilo yakhe. Ubona konke empilweni yakhe njengokuhlobene. Ngokuphambene nalokhu, umuntu uvame ukuhlukanisa, enomuzwa wokuthi izici ezicindezelayo zokuphila zingama ngokwengqondo futhi zihlukaniswe nezenzo zocansi.
Owesifazane udinga imizwa emihle nokuhlangenwe nakho phakathi nosuku ukuze abe nobulili obanelisayo. Indlela umyeni wakhe amphatha ngayo elele ithonya kakhulu indlela asabela ngayo embhedeni. Ukunganaki, ulimi olunokhahlo, iphimbo elihlambalazayo, amazwi ahlabayo nokugxeka kungenza kube nzima ngowesifazane ukuba ahileleke, azizwe enomdlandla futhi abe nothando ngesikhathi socansi. Kubalulekile ukuthi abashadile babe nothando noma bengekho esenzweni socansi. Ubulili nothando akukwazi ukuhlukaniswa. Ubulili obuhle buwukuqhubeka kothando nokusondelana. Uma indoda imangaze umkayo ngokusheshe ibuye emsebenzini noma ilethe izimbali noma isipho ngaphandle kwesizathu ngokukhethekile, lokhu kucabangela kungase kuthuthukise inkanuko yobulili yombhangqwana kanye nenjabulo phakathi nokusondelana.
4. I-Orgasm ayisona isidingo
Amadoda amaningi anomuzwa wokuthi isithandwa esihle yileso esingaletha umkakhe emvuthwandaba wocansi. Kuhle ukuba nezikhathi ezinjalo lapho zenzeka kodwa azibalulekile ngaso sonke isikhathi. Ucwaningo selukhombisile ukuthi babalelwa ku-60% kuphela abesifazane abane-orgasm ngaphezu kuka-50% wezikhathi abaya ngazo ocansini. Abesifazane abaningi bazizwa becindezelwa abalingani ngisho nakubo ngokwabo ukuthi bafinyelele i-orgasm. Amadoda amaningi anecala elithile ngokufinyelela i-orgasm yawo futhi angakwazi ukuletha ophathina babo kuwo. Bavame ukukhohlwa ukuthi ukusondelana ngokomzimba nokwabelana ngemizwa ngesikhathi sokudlala kahle nomuntu othandekayo kuyinjabulo emangalisayo ngokwakho.
Ubulili obugxile ku-orgasm bufana nokuthatha uhambo lokunqamula izwe futhi ugxile ekufinyeleleni ugu oluphambene ngaphandle kokujabulela bonke ubuhle endleleni. Abesilisa ikakhulukazi kudingeka bazi ukuthi umgomo wobulili uwukuba nothando phakathi kwabo.
Ukufunda okuhlobene: Izinto ezingu-9 mayelana nokufika kwabesifazane esikhathini sokukhulelwa obungazazi obungazazi
5. Ucansi akufanele lube isenzo esibucayi
Ukudlala kusezingeni eliphezulu. Amadoda amaningi azimisele kakhulu ngocansi. Bakhohlwa ukuhleka, ukuba nezixhwanguxhwangu kwezothando, ukuzijabulisa. Ikhwalithi yokudlala kanye nenhliziyo elula ingenza izikhathi ezisondelene zibe mnandi kakhulu futhi ziphumule. Ngisho nokwehluleka - lokho wonke umuntu wesilisa abhekana nakho kanye ngesikhathi - kungathathwa ngomoya omuhle futhi ngisho kuhlekwe ngakho. Lokho kungase kususe ingcindezi yokusebenza komunye wozakwethu, okuyinto ezimweni eziningi okuyimbangela eyisisekelo yokuphelelwa amandla kwengqondo noma ukubanda. Ucansi akufanele ngaso sonke isikhathi lube ukubonakaliswa kothando olungapheli, oluhlala njalo kanye nentshiseko. Kungase futhi kube nokubi kwezothando futhi kugangile.
Ukufunda okuhlobene: Ingabe umshado uyawuqeda ubumnandi bocansi?
6. Abesifazane bayakwazisa ukuthinta okungekona ocansini nokuzwelana
Abesifazane bafuna uthando, ukugona, ukubambana ngezandla nokuqabulana. Kodwa abesifazane abaningi babika ukuthi abayeni babo abalokothi babaqabule – embhedeni noma ngaphandle kwawo. “UPravin akangithinti ngaphandle kwangesikhathi sokudlala kwangaphambili kanye nocansi. Ngezinye izikhathi ngifisa sengathi anganga futhi angithinte ukuze nje azijabulise. Kungani kunzima kangaka ngaye ukwenza lokhu?”
Owesifazane angaba usizo olukhulu ekwenzeni indoda ibone injabulo yokuthinta. Njengoba emnikeza imasaji ephumuzayo futhi ephulula ubuso bakhe nezinwele ngesisa, indoda iqala ukuzwa injabulo yalolu hlobo lokuthintana okungezona ezocansi. Ukubamba izandla kunganikeza umuzwa osondelene wokusondelana, futhi amadoda aqonde ukubaluleka kwale mizwa futhi abuyisele okufanayo.
Ukufunda okuhlobene: Ngithinte njengoba usho! Kwenzekeni lapho ngimthinta okokuqala…
Imibhangqwana kufanele ikhulume ngesisa nokuzwela ngezinye izindlela ezingezona ezocansi. Tshela umyeni wakho ukuthi yini ekwenza uzizwe uthandwa. Uthando alwenzi umuntu ofunda ingqondo. Uthando lunikeza amandla okuthembana ngokwanele ukubuzana ngokukhululekile nokuphendula ngeqiniso.
7. Ukunakwa okufudumele ngemva kocansi kubaluleke kakhulu njengokudlala kwangaphambili okuhle
Isidingo sowesifazane sezikhathi ezithambile sidlulela ngale kokwenza uthando kwangempela.
“Ngizizwa nginesizungu ngemva kocansi. UPrakash ulala ngokushesha ngemva kocansi.” Abesifazane abaningi banezikhalazo ezifana nezikaSheila. Abanye besifazane, abanabayeni babo abanothando futhi abanothando ngemva kocansi, bathola lesi isikhathi senjabulo ekhethekile.
Kuyiqiniso ukuthi lapho owesilisa enza ucansi, izinga lakhe le-endorphin liphezulu kakhulu. Ngokushesha ngemva kokuphuma kwe-ejaculation, udlula esigabeni sokuqhafaza lapho elahlekelwa khona ukuma kwakhe, aphahlazeke futhi zonke izinhlelo zakhe zihlehle. Lesi sigaba siyenzeka ngokushesha, kanti kwabesifazane kwenzeka kancane kancane. Amadoda avame ukulala ngenxa yalokhu ngokushesha ngemva kocansi. Nokho, ukulala noma ukukhathala akulokothi kube namandla kangangokuthi abakwazi ukukunqoba. Uma indoda ifuna futhi iyikhathalela ngokwanele, akunzima kakhulu ukuba ihlale iphapheme.
Amadoda ahlala enenkinga yokukholelwa ukuthi ngemuva kocansi olukhulu, owesifazane udinga ukuthintana nomzimba ongahlangene nocansi kanye nokusondelana. Kuwumqondo omuhle ukutshela umyeni wakho ukuthi yini oyidingayo ngaphandle kokumbeka phansi futhi umenze azizwe eyisidlakela esingenazwelo.
Abesifazane abangu-5 babelana lapho bethola amadoda abo ecansi kakhulu
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Amathiphu amahle kakhulu futhi awusizo ngempela.