Ungalubonakalisa Kanjani Uthando Ngokusebenzisa Umthetho Wokuheha

Ukuba sothandweni kungesinye sezipho ezinkulu kakhulu zokuphila futhi uma uthola umuntu obuyisela uthando lwakho ngothando olulinganayo, kungaba okuhlangenwe nakho okushintsha impilo. Kuthiwani uma bekutshele ukuthi ngokuqonda indlela yokubonisa uthando, ungathatha isinyathelo sokufeza amaphupho akho abe ngokoqobo?

Singabona ukuthi lokhu ubuzile, kodwa ingabe ukubonakaliswa kuyasebenza? Hhayi-ke, lokho kumane kuyindida. Ungayenza ikusebenzele kuphela uma ukholwa ukuthi izokusebenzela. Iningi labelaphi bamandla kanye nabemimoya banamuhla bafakazela amandla okubonakaliswa. Lezi zindlela zingaba namandla kakhulu. Uyafuna ukwazi ukuthi yini edingekayo ukuze uthando lwakho lube khona futhi wakhe ubudlelwano obuhle nozakwethu wamaphupho akho? Asicwilise phakathi.

Ukuze sixoxe nathi ngamandla okubonakaliswa kanye nokusebenzisa amasu okubonakaliswa kanye noMthetho Wokuheha ukuze sibonakalise uthando, sixoxe noShivanya Yogmayaa , ongumeluleki wezinkanyezi kanye nomqeqeshi wobudlelwano nokusondelana. Asihlanganyeli nawe amathiphu akhe ochwepheshe kuphela okuthi singakulethela kanjani lokho okufiswa yinhliziyo yakho kodwa futhi nalokho obekulokhu kuza phakathi kwakho nobudlelwano bothando bamaphupho akho kuze kube manje.

Kuyini Ukubonakaliswa Kothando Nomthetho Wokuheha?

U-Anamika Deb, umdwebi wezitayela ose-Australia ukholelwa kakhulu kuMthetho Wokuheha. Ngisho nangaphambi kokuba ahlangane futhi athandane nomyeni wakhe wamanje, uSanjay, waqala ukuveza ubuhlobo bakhe. “Ngangibanjwe emshadweni omubi ngaphambi kwalokhu, okwaphela ngesehlukaniso esibi. Kodwa angizange ngilahle ithemba. Ngazama ukubhala phansi lokho engangikulindele lapho ngiqala ubuhlobo obusha , kuze kube semininingwaneni yokugcina. Ngangicabanga ngezimo zendlela esasizoziphatha ngayo nokuthi wayezonginakekela kanjani,” kusho yena.

Kwakungelula kodwa uAnamika esecosha intambo yempilo yakhe, izimo ziholele ekutheni ahlangane nendoda axhumane nayo ngaso leso sikhathi. Indaba ende, bathandana futhi manje bajabule emshadweni. “Le yindlela engalubonisa ngayo uthando nomlingani wami ophelele kusukela emcabangweni kuya eqinisweni,” kunezela u-Anamika. Lokho kuchaza ukubonakaliswa ngamafuphi. Ukuletha okuthile okuphathekayo okufiswa inhliziyo yakho ekuphileni, ngenhloso, inkolelo, kanye nokucabanga okuhle.

Manje njengoba sesithinte umqondo wokubonakaliswa, ake sibheke nomunye umqondo ohlobene kakhulu nawo - uMthetho Wokuheha. Ngakho-ke, uyini uMthetho Wokuheha? Njengoba ithandwa yincwadi kaRhonda Byrne ethengiswa kakhulu emhlabeni wonke, i-The Secret , i-LoA imayelana nokuheha okufana. Imicabango emihle ikubeka engqondweni enhle noma "imvamisa" enhle, eheha imiphumela emihle. Futhi, ngokuphambene nalokho. I-mantra elula yamagama amathathu ithi: Cela, kholwa futhi wamukele - ngaleyo ndlela futhi ngokugcizelela okufanayo!

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Encwadini nakuyi-movie, i-The Secret , ukuhlukahluka kanye nokuthembeka kwamandla okubonakaliswa kanye noMthetho Wokuheha kuqhathaniswa nemithetho yendawo yonke njengomthetho wamandla adonsela phansi. Uthi, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uyakholelwa kuwo noma cha, ukubonakaliswa kuyasebenza! “Uhlala uheha,” kusho uShivanya, “Kukuwe ngokuphelele ukusebenzisa amandla oMthetho Wokuheha ukuthola lokho okufunayo empilweni, okuhlanganisa nothando.”

Nakuba uMthetho ngokwawo ulula, ukuwusebenzisa ukuze ubonakalise ngamabomu lokho okufisayo akulula ikakhulukazi, kudinga ingxenye efanele yomsebenzi wangaphakathi. Ukuze ufunde ukuthi yini engena endleleni nokuthi ungayilungisa kanjani, funda kusengaphambili

Kungani Ngingalutholi Uthando?

Ukuze uqonde ukuthi ungaluheha kanjani uthando, kungasiza ukuqala ngokuthi kungani ubulokhu ulususa uthando . UJerry no-Esther Hicks, abavame ukubizwa ngokuthi u-Abraham Hicks, bangochwepheshe abadumile be-Law of Attraction, izikhulumi, nababhali. Beluleka abantu ukuba bavumelane nemvamisa yalokho abakufisayo, noma “babe semoyeni”, noma babe sesimweni senjabulo. “Beka amandla akho ekujabuleni, futhi uvumele indawo yonke isebenzele wena.”

Akulula ukufika ekuqondaniseni nemvamisa yalokho okufisayo uma kukhona amandla ajulile ngaphakathi kuwe akudala ukuthi udlidlize ngefrikhwensi ehlukile. Nawa amanye "amandla" okungenzeka abangela ukumelana nawe, angavumeli umlingo ukuthi wenzeke:

1. Ucabanga ukuthi awukufanele

Ukuthi othile ukholelwa emikhubeni yeminyaka emisha efana nokukhangwa, ukuvezwa, umzila, njll noma cha, ukuzethemba ngokuvamile kuyisici esibaluleke kakhulu esivezwa odokotela abasakhula kanye nodokotela bengqondo bendabuko. Mhlawumbe, kunengxenye yakho - ungazi - engavumeli uthando empilweni yakho ngoba uzizwa sengathi awukufanele.

Uchwepheshe odumile we-Law of Attraction, uthisha nombhali, u-Louise Hay ukubiza ngokuthi “ukufaneleka”. UShivanya naye uthi, “Kungenzeka ukuthi ufela uthando, ucela uthando, kodwa uma ungakufuni ukuthola uthando, luzofika kanjani kuwe?” Kalula nje, awukwazi ukuthola uthando noma ukuheha uhlobo lothando ofuna ukuba nalo ngoba ucabanga ukuthi alukufanele. Lokhu kungase kubangele okulandelayo:

• Ukuzenyeza noma ukuzenza kabi kungase kubangele ukuthi uzicekele phansi impilo yakho yothando
• Ungase uzenzele ukwehluleka ngokukhetha umuntu ongafanele, noma umuntu ongatholakali
• Ungase ugxile kakhulu kumuntu kunokuba ugxile eqophelweni lothando ngokwalo 
• Ungase uxazulule ngokuba nezindinganiso eziphansi zobudlelwano ozicabangela wena ngokwakho
• Awuzibeki lapho, unciphisa amathuba akho okuhlangana nomuntu

2. Unezinkolelo eziphikisanayo ngalokho okufunayo

Ungase ungakuqapheli kodwa ungase uxhume ngokunganaki ezinkolelweni eziphambene. Uma usondela ohambweni lwakho lokuzibonakalisa ngokungabaza, uzibuza, "Ingabe ukubonakaliswa kuyasebenza?", kungenzeka ukuthi ukuthole kunzima ukubona imiphumela. Ngokufanayo, ungase ube nezinkolelo ezijulile eziphikisanayo, imibono, noma imizwa ephathelene nothando, ubudlelwano, noma abanye abantu abakuphazamisayo.

U-Shivanya wabelana ngendaba yeklayenti lesilisa esizolibiza ngo-Bob ukuze sivikele ubumfihlo bakhe, ukuze asisize sikuqonde kangcono lokhu.

• Ucwaningo lwesigameko: Igama leklayenti, u-Bob (igama elingelona iqiniso), Ubudala, 42. UBob ubekade efuna uthando. Njengoba nje wayefuna ukuba a ukuxhumana komphefumulo okujulile nomuntu, ikakhulukazi wagcina esebenzelana ngokukha phezulu nabesifazane
• Ukuthola: Kanye nomqeqeshi wakhe wokuzibonakalisa, ukwenyanya okujulile okujulile kwabesifazane kwembulwa, okwakunomsuka wako ebudlelwaneni obudlule lapho akhohliswa khona. Kwacaca ukuthi nakuba ayefuna owesifazane wamaphupho akhe, akazange abone ukuthi unezahlulelo ezihlukene ngobulili besifazane.
• Umphumela: Ngomsebenzi omuhle wangaphakathi nokuzijwayeza ukubonga nokuthethelela, ngaphansi kokuqondisa komqeqeshi wakhe wokuzibonakalisa, akwazi ukubhekana nomsuka wenkinga futhi ekugcineni athole umdlalo wakhe ophelele.

3. Kungase kube khona amandla angaphandle adlalayo angaphezu kwamandla akho

Uma ungakhethi noma yiliphi lamabhokisi angenhla kodwa ungalutholi uthando, impendulo ingafihlwa ku-astrology. UShivanya uthi, “Ungathola impendulo yezinkinga zakho zothando ngokufunda impilo yakho yangaphambilini, i-astrology yobudlelwano be-karmic , noma olunye uhlaziyo lwezinkanyezi. Abeluleki bezinkanyezi bangakusiza ukuthi ubheke amashadi akho futhi ubone ukuthi kukhona yini ukuvumelana phakathi kwalokho okufunayo nokuthi izinkanyezi zakho zibukeka kanjani.”

Iphuzu liwukuthi, izithiyo phakathi kwakho nempilo yakho yothando aziyona into eyodwa. Futhi lezo yizindaba ezibalulekile. Ungakwazi ukukhombisa ubudlelwano bakho obuhle hhayi ngokusebenzisa inqubo eyodwa, kodwa ngokusebenzisa indlela ebanzi yokubhekana nezinkolelo zakho ezikhawulelayo ngokusekelwe eqinisweni lakho lamanje. 

Ungalubonakalisa Kanjani Uthando Ngokushesha Ngokusebenzisa Umthetho Wokuheha

Ochwepheshe baphawule ukuthi izinkolelo ezizibekela imingcele ngothando, ukungabaza, kanye nezitayela zokunamathela ezingavikelekile kuzodala izithiyo ekuboniseni uthando. Njengakwezinye izinto, uma ufuna ukuheha uthando empilweni yakho, udinga ukudala isikhala salo kuqala. Kufanele ulungele ngokwengqondo ukuthola izipho indawo yonke ezokunikeza zona. Uma ungawazi ubuciko bokwamukela, ubungeke wazi ukuthi ungalubonisa kanjani uthando.

Umthetho Wokuheha nokubonakaliswa akukhona nje UKUBUZA lokho okufunayo. Kumele UKHOLWE kakhulu ukuthi izokusebenzela, bese uzilungiselela UKUYOKUTHOLA. Nawa amanye amasu okulungiselela ukuthola okufunayo ngokuthemba ukuthi kuzofika:

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1. Kholwa ukuthi ulufanele uthando nokuthi kuzokwenzeka

Ukwazi ukuthi ungalubonisa kanjani uthando kuwukukholelwa ukuthi uthando lukhona nokuthi luzokuza kuwe. Ungangabazi, ngisho nomzuzwana, ukuthi awufanelekeli uthando. Ngokusekelwe ebuhlotsheni bakho bangaphambilini , okuhlangenwe nakho kwakho, kanye nokudumazeka, ungase ulingeke ukuba ukholelwe ngenye indlela. Unganaki imicabango enjalo bese ubeka izinhloso ezicacile.

Eqinisweni, kuphakanyiswa ukuthi wenze sengathi usunayo kakade. Cha, lokhu akukona ukugqoka indandatho yomshado noma ukushintsha isibongo sakho ngaphandle komlingani. Noma ukuphatha intshisekelo yothando njengokungathi usunobudlelwano nabo. Lokhu kumayelana nokuzwa ukuthi ubungazizwa kanjani ukube bekuzokwenzeka kakade.

U-Abraham Hicks uyiqhathanisa nokukhulelwa kwengane. Bathi, "Nakuba ungase ungamgodle umntwana, unokholo lokuthi uyeza. Uyakwazi. Ungakwazi ukuzwa ukulindela, umdlandla, kanye nenjabulo. Uyamethemba! Umlingani wakho ofanelekayo, impilo yakho efanelekile, konke kukhona. Kuyeza! Kuzofika ngesikhathi sakho. Kufanele uthembele!" 

2. Beka phansi lokho okufunayo ngokucacile

Isinyathelo esilandelayo ukuba nombono ocacile ngalokho okufunayo. Lokhu kudinga ukuzicabangela. Uma ucacile, kulula kakhulu ukukholelwa nokugxila. Umthetho Wokukhanga awuvumeli ukungabaza okuningi. Bhala phansi izimfanelo zobudlelwano obuhle , uhlobo lokuxhumana olufunayo, kanye nezici zomlingani wakho wamaphupho. Zidwebe. Ochwepheshe bakweluleka ukuthi wenze umkhuba wakho wokubonakaliswa ngemisho yokuvuma, ngesikhathi samanje esingenamibandela. Nansi indlela:

• Esikhundleni se: “Ngifuna ubudlelwano nendoda eqotho”
• Ithi: “Ngithandana nendoda eqotho”
• Esikhundleni se: “Umlingani wami uzonginakekela/uzonginakekela”
• Ithi: “Umlingani wami uyanginakekela”
• Esikhundleni se: “Angimfuni umuntu wesifazane othanda ingxabano empilweni yami”
• Ithi: “Kulula ukuxoxa nomuntu engithandana naye”

Kunjalo, ngenkathi uvunyelwe ukuvumela umcabango wakho ukuba uphazamiseke, gcina uhlu lwakho lunokwenzeka, noma into ongakholelwa kuyo. Uma umgomo ozibekela wona ubonakala ungenakwenzeka kuwe, uzovumela ukungabaza kungene. Kugcine kungokoqobo futhi ukubhale phansi ngenkolelo eqinile.

Lolu hlobo lokubhalwa kwamaphepha luwumsebenzi obalulekile wokomoya njengoba lunikeza isimo esiphathekayo ezifisweni zakho namaphupho akho. Ngezinye izikhathi, ungase ufune nokuvakashela kabusha uhlu lwakho futhi ululungise. Sekukonke, lokhu kwenza okucelayo endaweni yonke kucace kakhudlwana futhi kufane, kuthuthukise amathuba okuthi ukubonakaliswa kothando kwakho kube ngokoqobo.

3. Zindla ngomlingani wakho futhi ubone ngeso lengqondo impilo naye

Lesi yisikhathi sokugxila kakhulu embonweni wakho. Manje njengoba usunenkolelo nokucaca ngalokho okufanele ukubheke ebudlelwaneni kanye nohlobo lothando ofuna ukuluheha empilweni yakho, zindla ngalo. Zizungeze nabantu abakholelwa embonweni wakho - labo abafuna ube nalolu hlobo lothando lwamaphupho empilweni yakho.

Ukuzindla nakho kuyithuba lokubuka ngeso lengqondo. Zibone ngeso lengqondo usothandweni. Bona ngeso lengqondo ukuthi kungakwenza uzizwe kanjani. Ngena ekudlidlizeni kokuba sothandweni. Ziphathe sengathi usukutholile obukufuna. Zijabulise ngokuzithanda nokuzinakekela. "Ngesikhathi ngibhala kujenali yami ngendoda engangifuna ukuyiheha, ngabeka ukubaluleka okukhulu kimina - indlela engangifuna ukuphathwa ngayo nokunakekelwa. Ngazigcina ngigxilile. Yileyo ndlela engalubonisa ngayo uthando," kusho u-Anamika.

Faka ukuqinisekiswa kwansuku zonke ekusebenzeni kwakho kokubonakaliswa. Iziqinisekiso ziyizitatimende ezinhle ogxila kuzo futhi uziphindaphinde ukuze ubhale phezu kombhalo ophambene onawo engqondweni yakho. Ungabhala phansi izitatimende ezimbalwa ngokusekelwe ezinseleleni zakho eziyingqayizivele nawe. Izibonelo ezimbalwa zeziqinisekiso zokukhombisa uthando yilezi:

• ngiyazithanda
• Ngithola uthando yonke indawo engiya kuyo
• Ngifanele ubudlelwano obunempilo, obujabulisayo, nothando
• Ngivulekele ukuvumela uthando lungene
• Kuyenzeka izinto ezinhle. Umaqondana wami usendleleni

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4. Qondanisa izenzo zakho nombono wakho

Ukuphupha nje ukuthola umuntu ukuthi akuthande ngeke kusebenze. “Futhi kudingeka wenze umzamo wokuzenza utholakale ukuze uvumele uthando lungene,” kusho uShivanya. Ukuthatha isinyathelo esihambisana namaphupho akho kubalulekile. Izindaba ezinhle ukuthi: awudingi ukuthatha elinye imayela ukuze ubonise uthando empilweni yakho.

Uma usuwazi enhliziyweni yakho nasemphefumulweni wakho ukuthi ufunani, uzosebenzela ngokwemvelo ukukufeza futhi indawo yonke izokunikeza amathuba ahambisana nomgomo wakho. Okudingeka ukwenze nje ukuqaphela izimpawu. Uyazi, uma uzizwa ukhangwa othile, naye uyakuzwa lokho ! Bangase bazame ukukuthinta, kodwa kufanele uqondiswe imvamisa efanele njengomsakazo.

Zakhele futhi uzibeke lapho. Ungabi namahloni. Ngakho-ke yebo, ungase udinge ukuphuma ngezinsuku ezimbalwa, ube namandla kakhudlwana kuhlelo lokusebenza lokuqomisana osanda kulilanda, futhi unikeze abanye abantu ithuba. Ungazizwa unamathele kakhulu kumphumela wedethi ngayinye, vele uhambe nokugeleza. Uma inomuntu olungile, izosebenza ngomlingo.

5. Nikela futhi uzwe ukubonga

“Njengoba wenza konke lokhu, ungayeki ukuphila, abantu bavame ukuthi, “Ngize ngithole umaqondana, impilo yami ayingifanele. Lokho, futhi, kukubeka esimweni sokumelana nokungavumelani kahle,” kusho uShivanya. Umthetho Wokuheha nokubonakaliswa uthi akufanele ukhathazeke ngokuthi uzothola kanjani okufunayo (kulokhu, uthando). Lelo yikhanda lendawo yonke. Umsebenzi wakho uwukwenza isifiso, ucele lokho okufunayo, ukholelwe ukuthi isifiso sakho sizofezeka, bese udedela ngokuphelele.

Ukubonga kuyingxenye ebalulekile yale nqubo yonke. Kunobufakazi obanele bocwaningo lwezengqondo oluhle ngezinzuzo zokubonga ekuzithembeni komuntu kanye nenhlalakahle yengqondo. Njengoba kushiwo kulolu cwaningo , “Ukubonga abanye, ukubonga uNkulunkulu, ukwazisa izibusiso, ukwazisa ubunzima, kanye nokwazisa isikhathi (…) kuthinte kahle inhlalakahle yengqondo, okuhlanganisa ukucindezeleka, ukuzethemba, kanye nenhlalakahle yengqondo.”

Ngakho-ke, zijwayeze ukubonga. Futhi, okwamanje, gxila ekubeni inguqulo yakho engcono kakhulu. Nikeza entandweni yendawo yonke ngaphandle kokunamathela kumphumela onembe kakhulu noma uqine kakhulu. Jabula ngamathuba. Indawo yonke ingase ikumangaze ngezinketho ezingcono nakakhulu kunalokho obungase ucabange ngakho.

Uthando lweqiniso alulona uhlaka. Kulapha ngawe ukuthi ufune futhi uthande ukubonakaliswa kumayelana nokwenza lelo phupho libe ngokoqobo ngoMthetho Wokuheha. Uma usuzibekele izinhloso zakho, uveze isifiso sakho, futhi ubeke amadlingozi afanele endaweni yonke ubambelele enkolelweni futhi uphile impilo yokubonga, uthando lweqiniso - uhlobo olukufanele - luzoza kuwe nakanjani.

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