18 Ngā Mea e Tautokona ana e te Pūtaiao hei Whakaoho i ngā Wahine

He aha te mea e tino whakaohooho ana i ngā wāhine? Tērā pea tētahi o ngā pātai e whakaaroarohia ana e ngā tāne, tuarua ki te "He aha ngā mea e hiahiatia ana e ngā wāhine?" Nā te mana o te tāne rangatira, te koretake o te mātauranga moepuku, me te ahurea rongonui e aro ana ki te whakahāngai i ngā wāhine ki tētahi mea, he uaua ki te kimi i te whakautu ki tēnei pātai. He iti noa ngā kōrero mō ngā hiahia o ngā wāhine, mō te moepuku rānei, ā, ko ngā mea katoa kei reira ka tirotirohia, ka whakarerekētia rānei kia rite ki ngā momo whakaaro o nāianei. 

Engari kei te huri haere ngā mea, me te hītori tirotiro a te tāne noa, e rapu ana i ngā mea pēnei i te "Pornhub", "Premier League", me te "Speed ​​test" i roto i te Google, engari ko ngā mea pēnei i te "Me pēhea te kimi i te kiore?" me te "He aha te mea e whakaohooho ana i te wahine ki te tāne", me te "He mea whakaohooho te pahau ki ngā wāhine?" Engari he whānui te ipurangi, ā, he maha ngā wā ka hē te huarahi. Kei konei mātou hei whakamārama atu ki a koe, me te āwhina a te kaiako whanaungatanga me te whanaungatanga. Shivanya Yogmayaa (kua whai tiwhikete ā-ao mō ngā tikanga rongoā o te EFT, NLP, CBT, REBT), he tohunga ki ngā momo momo kaunihera mō ngā tāne me ngā wāhine. He maha ngā tirohanga pai e tukuna ana e ia hei āwhina i a koe ki te kimi huarahi ngawari hei whakaoho i a ia.

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Mō te wā roa, kua tau ngā wāhine ki ngā oranga moepuku kāore i te makona, e whakaari ana kua eke ki te taumata o te orgasm, kāore anō kia tino pā ki tētahi, nā te kore mōhio, nā te wehi rānei kei whakaititia ō rātou hoa. Engari kei te huri haere te wā. Kua nui ake te kōrero a ngā wāhine mō te kore o te harikoa. Ā, nā tēnā kua whakaaro te tini o ngā tāne ki ngā mea e whakaoho ana i te wairua o te wahine. 

Ki te mea ko koe tētahi o aua tāne e whakaaro ana he rawe ia i te moenga nā te mea kāore tō hoa e hamama i te mamae, me kī atu ahau ki a koe: Me whakapai ake koe. He aha ai?

• Kia pai ake ai te wheako mō kōrua
• Kia ora tonu ai te whanaungatanga nā te mea te hiranga me te hiranga o te taatai ​​​​i roto i te whanaungatanga e kore e taea te waiho
• Ka pai tō wairua ki te pai tō wairua ki tō hoa moepuku
• Nā te mea ko te iti rawa

Hei whakatutuki i tēnā, anei ngā whakautu 18 e tautokona ana e te pūtaiao ki tāu pātai, arā, he aha ngā mea e whakaohooho ana i te wahine:

1. He tinana pakari hauora tōu

Kua mau tonu te pūrākau mō te tinana tino uaua hei tinana tāne tino pai i roto i te ahurea rongonui. Heoi anō, rangahau e kī ana he tinana hauora me te 16% ngako me te 80% ōwehenga uaua he mea ātaahua. Kei roto i te awhe ngako hauora o te 8–21% ēnei tau mō ngā tāne Pākehā hauora. He mea whakamere ki te kite ko te kaha o te uaua e kiia ana he mea ātaahua i roto i ngā whanaungatanga poto, e ai ki te whakaaro a akoNō reira, ki te mea kei te whakaaro koe me pēhea te whakaoho i te ngākau o tō hoa, te whakapai ake rānei i tō oranga moepuku, anei ētahi mea hei maumahara māu:

• Ngāna kia mau tonu te hauora o te tinana
• He pai te papatipu uaua engari kāore e haere ki te tūhura i ngā kōwhiringa hauora kore pēnei i te kai nui rawa, ngā tāpiringa rānei ka pā kino pea.
• Kia arotahi ki te uaua mō te whanaungatanga poto, me te tinana hauora mō te whanaungatanga roa

Hiwanya e mea ana, "Ahakoa kua rerekē ngā wā, he nui tonu te mahi a te hinengaro whanaketanga ki ngā mea e kitea ana e ngā wāhine he mea ātaahua ki te tāne. Ngā tohu o nga mahi ira tangata tuku iho "He rite ki te tinana uaua, ki te pahau rānei, he tūranga tiaki tēnei mā ngā tāne. Ka aro ēnei āhuatanga ki te wahinetanga o te wahine, ā, ka noho hei mea whakahihiri tinana mā te kōtiro."

2. He pai te kounga o ō makawe kanohi, ā, kua āta whakapaipaihia hoki

rangahau e kī ana ko te huruhuru papaku ki te huruhuru matotoru he mea tāne ake ki ngā wāhine i te kanohi heu ma. He pai ake hoki te pai o te pahau matotoru i te kanohi heu ma, engari he āhua pāpā pea, ā, he pai ake i roto i te whanaungatanga roa. Hei whakaoho i tōna ngākau,  

• Whakatipuhia he kakau witi. Kia ātaahua.
• rangahau e kī ana ko te tipu o te 5-10 rā te mea tino pai ki ngā wāhine hei mea ātaahua, nō reira me kuti tonu te rakau

3. He tino pai tō reo tinana

E mea ana a Shivanya, "Ko te mea e kitea ana e ngā wāhine he mea whakamīharo ki ētahi tāne, ko tā rātou whakamīharo i ō rātou hinengaro i te tuatahi, kātahi ko ō rātou tinana. Kei a rātou tēnei aura, ehara i te mea e ngana ana rātou māu, engari kua riro kē koe i a rātou. Ā, ka whakapuakina katoatia ēnei mea mā roto i ō rātou reo tinana." rangahau e kī ana ko te tū whānui me te hikoi whakahaere e whakaata ana i te maia, ā, e whakanui ana i te hiahia o te tangata. Ka ngaro ngā kākahu me ngā kakara pai i ngā tāne kāore e taea te kawe i a rātou anō. Ko te tū pai ehara i te mea he tinana hauora anake engari he ataahua me te mana whakahaere. Nō reira, 

• Whakatū tika ō pakihiwi i a koe e hikoi ana, kaua e piko
• Kia ara ake tō kauae. Haere me te hiki ake i tō māhunga. 
• Kaua e piko i te wā e noho ana
• Kōwhiria ngā pikitia kōtaha tika mō tō kōtaha whakaipoipo e whakaatu ana i tētahi tū whānui

4. Ki te mea he tohu pakanga ōu, whakaaturia

He take tēnei i ahu mai ai a Khal Drogo Game o nga torona i te pō kotahi i meinga ai a Jason Momoa hei tino tangata rongonui – te koha i tōna tukemata maui. Nā te rongonui o te koha rongonui, e ai ki ngā kōrero, ka tīmata te tangata ki te heu i ō rātou tukemata hei tāru i te koha i riro i a Jason i tētahi patunga. Tērā pea ka tautohe te tangata he tohu noa iho ngā koha o te tāne, ā, he ahua whakahē tēnei whakaaro i te wahine. 

Heoi, rangahau e kī ana he mea whakahihiri te koha ki ngā wāhine, inā koa i roto i ngā whanaungatanga poto engari mēnā he koha iti noa iho. Tērā pea he tohu te koha nui i te koretake o te kare ā-roto, e ai ki tēnei rangahauKo te mea nui i konei ko te whakataurite i waenga i ngā mea e whakapehapeha ana koe me ngā mea e huna ana e koe. 

• Mena he iti noa ngā koha o tō kanohi, whakaaturia
• Kaua e whakapau kaha ki te tapahi i a koe anō. Kāore he mea e kino atu ana i te koha kua hangaia.

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5. Ngā huarahi ngawari hei whakaoho i a ia – Te Whakapono ki a Ia anō

Ko tētahi kōrero pakiwaitara nui mō te tangata māia ko te mea me tino rite te tangata ki te tāne rangatira hei whakaoho i te hiahia o te hunga takatāpui. I horahia hoki tēnei i roto i te ahurea rongonui me ngā kiriata Spaghetti Western me ngā pukapuka tiki ake pērā i Ko te Game. Engari, rangahau i whakakorekore i te pūrākau e kī ana ko te tāne rangatira te mea e whakaoho ana i te hiahia o ngā wāhine. E kī ana tēnei rangahau he mea whakahihiri te maia me te māia, engari ina honoa ki te mana, kāore e tino piki ake te kukume. 

E whakaae ana a Shivanya, "He mea nui te whakapono ki a koe anō, engari ko te ngāwari te mea nui. Ina mihi koe ki tētahi wahine me te reo papatahi, me te karo i ngā kanohi, kāore he pānga ki a ia; engari ina mahi koe i taua mea anō me te pupuri tonu i te titiro kanohi, me te reo iti, he ... he tohu o te tāne māia e rapuhia ana e ngā wāhine"Anei ētahi mea hei maumahara māu mō te whakahaere tika i tō whakapono ki a koe anō: 

• Kia māia, kaua e whakapehapeha. Ko te māia kua whakahaeretia ka tino hihiri te wahine.
• Whakaaturia te riri me te mana ki ngā kaiwhakataetae, kaua ki ō hoa me tō whānau. ako i kitea he pai ake ki ngā wāhine te tāne pukuriri, rangatira hoki ki ōna hoa whakataetae, engari he ngākau aroha, he hoa hoki ki tōna whānau me ōna hoa.
• Whakaitihia te teitei o tō reo hei whakaatu he rangatira koe. rangahau e kī ana ko te reo iti e tohu ana i te pūkenga me te mana whakahaere, ko te reo teitei ia e tohu ana i te kore whakapono ki te reo.

6. He toa koe

Ahakoa te roa o te tautohetohe mō te mea he whakahāwea ira tangata te toa, he maha ngā wāhine e kite ana i te toa he mea ātaahua, e ai ki ngā kōrero a te iwi. rangahauKo tētahi whakamārama pea mō tēnei whanonga ko te āhua nei he hiahia tō te tāne toa ki te whakangao i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga. 

E whakamārama ana a Shivanya, "Ehara i te mea ko te pupuri noa i ngā tatau te mahi toa, engari ko te waihanga i tētahi āhuarangi whakawhirinaki ki a koe. Ina whakaaro te wahine ka taea e ia te whakawhirinaki ki a koe, kei te kukume koe i tōna taha wahine. Koinei te take e hiahia ana ngā wāhine ki ngā tāne he āhuatanga rangatira. Ko tētahi o ngā ngā huarahi māmā hei kukume i a ia ki a koe"Anei ētahi huarahi hei whakaatu i tōu āhua toa:

• Hīkoi i te taha o waho o te ara hikoi ina puta koe ki waho 
• Hoatu tō koti ki a ia mēnā kei te whakaaro koe kei te makariri ia
• Me haere tahi me ia ki te kāinga, engari mēnā kei te pai ia
• Kia atawhai ki ngā tamariki, ki ngā mōkai rānei e karapoti ana i a ia

7. Ka taea e koe te takaro pai

He kanikani whakaipoipo hou te takaro. Ka rerekē pea ngā tohu takaro, ā-waha, ā-kore rānei, i ia ahurea. Heoi, ko te titiro kanohi me te menemene he tohu whānui o te takaro. rangahau e kī ana he rautaki whai hua te whakakatakata i roto i te whakaipoipo. Nā te mea he whakaaro takitahi te whakakatakata, me titiro te tangata ki ngā tohu pēnei i tana reo tinana me tana urupare ā-waha hei aromatawai mēnā kei te pai tana urupare. Anei ētahi tohutohu tere hei whakanui ake i tō kēmu whakaipoipo: 

• Āta karohia ngā rārangi kohi-ake e whakamahia nuitia ana
• Ki te ruarua koe, tīmata mā te ataata
• Kia mataara tonu mēnā kei te mataku, kei te tawhito rānei te kōrero
• Whakamahia he kōrero whaiaro whakakatakata i runga i ngā taupānga whakaipoipo – ka taea e ia te whakanui ake i ō tupono ki te whiwhi hoa mā te 400%, e ai ki tēnei ako

8. Ka tiaki koe i a koe anō

Ka whakarihariha te akuaku kino. rangahau e whakamārama ana i te whakarihariha ki ngā kakara kino hei tikanga ārai i tetahi mea e pā ai pea te mate pipiri. rangahau e tohu ana hoki tera pea ka nui ake te kakara i ngā tohu tirohanga. Ko te tikanga o tēnei, ki te pai tō kākahu engari he kino tō haunga, ka iti ake tō ataahua. E kī ana a Shivanya, "Pūtaiao o te kakara he maha ngā wā ka warewarehia. He mea tino pai te kakara reka ki te wahine. He mea nui anō hoki kia ātaahua te āhua. He tohu tēnei kei a koe te mana whakahaere i ngā mea e karapoti ana i a koe.” Anei ētahi mea hei maumahara kia mau tonu ai tō ataahua:

• Kia ngāwari te kakahu engari kia ātaahua
• Ngāna kia rite ki te mea kei te whakapau kaha koe ki te whakapai ake i tō āhua
• Kaua e whai i ngā momo ahua hou, engari whiriwhiria ngā momo kāhua māmā, mā hoki
• Kaua e mau i tētahi hinu kakara kaha rawa. Me mau i tētahi mea māori, ngawari hoki, pērā i te musk.

9. Ngāna kia noho koe ki tana mahere aroha

I roto i tana pukapuka Ngā mahere aroha, Ko tā John Money te whakamārama i te kupu mahere aroha, hei tauira o ngā āhuatanga e tumanakohia ana e te tangata i roto i tā rātou hoa rangatira. Ko ētahi āhuatanga, pērā i te māia, te ātaahua o te tinana, me te tinana hauora, he mea noa, engari, ka rerekē pea ngā mahere aroha i waenga i te tangata me te tangata. rangahau e kī ana he mea nui kia rapua e te tangata tētahi hoa rangatira e rite ana ki a rātou anō. 

Nō reira, ki te pai koe ki tētahi wahine māia, kaha hoki, me whakaatu hoki e koe tō māia, tō kaha hoki. E kī ana a Shivanya, "Me whai hononga tō taha e rua kia pai ai te whanaungatanga. He pai ake te kore e moumou taima ki tētahi e kore pea e hiahia ki a koe. Engari, rapua tētahi atu e whakaaro ana he pai koe."

• Rapua tētahi wahine he rite te taumata o tōna ataahua ki a koe
• Ngāna kia whakaata i tana whanonga me tōna tuakiri hei whakaatu he rite koe ki a ia
• Kaua e hiahia nui, kaua hoki e aro nui ki tētahi kua whakaatu mai i tōna kore aro ki a koe

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10. Kāore koe e wehi ana i ana taonga takaro

E ai ki tenei ako, ka mataku ngā tāne i ngā taonga takaro ira tangata tae noa ki te wā i iti ake ai te pai o te whakamahi i ngā wiri i te wā moe tāne. E whakapono ana ngā kairangahau ko te hiahia ki te whakamahi i te wiri i te wā moe tāne he mea kino ki tā rātou mahi. Heoi, ka taea e ngā wiri te whakanui ake i te wheako moe tāne mō tāu kotiro, inā koa mēnā ka whakaarohia e koe te āputa orgasm. rangahau E kī ana te 70% o ngā wāhine i kī mai mā te whakamahi i ngā wiri i te wā e moe ai, inā koa i te wā e ru ana, e takirua ana rānei, ka tere ake te whakatutuki i te orgasm.

• Ki te kite koe i te hekenga o tōna hiahia taikaha, ngana ki te tāpiri i ngā taonga takaro ira ki roto i te ranunga. 
• Hoatu he taonga takaro ira tangata ki a ia hei whakaatu kei te whakawhirinaki koe ki tō ira tangata
• Kaua e ruarua mō te whakamātautau i runga i te moenga

11. E aro nui ana koe ki tōna ahuareka

Kua rongo koe i te kōrero mō te āputa orgasm? rangahau e kī ana ko te rerekētanga o te auau o te orgasm i waenga i ngā tāne me ngā wāhine ka pā ki te hiahia moepuku me ngā tumanakohanga ā muri ake nei. Me āwangawanga koe ki tēnei mena kei te whakaaro koe kāore tō hoa wahine e orgasm i te auau pērā i a koe. Ina whakapau kaha koe ki te whakarite kia orgasm tō hoa, ka meinga ia e koe kia nui ake te hiahia. Ka whakanui ake tēnei i tōna hiahia moepuku, ā, ka tīmata ia ki te whakaaro ko te moepuku he iti ake te mahi uaua, engari he wheako ngahau. Anei ētahi huarahi ka taea e koe te whakanui ake i te ahuareka mōna:

• Ki te whakaaro koe kāore pea te moe tāne mihinare e pai mōna, ngana ki ngā tūranga hou.
• rangahau e kī ana ko te whakaohooho i te kiore te mea e tino whakaohooho ana i ngā wāhine, nui atu i te urunga ki te tara. Whakamātauria te whakamahi i ō ringaringa me tō waha hei whakanui ake i te harikoa i te wā moe tāne
• Kōrero ki a ia kia mōhio ai me pehea te pai ake o te arohaNgāna kia mārama ki ngā mea kāore e pai ana ki a ia, me ngā mea hoki e pai ana ki a ia.

12. Kaua e whakahawea ki a ia

I roto i te 2019 ako, i kitea ko te hiahia moepuku o te wahine i roto i te whanaungatanga takirua he mea awe e ngā āhuatanga e toru: te whanaungatanga piripono, te rerekētanga whakanuia, me te whakaū i te mea e hiahiatia ana. Ko te rerekētanga whakanuia e pā ana ki te māramatanga i roto i te whanaungatanga ehara te wahine i te toronga o te tāne. I roto i ngā kupu māmā ake, ko te rerekētanga whakanuia ko te wā kāore koe e whakaaro noa ki a ia, ā, he mana motuhake tōna ake. 

E ai ki ngā kairangahau, "ka tupu te hiahia i roto i te 'āhua rerekē', e tautuhia ana ko te wāhi i waenganui i te tangata me te tangata kē atu e āhei ai te mea ngaro, te mea hou me te mea ohorere, mō te ohorere me te mōrearea." Hei whakaatu ki a ia e whakaute ana koe i tōna tuakiri me tōna mana motuhake, 

• Me tono tonu kia whakaaetia koe mō tetahi mea. Kaua rawa e whakapae noa
• Kia mau te tawhiti i waenganui i a kōrua, ahakoa kei te noho tahi kōrua
• Kōrerohia tō mihi (tō ohorere rānei) mō tana whiriwhiri i a koe 

13. Ngā mea e whakahihiri ana i te tinana o te kotiro – Ngā rohe erogenous

Ko ngā rohe whakaihiihi ko ngā wāhi o te tinana e whakaoho ana i te hiahia moepuku ina pāngia. He whakapono noa ko ngā ira tangata me ngā ū he mea whakaihiihi i roto i ngā wāhine. Engari he ako i kitea he nui ake ngā rohe whakaihiihi, ā, he horapa puta noa i te tinana. He tino pai te pā atu ki tō kotiro puta noa i tōna tinana me te aro nui ki ngā wāhi whakaihiihi pērā i te ira tangata, te nono, ngā ū, me ngā paparinga o te papa. ako kua whakaatuhia hoki ka piki ake te hihiri moepuku i roto i te wahine ina pā atu ki ngā rohe hihiko o tana hoa.

He mea whakamere hoki ki te mōhio ka taea e ngā rohe erogenous te: whakanui ake i te whanaungatanga ā-tinana ehara i te mea mā te pā noa, engari mā te titiro anō hoki. Tētahi atu ako i whakaatu ko te titiro ki ngā ira tangata o te hoa me te rohe e karapoti ana i a ia ka tino whakaohooho i te wahine. Nō reira, kia ātaahua tō āhua i raro, ā,

• Pā atu ki a ia, ā, kaua e whakaroa. Ko te whakaaroaro te mea e ngoikore ai ngā turi o ngā wāhine.
• Me tono atu ki a ia kia pā atu ki a koe. Āta arahina ōna ringa ki tō tinana kia pai ake ai te pā atu.
• Kia aro nui ki ngā wāhi e tino aro atu ana ia

14. Ka meinga e koe kia whakaaro ia ko ia anake te kotiro o te ao

He aha te mea whakamere mō te whakaū o te mea e hiahiatia ana e whakaarohia ana i roto i tēnei ako Ko te hiahia moepuku o te wahine, ehara i te mea ko te ataahua o tana hoa anake te mea e pāngia ana, engari ko te nui o tōna hiahia i te taha o ia. Ka puta he hiahia ki te hoa kia whakaū i tōna mana ake. E whakamārama ana a Shivanya, "Whai muri i tētahi wā i roto i te whanaungatanga, ka tīmata pea te wahine ki te whakaaro kua kore ia e arohia. I roto i ēnei āhuatanga, he pai ake te whakapuaki i tō whakaū i a ia hei taonga e hiahiatia ana mā ngā tohu ringa, kaua mā ngā kupu." Pēnei te mahi:

• Hamumu ki tōna taringa i roto i tētahi rūma kī tonu i te tangata
• Whakautua ana kōrero pāpāho pāpori matapōkere me ngā karere whakakatakata
• Kōrero atu ki a ia kei te moemoeā koe mōna, kei te moemoeā mākū rānei koe mōna. ako i kitea ko te nuinga o ngā kaiuru i tino harikoa i te wā i kī atu ai ō rātou hoa kei te moemoeā rātou mō rātou.

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15. Ka whakanui koe i a ia mō tōna pūkenga hinengaro

rangahau E kī ana te kōrero ka taea e ngā mihi te whakapai ake i te mana o te tangata e whiwhi ana. Akohia te mihi ki te wahine mō tōna hinengaro. E kī ana a Shivanya, "Ka whakangungu ahau i ngā tāne ki te mihi ki ngā āhuatanga kore-tinana o te wahine, kaua ki ōna āhuatanga tinana. He mea nui te aromatawai i tōna tinana, nā te mea ka pai ia ki tēnā, engari ko te whakakotahi i ngā mihi mō ngā momo āhuatanga e rua te rautaki pai rawa atu. Kōrero atu ki a ia e pai ana koe ki a ia mō te hinengaro, kaua ko te tinana anake."

• Kia aro atu ki ana whakatutukitanga, kia whakamanamana hoki ki ētahi atu mō aua whakatutukitanga. He he huarahi ataahua hei whakanui i tō hoa wahine
• Kia tūpato ki tāna e kī ana, kia maumahara hoki. Whakahuatia i muri mai i te wā kāore ia i te tino whakaaro

16. He nui tō whakaaro nui ki a koe anō

He rerekē te whakaaro nui ki a ia anō i te whakapono ki a ia anō, nā te mea he mea ka taea te whakawhanake i te whakaaro nui i a te tangata e tipu haere ana, e whiwhi pūkenga ana, engari ko te whakaaro nui ki a ia anō ka puta mai i te whakaaro nui ki a ia anō. Ka taea te whiwhi whakaaro nui mā roto i ngā āhuatanga o waho, engari ko te whakaaro nui ki a ia anō ka taea te whakapai ake mā te mahi ā-roto anake.

Akoranga Whakaaturia mai he tino ātaahua ki te wahine te whakaaro nui ki a ia anō i roto i ngā tāne. Ko te tangata he whakaaro nui ki a ia anō, he māia ki a ia anō, ā, ka taea e ia te whakarato i tētahi taiao pumau mō tētahi whanaungatanga. Anei me pēhea e taea ai e koe te whakaatu ki tō hoa he whakaaro nui tōu ki a koe anō: 

• Whakaaturia ki a ia e mōhio ana koe ki te maioha ki ngā whanaungatanga hauora, me te tuku i ngā whanaungatanga kino.
• Whakaaturia ki a ia he pono ōu tumanakohanga mōu anō
• Kaua e noho roa ki ngā wā o mua, engari arotahi ki ngā wā o muri mai

17. Ngā mea e whakaoho ana i te ngākau o ngā wāhine – He wairua whakakatakata pai

He take nui i puta mai ai a Barney Stinson Pehea ahau i tae atu ai ki to whaea ko tana whakakatakata te mea i tutuki tahi ai rāua ko te tini o ngā wāhine. rangahau kua whakaarohia ka taea e te whakakatakata te whakapai ake i te ātaahua moepuku o te tangata. E whakapono ana ngā kairangahau mā te wairua whakakatakata pai ka kitea te mohio, te auahatanga, me ētahi atu āhuatanga 'ira pai', 'mātua pai' rānei, ā, ka waiho hei take mō te kōwhiringa moepuku. 

rangahau e kī ana hoki ko te whakakatakata whakaiti i a rātou anō, inā koa ko ngā tāne whai mana teitei, ka taea te whakapai ake i tō rātou ataahua nā te mea e whakaatu ana i te whakaaro nui ki a rātou anō, tētahi atu āhuatanga i roto i te kōwhiringa moepuku. Nō reira, 

• Arotahi ki te whakakatakata e pai ai te ngākau, i te kino rawa atu rānei, kia whakaiti i a koe anō. Kaua e tawai ki ētahi atu.
• He mea whaiaro te whakakatakata, engari he mea tika kia karohia ngā kaupapa tautohetohe.
• Arotahi ki te kounga, kaua ki te rahinga. Me ātaahua koe, kaua ki te āhua rorirori. 
• A te wairua whakakatakata maroke he nui te utu mō ngā rau o ngā katakata pākiki

18. He tangata hīkaka koe

He mea ātaahua te mātakitaki i tētahi kaiwhakataetae pahikara e tere haere ana, e mātakitaki ana rānei i tētahi kairuku ngaio e ruku ana. Ka tere te tere o tō ngākau, ka whakakī i a koe ki te adrenaline, ā, ka hiahia koe ki te mitimiti i ōna puku. He aha ai? Nā te mea he morearea. 

He ātaahua te āhua o ngā tūponotanga e ahu mai ana i te whanaketanga o te tangata e te hunga whaiwhai me te hunga kohi kararehe, pērā i ngā hākinakina tino kaha, te noho rānei i te ngahere. rangahau e kī ana hoki tera pea ka kukumea ngā wāhine ki tētahi tāne he rite tonu te waiaro ki a rātou mō te mōrearea. Anei me pēhea e taea ai e koe te whakaatu i a koe anō he tangata tūpato ki te tango i te mōrearea:

• Tangohia ngā tūponotanga kua tatauhia i tōna taha
• Āta karohia ngā tūponotanga o ēnei rā pērā i te petipeti, te taraiwa rānei me te kore whitiki nohoanga
• Pātai atu ki a ia mō ngā whakaaro mō te mahi mōrearea haere mō te tokorua Ka taea e kōrua te tūhura tahi. Ngāna kia rite ki te mea e pai ana ki a ia
• Kia tūpato. Whakamātauria ngā mea hou, inā koa ngā mea kāore anō kia whakamatauria e ia i mua.

Hei whakamutunga, i pātai atu ahau ki a Shivanya he aha ngā wāhine e arohia ana e ngā kiripuaki pakiwaitara kua whakahāweatia te ira tangata pērā i a Christian Grey, i a Damon Salvatore rānei, he hunga whakahāwea wahine. E whakamārama ana ia, "I te nuinga o te wā, ko te wahine whara ka tahuri ki tētahi tāne pērā nā te mea he tikanga noa iho te whanaungatanga koretake ki a ia. Ahakoa e rapu ana te wahine whai whakaaro i tētahi whanaungatanga e rapu ana ia i te mana, me mahara te tāne he kēmu tēnei e rapua ana e ia. Kāore ia e tumanako ki te whanonga ōrite i roto i te ao tūturu. Nō reira, ehara i te mea pai te whai i ēnei tāne ina rapu ana i ngā mea e whakaoho ana i te wahine."

Me aro nui koe ki ngā whakaaro o te wahine mēnā kei te whakaaro koe ki te whai hononga ki a ia. Ahakoa he wā poto, he wā roa rānei, me aro tonu koe ki te huarahi pai hei whakamarie i a ia. Tērā pea ka kī mai te tangata ki a koe ko ngā wāhine pērā i te tāne alpha Nō reira me whakamahi koe i ēnei kupu whakahihiri, i ēnei kupu rānei, me menemene rānei koe i te āhua e whakaaro ana koe he ātaahua (engari ehara i te mea pērā). Heoi, ko te mea e whai hua ana ko te hanga hononga nui atu ki tōna hinengaro, kaua ki tōna tinana.

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