I ētahi wā, he uaua ki te tautuhi i te kukume kare ā-roto. E mōhio ana koe ki te āhua ina tūtaki koe ki tētahi, ā, ka mea koe, "Āe! Ko rātou taku hoa wairua." Kātahi ka noho tonu rātou hei hunga whakamiharo, ā, ka nui haere tonu tō aroha ki a rātou? Āe, koinei pea te huarahi e taea ai e te nuinga o te tangata te whakamārama he aha te āhua o te aroha kare ā-roto.
He rerekē ki te kukume tinana, kāore e tautuhia e te kare o ngā pūrerehua i roto i tō puku me te pakū o tō ngākau i roto i tō uma ina kite koe i a rātou, ina rongo i tō rātou reo, ina whakaaro rānei ki a rātou. Engari, he wheako pumau ake, he wheako whakaū ake. Ina kukumehia koe e te kare ā-roto ki tētahi atu tangata, ka kawea mai e tō rātou noho tahi me koe te rangimārie me te harikoa. Ā, ko ēnei kare ā-roto whakamarie te mea e hiahia ai koe ki te kukume atu ki a rātou i ngā wā katoa. Ahakoa ka puta he aroha ki te kite i tētahi tangata ātaahua tinana, ko te hononga kare ā-roto i waenganui i te tokorua te mea e aroha ai rātou tetahi ki tetahi, ā, koinei te mea e pupuri ana i ētahi tāne me ngā wāhine kia noho tahi mō ngā tekau tau.
Ahakoa ko tēnei hononga kare ā-roto te tūāpapa o tētahi whanaungatanga angitu, kāore i te herea ki ngā hoa aroha anake. Ka taea e koe te kukume kare ā-roto ki ngā hoa, ki ngā mātua, ki ngā tuākana, teina, me te nuinga o te tangata ka tūtaki koe. He mea whakamīharo? Me ruku hohonu tātou ki te ariā kia mārama ai ki te āhua o te kukume kare ā-roto ki tētahi, mā te kōrero ki te kaitohutohu. Ridhi Korekāha (Tohu Paerua i roto i te Hinengaro), he tohunga ki te tuku tohutohu mō ngā marena kore aroha, ngā wehenga, me ētahi atu take whanaungatanga.
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An kukume kaha i te taumata kare ā-roto, ka kitea te hononga hohonu me te māramatanga, he mea onge tēnei. He maha ngā tāngata e whakaaro hē ana he aroha te kukume tinana. Ahakoa he nui te aroha i puta mai i te āhua tinana o tētahi atu hei tīmatanga i te aroha, me whai hononga kare ā-roto kaha me te whanaungatanga piripono ngā whanaungatanga aroha kia tupu ai, kia ora ai hoki mō te wā roa.
Te kōrero mō te āhua o te kukume kare ā-roto, Ridhi e mea ana, "He kare hōhonu o te hononga ki te hinengaro, ki te āhua o te tangata, ki tōna tuakiri rānei. Kāore he pānga ki ō whakaaro mō ngā āhuatanga tinana, ki tōna āhua rānei. Nō reira, ki te kitea e koe he ātaahua te tangata, kāore e rite ki te pupuhi o te puku, ki te pūrerehua rānei e pā ana ki te aroha. Ko te kare o te hononga hōhonu, tata hoki ki tētahi."
Whakaarohia te tokorua rongonui o Hollywood, a Kurt Russell rāua ko Goldie Hawn. Me tino rongonui tā rāua kōrero aroha mō ngā mata hiriwa. I mua noa atu i te hononga aroha, i honoa e Hawn rāua ko Russell tētahi ki tētahi, ā, kua 37 tau rāua e kaha ana! Ko tētahi atu tauira o te hononga kare ā-roto anake i te ao whakangahau ko Kate Winslet rāua ko Leonardo De Caprio. Ahakoa kāore anō rāua kia noho tahi i roto i te whanaungatanga aroha, kua whakapuakina e rāua tō rāua aroha me te whakamoemiti ki a rāua anō, me te āhua o te hononga kare ā-roto me te hononga mai i te wā i tūtaki tuatahi ai rāua i runga i ngā seti o te kiriata rongonui. Titanic.
Nā te mea kua whakapūmautia e tātou te tikanga o te kukume kare ā-roto, me aro atu tātou ki ētahi atu pātai nui hei whakamārama ake i te ariā.
He aha te rerekētanga i waenganui i te kukume ā-hinengaro me te kukume ā-tinana?
Ko te rerekētanga matua i waenga i te kukume tinana me te kukume kare ā-roto, ahakoa he pā noa iho tētahi, he ātaahua hoki te āhua, he hohonu ake te āhua o tētahi. Anei ngā rerekētanga matua i waenga i ngā mea e rua:
| Te Kare-a-roto | Atahanga-tinana |
| Me mōhio koe ki te tangata i tētahi taumata kia taea ai e koe te kukume i ō kare ā-roto ki a ia. | Ka taea e koe te rongo i tēnei mō tētahi tauhou i runga i te tereina raro whenua, mō tētahi whetu rongonui i runga i te mata, mō tētahi hoa aroha pea rānei |
| Āwhina ki te pupuri i tētahi whanaungatanga hohonu ake, mō te wā roa | Koia te pūtake o te aroha noa |
| Ka taea e koe te kukume i te kare ā-roto ki tētahi tangata, engari kāore koe e kite i a ia he ātaahua tinana | Ka taea e koe te kukume tinana ki tētahi tangata me te kore e whakapuaki i tētahi mea whakawhanaungatanga kare-a-roto me o ratou |
| Ka taea e te whanaungatanga te ora tonu, ā, ka mau tonu te kaha, mena he hononga kare ā-roto engari kāore he hiahia tinana. | E kore e pumau te whanaungatanga i hangaia i runga i te whakaaro kia kukumea te āhua o te tangata ki te kore e hono tahi ngā tāngata e rua i runga i te taumata kare ā-roto. |
E arahina tonutia ana te aroha e te hiahia kare ā-roto?
I te mea kei te kōrero tātou mō ngā whanaungatanga aroha, te āhua nei mēnā ka aro nui te tangata ki a koe, ka arahi tonu ki tētahi hononga aroha. Heoi, ehara i te mea koinei tonu te āhua.
I a ia e whakamārama ana i te rerekētanga o te kukume kare ā-roto me te kukume aroha, me te take kāore pea tetahi e arahi ki tetahi atu, e kī ana a Ridhi, "Ae, ko te kukume kare ā-roto ki tētahi ka arahi pea ki te kukume aroha engari kāore hoki, nā te mea ehara tēnei momo hononga kare ā-roto i te mea mō ngā hoa aroha, ngā hiahia rānei anake. Ka taea hoki e koe te kukume kare ā-roto ki tētahi hoa, ki ō mātua, ki tētahi kaiako, ki tētahi kaiārahi, ki tētahi kaiwhakaora hinengaro rānei. Ka taea tēnei te tupu ki tētahi tangata e tino pārekareka ana ki a koe." hononga kare ā-roto o te kare ā-roto. Nō reira, ko te whanaketanga, te kore rānei, o te kukume aroha/ira tangata, e whakawhirinaki ana ki te āhua o tō whanaungatanga ki te tangata e kukume ana koe i te ngākau.”
Ahakoa rā, ki te mea he takakau, he wātea, he hiahia ki te hoa rangatira, ā, e piripono ana tetahi ki tetahi, ka huri pea tō rāua hononga ki te rohe aroha. Ā, koinei pea te tīmatanga o tētahi whanaungatanga ataahua, pumau hoki.
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He aha te hiranga o te kukume ā-hinengaro?
I nāianei, kua mārama kē koe he mea nui te kukume i tētahi atu tangata i runga i te taumata kare ā-roto hei hanga i tētahi whanaungatanga hohonu ake, pumau ake ki a rātou. Ehara tēnei i te whakakore i te tūranga o te kukume tinana, te kukume ira tangata, me te kukume aroha i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga. He mahi tā rātou ki te pupuri i te hononga hou me te whakahihiri. Engari ina tae ki te paunatia te kukume tinana/ira tangata me te hononga kare ā-roto, ka iti haere te tauine ki te tautoko i te mea whakamutunga. Anei te take:
- Ina honoa ō kare ā-roto ki tētahi atu tangata, ka māmā ake te whakawhirinaki ki a rātou
- He nui ake te aroha i roto i te whanaungatanga
- Ka taea e kōrua te tino whakaraerae tetahi ki tetahi, nā te mea e mōhio ana kōrua, e whakapono ana hoki, e kore rawa te tangata kē e whakahē/whakaeke i a koe mō te noho ko koe tonu.
- He pai ki a kōrua te whakapau i te wā kounga ki a kōrua, ā, mā tēnā ka whakapakari ake i tō kōrua hononga.
- Mā te hononga hohonu ake e āwhinahia ana e te hiahia o te kare ā-roto ka ara ake te huarahi mō te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero hauora, tuwhera, me te pono.
Koinei ngā mātāpono matua o tētahi whanaungatanga hauora, arā, ka rere pai ngā mea katoa, ā, ka tino whai tikanga te hononga e pai ake ai tō kōrua oranga me tō hoa.
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Ka puta te kare ā-roto o te hiahia ki tētahi atu tangata i ngā huarahi rerekē. Tērā pea ka tūtaki koe ki tētahi, ā, ka hono tonu atu ki a ia. Tērā pea ka whanake he maioha nui ki tētahi tangata i roto i te wā. Ahakoa te āhua o tōna putanga mai, ko te ngā tohu matū ā, ka kitea te aroha nui me te whakamoemiti. Hei whakarite kia kore koe e ngaro i ngā tohu e titiro mai ana ki tō kanohi, me ārahi mātou i a koe i roto i ngā tohutohu tekau hei mōhio ki te āhua o te kukume kare ā-roto.
1. Kāore koe e aro nui ana ki a rātou
E mea ana a Ridhi, "Kāore pea koe e aro nui ana ki a rātou, engari he hohonu ake te hononga kare ā-roto e pā ana ki a kōrua." I ētahi wā, ko te kaha o te aro nui ki te tangata ka taea te huna i te maha o ngā kare ā-roto, ā, ka nui ake i ngā mea katoa. Nō reira, i te tuatahi, tera pea ka aro nui koe ki te tangata engari kāore pea koe e rongo i te taumahatanga tinana/ira tangata i tēnei wā. Ā, he mea noa tēnā.
Me pehea te mohio: Ki te hiahia nui koe ki te noho tahi me rātou, ā, ki te tino pārekareka ki a koe te noho tahi me rātou, engari kāore koe e rongo i te ohorere nui, i te kare rānei e rite ana ki te pūrerehua i roto i tō puku, he tohu tēnā kei te aro nui koe ki tēnei tangata, engari kāore he hiahia tinana.
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2. Ka pōuri koe ina noho tahi koe me rātou
Ina tīmata koe ki te pātai ki a koe anō he aha te kukume kare ā-roto, pātai atu ki a koe anō, kei reira tetahi e pōuri ana koe i te whakaaro ki a ia? He rerekētanga mārama kei waenganui i te kukume tinana me te hononga kare ā-roto. Ina kukume kare ā-roto koe ki tētahi, ka pōuri koe i te whakaaro ki a ia. Engari ki te mea he hononga tinana noa iho, ka... ka mataku koe i te whakaaro ki a rātou.
Me pehea te mohio: Ki te mea kei roto i tō hinengaro tētahi tangata, katia ō kanohi, ka whakaaroaro mōna i tēnei wā tonu. Tirohia ō kare ā-roto. Kei te pā mai he harikoa nui ki a koe, kei te mataku rānei koe, kei te wiri hoki ō whakaaro? Mēnā ko te tuatahi, kei te aro nui koe ki a ia. Mēnā ko te tuarua, tera pea kei te aro nui koe ki a ia.
3. Ka kitea e koe te whakatuwhera i a koe anō ki a rātou
Ehara i te mea ngāwari ki te nuinga o te tangata te whakatuwhera i ō rātou ake whakaaro, me te kōrero noa mō rātou anō. Engari, ina pā mai he ngākau aroha ki a koe, ka kitea e koe kei te whakatuwhera koe i a koe anō ki a rātou. E whakamārama ana a Ridhi i te take. ngoikore i roto i te whanaungatanga Ko tētahi o ngā tauira tino whai kiko o te kukume kare ā-roto, "Ka taea e koe te whakatuwhera i ō kare ā-roto ki a rātou me te whakapuaki i ō kare ā-roto hohonu. Kei te rite koe ki te whakapuaki i tētahi hononga wairua-ki-wairua ki tēnei tangata, ahakoa kei te tīmata noa koe te mōhio ki a ia. Ā, mā tēnei wairua mōhio ka māmā ake te whakapuaki i tō ngākau ki a ia."
Tangohia, hei tauira, brooklyn 99 whetu a Andy Samberg me te kaiwhakatangi hapa a Joanna Newsom. He tangata āta noho a Joanna Newson, he tangata tūpato hoki, engari i te aroaro o Andy Samberg, ka rerekē katoa tōna āhua. Nā tōna whakawhirinaki ki a Andy Samberg ka taea e ia te whakapuaki i ōna whakaaro ki te tangata i tōna aroaro.
Me pehea te mohio: Ka taea e koe te whakapuaki i ngā kōrero whaiaro mō tō oranga whaiaro, te kōrero rānei mō ngā wheako uaua ki a rātou me te ngāwari kore e taea te whakataurite. E mea ana a Ridhi, "Ka taea e koe te kōrero ki a rātou mō tētahi wheako o mua i pā kino pea ki a koe, i uaua rānei ki a koe." Kāore koe e mangere ki te whakapuaki ki a rātou i ngā mea kāore pea koe i kōrero ki ētahi atu o roto i tō porowhita tata, pērā i tētahi hoa pai, i tētahi teina rānei e tata ana ki a koe.
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4. Te kōrero mō rātou i ngā wā katoa
Te ngāwari me te whakamarie o te urunga o tēnei tangata ki roto i tō ao – ngā uara, ngā whāinga, ngā tumanako, me ngā moemoeā e rite ana. Me te mea kua kitea e koe tētahi wāhanga kāore koe i mōhio kei te ngaro koe. Heoi anō, ka taea e tēnei tangata te whakaaro he wāhanga nui, he wāhanga nui hoki o tō ao. Ā, ko ngā mea nui ki a tātou ka takaro nui ki ō tātou hinengaro. Nō reira, kaua e miharo mēnā kāore e taea e koe. kati te whakaaro tonu ki taua tangata.
Me pehea te mohio: Kua pā tēnei ki a koe? Kei waho koe e tina ana me ō hoa, e kōrero tahi ana. Ā, kāore e taea te mutu te kōrero mō tētahi tangata. Tae noa ki te wā e tohu ana ō hoa i te nui o tō kōrero mō rātou. Āe, koinei tētahi o ngā tohu tino mārama o te kukume kare ā-roto.
5. Ka taea e koe te kōrero ki a rātou mō ngā hāora roa
Ki te hiahia koe ki te mōhio ki te āhua o te kukume kare ā-roto, ko te whakautu māmā rawa atu, ka taea e koe te kōrero ki a rātou mō ngā hāora. E whakamārama ana a Ridhi, "Ka taea e koe te kōrero ki a rātou me te kore e mataku kei whakahengia, kei tawaihia, kei tawaihia rānei. E māia ana koe i te mōhio kāore tēnei tangata e hē te mārama ki a koe, ahakoa he aha tāu e kōrero ai. He mea nui tēnā ki te whakapūmau i te piripono o te kare ā-roto o te tokorua tetahi ki tetahi."
Mā ngā kōrero roa ka taea e koe te mōhio pai ake ki tētahi tangata, ā, ka taea anake te puta ina tino piripono koe ki tētahi tangata. Haunga tēnā, he tino whai hua ngā kōrero roa ki tētahi. te whakaoho i te kukume kare ā-rotoNō reira, ki te mea kei te ngana koe ki te hanga i te hiahia kare ā-roto ki tētahi tāne/wahine, he tino āwhina te whakapau i te wā ki a rātou.
Me pehea te mohio: Kua noho hei tikanga ngā kōrero i te pō ki tēnei tangata, ā, kāore e pau ngā kōrero ki a kōrua. Kāore he wā whakamā, he kōrero rānei e mutu ana me te kī, "nā, he aha atu anō te mea hou?", i mua i te mōhio o tētahi o kōrua ki te tohu me te kī kia mutu te waea.
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6. Ka taea e koe te whakaaro i tētahi heke mai me rātou
E mea ana a Ridhi, "E hiahia ana koe kia whai hononga ā muri ake nei ki a rātou. E hiahia ana koe ki te mōhio ki ō rātou whakaaro, ki te mārama ki ō rātou whakaaro mō tētahi āhuatanga. E pai ana koe ki te whakarongo ki ō rātou tirohanga mō ngā mea, ā, mā tēnei whakawhitiwhiti whakaaro tahi ka āwhina hoki ki te whakapakari me te hanga i te kukume kare ā-roto i waenganui i te tokorua."
Whakaarohia te tauira o te tokorua whai mana a Michelle Obama rāua ko Barack Obama. I kī a Michelle Obama i kitea e ia ko te aroha he pumau, he ngoikore, ā, he aroaro. Nō reira, ki te taea e koe whakaarohia he heke mai me tō hoa rangatira o nāianei, tera pea kei te honoa kōrua e te aukume kare ā-roto kaha.
Me pehea te mohio: Ngāna ki te whakaaro i te heke mai. Te wiki e tū mai nei, te tau e tū mai nei, ngā tau tekau e tū mai nei. Kei roto i tō tirohanga mō te heke mai tēnei tangata? Ki te kore e taea e koe te whakaaro ki te noho roa me te kore ia i roto i tō koiora, e mōhio ana koe he hononga hohonu tōu ki a ia.
7. Kāore koe e hiahia ana ki tētahi whanaungatanga aroha ki a rātou
E ai ki tā mātou i kōrero ai i mua, ka taea e te aroha me te kare ā-roto te noho motuhake tetahi i tetahi. Ahakoa ka taea e te here kare ā-roto te arahi ki te whanaungatanga aroha, me te ritenga ke, kāore e tika kia pērā tonu. He maha ngā tāngata e aroha ana tetahi ki tetahi, kāore i te hiahia tonu ki te uru atu ki ngā whanaungatanga aroha tuku iho. Ki te kite koe kei te makona koe ki te hononga kei a koe ki tēnei tangata, ā, kāore koe e hiahia ki te whakarerekē i te āhua o tō whanaungatanga, tera pea kei te aroha koe ki a ia.
Me pehea te mohio: Ko tētahi rerekētanga matua o te kukume aroha me te hononga kare ā-roto ko te aroha nui pea koe ki tētahi tangata, engari kāore koe e aroha ki a ia. Ki te pai koe ki te noho tahi me ia, whakaarohia ia hei papa whakatau mō te ora, kei reira koe mō rātou i ngā wā katoa e hiahia ana rātou ki a koe, engari kāore koe e hiahia ki te tāpiri i ngā paparanga aroha, moepuku ki tō whanaungatanga, he hononga kare ā-roto noa iho pea.
8. He momo kukume hou rawa atu tēnei māu
Kotahi noa te momo kukume e whakaatuhia ana e ngā pāpāho me ngā tuhinga: ko te kukume tinana. Ka whakapohehe tēnei i tō tātou māramatanga ki te āhua o te kukume kare ā-roto. Koia te take ina pāngia koe e te kukume kare ā-roto kaha, he kare hou tēnei māu. Ko ngā kaiwhakaari a John Krasinski rāua ko Emily Blunt ngā tauira o tēnei. I te tūtakitanga o John Krasinski ki a Emily Blunt, i mōhio ia ka aroha ia ki a ia. Engari i whakaae ia i tino mataku ia i tana tono i a ia kia haere ki waho. ra tuatahiI roto i te tau kotahi i muri i te tūtakitanga, i marena rāua!
Me pehea te mohio: Mai anō i te tīmatanga o te mōhio ki a ia, ka rongo koe i tētahi hononga ngaro e kore e taea te whakamārama, engari kāore i rite ki tētahi mea kua pā ki a koe i mua. Mā tō rātou aroaro koe e marino ai, e māia ai koe, kaua e mataku, e wiriwiri, e whakama rānei.
9. He tino whakamarie koe, he tino makona hoki i tō rātou aroaro
Ina aro nui te tangata ki a koe, ina aro nui rānei koe ki a ia, kāore he take, kāore hoki he wāhi mō ngā mea whakamere. Kei te makona noa kōrua i te taha o tētahi ki tētahi. "Ka uru ēnei ki roto i tō rohe whakamarie. Kāore koe e rongo i te wiri, i te manukanuka, i te āwangawanga rānei i mua i te tūtaki ki a rātou. He wheako tino marino, ki te whakaritea ki ngā wiri e puta mai ana i te aroha ka pā ki a koe i roto i ētahi atu hononga. Kāore koe e manukanuka ki tāu e mahi ai, ki tō āhua ina tūtaki koe ki a rātou. Kei te whakamarie koe i roto i tō kiri ake, ā, he tohu pai nui tēnā o te aro nui ki te tangata," te kī a Ridhi.
Tangohia, hei tauira, Big Bang whetu a Jim Parsons me te kaiwhakahaere a Todd Spiewak. I te pātaitanga i roto i tētahi uiuinga mō te āhua o tā rāua marena, i kī a Jim Parsons he "oranga noa iho, he aroha hoha" tō rāua. E whakaaro ana ia ki ngā mahi o ia rā e mahia tahitia ana e rāua – te hanga kawhe i te ata, te haere ki te mahi, te horoi kākahu, me te kawe i ngā kurī ki waho ki te hikoi – hei tauira. tohu arohaMō tēnei tokorua harikoa, koinei te āhua o te kukume kare ā-roto.
Me pehea te mohio: Ka taea e kōrua te noho puku me te whakamarie tetahi ki tetahi, me te kore e whakama tetahi o kōrua. Ka taea e kōrua te whakaatu i tō tuakiri tūturu ki mua i tēnei tangata, me te mōhio ka manakohia koe e te iwi – me te kore he whakatau.
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10. He maha ō whakaaro mō rātou
Mā te kaha o te kukume kare ā-roto ka whakaaro tonu koe ki taua tangata. Ehara i te mea he āhua pōuri. Engari ka koa koe i te hokinga mai ki ngā wā i noho tahi ai koe me rātou, ā, ka mahara anō ki ngā kōrero o mua. He maha ngā huarahi, ka aro nui atu koe ki tēnei tangata ahakoa kāore ia i a koe.
Me kī anō tātou, ki te pau katoa tō wā ki te whakaaro ki tētahi, tae noa ki te whakararuraru i tō oranga o ia rā, he mahi kino tēnā. he tohu kei te pirangi koe ki tetahi... Ā, ehara te aroha kare ā-roto i te mea e āwangawanga ana. Engari ki te kopikopiko noa tō hinengaro ki ngā whakaaro mō aua whakaaro i ngā wā wātea o tō rā, ā, ka whakahihiko aua whakaaro i a koe ki te kaha, kei te whakaatu koe i tētahi o ngā tohu kukume kare ā-roto matarohia.
Me pehea te mohio: Tērā pea ka kite koe i a koe anō e menemene ana i ētahi wā, e whakaaro ana mēnā kei te hinga i roto i te aroha me rātou. Tērā pea ka noho pōrearea koe i a koe e whakaaro ana ki a rātou.
Tohutohu Matua
- Ko te kukume kare ā-roto he kare hōhonu o te hononga ki te hinengaro, ki te āhua o te tangata, ki tōna tuakiri rānei
- Kāore tēnei momo kukume e pā ki te kukume tinana/aroha, engari ka whanake pea hei kukume pēnei.
- He marino, he haumaru, he ngāwari hoki te aroha kare ā-roto. Ina pā atu koe ki tētahi i runga i te taumata kare ā-roto, kāore koe e hiahia ki te huna i ētahi wāhanga o koe i a rātou.
- Ko te ngāwari o te kōrero ki tētahi, te whakawhirinaki, te whakamarie, me te ngākau māhaki, ko ētahi o ngā tohu noa kei te piripono koe ki a rātou.
Anei ngā tohu tekau e whakaatu ana i tō hiahia ki tētahi. Mā tēnei mōhiotanga, ka taea e koe te aromatawai i ō kare ā-roto mō tētahi. Kātahi ka whakatau koe mēnā ka piki ake koe ki tētahi taumata, kāore rānei.
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FAQs
He rerekē te whakamāramatanga a te katoa mō te aroha. E toru ngā momo kukume e honoa ana ki te aroha: te kukume kare ā-roto, te kukume tinana, me te kukume aroha. Ka mārama anō hoki ngā tāne me ngā wāhine ki te mahi a te aroha.
Ahakoa kāore pea te kukume kare ā-roto e rite ki te kare o te aroha, he wāhanga nui tonu ia o te aroha. Engari kāore e tika kia aroha tonu. Ka taea e te tangata te kukume kare ā-roto me te piri ki ngā hoa, ki ngā mātua, ki ngā tuākana, ki ngā teina, ki ngā kaiārahi, me ētahi atu tino tangata o ō rātou ao.
I ahu mai i tētahi hononga hohonu, whai tikanga ki tētahi tangata. He mea nui tēnei hononga hei mārama ki tētahi tangata, hei mōhio hoki ki a ia i roto i a ia, ā, ka hua ake he hononga kaha ki ngā kare ā-roto. Ahakoa ka memeha haere te kukume tinana i te wā, ka tipu haere te kukume kare ā-roto i te wā.
Ka taea, ka kore rānei. Ko te āhua o tētahi whanaungatanga e ahu mai ana i te hononga kare ā-roto kaha i waenganui i te tokorua, e whakawhirinaki ana ki te āhua o rāua, te āhua o te hononga ki a rāua anō, me te mea e rapuhia ana e rāua i taua wā o tō rāua ao. Mena he takakau te tokorua, he wātea, he hiahia ki te hoa rangatira, ā, e piri ana te kare ā-roto ki a rāua anō, ka taea e rāua te huri ki te rohe aroha.
Me pēhea te aroha pono ki tētahi i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga
Kāore tō koha e kiia he kaupapa aroha takohaMā tēnei ka taea e Bonobology te kawe mai i ngā mōhiotanga hou me ngā mōhiotanga hou ki a koe i roto i tā mātou whainga ki te āwhina i te tangata katoa o te ao ki te ako me pēhea te mahi i tetahi mea.
Kia ora! Kāore au i te pai ki te tuku kōrero ki ngā pou nā te uaua o te waihanga i tētahi pūkete engari i tino hiahia ahau ki te mahi pēnā mō tēnei mea.
Ngā mihi nui ki a koe mō te tuhi me te waihanga i tēnei tuhinga! Kua roa ahau e raru ana ki te kimi i te momo kukume kua pā mai ki ahau, ā, nā te pānui i tēnei i tino āwhina i ahau ki te kimi me te whakakotahi i ngā wāhanga panga katoa.
E tino mārama ana ahau ki ngā kōrero maha kua whakahuatia i roto i tēnei pou, ā, ko te rongonga i ngā wheako rite ki aku, me te kore e kiia he "aroha aroha" he "aroha aroha" rānei – ahakoa e mōhio ana ahau ehara – he mea whakamana! Ina koa kāore anō kia tino mōhio ahau ki taku aronga aroha (ahakoa e whakapae ana ahau kei roto ahau i te whānuitanga kakara).
Hei whakamutunga, nā te āheinga ki te whakatakoto i tētahi tapanga tika mō tētahi mea, pērā i ngā momo kukume rerekē, kua āwhina i ahau ki te mārama ki ahau anō, ki te ako i ahau mō ō tātou whanaungatanga ki te tangata, ā, kua whakapiki ake i te māramatanga mō te āhua o tō tātou whanaungatanga ki ētahi atu.
Ngā mihi nui anō ki a koe mō te wā me te kaha i pau ki te tuhi i tēnei pou whakamiharo, ngā mihi nui ki a koe mō te pānui i taku kōrero (he roa rawa) me te whai tonu i ō tuhinga whakamiharo! <3
- Anonymous
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He rite tonu taku wheako ki a koe, koinei te tuhinga pai rawa atu mō te kukume i ngā kare ā-roto i kitea e au i runga i a Google – Ngā mihi nui ki te kaituhi.