"Me pēhea koe e mōhio ai he pono?" te pātai a taku hoa pai, me te reo pouri. I pātai mai ia ki ahau mō te āhua o te aroha pono i roto i te whanaungatanga. Engari he aha ia i pātai mai ai i tēnei me te reo pouri, tera pea koe e whakaaro. Āe, i tangi ia i te pouri nā te mea kua toru tekau mā ono ōku wā i aroha ai! Āe, kāore au i te whakanui rawa.
Ahakoa te riri o taku hoa ki ahau, e hiahia ana ahau ki te whakapono kāore au i te mokemoke i tēnei rapunga mō te aroha pono, ahakoa te aha – ahakoa he 36 ngā wā e arohaina ana. Heoi, i waiho mai e tana pātai he kare ā-roto o te hiahia mō te āhua o te aroha pono. Ā, ko te mea nui ake, me pēhea koe e mōhio ai he aroha pono tāu e whiwhi nei me tētahi atu tangata? Ā, āhea te kaha o taua kare ā-roto o te aroha ki te kī, "Koia tēnei. Ko ia te tangata"? Kia hohonu ake tā tātou rapunga me te tumanako ka kitea ētahi whakautu.
He aha te aroha pono i roto i te whanaungatanga?
Ripanga o Ihirangi
He tākuta whare māua i tō māua kura tuatahi. I whai ia i ōku oranga aroha i roto i ngā tau e whā me te hawhe o te kāreti hauora, i roto i ngā mahi tauira, ā, i reira tonu ia, e aroha ana engari e pouri ana, i roto i te mahi whare tuarua, ā, kāore au i mutu te aroha.
"Ka mōhio ahau ki ngā tohu o te aroha pono, ka mōhio ahau," ka mea atu ahau, me te māia pērā i te tangata aroha kua tino mōhiotia. Kua kite kē tetahi o ngā toa wahine o taku Mills and Boons i tētahi wā e kore I mōhiotia te aroha pono i te wā i pā ai ki te kanohi o rātou? Ka mōhio ahau. Ka mōhio ahau, tika?
"He ngeru mataku koe!" Kāore a Ranj i tuku. I whakapau kaha ia ki te whakaae i ahau he tangata mangere ahau! "Ko tāu e hiahia ana ko ngā tāne kāore e taea te whakatutuki! Ko ō mahi pakihi he mea noa iho." aroha taha kotahi! "Ehara i te aroha noa iho ēnei; he..." ruru ana ia i tōna māhunga e ngana ana ki te kimi i te kupu tika. "He pono ngahere"Kāore koe e rapu ana i te whakapau kaha."
I te rongonga i tēnā, ka tino pōuri ahau! He mea whakapouri te whakaiti i aku aroha nui e toru tekau mā ono ki te taumata o te aroha, engari i aukati i ahau ki te whakahoki kupu kino. I roto i te hinengaro, i mōhio ahau he tika a Ranj. I mōhio ia ki ahau pērā i ahau i mōhio ki ahau anō. He wā whakangahau noa iho taku oranga aroha nui, e ai ki te kōrero. Ka pōuri ahau ki tētahi tāne nā te mea he tino pai tana tākaro poitūkohu, he whakaako rānei i a mātou ki ngā ariā pokanga whakamiharo.
Ko te tohu he āhuatanga ōrite kei roto i aku aroha katoa, ā, kua tino tika te whakatau a Ranj; me poto ake rātou i ahau, ā, me wareware rawa atu rātou i ahau. Āe, i whakaaro ahau, kāore au i te tino hiahia ki te aroha. Kei te aroha noa ahau ki te whakaari o te aroha koreutu.
Tērā pea i hē ahau…
I tirotirohia e au ngā taunakitanga: Kāore rawa au i titiro matatau ki ngā tāne he roa ake i ahau. Ka ngaro tonu taku aroha ina tahuri mai te tangata e arohaina ana e au, ka titiro tuarua mai ki ahau. Kāore au i te rite ki te whakaae, i kite ahau, me te ohorere. He ngeru mataku ahau! I titiro pōuri ahau ki taku hoa pai mō te tango i ngā ārai i ōku kanohi. I huri taku aroha toru tekau mā ono hei pungarehu i muri i te tīmatanga. He aha te aroha pono i roto i te whanaungatanga? I te mārama, kāore au i te mōhio. Kāore hoki au i te rongo i te aroha pono, i te whanaungatanga pono rānei.
"Ehara te aroha pono i te mea ko te kī noa 'Kei te aroha ahau ki a koe', engari ko te whakaatu mā te mahi tonu."
Kātahi ka hinga taku tuahine, a Tin, he tekau mā rima marama te pakeke ake, ki te ataahua o tētahi 'tama tāne tika' i roto i te Ope Taua Inia, ā, ka moea ia e ia. I taua wā tonu, ka tīmata ahau ki te rongo i te pēhanga o ngā tumanakohanga a te whānau mō tētahi marena whakarite. Ka tīmata te rapu. He mahi uaua. Me teitei ake ia i ahau (e rima putu tekau ōku waewae tahanga); he tākuta (tōku hiahia) ā, he whakapono nō tōku whānau). Ā, me kore ia e noho mai i ngā ratonga tiaki (i a au ēnei i ngā tau katoa o tōku tipu ake, kāore au i hiahia kia whai wira anō ōku waewae!)
He mahi whakamataku tēnei. I mahara ahau ki ngā kupu a Ranj, "Me pēhea koe e mōhio ai? Me pēhea koe e mōhio ai kei te aroha tetahi ki a koe, ā, ka manaaki i a koe mō te toenga o tō oranga?" Mehemea kāore au i te mōhio? Mehemea i hē ahau?
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I tīmata ahau ki te tūtaki ki ngā tāne e rapu ana i te aroha parakore
Ko te hoa rangatira tuatahi i whakaritea māku kia tūtaki ko tētahi tākuta i whānau mai, i tipu ake hoki i Amerika. He māmā noa iho tēnā. Kāore au i hiahia ki te noho ki tāwāhi. He tino ātaahua ia ki te titiro engari kāore au i te māharahara ki reira. He whakakorekore noa iho, kāore hoki he whakaaro tuarua.
Ko te mea i muri mai he mea whakamīharo hoki; he tākuta, he roa (he mārama), he tangata nerdy. He hiahia tonu taku ki te whakaipoipo i tētahi tāne nerdy. Ko te taha kē? E toru tekau mā rua ōna tau ki taku rua tekau mā toru tau, ā, he Virgo 'e mau ana ōna waewae ki runga i te whenua' ki taku Sagittarius 'rere'. Ahakoa rā, i wiri ahau, ā, i waiata taku ngākau; engari e toru tekau mā ono ngā wā i ngaua ai ahau, nō reira i whakatau ahau kia kaua e peke i ngā waewae e rua i te tuatahi. I tūtaki anō māua, i kōrero māua mō ngā mahi hauora, i rongo tonu ahau i te hiko. He tino mea anō. te whanaungatanga hinengaro reira.
"Kia pai katoa," i whakaaro ahau. "Me titiro tātou mēnā ka tahuri ahau i muri ka oma, pērā i taku mahi i ngā wā katoa." Kātahi ia ka kōrero i ngā kupu hei whakarerekē i tōku ao ake tonu atu. "He mea tēnei me mōhio koe," i mea ia, me te titiro maia ki ōku kanohi. "He kōhao kei roto i tōku ngākau, he mea iti, engari ahakoa rā, he mea tēnei me mōhio koe i mua i tō whakatau. Kua pā ki ahau te aroha parakore i tētahi wā, ā, i pakaru tōku ngākau. Ka whakapau kaha ahau ki te hoatu ki a koe te mea e tika ana māu, engari kāore e taea e au te oati he aha te nui o tēnā."
Āue! I te wā i pau i a ia ki te manawa, kua oti i ahau te whakatau. He tangata utu nui taua tangata. Ehara i te mea ko ia anake te mea i whakaoho i te toto i roto i ōku uaua, engari he toa, he pono hoki ia, pērā i tētahi atu hōia. Mena i pono ia mō ngā raraunga pea ka whakapae i mua i taku whakaae, he aha ngā pūkenga ka kitea e au i muri i tā māua marena?
Te pānui e pā ana: E rua tekau tau o te whakaipoipo, ā, kei te tatari tonu ki te aroha
Me pēhea te mōhio mēnā he aroha pono?
Ki taku whakaaro, kua oti te whakarite. Engari kāore au i te hiahia kia ngāwari ake māna. I rapu au i tētahi mea hei whakawehi i a ia. "Āe, āe..." ka mea atu au, kia kaua e tukua kia hinga, "He tohu totoro kei taku tuara. Ā, he koha rewharewha tēnā kei taku rae." I tatari ahau.
Ātaata ana ia. "Ki taku whakaaro i tere rawa tō tipu ake, kāore i taea e tō kiriuhi pūtau te pupuri. Ā, ko taua tohu porowhita i tō rae? Kāore au e kite ana!" He tangata ātaahua, he tangata whakakatakata hoki e whakaae ana ki ahau mō taku āhua?
"Nō reira, āhea tāua ka marena ai?" ka pātai atu ahau, me te manawanui kore, he rite tonu ki te Wahine Sagittarius taea.
"Kia ata noho," te kī a te Wahine Waikura. "He aha koe te tuku ai i ō mātua kia whakatau?"
E kore rawa e mutu ngā mea whakamiharo? He tangata ātaahua, manawanui, whakaute ki te whānau, me te wairua whakakatakata. Ko tā te tākuta tonu i whakahau ai. Toru tekau tau i muri mai, i ahau e tuhituhi ana i tēnei, ka kite ahau ka taea e koe te kite i te wā e titiro mai ana te mea tūturu ki tō kanohi. He aha te aroha pono i roto i te whanaungatanga? E mōhio ana ahau inaianei.
FAQs
1. Me pēhea koe e mōhio ai kua kitea e koe te aroha pono?
Kāore he whakautu kotahi, engari ko te aroha pono he hononga hohonu ki ngā kare ā-roto, he tautoko pumau, me te whakapau kaha tonu ki te mārama me te tipu tahi me tō hoa.
2. Ka taea e te aroha pono te ora tonu i roto i ngā whanaungatanga tawhiti?
Ae, mā te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero tuwhera, te whakapau kaha tonu, me te whakapau kaha ki te whanaungatanga, ka taea e te aroha pono te tupu tonu ahakoa tawhiti.
3. He aha ētahi tohu kino i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga e tohu ana ehara i te aroha pono?
Ko te kore whakaute tonu, te kore whakawhitiwhiti kōrero, te ngenge tonu, me te kore tautoko, ētahi o ngā tohu kino pea.
Thoughts Final
He wheako ahurei, he wheako hohonu hoki te aroha pono. He haerenga tipu, he māramatanga, he tautoko pumau. Kia maumahara he mea nui te atawhai i te aroha ki a koe anō hei whakawhanake i ngā whanaungatanga hauora, whai hua hoki. Ahakoa kāore he whakamāramatanga kotahi mō te aroha pono, he maha ngā wā ka uru atu ki roto he hononga kare ā-roto hohonu, te whakaute tetahi ki tetahi, me te whakapau kaha ki te hanga i tētahi hononga pumau, aroha hoki.
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Ehara te aroha i te akiaki i tētahi ki te mahi i tētahi mea. Ka puta noa mai. Koinei te wā e mōhio ai koe ki te "aroha tūturu". Mena kei te harikoa kōrua ko tō hoa aroha, ā, kei te mārama hoki tetahi ki tetahi, kua pā ki a kōrua te momo aroha tino tika!
Āe! He tino tika tāu, e Saloni!