Esikhundleni Sokwenza Lawa Maphutha Ezokuxhumana NjengoMbhangqwana, Yenza Lokhu...

Eminye imibhangqwana yanda kakhulu ezinkundleni zokuxhumana kangangokuthi iphila impilo yayo ngokoqobo emhlabeni ongokoqobo kuyilapho eminye imibhangqwana ingavamile uma kuziwa ekuthumeleni izithombe, kodwa yonke imibhangqwana ijwayele ukwenza amaphutha athile ezinkundla zokuxhumana. Amaphutha enziwa bengaqondile kodwa angaba nomthelela empilweni yabo ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.

Ngangixoxa nomngane ngalelo langa futhi uyilolu hlobo olufaka yonke into anayo nomyeni wakhe nezingane ezinkundleni zokuxhumana. “Ngivame ukumaka umfowabo ka-ex wami ezinkundleni zokuxhumana ukuze abone ukuthi ngiphetheni,” kusho yena. Inkulumo yakhe yangenza ngacabanga. Abantu banezizathu ezicashile zemisebenzi yabo yenkundla yezokuxhumana, imvamisa. Umngane wami wayethembekile ngokwanele ukungitshela iqiniso kodwa abaningi ngeke bavume izizathu zabo zangempela zemisebenzi yezokuxhumana.

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Izithandani zilokhu zenza amaphutha ezinkundleni zokuxhumana ngaso sonke isikhathi ngaphandle kokuqaphela ukuthi amaphutha lawo. Kodwa senze imibuzo ethile izimpendulo zayo ezingakusiza uqonde ukuthi kungani uqhubeka nokwenza lawa maphutha enkundla yezokuxhumana nokuthi ungawamisa kanjani. Okokuqala zibuze ukuthi kungani uzizwa unesidingo sokuposa njalo?

1. Siyini isizathu sakho sokuthunyelwa kwe-SM?

Ngemva kokuba umngane wami evumile ukuthi uthumele ukuze enze owayeyintombi yakhe abe nomona, ngabuza abangani abambalwa ngabona ukuthi iningi labo lalinezizathu ezithile zokuthi babe nomkhuba wokusebenzisa i-SM ngokweqile. Omunye wathi wayelokhu elayisha izithombe ezimbalwa ngoba wayesola ukuthi umyeni wakhe wayethandana nomuntu asebenza naye ehhovisi kanti omunye wathi ukuskrola phansi i-Facebook kwamenza wazizwa sengathi wonke umuntu uyazijabulisa futhi uma engathumeli, kwakuzozwakala sengathi akekho eqenjini labo.

Omunye umbhangqwana uthe babhekene nezinkinga zezimali abangani kanye nomndeni abambalwa abazi ngazo ngakho bebelokhu bebhala ezinkundleni zokuxhumana ukuze bakhombise ukuthi impilo ijwayelekile. Abantu banezizathu ezihlukene zokuthumela ezinkundleni zokuxhumana, futhi akuvamile ukuthi kube ngenjongo yokuzijabulisa nje kokuthola ukuthandwa okumbalwa. Ukuba nezizathu zakho kulungile, kepha uma lokho kulawula konke okuthunyelwe kwakho kusho ukuthi wenza iphutha lenkundla yezokuxhumana njengombhangqwana odinga ukukulungisa.

2. Ingabe owakwakho uyakujabulela ukuchotshozwa ngaso sonke isikhathi?

Sibonile lapho izithandani zivame ukuzenzela umathanda oyedwa ohlala emamatheka kanti omunye ubukeka sengathi uhudulelwe kusithombe ozishuthe sona engafuni. Ngenkathi omunye womshado ehamba ephethe i-selfie stick omunye ukuthola kunzima ukukhipha ukumamatheka kwesithombe.

Ingabe uphoqa owakwakho ukuthi athathe izithombe ngaso sonke isikhathi? Uma kunjalo, kufanele uyeke ukwenza lokho. Ngenxa yesidingo sakho sokubhala ezinkundleni zokuxhumana, oshade naye angase ayeke ukujabulela ukuphuma nawe. Cabanga ngakho.

3. Kudingeka yini ukuqhulula omunye komunye ku-SM?

Lokho okuthunyelwe okuguquguqukayo osukwini lokuzalwa lomunye kanye nemigubho kwenza abantu abasohlwini lwabangani bakho bazizwe becanuzelekile ngenxa yokugcwala kukashukela kukho. Ingabe uzenza isilima ngokukhuluma ngowakwakho ezinkundleni zokuxhumana? Ungase ube.
Ungasho zonke lezo zinto nokunye okuningi, kakhulu kumngane wakho womshado lapho uvuka ekuseni ngosuku lwakho olukhethekile. Ingabe udinga ukwabelana nayo yonke imizwa yakho ngomlingani wakho nomhlaba?

4. Ingabe i-PDA kufanele ibe sezinkundleni zokuxhumana?

Umngane wami washada eminyakeni embalwa edlule futhi kusukela ku-honeymoon wayehlala ebelana ngezithombe zabo zokuqabulana ku-SM. Ngemva kwesikhathi esithile, izithombe zashintsha. Siyazi ukuthi inkundla yezokuxhumana imayelana nokwenza impilo yakho yangasese ibe sesidlangalaleni kodwa qagela ukuthi kufanele ube nombono wokuthi ungahamba ibanga elingakanani.

Futhi uma ngengozi umsebenzi owufake isicelo une-HR ehlola iphrofayela yakho ye-SM, i-CV yakho ngeke ikusize ekuxabaneni kwezithombe zakho ze-PDA.

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5. Ingabe uyekile ukubona umhlaba ngaphandle kwe-lens?

Kade siseholidini neqembu labangane. Saya esiqongweni sentaba ukuze sibambe ukuphuma kwelanga okuhle. Ngokubona kwami, kwakuyisikhathi sokushwabadela inkazimulo yemvelo kodwa abangani bami bamane bachofoza futhi abakaze bayeke nakanye bajabulele ubukhazikhazi balesi sikhathi.

Ngesikhathi sibuyela phansi kwezintaba izithombe zase ziphezulu ezinkundleni zokuxhumana abantu sebexoxa emotweni othandile, ophawulayo kwase kukhohlakala nokuphuma kwelanga okuhle.

Izithandani kulezi zinsuku zijwayele ukubona impilo yazo, izikhathi zabo nge-selfie stick. Lokho kuyindlela eyingozi kakhulu.

6. Ingabe abantu bazokwazi ukuthi uyakhohlisa?

Yebo, babeyokwenza. Akunandaba ukuthi uzama kangakanani ukuthumela lezo zithombe zezithandani ezijabule, lezo zivakashi zezindawo zokudlela ezinezinkanyezi ezi-5, lezo zithombe zamaholide ezingavamile, uma kunenkinga ePharadesi abantu bangathola umoya wakho ngisho nangalezo zithombe zezithandani ezijabule.

Ngakho-ke ungahle ube ukukhohlisa isikhathi esithile kodwa izindaba zangempela zihamba ngokushesha. Ngokushesha kunezithombe ezingamanga.

7. Ingabe wabelana ngazo zonke izindaba zakho ezinhle ku-SM?

Ingabe u-hubby uthole umsebenzi omusha? Chofoza! Nansi i-SM. Ukhulelwe? Chofoza! Ikhona kuFacebook. Kodwa ingabe uye wabelana ngakho mathupha kuqala nabathandekayo bakho abaseduze nabathandekayo? Ingabe ushayele abazali bakho ucingo kuqala noma izingane zakini noma umngane wakho womshado? Cabanga ukuthi bazozwa ubuhlungu kangakanani lapho bethola izindaba ngeposi lakho le-SM.

Leli iphutha lenkundla yezokuxhumana izithandani ezivame ukulenza futhi zigcine zilimaze imindeni yazo esondelene nabangane.

8. Ingabe udinga ukubeka izingane lapho?

Umdwebo wokuqala wengane yakho eneminyaka engu-2 ubudala ungakujabulisa futhi ufune ukwabelana ngawo nomhlaba kodwa kuthiwani ngemidwebo elandelayo aqhubeka eyenza? Yonke imidwebo, isitifiketi ngasinye, zonke izithombe zomsebenzi wengane azidingi ukuthunyelwa ku-SM. Leli iphutha elibalulekile lenkundla yezokuxhumana elenziwa izithandani eziningi. Kodwa izingane azidingi ukuba sezinkundleni zokuxhumana. Zonke izingane zithola izitifiketi futhi zidwebe izithombe kodwa ugcina ukhombisa ingane yakho ngayo yonke impumelelo encane emhlabeni bese ukhulisa i-ego yazo futhi udala ukuzethemba ngokweqile. Lokhu kungaba nemiphumela emibi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.

9. Uma usezinkundleni zokuxhumana njalo kusho ukuthi niyizithandani ezenzeka kakhulu?

Akunjalo ngempela. Eminye yemibhangqwana eyenzeka kakhulu emhlabeni efana nabawine iNobel Laureates u-Abhijit Banerjee no-Esther Duflo, izinkanyezi ezifana noSaif Ali Khan noKareena Kapoor azikho ezinkundleni zokuxhumana.

Uma unephathi eqinile, udla ngaphandle noma uya ohambweni lwangezimpelaviki lokho akusho ukuthi ungumbhangqwana owenzeka kakhulu edolobheni. Abantu okwenzekayo ngokujwayelekile abanaso isikhathi sokuzibeka kuSM ngoba bamatasatasa bezuza izinto ezibaluleke kakhulu. Ngaphandle uma kunjalo, uyiPriyanka Chopra noma u-Shah Rukh Khan onethimba le-SM eliqhuba uhlelo lwakho.

10. Ingabe wenza izinkundla zokuxhumana uma uthukuthele?

Ulwe nowakwakho futhi wakuveza ezinkundleni zokuxhumana udalula ukuphela kwesikhashana ebudlelwaneni bakho nabo bonke kanye nokunye kwe-SM. Leli yiphutha le-SM abaningi osaziwayo abaqhubeka belenza kodwa kungcono ukugweme. Umthelela omubi wenkulumo esheshayo ku-FB ungazwakala ebudlelwaneni bakho. Futhi ukulwa obekungaphela ngokushesha bekungakhula kubangani abangahlosile kangako bekuthumela izeluleko nemibuzo yabo.

Vele uhlale kude nefoni yakho uma uthukuthele.

Izithandani zenza amaphutha ezinkundleni zokuxhumana futhi aziboni nokuthi lawo ngamaphutha. Ngethemba ukuthi izinkomba zethu zizokubeka endleleni efanele.

Umnikelo wakho awuyona iminikelo yokusiza . Kuzovumela i-Bonobology ukuthi iqhubeke nokukulethela ulwazi olusha nolusesikhathini njengoba sifuna ukusiza noma ubani emhlabeni ukuthi afunde ukwenza noma yini.