E pai ana ki a tātou katoa te whakahaere i ngā mea, engari kāore e taea i ngā wā katoa. Ā, ina nui rawa te āwangawanga, ka tūtaki tātou ki te rewera o te koretake. Ina roa koe e noho ana hei kaiārahi, ka ako koe i te whai wāhi nui o te koretake ki te nuinga o ngā raruraru whanaungatanga.
Kua raru katoa te tangata i ngā kare ā-roto o te koretake, te koretake rānei, ā, ka mau tonu ēnei i te tangata ina tīmata te whakaipoipo. He uaua ki te mārama ki ngā "take" o tēnei, ā, he uaua hoki te wikitoria i te koretake. Ehara i te mea ngāwari te whawhai ki te koretake nā te mea he nui te whakaaroaro e hiahiatia ana. Engari ki te mea kei konei koe e pānui ana, kua tangohia e koe te taahiraa tuatahi maia.
Nō reira, kia tīmata tātou i tēnei haerenga, hei āwhina i a koe ki te mārama ake ki a koe anō mā te kimi i te whakautu ki te pātai "He aha ahau i pōuri ai i roto i taku whanaungatanga?" I roto i tēnei tuhinga, ka kōrero te tohunga hinengaro mō... Juhi Pandey (MA Psychology), he tohunga ki te whakaipoipo, ki te tohutohu i mua i te marena me te wehenga, e tuhituhi ana mō ngā tohu me ngā take e tino pōuri ai koe i roto i tō whanaungatanga.
He aha ngā tohu o te koretake o te whanaungatanga?
Ripanga o Ihirangi
Kua kōrero mai tō hoa rangatira ki a koe kei te āhua pōuri koe? Tērā pea he whakakahore tō urupare ohorere. "Kāo, kāore rawa. Kāore au i te pōuri." Ā, kua rongo au i te maha o ngā kiritaki e kī ana i taua mea anō ina tūtaki rātou ki ō rātou whanonga i te wā e rongoatia ana mō te pōuri i roto i ngā whanaungatanga.
Ina hoki, he tokomaha o rātou e huri ana i te tūnga o ā rātou hoa, e whakapae ana i a rātou mō te koretake o te māia. He uaua pea te whakaae ki ā tātou ake tauira. He maha ngā wā ka ngana te tangata ki te karo i tēnei mate urutā me te mea he mate urutā, ā, ahakoa kāore rātou e karo, kāore rātou i te tino mōhio me aha ki te aha.
"E mōhio ana ahau e aroha ana taku hoa tāne ki ahau, engari kei te māharahara ahau. Me kī tonu mai ia e aroha ana ia ki ahau, ki te kore, kei te whakaaro ahau kei te tata ia ki te whakarērea ahau," te kōrero a tētahi ki ahau. He kōrero tēnei e kite tonu ana ahau i te mea he iti nei te hae me te koretake i roto i ngā whanaungatanga katoa.
He aha te mea e kore ai te wahine e māia i roto i te whanaungatanga, e pātai ana koe? He tohu anō kei te whakaatuhia e te hunga māia katoa; ko te tirotiro i aua tohu ka rite ki te tū i mua i te whakaata. Ka akiaki atu ahau kia kitea e koe ngā āhuatanga ōrite me te pono, nā te mea he wāhi haumaru tēnei.
Nō reira, i mua i tā tātou whakautu i te pātai, "He aha ngā take o te koretake o te whanaungatanga?", he mea nui kia mōhio koe kaua e uru ki tēnei kōrero me ngā whakaaro kua whakaritea mōu ake. Ahakoa ki te whakaaro koe kāore he pūtake o te kereme a tō hoa mō tō koretake, tirohia ngā tohu e whakaatu ana i tō koretake i roto i tō whanaungatanga, tera pea ka miharo koe ki tāu e kite ai.
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1. Ngā take whakawhirinaki: He aha te take e manukanuka ai?
Kei te ruarua koe i ngā mea katoa e kōrerotia ana e tō hoa? Kei te rite ō pātai whai muri ki te uiui? Kei te whawhai koe ki te whakamatautauranga ki te tirotiro i tā rātou waea? Kua oti kē rānei i a koe? Ko tētahi tohu o te koretake ko te uaua ki te whakawhirinaki ki tō hoa. Kei te uaua koe ki te whakawhirinaki ki a ia, ā, he nui te manukanuka e puta mai ana i tēnei.
Ka waikura tātou i roto i te koretake. Ka whakaaro tātou, "Kāore au i te rawaka? Kei te tinihanga ia i ahau?" Ko te manukanuka i puta mai i te koretake ka taea hoki te take o ō huringa wairua, te riri, te whakararuraru, te mataku, me te riri. He maha ngā tāngata e ruarua ana i waenga i te whakaaro mēnā kei te pōuri, e tinihangatia ana rāneiHe wāhi hinengaro tino kino tēnei hei nohoia.
"Nui atu tōku māharahara i roto i taku whanaungatanga tawhiti, kua whiwhi taku hoa i tētahi hoa mahi hou, ā, kei te whakaaro tonu ahau ki tēnā. Ahakoa e tino mōhio ana ahau kāore ia e tinihanga ana i ahau, ko te whakaaro noa kei a ia tētahi hoa hou e noho tahi ana ia mō te wā roa i a au e ngaro ana, kua hae ahau," te kōrero a tētahi kiritaki ki ahau.
Ko te whakaaturanga tino kitea o te kore whakawhirinaki i roto i te whanaungatanga ko ngā take whakawhirinaki e ngoikore ana. Mena kua kitea e koe he uaua ki te whakawhirinaki ki tō hoa ahakoa e kī tonu ana rātou ki a koe i te nui o tō rātou aroha me tō rātou uara ki a koe, he tohu pea tēnei me mahi koe ki te whakapai ake i tō whakaaro ki a koe anō.
2. Kei te tiaki tonu
Ko te nuinga o te tangata, ina pāngia e te āwangawanga, ka rongo rātou kei te whakaekea rātou e ō rātou hoa. He maha ngā wā, kāore e tika ana ā rātou whanonga tiaki nā te mea kua he te māramatanga o ngā kōrero ki a rātou.
Ki te mea kei te tuku whakamārama koe mō te kore take, kei te tango rānei koe i ngā mea whaiaro, me noho koe ki te whakaaroaro me te huri i te āhua. He maha ngā wāhine e kī ana, "Ka whakapouri taku hoa ki ahau me āna tawai.” Engari ko te hara e pā ana ki a koe, kei te tukuna atu rānei?
Tērā pea kei te whakaaroaro koe ki ngā mea nā te mea kei te whakaatu koe i ō raruraru. Nā te mea pea kei te whakaaro koe kāore koe i te tino ātaahua, kei te whakaaro koe kei te tawai ia i a koe i ia wā e kōrero ana ia mō tō āhua. Nā te mea pea kāore koe i te whakaaro kei te pai āu whiwhinga moni, ka riri koe i ia wā e kōrero ana ia mō tōna tungāne he nui ake tana whiwhinga moni i a koe. Ko te pātai me pātai atu koe ki a koe anō, "He aha ahau i tino pōuri ai i roto i taku whanaungatanga?"
3. Te hiahia kia aro tonu
He mea noa te noho pōuri i roto i tētahi hononga hou ina kore e taea e tō hoa te noho tahi me koe? I te tīmatanga, ehara i te mea nui te manukanuka, te noho pōuri rānei. Engari anei tētahi āhuatanga whakaaro noa: Ka whakatau tō hoa tāne ki te noho tahi me āna hoa i te mutunga wiki, kaua ki a koe. I kite noa kōrua tetahi i tetahi, ā, e hiahia ana ia ki te kōrero ki tana tira. Ka kī atu ia ki a koe he mahere āna.
He aha tāu tauhohenga? Kei te mamae koe, kei te riri rānei nā te mea kāore ia e whakapau i tōna wā katoa ki a koe? Mena āe, kāti kāore koe i te māia i roto i tō whanaungatanga. He uaua ki a koe te whakaae ki te meka he takitahi te oranga o te tangata ahakoa kei te whakaipoipo rātou. Mena he hoa piripono rawa koe, tera pea kāore anō koe kia rite mō te whanaungatanga.
Ko te tono tonu kia arohia koe, he tohu kino tēnei mō te koretake o te noho. He mea tino nui te rapu i te pūtake o tēnei āhuatanga mō te wā roa.
4. Te tauhohe nui (Nui atu)
Ko tētahi ngoikoretanga nui o te koretake o te māia ko te whakaaro nui rawa, me te tauhohenga nui e puta mai ana. Ko te hanga maunga mai i ngā pukepuke iti, te amuamu tonu, te riri rānei, ehara i te whanonga hauora. E hiahia ana ahau ki te tohu i tētahi rerekētanga nui i waenga i te "whakautu" me te "tauhohe".
He whakautu kua whakaaroarohia pai te urupare, engari he whakautu e ahu mai ana i te kare ā-roto te tauhohenga. Ko tō tātou hinengaro te mea e ārahi ana i ā tātou urupare, ko ō tātou kare ā-roto ia e ārahi ana i ngā tauhohenga. Ki te mea ka aro noa koe, ka āta whakaaro rānei, ka āta māori rānei tauhohe ki tō hoa rangatira i roto i te āhua whakapae, i te āhua riri rānei, ka tono atu ahau kia huri koe ki te whakautu. Nā te mea he tukanga roa te wetewete i ā tātou tikanga, ko tā tātou e taea ai i tēnei wā ko te whakaaro i mua i te mahi.
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5. Tino tata, engari he tawhiti
Ka puta he āhuatanga rerekē nā te koretake o te māia. I tētahi taha, tera pea kei te piripono koe, engari i tētahi taha, he uaua ki a koe te noho tahi me te tangata. Tērā pea kei te raru koe ki te noho hei tangata pono i te taha o tō hoa. Kei te whakaaro koe mēnā ka whakaaetia koe e rātou mō tō āhua? He nui te maia e hiahiatia ana hei whakaraerae, engari he taahiraa tēnei me mahi e tātou ki te whakapakari i ō tātou whanaungatanga.
Kua tae ki te wā ki te pātai ki a koe anō, "He aha ahau i pōuri ai i roto i taku whanaungatanga?" Ko ngā raruraru o te whanaungatanga ā-hinengaro me te whanaungatanga ā-tinana he tohu pono o te tangata pōuri. I muri i te tirotiro i ēnei tohu, kua mārama kē koe ki tō tūnga. Nā te mea kua mōhio koe ki ngā pōuri noa i roto i te whanaungatanga, ko te mahi e whai ake nei ko te kimi i te take o taua pōuri.
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He tika tāu pātai, "He aha ahau i pōuri ai i roto i taku whanaungatanga?", nā te mea he uaua, he rerekē hoki ngā take o te pōuri. He uaua te tautuhi i a rātou, engari mā ngā take e iwa e tino kitea ana koe e āwhina ki te mārama he aha koe i pēnei ai. Ko te mea nui e whakaoho ake ai te pōuri i roto i ngā whanaungatanga ko te kore whakapono ki a koe anō, te kore rānei e whakaute ki a koe anō.
Kāore i te miharo ko te whakaaro o te tangata mōna ake e tohu ana i te momo whanaungatanga ka pā ki a ia me te ao o waho. Ki te kore koe e tino harikoa ki a koe anō, ka whakaaro koe kāore he tangata kē atu e harikoa ana. Ngāna kia kite i ēnei take kei muri i te hae me te koretake i roto i ngā whanaungatanga me te hinengaro tuwhera. Whakatakotoria te whakaaro kia pai ake koe, ā, ko ēnei take e iwa he taahiraa ki tō oranga.
1. Ōu ake whakapono – He take anō kei reira hei whakamāumahara i a koe?
E iwa i roto i te tekau ngā wā, ko ō tātou ake tirohanga ki a tātou anō me te tirohanga a te ao ki a tātou te take o ō tātou kare ā-roto. Tuatahi, he aha tō whakaaro mō tētahi whanaungatanga? Mā tō pūnaha whakapono e whakatau te huarahi e whakatata atu ai koe ki te whakaipoipo, me te huarahi e tumanakohia ana e koe kia arohaina. Ki te whakaaro koe kei te tinihangatia koe, tera pea nā tō kāore te hoa rangatira i te harikoa ki te whanaungatanga.
Tērā pea ka whakanuia rawatia tō rātou pouri i roto i tō hinengaro, ka meinga koe kia whakaaro kei te tinihanga rātou i a koe. Mēnā ko tō whakaaro ake mō te tūtaki ki tētahi kāore he hononga pāpori i tua atu i a rātou, ka nui ake ō āwangawanga. Ka nui ake ngā take e kore ai koe e āwangawanga nā te mea he iti noa iho tō tirohanga ki tētahi whanaungatanga.
Mena he whānui ake tō tirohanga, ā, kāore koe e aro ki te mataku i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga, ka taea e koe te whakaaro mēnā he tika ō āwangawanga. Engari, ki te mea kei te whakaaro tonu koe he ngoikore te kaha o tō whanaungatanga ki tētahi atu, nā te mea kāore tō whanaungatanga ki a koe anō i te pai, koinei te take e puta ai ngā kare ā-roto o te kore haumaru i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga i te nuinga o ngā wā.
2. Te mamae o te tamarikitanga me te momo piripono
Kāore te hītori i tawhiti rawa atu i tā tātou e whakaaro nei. Tērā pea i ahu mai tō koretake i ngā take o tō tamarikitanga. Tērā pea i pāngia koe e te tukino ā-ira tangata, te tukino ā-tinana rānei, te tukino ā-hinengaro, te matenga o tētahi matua, te kore aro, te mate roa, te tukino, te whakarere o ngā mātua, me ētahi atu. te momo piripono e whakawhanakehia ana e tātou i a tātou e tamariki ana Ko te nuinga o te wā e whakawhirinaki ana ki tō tātou whanaungatanga ki ō tātou kaitiaki matua. Mēnā kāore tātou i whakawhirinaki ki a rātou hei mātua pono mō tātou, mēnā he ruarua tā rātou huarahi, he ngaro rawa rānei, ka whakawhanakehia e tātou he huarahi koretake ki ō tātou whanaungatanga ā muri ake nei.
Hei tauira, he kiritaki nāku i tata nei. "E mōhio ana ahau e aroha ana taku hoa tāne ki ahau engari kei te pōuri ahau," tana kī, me te tāpiri, "I ngā rā e pukumahi ana ia, ā, kāore e taea e ia te aro mai ki ahau, ka whakaaro tonu ahau ka waiho ahau e ia kia noho mokemoke." Nā te āwhina o te rongoā hinengaro, ka mōhio ia ko tēnei Tuhinga o mua i whakatōkia ki roto i a ia i te ngaromanga o tōna whaea mō ngā marama.
Ko tētahi o ngā kōrero e kōrerohia ana e te hunga e pāngia ana e te āwangawanga i puta mai i te mamae o te tamarikitanga, ko te kī, "Nā taku hoa tāne ahau i whakararuraru, kāore i te mōhiotia" me te "nā taku hoa wahine ahau i whakararuraru, kāore i te mōhiotia". He mea nui ngā kupu "kāore i te mōhiotia" me te "kāore i te mōhiotia" nā te mea kei te akiaki te mamae o mua i a koe ki te whakamārama i āna mahi i tētahi ara.
I ētahi wā, ko te mea e whakararuraru ai te wahine (te tāne rānei) ko tētahi mea i tupu i tōna tamarikitanga. Ka taea e koe te whakatau i ēnei raruraru nā te mea he kōwhiringa pai tonu te rongoā mō te whakararuraru i roto i ngā whanaungatanga. Mena he āwhina tēnei e rapuhia ana e koe, ko te rōpū kaiwhakaora hinengaro o Bonobology he pāwhiri atu.
3. Ka puta pea te hae me te kore whakawhirinaki i roto i ngā whanaungatanga i ngā mahi mamae o mua
Ka nui te awe o ngā aituā o ngā whanaungatanga o mua ki a tātou. Tērā pea i homai e tō hoa o mua he take pai ki a koe kia whakapae. Ko ngā hoa e tinihanga ana, e teka ana, e whakamahi ana rānei i te hau, ka waiho he tohu pumau ki ō tātou whanonga. I roto i ngā wānanga, he maha aku rongonga i ngā kiritaki e kī ana, "I meinga ahau e taku hoa o mua kia kore e māia ki tōku tinana." Me "I meinga ahau e taku hoa kia kore e māia mā te tuku karere ki ētahi atu wāhine."
He tino uaua te wikitoria i ēnei, engari i te mutunga, ko tō oranga te mea e kino ai te koretake o te wairua. Ko ngā tohu kāore anō kia ora te mea e kore ai te wahine e noho i roto i te whanaungatanga, e waiho rānei te tāne kia ki tonu i te koretake. Mā te tinihanga koe e huri tino uaua, ā, he uaua te whakaora. Tērā pea ka whakaaro koe kāore e pai te whanaungatanga o nāianei.
Heoi, he mea nui kia mōhio koe kaua e tukua ngā taumahatanga o ō whanaungatanga o mua kia pā ki ō whanaungatanga o nāianei. Ko ngā āwangawanga nui rawa atu i roto i ngā whanaungatanga ka puta mai i te mea kua kite rātou i tētahi mea kino kua puta i mua. Ko tētahi o ngā huarahi pai ki te whakatau i tēnei āhuatanga ko te mahi i runga i tā tātou e kōrero ai i muri mai, arā, ko tō whakaaro iti ki a koe anō.
4. Ko te iti o te whakaaro ki a ia anō te take e puta ai ngā kare ā-roto o te kore haumaru i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga
Me pēhea te whakaaro ka whakapono te tangata ki a ia anō i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga mēnā kāore ia i te whakapono ki a ia anō? Ka taea e te iti o te whakaaro ki a ia anō te whakararuraru i te whanaungatanga. Tērā pea te āhua nei kei te ruarua koe mō tō hoa, engari ko te mea pono, ko koe anō te mea e ruarua ana koe.
Mena he tangata koe e iti ana te whakaaro ki a koe anō, ka whakaaro tonu koe kāore koe i te pai. Ka puta tō koretake nā te mea kei te whakaaro koe, "Nā te mea kāore au i te pai, me noho ia ki tētahi atu hei whakakapi i ōku ngoikoretanga." Tērā pea ka koretake koe i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga hou. Engari ka arahi pea tēnei ki ngā whanonga whakakino i a koe anō ki te kore e whakahaerea me te tupato.
Ka pātai koe, he aha ahau i pōuri ai i roto i taku whanaungatanga? Nā te mea kāore koe e whakaaro nui ana ki a koe anō. Me mahi koe ki a koe anō, me whai kia noho hei tangata whai mana ki a koe anō. Ae, ehara i te mea ngāwari te haerenga, engari he mea nui kia harikoa koe ki a koe anō kia taea ai e koe te whakaae ki te meka e aroha ana tō hoa ki a koe mō wai koe, ā, he ranea koe.
5. E aroha ana koe ki a koe anō?
Ko te aroha ki a tātou anō tētahi wāhanga o te whanaungatanga tino nui o tō tātou ao – arā, ko te whanaungatanga ki a tātou anō. Kāore e taea e tetahi te whakakapi i te kore aroha ki a tātou anō, ā, he mahi tēnei mā tātou anō e whakatutuki. Ko te taahiraa tuatahi ki te aroha ki a tātou anō ko te whakaae.
I mua i tā tātou kōrero mō te "Nā taku tāne ahau i whakamā ki tōku tinana" me te "Nā taku wahine ahau i whakamā mā te whanonga me te mea kāore au i te rawaka", me kōrero koe mēnā kei te whakamā koe, ahakoa ō rātou whakaaro. E whakaae ana koe ki a koe anō i te katoa, me ō rātou ngoikoretanga katoa? Ki te kore, koinei pea te pūtake o tō whakamā. Awhitia koe (pērā i a Elizabeth Gilbert i roto i... Kai, Tata, Aroha) i mua i tō tumanako kia pērā tō hoa. Ka kitea te ngākau māhaki i waho i muri i tō ngākau māhaki i roto.
6. Te kore kōrero ki tō hoa
Ko tētahi atu take pakari mō te koretake o te whanaungatanga ko te kore whakawhitiwhiti kōrero i waenganui i a kōrua ko tō hoa. Tērā pea kua pukumahi kōrua, kua pāngia rānei e ētahi raruraru. Ahakoa pēhea, kua mutu pea te rere o ngā kōrero. He mea noa te koretake o te whanaungatanga i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga hou ina pāngia kōrua e ngā pakanga tuatahi? Ae, nā te mea kei te ngana noa kōrua ki te whakatau i te raruraru o tētahi ki tētahi.
Engari ina kua tata kē te wā, ka taea e te kore whakawhitiwhiti kōrero te whakararu i te whanaungatanga. Nā te mea kāore kōrua e whakapā atu tetahi ki tetahi (i te taha kare ā-roto), kei te māharahara koe mō te whanaungatanga. He raruraru tēnei ka taea te whakatika mā te noho tahi me te kōrero uaua.
Ka akiaki atu ahau ki a koe kia whakarongo pai ake i roto i tō whanaungatanga, kaua ko te whakatakoto noa i ōu ake whakaaro. Kāore au e pai ki te whakaputa i tētahi kōrero tawhito, engari ko te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero te mea nui. Kāore e taea, ā, e kore hoki e pai te whanaungatanga mēnā kāore koe e pai ki te kōrero. Kei te wātea tonu te rongoā mō te koretake o te whanaungatanga.
7. Ngā huringa i roto i tō whanaungatanga
Kei roto i ia whanaungatanga ngā wāhanga whanaketanga. He wā uaua anō hoki. Mena kua neke tō whanaungatanga mai i te whanaungatanga noa ki te whanaungatanga nui, mai i te noho tahi ki te marena rānei, tera pea kei te pūtake mai te koretake o te māia i tēnei huringa.
"Whai muri i ngā tau e rua o te noho i roto i te noho-i roto i te hononga"... "E tino pōuri ana ahau i roto i taku whanaungatanga tawhiti. I ia wā ka haere ia ki waho, ka whakaaro tonu ahau ko te mea kino rawa atu. I ia wā ka whiwhi ia i tētahi hoa hou, kei te ngana kē ahau ki te whai i taua tangata i runga ipurangi," te kōrero a Jason ki a mātou, mō te uaua o te neke ohorere ki tawhiti.
Ka roa pea te wā e urutau ai ki tētahi whanaungatanga hou. I a koe e tau ana ki roto, tera pea ka paku māharahara koe. Ko te hunga kua tīmata te whakaipoipo, tera pea ka māharahara koe i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga hou. Mō ngā wā uaua, ka pahemo, ka mau tonu te māharahara. Heoi, ki te mea kua kitea e koe he kino rawa atu ō raruraru whanaungatanga, whakapā atu ki tētahi tohunga mō te āwhina.
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8. Te moemoeā mō te oranga tino pai
I kite ahau i tēnei kōrero whakamiharo nā Steven Furtick i runga i te Pukamata i tētahi atu rā. "Ko te take e raru ai tātou i te koretake o te māia, nā te mea ka whakataurite tātou i ō tātou āhuatanga i muri i te whakaaturanga ki ngā mahi whakahirahira a te katoa." Tērā pea kei te pāngia koe e te mate o te hiahia kia tino tika. Nō ngā kiriata tō whakaaro mō tētahi whanaungatanga, ā, he tino pai rawa atu.
Ki te mea kei te mōhio noa koe he rerekē ngā whanaungatanga tūturu i ngā whanaungatanga pakiwaitara, tera pea kei te pōuri koe. Ina pātai koe, he aha ahau i pōuri ai i roto i taku whanaungatanga? Ka kī atu ahau ki a koe, ehara ngā kiriata, ngā pukapuka, ngā pāpāho pāpori rānei i te tohutoro. He pai, he kino hoki ō te whanaungatanga tūturu, ko ētahi kāore e taea e koe te whakahaere. Kia tau ki te meka kāore e tika kia tika ngā mea katoa.
9. Ko te manukanuka pāpori te take o te hae me te kore haumaru i roto i ngā whanaungatanga
Ā, hei whakamutunga, tera pea koe e pāngia ana e te manukanuka pāpori. Tērā pea koinei te take e iti ai tō whakapono ki a koe anō, tō manukanuka tonu, me tō koretake. Ka pāngia e te manukanuka pāpori ngā āhuatanga katoa o tō ao, i ngā huarahi kāore e taea e koe te whakaaro. Mena he tangata koe e pāngia ana e te manukanuka pāpori, ka nui ake tō wehi kei whakakahoretia, kei whakahēngia hoki, ka nui ake te koretake. He huarahi pai te rongoā me te tohutohu hei whakatau i te manukanuka pāpori nā te mea ka whakaratohia koe ki ngā taputapu tika.
Kua tae tātou ki te mutunga o tā tātou haerenga ki roto i ngā wai pōuri o te koretake. Ko tāku tino tumanako kua āwhina ahau i a koe, ā, kua ārahi atu ahau i a koe ki tētahi hononga taurite ake, me te kore he pātai "He aha koe te aroha ai ki ahau?", i ia wā kāore tō hoa e whakautu mai ki a koe mō te haurua o te rā.
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I runga i tō aromatawai i te take, ka taea e koe te mahi hei tīmata i te tukanga whakaora. Me mahi koe ki te whakatika i tō āwangawanga mō ngā whanaungatanga hauora me te kaha ake. Engari he wāhi pai hei tīmatanga ko te tirotiro i tō hononga ki a koe anō.
Āta tirohia ō whakaaro mōu ake. Me mahi ki te whakapakari i tō whakaaro ki a koe anō, me noho tahi me koe anō, me te aroha ki a koe anō. Me aro atu hoki koe ki ēnei āwangawanga me tō hoa. Ka whai hua te whanaungatanga mā te mahi a te tokorua, ā, me whai wāhi atu ia ki te mahi i ngā mea katoa e taea ana e ia kia noho haumaru ai koe, kia noho pūmau ai hoki. Ka tohutohu atu ahau kia whakaarohia e koe te rongoā hinengaro, te tohutohu rānei.
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