Te Whakaipoipo Tūao me ngā Hoa Whai Painga – 10 Ngā Rerekētanga Matua

Kua pātai katoa tātou mō tō tātou hiranga i roto i te oranga o tētahi atu i tētahi wā. I roto i te aroha, ko te nuinga o tātou kua haere i ngā ara piko o ngā herenga ngaro me ngā kupu whakaari koretake. E ai ki tēnei rangahau a Pew Research Centre, tata ki te 47% o ngā Amerikana takakau katoa e kī ana he uaua ake te whakaipoipo i ēnei rā i tērā tekau tau ki muri. Heoi, kei te huri te tangata ki ngā momo whanaungatanga katoa, ā, nā reira ka māmā ake te whakapuaki i ō hiahia.

Ki te hiahia koe ki te whai i tētahi whanaungatanga tuwhera, he mea nui te mārama ki te whanaungatanga tūao me te whanaungatanga hoa whai painga. Ki te mea kāore anō kia whai tapanga tō whanaungatanga, ko te tumanako ka hoatu e tēnei tuhinga he tirohanga hei whakamārama i tō hinengaro.

He aha te Teití Tūturu?

Ko te whakaipoipo noa te tūāpapa o ngā whanaungatanga pumau maha . Ko te mahi tēnei o te mōhio pai ake ki tētahi mā te whakapau i te wā kounga ki a rātou, me te kore he herenga 'ake tonu atu'. I ētahi wā, ka kitea te whakaipoipo noa he mea koretake, he mea uaua hoki. Heoi, e whakaatu ana ngā whakatupuranga taitamariki ka taea e te whakaae tahi me te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero te whakaora i ngā whanaungatanga noa katoa.

Ko ngā āhuatanga e whai ake nei e kitea whānuitia ana i roto i ngā whanaungatanga noa katoa. E mārama ana koe ki ēnei āhuatanga? 

• Kāore e hiahiatia ana te nui o te haumi kare ā-roto e ngā mahi ā-pūmau, engari ko ngā hononga mahi tahi
• Kāore tetahi o te tangata i te tūranga hei tono i te wā, i te wāhi rānei i roto i te oranga o tetahi, o tetahi, i ngā tika rānei o te hoa.
• He nui ake te wā e pau ana i tēnei i te whanaungatanga hoa-me-ngā-painga, engari he iti ake te wā e pau ana i tēnei ki te whakataurite ki tētahi whanaungatanga roa.
• Kāore e uru ana ki te whakapau kaha 

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Ko ētahi o ngā painga o te whakaipoipo noa ka taea te pānui penei: 

1. Hei tīmatanga, ka hoatu he wā ki a koe kia mārama ai koe ki ō tumanakohanga mai i tētahi atu tangata.
2. He huarahi pai hoki tēnei ki te mārama ki te momo hononga aroha e pai ana mōu.
3. Hei whakamutunga, mā te tūtaki me te taunekeneke ki ngā tāngata rerekē ka taea e koe te whiwhi i te wheako me te tirohanga whānui e tino hiahiatia ana. 

Ka puta noa ngā painga o te whakaipoipo noa ina whai kōrero pono, mārama hoki. Mā te whakamōhio atu ki tō hoa kei te tūtaki koe ki ētahi atu tāngata ka penapena i te nui o te wā me te raruraru. Hei tāpiri, kaua e tumanako kia motuhake te hoa i a koe e tūtaki ana ki ētahi atu tāngata.

Ki te mea kua rite koe ki te uru atu ki tēnei momo hononga, kāore koe i te mokemoke! 36% o ngā pakeke i te US i kī kua rite rātou ki te whakamātau i te whakaipoipo noa, ki te hiahia rānei ki te whai i tēnei momo whanaungatanga. E whakaū ana te Pew Research Survey 2019 i tēnei!

He aha te whanaungatanga hoa-me-ngā-painga?

He āhuatanga māia ake te FWB hei whakapau kaha. Mēnā he hoa/hoa ngā taha e rua, engari e mōhio ana hoki ki te hiahia moepuku o tētahi ki tētahi, ka whakaae pea rāua kia noho hei hoa mō tētahi ki tētahi me ngā painga moepuku. Me titiro tātou ki ētahi āhuatanga noa o te āhuatanga hoa-me-ngā-painga :

• Kāore tetahi o ngā rōpū e tono ana i te haumi kare ā-roto, i te whakapau kaha rānei mai i tētahi atu
• Ko te nuinga o ngā hononga FWB he āhua tinana anake 
• Kāore he wā e pau ana ki te 'whakaipoipo' – te haere ki waho, te kai tina, me ērā atu mea. 
• He hononga poto noa iho ēnei ka taea te wehe i ngā wā e wātea ana, e hiahiatia ana rānei e te tokorua.

I roto i te āhuatanga hoa-me-ngā-painga, me whakarērea ngā hiahia aroha katoa (mēnā he hiahia kei roto) o te whanaungatanga. I roto i tētahi rangahau i whakaputaina i roto i te Archives of Sexual Behavior, i puta ngā kitenga e whai ake nei:

• Ko ngā kaiuru i kī mai i harikoa rātou ki te taumata o te patunga tapu i roto i te whanaungatanga FWB i kī mai hoki he nui ake ngā taumata o te whakatikatika i te whanaungatanga.
• He nui ake te tūponotanga o ngā wāhine ki te kite i te nui ake o te whakatikatika i roto i ngā whanaungatanga i ngā tāne
• Ko te nuinga o ngā taiohi e noho hoa tonu ana me tā rātou hoa FWB i muri i te mutunga o te whanaungatanga piripono.

Ko ngā painga tonu o te whanaungatanga i runga ake nei he ā-tinana/ā-ira, ā, kāore he tumanakohanga mō te herenga. Ka taea te whakaaro ko te whakaipoipo noa te tūāpapa mō te whanaungatanga, engari ko te FWB kāore pea e hua mai i tētahi, ahakoa e ai ki te rangahau i runga ake nei, 20% o ngā whanaungatanga FWB ka huri hei herenga nui.

Kia tirohia ngā rerekētanga, kia whakamāramahia hoki. Anei ngā rerekētanga matua tekau i waenga i te whakaipoipo noa me ngā hoa whai painga me mōhio koe:

Te Whakaipoipo Tūao me ngā Hoa Whai Painga – 10 Ngā Rerekētanga Matua 

E ai ki ngā kitenga tika me ngā whakakitenga o tēnei rangahau , ehara i te mea ko ngā hoa katoa e moe tahi ana me tētahi hoa ka whakaaro he whanaungatanga hoa-me-ngā-painga. Tata ki te 38 i roto i te 76 tāngata i kī ko te whanonga moepuku māmā kore-ira kāore e tino whai wāhi ki tētahi āhuatanga hoa-me-ngā-painga. Mō ētahi atu, he nui noa iho te kī he whanaungatanga noa iho.

He whakamataku te Teiti Tūturu, ā, ka meinga pea koe kia ruarua i ngā mea katoa e mōhio ana koe mō te aroha me ngā whanaungatanga. I tētahi atu taha, he ara hou, he ara piko a "hoa-me-ngā-painga" e arahi atu ana ki te whakatutuki i ō hiahia hohonu katoa, kia kore ai koe e hē. Nā te mea kua kōrero kē tātou mō te teiti tūturu me ngā āhuatanga "hoa-me-ngā-painga", me ngana tātou ki te whakamārama i ō whakaaro pōhēhē mō ngā mea e rua. Kāore mātou e teka; he āhua rite tonu rāua engari he mea pai tonu kia mōhio koe ki te rerekētanga o ngā āhuatanga e rua.

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1. Te kaupapa o te whanaungatanga

Kia mārama te tautuhi i tō whanaungatanga ki tō hoa rangatira, ka māmā ake te whakatau he aha te mea e hiahiatia ana i roto i te whanaungatanga. Engari ko te whakaaro he aha te tikanga o te whanaungatanga noa ki te tāne, ki te kōtiro rānei, he mea nui kia whakapuakina tō ake whakaaro.

Te whakaipoipo noa: Ko ētahi o ngā whāinga o te whakaipoipo noa a te tangata:

• He tokomaha e whakaaro ana ko te whakaipoipo te tūāpapa ki te hononga
• Ko ētahi he mea ngahau noa iho te noho tahi me tā rātou hoa rangatira
• Ko ētahi e pai ana ki te pupuri i ā rātou kōwhiringa kia tuwhera tonu
• Ka oati noa ētahi ki a koe ina tino mohio rātou
• I ētahi wā, ka whakaipoipo noa te tangata nā te mea he wā tō rātou ki te mahi pera

Nō reira, kia kotahi te whakaaro o kōrua ko tō hoa. Ki te kite koe i ngā tohu kei te pōhēhē te whanaungatanga noa, kōrero ki ō hoa tata, ki tō hoa rānei kia mārama ai.

Ngā Hoa me ngā Painga: Mā tēnei āhuatanga ka taea e koe te whai hononga ā-tinana ki tētahi e mōhiotia ana e koe. E ai ki te ingoa, tera pea he hoa e hiahia ana koe ki te taha ā-ira tangata engari kāore koe e aro nui ana ki a ia. Ehara ēnei āhuatanga i te mea pōhēhē nā te mea kua whakatakotoria kētia te whāinga i mua.

2. Te whakatakoto i ngā tumanakohanga mō ngā mahi ka taea e koe te mahi

He aha te tikanga o tētahi whanaungatanga noa, o tētahi hoa whai painga rānei ki tētahi tāne/wahine? He aha tāu e tumanakohia ana kia mahia ina uru koe ki tētahi hononga pēnei? Ka haere koe ki waho mō ngā kiriata, ka whakamōhio noa rānei ki a rātou mēnā kei te hiahia koe ki te 'Netflix me te whakangā?' Kaua e manukanuka. Ehara i te mea uaua rawa.

Te whakaipoipo noa: Ko te whakapau i te wā kounga me te tangata e arohaina ana e koe. Ahakoa kua whakatau ngā taha e rua kia kaua e noho motuhake, ka whakatapua e rātou te wā ki te mōhio pai ake tetahi ki tetahi.

Ko te mātakitaki kiriata, te haere ki te tina, me te whai wāhi ki te 'Netflix me te noho humarie' he mahi o ia rā e mahia ana e ngā tāne me ngā wāhine i a rātou e whakaipoipo ana. Kua hiahia koe ki te tono i tō hoa kia haere mai ki te parakuihi? Haere tonu. Kaua e manukanuka, kāore koe e takahi ana i ngā ture whakaipoipo noa.

Ngā Hoa me ngā Painga: Kāore pea tēnei āhuatanga e rite ki ngā āhuatanga o tētahi whanaungatanga noa. Hei tauira, kāore pea tō hoa e hiahia ki te kai tahi i tētahi mea ohorere, ki te haere rānei ki te taraiwa. He rite tonu te FWB ki tētahi 'karanga taonga', ā, kaua e tumanako ki te wā kounga mai i tēnei whakaritenga. Ko te wā anake ka noho tahi kōrua ko te wā e huri ai kōrua ki tō aratau 'hoa platonic'.

3. Te wātea o ngā kare ā-roto i roto i te whakaipoipo noa, me ngā hoa whai painga

Ko te wātea o ngā kare ā-roto e pā ana ki te whakahaere pakeke i te whanaungatanga i waenganui i te tokorua i runga i te hauora me te aroha. E whakaatu ana hoki i te nui o te pumau o te whanaungatanga mō te wā roa. 

Te whakaipoipo noa: Ko ngā whanaungatanga noa e whai whakaaro ana ki te wātea o te hoa aroha e pā ana ki ngā kare ā-roto. Tērā pea ka hiahia rātou ki te whakapuaki i ō rātou raruraru tetahi ki tetahi.

Hoa whai hua: Ehara i te mea ko ngā āhuatanga FWB katoa e tū ana i te pari o te kore kōrero. Mena he hoa pai kōrua ko tō hoa, he hoa pai rānei, tera pea ka hono atu kōrua, ka whakapuaki hoki i tētahi hononga pono atu i tētahi atu. Heoi anō, kāore he wā e wātea ai te aroha.

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4. Ngā tumanakohanga ā-tinana

He hou koe ki te ao o te whakaipoipo, ā, kei te pōhēhē koe mō ngā mea e tumanakohia ana e tō hoa i a koe? Tērā pea ka tino uaua te whakatau i te mea he mea ā-ira ngā tumanakohanga. E ai ki tēnei rangahau , 25% o te wā, ka puta te moepuku i roto i tētahi wā whakaipoipo noa, i te taha rānei o tētahi hoa.

Nō reira, ka pōhēhē te āhua ina kore koe e mōhio ki te nui o te moni hei haumi, me te aha hoki hei tumanako atu. He mea noa te mataku mō ngā tumanakohanga moepuku. Koia te take ina kōrero tātou mō te whanaungatanga tūao, me te whanaungatanga hoa whai hua, ka whakaarohia ngā rerekētanga o ngā tumanakohanga o te whanaungatanga o te tokorua.

Te whakaipoipo noa: Kāore i te tino mārama ngā tumanakohanga ā-tinana, nō reira he nui ake ngā tūponotanga o te kore whakawhitiwhiti kōrero. I te tīmatanga, i te roanga atu rānei, tera pea ka mangere ngā taha e rua, tetahi rānei o ngā taha ki te tīmata i te whanaungatanga moepuku. Mena kei roto koe i tētahi whanaungatanga noa, ā, kāore koe i te pai/i te makona ki tō āhua o nāianei, me whai whakaaro koe ki te kōrero. Whakatakotoria koe ki mua, ka whai ake ngā mea katoa.

Ngā Hoa me ngā Painga: Heoi, ko te FWB he tumanako mārama, he pakari hoki mō tētahi whanaungatanga ā-tinana. I te nuinga o te wā, e hiahia ana ngā taha e rua ki te pupuri i tētahi whanaungatanga ā-tinana anake, ā, e rapu noa ana i te whakamātau i ō rāua hiahia ā-ira tangata. Nō reira, he iti ake te pōhēhētanga, ā, he pai ake te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero.

5. Te whakawhirinakitanga kare ā-roto

Ka pāngia tātou katoa e ngā rā e hiahia ana tātou ki taua tangata kotahi hei tautoko i a tātou, hei manaaki hoki i a tātou kia pai ake ai te wairua. Ahakoa kei a tātou tētahi tangata motuhake, kei te hanga rātou i a rātou anō hei tangata pono, kei te takahi rānei tātou i ētahi ture?

Te whakaipoipo noa: Mena kei te whakaipoipo noa koe , tera pea ka pai tō hoa ki te tuku i tōna pakihiwi hei okiokinga māu. He pono rawa tēnei mena kei te hiahia rātou ki te kawe i te whanaungatanga ki tētahi taumata e whai ake nei. I taua wā, ka nui ake te aroaro o ngā kare ā-roto me te whakawhirinaki ki a rātou. Mātakitaki me te kōrero.

Ngā Hoa me ngā Painga: I roto i te āhuatanga hoa-me-ngā-painga, kāore ngā taha e rua e pai ki te uru nui ki ngā oranga whaiaro o tētahi ki tētahi, engari ko te taumata o te whai wāhi a ngā tāngata hoa e rua kua noho kē ki a rātou anō. Heoi, ki te kore tō hoa e hiahia ki te whakapuaki i te taumahatanga o tōna oranga whaiaro ki a koe, engari e hiahia ana koe ki te whakapuaki me te hiahia kia pērā anō hoki rāua, he pai ake te whakatakoto i ō kōrua tumanakohanga tahi.

6. Ngā momo whakawhitiwhiti kōrero

Ko ētahi tāngata ka meinga koe kia māhana, kia tuwhera ai ō whakaaro mō ngā mea katoa, ko ētahi ia ka meinga koe kia mātao, kia tawhiti hoki. I roto i te rangahau i whakaputaina e Gottman JM, Krokoff LJ (1989) , i kitea e rātou ahakoa i roto i te whanaungatanga marena, ka taea e ngā momo whakawhitiwhiti kōrero katoa te hanga, te wawahi rānei i te hononga.

Te whakaipoipo noa: I te tīmatanga, he ahua uaua, he āhua mārō hoki te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga noa nā te mea he āhua ngawari. Heoi, ka taea e koe te whakapuaki i ō whakaaro ki tō hoa noa mēnā he nui te whanaungatanga kare ā-roto e poipoia ana. Inaa, tera pea ka kitea e ētahi he māmā ake te whakapuaki i ō whakaaro ki tētahi hoa noa i tētahi atu.

Ngā Hoa me ngā Painga: He mea nui kia kōrerohia ō hiahia mō te taatai ​​me ngā rohe. Ka noho hei mea nui i roto i te FWB kia mārama rawa atu ki ngā mea ka taea e koe te hoatu ki te hononga me ngā mea e hiahia ana koe ki te whiwhi. Heoi, ko te take he uaua pea, nā te āhua hoa o te whanaungatanga - ko te kī i ngā hiahia taatai ​​me te wehewehe i aua hiahia mai i ngā hiahia kare ā-roto ka whakamā koe i te tīmatanga.

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7. Ngā whakaaro matatika i roto i te whakaipoipo noa me te whakatau hoa whai hua

He nui ngā mea ka taea te whakatau mō te tangata i runga i tana whanonga i te wā kāore tana hoa rangatira i te taha. 

Te whakaipoipo noa: I roto i te whanaungatanga noa, me mahi te tangata i runga i ngā turanga pakari o te mōhio ki a ia anō me ngā mātāpono. Kaua rawa e kihi, e kōrero rānei. He mea mōhio noa kei te tūtaki ngā taha e rua ki ngā tāngata rerekē, ā, he pai tonu te huna i te whanaungatanga mō te wā roa.

Ngā Hoa me ngā Painga: I roto i te FWB, he mea nui te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero i waenga i ngā rōpū e rua mō ēnei tikanga matatika. Ka mahi te pono o te katoa kia mōhio ai koe ki ngā whakautu ki: Me kōrero atu rānei tātou ki ō tātou hoa tahi kei te hono tātou? Ki te kitea e tetahi o tō tātou porowhita, e pai ana ki a tātou tēnā? He pai ki te whakapuaki ki tētahi hoa tata o tō tātou rōpū? Ā, pērā tonu.

	Te Teití Takoha	Hoa me nga hua
Te tūtaki ki ō rātou mātua	pea	Kaore pea
Te tūtaki ki ō rātou hoa	pea	Tērā pea, ki te mea he hoa tahi ōu
Te tina me ngā wā kiriata	pea	Kaore pea
Te noho o tētahi whanaungatanga ā-tinana	pea	pea
Te kōrero mō ōu heke mai	pea	Kaore pea
Te Whakanui	Kaore pea	Kaore pea

8. Ngā kōrero mō te heke mai

Ina whai wāhi ngā herenga me ngā kupu whakaari pakari ki te whanaungatanga, ka māmā ake te whakatau i te heke mai. Heoi, ki te kore e tutuki ngā whakaritenga me ngā whakaaro mārama, ka uaua haere ngā mea. 

Teiti noa: E mōhiotia ana ko ngā whanaungatanga noa ka hua ake he herenga roa. Engari ki te mea kei te rapu koe i ngā tohu e whakaatu ana kei te tino pakari te whanaungatanga noa , kaua e mahi. Whakapono mai ki a mātou, he māmā ake te pātai ki tō hoa he aha te mea e tupu ana i te whakaaro noa i a koe anō. Hei tāpiri, me te mōhio kei reira pea ētahi atu tāngata i roto i te pikitia, ka whakamamae noa koe i a koe anō me ngā whakaaro rerekē.

Ngā Hoa me ngā Painga: Ka tino heke te tūponotanga o tētahi hononga aroha i roto i tētahi FWB. Ki te hiahia koe ki tētahi moepuku wera mō te wā poto, koinei anake te huarahi hei haere. Kaua e haereere me te tumanako ki tētahi oati mō te wā roa i ngā wāhi kāore e kitea e koe.

Tohutohu ngaio: Ahakoa he aha tāu e hiahia ana mai i tētahi o ngā hononga e rua, kia mahara ki te kōrero!

9. Ngā rohe kāore i kōrerotia

I roto i tētahi tuhinga i whakaputaina e Tinder , neke atu i te 19% o ngā kōrero whaiaro o Tinder i whakauru i te kupu "rohe" ki roto i ā rātou kōtaha. Ahakoa he whanaungatanga whānau, he whanaungatanga aroha rānei, kaua e whiti i ētahi rārangi me ngā kaupapa kāore e tika kia kōrerohia. Ki te tika, he mea nui te karo i ēnei. Ko ēnei hei huarahi mārire hei whakaatu i tō tātou manaaki. Me kōrero tātou mō ngā rohe kāore i kōrerotia i roto i ngā whanaungatanga noa, me ngā hoa whai hua.

Te whakaipoipo noa: Anei ētahi rohe i roto i ngā whanaungatanga noa:

• He roa te wā e whanake ai ngā whanaungatanga tūao hei whanaungatanga roa, mēnā he whanaungatanga tūturu. Nō reira, me āta aro atu ki tētahi kaupapa e pā ana ki tēnei.
• Kaua e akiaki i te tangata kē ki tētahi kōrero kāore rātou e hiahia ana ki te whakahaere
• He rohe kei te tangata mō ētahi mahi e hiahia ana rātou ki te mahi tahi me koe, kāore rānei (te haere tahi me koe i ngā pō whakatā, ngā koha, te auau o ngā waeatanga, me ētahi atu). Kia whakaute i a rātou.
• Tērā pea he whānui tonu ngā rohe i roto i ngā whanaungatanga noa, nā te mea kua kitea kētia te māramatanga o ngā kare ā-roto.

Ngā hoa whai painga: Pērā anō hoki mō te āhuatanga hoa-whai painga.

• Kāore e whakaaetia te tirotiro haere i runga i ā rātou waea pūkoro, te uru rānei ki ō rātou oranga whaiaro
• I roto i tētahi FWB, kāore e tika kia kōrerohia ngā mea kua whakamāramahia i mua i te tīmatanga o te hononga.
• Kia mau ki te whakahaere i ō kare ā-roto, kia mārama hoki tetahi ki tetahi ki ngā āhuatanga o tetahi

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10. Te wā e noho tahi ana i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga noa, kaua ki ngā hoa whai hua

Mō tētahi tangata, ko te wā kounga te tikanga o te takoto ki runga i te tarutaru matomato, me te titiro ki ngā whetū ataahua. Mō ētahi atu, ko te noho noa iho, me te kōrero ki a rātou anō i runga i te kapu kawhe. Mō te hunga e whai hononga aroha ana, e moepuku ana rānei, ko te wā kounga te tikanga o te mahi ki te whakapakari i te whanaungatanga moepuku. Nō reira, he aha te tikanga o tēnei ki a koe?

Teiti noa: Ko ngā whanaungatanga noa he whakapau i te wā ki te whakakaha i te hononga. E ai ki te kōrero i mua ake nei, ko te haere ki waho ki ngā teiti, ki te tūtaki rānei ki te whānau o tētahi, he wāhanga nui anō hoki o te teiti noa i tētahi. Ko te mahi tahi i ēnei mea katoa he tohu pea kei te hiahia koe ki te whakakaha i te hononga engari kāore pea he tikanga ....

Ngā Hoa Whai Hua: Tērā pea ka tūtaki noa tō hoa whai hua ki a koe i ētahi wā, ā, kotahi noa te huarahi e makona ai koe i te nuinga. Mena ko te whanaungatanga piripono te mea e rapu ana koe, tūhuratia ētahi atu momo whanaungatanga. Kāore pea he FWB e tika mōu.

Ko te tino take? Kaua e whakaaro nui rawa, kaua hoki e whakaaro nui ki te tūnga o tō hononga. Kōrerohia, ā, haere tonu. Ki te mea kei te whakaaro koe kia pēhea te roa o te wā e tika ana kia whakaipoipo noa koe i tētahi , ko te whakautu ko te roa e hiahiatia ana e koe. Kaua e aro nui ki te hanga i tētahi hononga mai i tō whakaipoipo noa. Ka pēhia kōrua e tēnei, ka whakangaro hoki i ngā turanga ngawari o te whanaungatanga. Kia mōhio ki tāu e hiahia ana, ā, kia rite ki tāu e hiahia ana.

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