"Ko ia pea tāu tāne engari ko ia taku tama tuatahi" – Ko te pepeha a ngā hungawai wahine paitini katoa.
E hia ngā wā i atawhai ai tō hungawai i tāu tāne me te mea he tangata pono ia “taonga” ā, i meinga koe kia rite ki tētahi tangata whenua kē? Ki te kore e taea e koe te tatau i te maha o ngā wā ki ōu maihao, ko te tūponotanga kei roto koe i te mahanga me tētahi hungawai wahine nanakia, he whakaaro nōna kia rite tō kōrua oranga marena ki te reinga.
Kāore te marena i te ngāwari. Ka taea te kī he hikoi noa i roto i te pāka..mēnā ko Jurassic Park te pāka! Kaua e pohehe, he kare ā-roto kāore e taea te whakataurite te marena ki te aroha o tōu ao. Engari, he rerekē ki te ao pai o ngā kiriata, ehara i te tīkiti ki tō harikoa-ā-muri. Engari, kāore koe e marena noa i tāu tāne, engari ka marena koe i tōna whānau katoa, ā, ka nui ake ngā kawenga kei runga i tō pereti. Kua noho ko koe te kaitiaki o te tini o ngā tāngata i tōu i hainatia.
Ko te kawenga anō hoki a tōna whānau kia noho koe i tō kāinga. Engari i te nuinga o te wā, ahakoa tō whakapau kaha, ka meinga koe e ngā hungawai-kino kia rite ki te manene i roto i tō ake kāinga.
8 Ngā Tohu o te Hungawai Wahine Paitini
Ripanga o Ihirangi
E hia nga wa i whakaaro ai koe, "E kino ana ahau ki tōku hungawai wahine"Āe, ko wai e aroha ana ki te hae, ā, hungawai wahine tinihangaKa whakapau kaha te hungawai wahine kino ki te whakapouri i a koe, ki te whakapau i tō kaha katoa, ā, ka waiho i a koe ki te ao mamae.
Ahakoa ō mahi, he pānga kino pea tēnei ki tō whanaungatanga ki tō tāne. He rite tonu ki te whai Whaea Hāngai! Ki te hiahia koe ki te tiaki i tō marena mai i tō hungawai wahine tinihanga, ako ki te kite i ēnei ngā haki whero ā, me te ārai i a rātou i te wā e taea ai!
1. He tangata whakahāwea tonu ia
E kino ana ahau ki taku hungawai wahine mō te tirotiro tonu i ahau. Me te mea nei ka arotakehia kinotia ngā whakaaro me ngā mahi katoa e mahia ana e koe. Kāore e mutu i reira. Ka arotakehia e te hungawai wahine kino ō kākahu, tō hikoi, tō kōrero, tō kata rānei. Ka arotakehia e ia ō mahi katoa me te heru pai. Kia rite ki te whakarongo ki tētahi kauhau mō ngā whanonga me ngā tikanga tika.
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2. Ka amuamu ia mōu
Kāore he mea e mahue i te hungawai kino ina tae mai ki te amuamu mōu. Ahakoa he pāti ngeru me āna hoa, he huihuinga pāpori, he huihuinga whānau rānei. He mārama noa iho e kino ana ia ki a koeHe pai ki a ia te pēhi i ō pātene me te whakaiti i a koe i mua i te aroaro o ētahi atu. He tohu mārama tēnei o te hungawai wahine hae. Ko te huarahi pai ko te mōhio ki tōna koretake, me te noho kore e pāngia e taua mea.
Pānui e pā ana: Kaua e kīia ia he tangata hiahia ki a ia anō mēnā kāore ia e hiahia ki te noho tahi me tana hungawai.s
3. He wahine tūturu ia nō Nosy Parker
Ka kitea ia e mātaki ana, e noho puku ana rānei i ngā wāhi kāore e tika ana kia noho ia. Ka whakarite tō hungawai wahine hihiri kia noho ia i reira, inā koa ka hoki mai tō tāne i te mahi. Ka ngana ia ki te tomo ki tō wāhi whaiaro, ka tīmata kōrero noa ki a kōrua ko tō tāne, ka tapahi i tō kōrua wā tūmataiti, ā, e kore e hoatu he wāhi ki a kōrua. Kāore te hungawai wahine hae e aro ki te whakaaro ka roa ake te wā e noho tahi ana me tana tama.
e pā ana pānui: He aha te mea tino hira o te wāhi i roto i te whanaungatanga
Kāore tō koha e kiia he kaupapa aroha takohaMā tēnei ka taea e Bonobology te kawe mai i ngā mōhiotanga hou me ngā mōhiotanga hou ki a koe i roto i tā mātou whainga ki te āwhina i te tangata katoa o te ao ki te ako me pēhea te mahi i tetahi mea.
Maatua!