Te Whakahē a Platonic — Te Tikanga, Ngā Tohu, Me Ngā Mea Hei Mahi

Kua pāngia koe e te aroha platonic i ohorere ai koe, ka waiho koe i roto i te awhiowhio o ngā kare ā-roto taupatupatu? E maumahara ana ahau ki te wā i kitea ai ahau e mau ana i roto i te aroha platonic, he ranunga rerekē o te whakamoemiti, te whakahoahoa, me te hiahia ngawari.

I puta mai tēnei wāhanga rerekē i te taenga mai o tētahi wahine ki tōku ao, ā, ka huri ngāwari noa iho i ngā wā noa hei wā whakamiharo. He ataahua tōna, he mea nui atu i te āhua aroha noa, ā, i puta ai he hononga ahurei i waiho ai ahau kia aro ki taku māramatanga hou mō te aroha platonic.

I a au e whakatere ana i tēnei whenua kāore anō kia tūhuratia, ka kitea e au te pātai mō te āhua o ōku kare ā-roto, me te whakaaroaro hoki ki te hiranga o tēnei hononga e uaua ana ki te whakarōpū. Kāore au i mōhio, mā tēnei wheako ahau e akiaki ki te tūhura i te tikanga, i ngā tohu, me ngā huarahi mahi pea ka mahia e te tangata ina tūtaki ki tētahi aroha ki a ia anō.

He aha te aroha Platonic?

Ko te aroha platonic, e kiia ana ko te kukume platonic, ko te aroha hoa rānei, he āhuatanga whakamīharo e noho ana i te wāhi hina i waenga i te whakahoahoa me ngā kare ā-roto aroha. Ko te kupu 'aroha platonic' e whakamahia ana hei whakaahua i ngā kare ā-roto e neke atu ana i te whakahoahoa noa, engari kāore e whanake hei whanaungatanga aroha. He rerekē ki te aroha aroha tuku iho, ko te aroha platonic he wheako i te kare hōhonu o te whakamoemiti me te aroha ki tētahi kāore he kare ā-roto aroha, ā-ira rānei.

Ko te tikanga, ko te tikanga o te "platonic crush" e ahu mai ana i te kukume i hangaia i runga i te hononga kare ā-roto kaha . He mea pēnei i te "platonic crush" i roto i te whanaungatanga? Ae. He tino taea te wheako i te "platonic crush" me te kore e whakararu i te piripono ki te hoa aroha. Me awhi koe i ō kare ā-roto o te "platonic crush" me te whakarite kia tuwhera te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero ki tō hoa, kia mau tonu ai te whanaungatanga hauora me te mārama ki a rātou.

Te hiranga o ngā aroha platonic mō ngā hapori kore-ira me ngā hapori kakara

Kia tūhuratia te ariā o ngā aroha platonic i roto i te horopaki o ngā hiahia aroha me ngā hiahia kore-aroha. I roto i ngā hapori kore-ira me ngā hapori aromatic, kei reira ngā tāngata takitahi e taka ana ki te whānuitanga o te ace me te aromatic, he mea nui te ariā o ngā whanaungatanga platonic me ngā aroha. He maha ngā tāngata kore-ira me ngā tāngata aromatic e pāngia ana e ngā hononga hohonu me te whai tikanga, kāore i te aroha, kāore rānei i te ira tangata, e whakaatu ana i te taonga me te kanorau o te aroha platonic. I roto i tēnei horopaki, ko te kupu 'whanaungatanga queerplatonic' e whakamahia ana hei whakaahua i ngā hononga kaha, piripono ā-hinengaro e hipa ana i ngā rohe o te whakahoahoa tuku iho.

Kua kōrero anō ngā kairangahau mō ngā hiahia ā-ira tangata me te aroha: "Ko te aroha, he iti ake te mōhiotia whānuitia i te kore-ira tangata, e whakamahia whānuitia ana hei whakaahua i te hunga e iti ana te hiahia aroha, kāore rānei ... He rerekē ngā wheako o te tangata [kore-ira tangata me te hunga kakara] mō te hiahia ā-ira tangata me te aroha, e kiia nei ko te "whakaaro rerekē." Ko te tikanga, he wero te aroha platonic ki ngā tikanga pāpori. Ka tono mai kia mōhio tātou ki te tika o ngā aroha kore-aroha, me te maioha ki ngā momo taha o te aroha e toro atu ana ki tua atu i te ao aroha me te moepuku.

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He aha te rerekētanga i waenganui i te aroha Platonic me te aroha Romantic?

Ahakoa te ōrite o ngā kare ā-roto o te aroha ki te hoa aroha me te aroha ki te hoa aroha, kāore i te rite. Ko te aroha ki te hoa aroha, e kiia ana i ētahi wā ko te aroha ki te hoa aroha, he hononga hohonu ki te kare ā-roto me ngā kare ā-roto kaha o te whakamoemiti me te aroha ki tētahi tangata, he rite ki te mahana o te whakahoahoa tata - engari kāore he āhuatanga aroha, he āhuatanga moepuku rānei e pā ana ki te aroha ki te hoa aroha. Nō reira, he rerekē tēnei momo aroha ki te aroha ki te hoa aroha. Hei whakamārama ake i ngā rerekētanga, me tirotiro tātou i ngā rerekētanga matua i waenga i te aroha ki te hoa aroha me te aroha ki te hoa aroha:

Te Whakangaromanga Platonic	Aroha Aroha
Ko te aroha platonic te tikanga matua o te whakamoemiti me te aroha	Kei roto ko ngā kare ā-roto aroha, ā, i ētahi wā, ko te kukume ā-ira tangata
He maha ngā wā ka puta i roto i te horopaki o ngā hoa tata, o ngā hoa rānei	I te nuinga o te wā ka puta ake i te whai i tētahi whanaungatanga aroha, ā-tinana rānei
Ko ngā kare ā-roto Platonic e aro ana ki te rapu hononga hohonu ki ngā kare ā-roto. Tērā pea he hononga platonic te whāinga, kāore rānei.	E kapi ana i ngā āhuatanga kare ā-roto me te taha tinana, e whai ana kia puta he whanaungatanga aroha
Kāore e arahi tonu ki tētahi hononga aroha, ki ngā kare ā-roto aroha rānei	He maha ngā wā ka whakaarohia he whanaungatanga aroha ki te tangata
Ka taea te wheako i roto i ngā momo hononga me ngā whanaungatanga	I te nuinga o te wā ka puta ko te hunga anake e whakaaro ana koe he 'momo' tōu — arā, te momo tāngata ka pāngia koe e ngā kare ā-roto aroha, ā-ira tangata rānei.
Ka taea te noho tahi me ngā kare ā-roto, ngā kare ā-roto aroha rānei e pā ana ki ētahi atu	He maha ngā wā ka whakaoho i te hiahia mō te motuhake me te whakapau kaha i roto i te whanaungatanga aroha

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E kōrero ana tētahi kaiwhakamahi Reddit mō ngā aroha platonic me ngā aroha romantic, "Whakaarohia te mahi tahi me taua tangata e whakaarohia ana e koe he mahi "hoa anake" he "teiti anake" rānei, pērā i te kihi, te awhi, te haere rānei ki te kiriata me te pupuri ringa. Kāore e hiahiatia he moepuku, engari me waiho hei mea e whakaarohia ana e koe he "aroha" anake, arā, he mea kāore koe e mahi tahi me ō hoa platonic. Mena he tika te whakaaro o ngā wā aroha, he aroha romantic pea . Mena he rerekē te whakaaro, he platonic pea... Kāore he aha mena ka whakaaro koe he mea kotahi, ā, ka puta ko tētahi atu. He uaua, he rerekē hoki ngā kare ā-roto, ā, he maha ngā wā kāore i te whai take, kāore e taea te kōrero."

Mā te mārama ki ēnei rerekētanga i waenga i te aroha aroha me te aroha platonic ka āwhina i te tangata ki te whakatere i te whenua uaua o ngā kare ā-tangata. Ā, ka whakamāramahia hoki te tikanga o te aroha platonic. Ka whakarato i te māramatanga i roto i ngā whanaungatanga, inā koa ka aro atu ki ngā kare ā-roto o te whakamoemiti me te kukume.

7 Ngā Tohu kei a Koe te Aroha Platonic

He tino uaua te whakatau mena he aroha, he kare ā-roto rānei ō kare ā-roto mō tētahi. Mena kei te whakaaro koe he aha te kare ā-roto, he aroha rānei tōu ki tētahi, anei ētahi tohu e whitu hei āwhina i a koe ki te wetewete i te mea ngaro.

1. Ka kitea e koe te harikoa i roto i tō rātou hoa

Mena ko te noho tahi me tēnei tangata e whakaoho ana i te harikoa me te whai huatanga e pā ana ki a koe me ō hoa tata, tera pea he aroha platonic tōu. Ahakoa he kata tahi, he hiahia ōrite , he koa noa rānei ki te noho tahi, he rite te hononga ki te whakamarie e kitea ana i roto i ngā whakahoahoa kaha. Engari he nui atu anō.

2. He nui ō whakaaro mō rātou

Ko tētahi tohu mārama o te aroha platonic ko te āhua tonu o ngā whakaaro mō te tangata e noho ana i roto i tō hinengaro. He kare ā-roto rerekē o te moemoeā e puta mai ana, kāore he tohu o te kaupapa moepuku, te kaupapa aroha rānei - he kare ā-roto tino rerekē i te aroha ki tētahi hoa. Tērā pea ka huri ō whakaaro ki ngā horopaki e whakaaro ana koe ki te kata tahi i runga i tētahi kapu kawhe, ki te kōrero mō ngā āhuatanga uaua o te ao, ki te tīmata tahi rānei i ngā haerenga.

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3. Kei te pai tō āhua

He aha te kukume platonic? E ai ki te kōrero i mua ake nei, he hononga hohonu ki tētahi atu tangata. He rerekē ki ngā āhuatanga uaua e pā ana ki ngā whanaungatanga aroha, ko te kukume platonic ka puta he whakamarie me te whakaiti i ngā taumata ahotea. Ko ngā āhuatanga e ahu mai ana i te whakahoahoa pono, kāore he raruraru ka puta ake i roto i ngā hononga aroha.

4. He kakara pea koe

Ko te kupu 'aromantic' he kupu whānui mō te hunga kāore pea i te tino aro ki te aroha. I roto i ngā hapori aromatic, i roto rānei i ngā tāngata takitahi o te whānuitanga aromatic, he mea nui ngā aroha platonic. Mā ēnei hononga ka taea te hono hohonu me te kore e hiahia ki te aroha. Nō reira, ki te mea he tangata aromatic koe, he tohu pai tēnā ko te tangata e kore e taea e koe te mutu te whakaaro ko tō aroha platonic.

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5. Ka harikoa koe mō rātou ina kitea e rātou te aroha aroha

Ko tētahi āhuatanga motuhake o te tangata e rapu ana i te aroha platonic ko te harikoa pono e pā ana ki ngā haerenga aroha, moepuku rānei a tā rātou e aroha nei. He rerekē ki te aroha romantic e whakaoho ake ai ēnei whanaketanga i ngā kare ā-roto hae, pouri rānei, he maha ngā tāngata e aroha platonic ana ki te harikoa o te kite i tā rātou hoa e kitea ana te harikoa i roto i ngā hononga aroha. Ko tēnei momo aroha mutunga kore tētahi o ngā huarahi maha e rerekē ai te aroha platonic i te aroha romantic ki tētahi hoa.

Engari, ki te kore rātou e aro nui ana ki a rātou i muri i te whai hononga ki tētahi atu. He rite tonu ki te wā ka mutu te tautoko a tētahi hoa e arohaina ana e koe i tō kōrua hoahoa ina kitea e rātou he pūnaha tautoko hou.

6. Ka wheako koe i tētahi taumata hohonu o te whanaungatanga ki a rātou

He maha ngā wā ka uru te aroha platonic ki tētahi taumata hohonu o te whanaungatanga e kore e pā ki ngā taunekeneke o waho. Ko te āhua o tēnei whanaungatanga ko te piripono o ngā kare ā-roto me te manaaki pono ki tētahi atu tangata, e poipoi ana i tētahi hononga whai tikanga me te kore e tumanakohia he whanaungatanga aroha. Ko te whai wāhi ki ngā kōrero e kore e pā ki ngā kōrero iti he tohu matua o te aroha platonic.

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7. He tino hiahia tōu ki ngā kaupapa o tō rātou ao

He pono tō hiahia ki te oranga o te tangata, kāore he kaupapa aroha, he kaupapa moepuku rānei. E aro nui ana koe ki tōna oranga, ki ōna wawata, me ōna wheako i runga i te taumata whaiaro, e whakaatu ana i tētahi hononga e neke atu ana i ngā tawhā o tētahi whanaungatanga aroha.

Mā te mārama ki ēnei tohu ka āwhina i te whakatere i ngā rohe o ngā aroha platonic me ngā whanaungatanga platonic , ka taea ai te tupu o ngā hononga pono me te kore he pēhanga tāpiri o ngā tumanako aroha, te wehi rānei kei ngaro tetahi hoa. Ka hangaia he wāhi e taea ai e ngā tāngata e rua te pārekareka ki tētahi hononga whai tikanga, ahakoa kāore anō kia māramahia e te hapori whānui.

Ngā Painga me ngā Huakore o te Whai i te Aroha Platonic

Ko te whakatere i te whenua o ngā aroha platonic, arā, aua hononga whakamere e takoto ana i te rārangi i waenga i te whakahoahoa me tētahi atu mea, he hurihuri o ngā kare ā-roto. I a tātou e kite ana i a tātou e kukume ana ki tētahi i tētahi ara e neke atu ana i ngā whakahoahoa tuku iho, ā, ki roto i te ao o ngā whanaungatanga aroha , he maha ngā painga me ngā huakore o te whenua. Ko te kukume o tētahi hononga kare ā-roto hohonu me te whakamarie o tētahi whakahoahoa whai tikanga e tohu ana i tētahi taha, ko te kaha o ngā kare ā-roto kāore i utua me te hiahia ki te whakatere i ngā rohe rerekē e tū mai ana i tētahi taha. I a tātou e tūhura ana i ngā painga me ngā huakore o te whai aroha platonic, ka whakamāramahia e tātou ngā harikoa me ngā wero e haere tahi ana me ēnei whanaungatanga ahurei, ā, i ētahi wā he uaua.

Ngā painga o te aroha ki tētahi hoa aroha

• Hononga hohonu o ngā kare ā-roto: He maha ngā wā ka arahi te aroha platonic ki tētahi hononga hohonu ki te tangata, ka poipoi i tētahi hononga kaha i runga i ngā hiahia ōrite, te māramatanga, me te whakaute tetahi ki tetahi.
• Kua piki ake te maia: Mā te mōhio me te whakatau i te aroha platonic ka taea te whakanui ake i tō whakapono ki a koe anō, nā te mea me mārama koe ki a koe anō te maramara hinengaro hei whakatere i ngā uauatanga o ō kare ā-roto
• Te kanorau o te aroha: Ka whai wāhi ngā aroha Platonic ki te whai rawa o ō hononga pāpori me ngā ara aroha. Ka taea e tēnei te whakarei ake i tō pūnaha tautoko me te waihanga i ngā whakahoahoa pumau, whai tikanga hoki.
• Kāore he tumanakohanga aroha: Kāore ngā aroha aroha e puta mai i ngā aroha platonic me te pēhanga o ngā tumanakohanga aroha. Ka taea e tēnei te arahi ki tētahi whanaungatanga marino ake, harikoa ake hoki, ka taea ai e ngā tāngata tokorua te noho ko rātou anō me te kore e pāngia e ngā uauatanga o te aroha.
• Pūnaha tautoko: Ka taea e te tangata e arohaina ana e koe he mea whakapati hei puna pono mō te tautoko kare ā-roto. Mā te whakapuaki i ō whakaaro, ō āwangawanga, me ō harikoa ki a rātou ka whai wāhi ki tētahi hononga hauora, tautoko hoki.

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Ngā huakore o te whai i te aroha platonic

• Ngā kare ā-roto kāore i utua: Ko tētahi o ngā wero matua o te aroha platonic ko te tūponotanga o ngā kare ā-roto kāore i utua. Ki te kore te tangata e rite te taumata o te kukume, ka arahi pea ki te mamae kare ā-roto me te pouri.
• Te whakatere i ngā rohe: He uaua te mārama ki te whakatere i ngā rohe o te aroha platonic. Me whai korero tuwhera kia mōhio ai te tokorua ki te āhua o te whanaungatanga
• Ngā pānga pea ki ētahi atu whanaungatanga: Mena kei roto koe i tētahi hononga aroha, tera pea he uaua te whai i tētahi aroha platonic. He mea nui kia aro nui ki ēnei kare ā-roto kia kore ai e pāngia ngā hononga o nāianei.
• Te pōrearea o te ngākau: He uaua te whakatau i te aroha platonic i ētahi wā, nā te mea ka wero i ngā tikanga o ngā whanaungatanga tuku iho. Ko te whiriwhiri i ō kare ā-roto, ina koa he taupatupatu, me whai whakaaro hohonu me te whakaaroaro ki a koe anō.
• He pūtake o te whakararuraru: Tērā pea ka huri te aroha nui ki tētahi mea hei whakararuraru, hei tango i te wāhi hinengaro me te wāhi kare ā-roto ka taea te tuku atu ki tētahi atu wāhi. Tērā pea ka pā tēnei whakararuraru ki ētahi atu āhuatanga o tō oranga mēnā kāore e whakahaerea tika.

Mā te mārama ki ngā painga me ngā huakore o te whai i te aroha platonic ka taea e te tangata te whakatere i ēnei kare ā-roto me te māramatanga nui ake, me te whakatau whai whakaaro mō te huarahi e whakatata atu ai me te whakahaere i aua whanaungatanga.

Me aha koe mēnā e pai ana koe ki tētahi i runga i te āhua Platonic?

Ki te mea he kare ā-roto tōu mō tētahi tangata, me whai taurite koe i te mārama ki ō hiahia me te whakaute i ngā rohe o te whanaungatanga. Ki te kitea e koe kei te pai koe ki tētahi i runga i te āhua ā-roto, whakaarohia ēnei mahi e whai ake nei:

• Whakaaroaro-whaiaro: Whakawāteahia he wā ki te whakaaroaro i ō kare ā-roto, kia mārama hoki ki te āhua o tō hiahia. Tāutuhia mēnā he tino aroha, he moepuku rānei ō kare ā-roto.
• Te whakaae: Awhitia ō kare ā-roto, kaua e whakahē. He mea nui ngā hononga ā-pūmau, ā, ka taea te whai wāhi ki te whakatutuki i ngā whakahoahoa. Whakaaetia he pai te whai aroha hohonu, ehara i te aroha noa ki tētahi.
• Whakawhitiwhiti tuwhera: Ki te pai koe ki te kōrero, kōrerotia whānuitia ō kare ā-roto ki te tangata. Mā ngā kōrero pono ka whakapakari i tō hoa, ā, ka āwhina kia mōhio ngā taha e rua ki te āhua o tō whanaungatanga.
• Te whakaute i nga rohe: Kia tūpato ki ngā kare ā-roto me ngā rohe o te tangata kē. Kāore e taea e te katoa te whakamārama, te whakautu rānei ki ngā kare ā-roto o te tangata i te huarahi kotahi. Whakautehia ō rātou taumata whakamarie, kia rite hoki mō ngā urupare rerekē.
• Kia pai te hononga: Arotahi ki te poipoi i te hononga, kaua e tukua ngā kare ā-roto whakatārewatanga kia taupokina te harikoa o te noho tahi a tētahi me tētahi. Awhitia ngā hiahia ōrite, uru atu ki ngā kōrero whai tikanga, me te whakanui i ngā painga o tō hononga.
• Whakahaerehia nga tumanako: Kia pono ngā tumanakohanga, kia rite hoki ki te āhua o tō whanaungatanga. Kāore ngā aroha whakahāwea e arahi ki tētahi hononga platonic, nō reira he mea nui kia whakahaere i ngā tumanakohanga kia kore ai e pāngia e ngā pouri pea
• Tūhurahia ētahi atu hiahia: Whakawhanuitia tō porowhita pāpori, me te whai wāhi atu ki ngā mahi e taea ai e koe te hono atu ki ngā momo tāngata. Ka taea e tēnei te āwhina i te whakataurite i ō kare ā-roto, me te ārai i te aro nui ki tētahi tangata kotahi e arohaina ana e koe.
• Rapua te tautoko: Ki te hiahiatia, kōrero ki ō hoa, rapua rānei te tautoko mai i te hunga ka taea te tuku tohutohu. Mā te whakapuaki i ō kare ā-roto ki ngā tāngata pono ka taea te tuku tirohanga whai hua, ā, ka āwhina i a koe ki te whakahaere i ō kare ā-roto.
• Kia tūpato ki ngā whanaungatanga o nāianei: Ki te mea kei roto koe i tētahi hononga aroha, kia tūpato ki te pānga o ō kare ā-roto ki tēnā. He mea nui te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero tuwhera ki tō hoa aroha kia mau tonu ai te whakawhirinaki me te māramatanga.
• Te arotahi ki te tipu whaiaro: Whakamahia tō kaha ki te tipu ake me te whakapai ake i a koe anō. I ētahi wā, ka taea e ngā hiahia aroha ki a koe anō te whakamahi hei whakakorikori i te kitenga i a koe anō me te whanaketanga whaiaro.

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Kia maumahara, he wāhanga tūturu o ngā whanaungatanga tangata ngā kare ā-roto platonika, ā, mā te mārama me te whakahaere i aua kare ā-roto ka hua ake he hononga whai hua, whai hua hoki.

Ko te haerenga o te aroha ki tētahi i runga i te āhua platonika he tohu i te maha o ngā āhuatanga o te aroha me ngā whanaungatanga. Mā te awhi i te kanorau o ngā hononga tangata, ahakoa he aroha, he platonika rānei, ka akiaki i te tipu whaiaro, ka whakarei ake i tō tātou māramatanga ki ētahi atu, ā, ka tāpirihia he tae kanapa ki te whatu o ō tātou oranga. I a tātou e whakamutu ana i tēnei tūhuratanga, kia whakanuia e tātou te ataahua o ngā aroha platonika hei whakaaturanga whai hua o te hononga tangata.

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