15 Ngā Tohu e Tino Kino Ana Tō Hungawai ki a Koe

Porohia te aroha

A pōti mō Netmums I whakatau ko te whakatau kotahi i roto i te tokowhā o ngā wāhine i roto i te 2000 katoa o ngā kaiwhakautu wāhine i whakaaro he 'mana whakahaere' ā rātou hungawai wahine. Ina tīmata koe ki te kite i ngā tohu e kino ana tō hungawai wahine ki a koe, ka arahi ki te pouri, te riri, ngā tautohetohe maha ki te tāne, ā, i ngā wā kino rawa atu, ka mutu te marena.

Nā te mahi tēnā, e hoa, hungawai wahine tinihanga e tino kino ana ki a koe. Ka taea e te hungawai te waihanga i tētahi te whanau paitini tērā pea ka pā kino ki te katoa.

He tino uaua te mahi tahi me te hungawai wahine kino. Engari kua aro atu koe ki ngā tohu kāore tō hungawai wahine e pai ki a koe? Mena kei te mahi ia i ēnei mea 15 e kinongia ana koe e tō hungawai wahine, he pono tēnā.

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15 Ngā Tohu e Kino Ana Tō Hungawai ki a Koe

Ripanga o Ihirangi

I mua i tō tīmatanga ki te whakaaro he koretake tō āhua, me te tuku i tō whārite ki ō paitini hungawai Whakaitihia tō whanaungatanga ki tō tāne, tohua ēnei tohu i roto i tō whānautanga. He uaua ki te mahi tahi me te hungawai wahine e kino ana ki a koe.

Ki te mea ko ngā tohu te mea e tautuhi ana i a ia, e hoa, me āwhina pono koe ki te whakatau i a ia. Ki te mea kei te whakaaro koe me pēhea te whakatau i tētahi hungawai wahine e kino ana ki a koe, pānuihia tonu. Anei ngā huarahi hei āwhina i a koe ki te tautuhi i ngā tohu e tino kino ana tō hungawai wahine ki a koe.

1. He tika tonu ia i ngā wā katoa

Kāore he tautohe mō tēnei. Kāore ia e hē, ā, ki te kore tō hungawai e pai ki a koe, tera pea ka whakapono tonu ia kei te hē koe.

E kore rawa e hē te hungawai wahine e kino ana ki a koe. Ahakoa he kino ia, kāore he tangata e maia ki te kī pērā. Ae.

Ina hoki, ka whakanuia e ia tō ngā hapa me ō ngoikoretangaĀ, te āhua nei, he atua wahine tino pai ia. Kāore koe i te mōhio me pēhea te mahi ki tētahi hungawai wahine e kino ana ki a koe.

2. Ka warewarehia koe e ia, ka peia rawatia atu hoki

Kāore koe e tika ana kia aro atu ia ki a koe, ā, he iti noa iho koe ki a ia. Ahakoa kei te kōrero koe ki a ia, e kore ia e whakarongo ki a koe. He tohu tēnei e kino ana tō hungawai wahine ki a koe.

Ka āta kore ia e aro ki a koe, ka whakaari kei te whakapaipai i ōna maikuku. Ki te puta tō whakaaro, ka whakakorea tonutia e ia.

He tohu mārama tēnei kei te pupuri ia i te paitini ki a koe, ā, he nui tōna kino ki a koe.

3. Kāore ia e kore e whakaatu i ō ngoikoretanga

Ahakoa ko te keke i pakaru i te tihi, ko ōu koha rānei, kāore ia e kore whakamāramahia ō hapaĀ, ka mahia anō e ia tēnā i te aroaro o te marea.

Hei tāpiri atu ki te whakatoi, ka tukuna atu e ia he tohutohu, ā, ka hokona pea e ia he mea whakapaipai tiaki kiri māu (mō aua koha). Tērā pea he āhua reka ia ina kitea e ia ngā āhuatanga kino mōu, engari kaua e tukua kia whakapohehetia koe e tēnā. Kāore ia e pai ki a koe, ā, e kore e waiho e ia he kōhatu kia mārama ai.

E kino ana tō hungawai wahine ki a koe — Ko ō ngoikoretanga anake te mea e kitea ana e te hungawai wahine

4. Ka tukuna e ia ngā kōrero whakatoi me te whakahihi i te wā kāore he tangata i te taha

He rerekē te arohaehae i ngā mea katoa e mahia ana e koe, engari mā te tuku kōrero whakatoi, whakatoi i te wā e noho ko kōrua anake ka piki ake te mauahara ki tētahi taumata e whai ake nei.

Kāore, e kore ia e tawai i a koe i mua i te whānau katoa; heoi anō, me pupuri tonu e ia taua ingoa, ā, e kore rawa ia e whakaatu ki tana tama te nui o tōna kino ki a koe.

Engari, ka kōrero kino ia ki a koe ina oti ana te mahi i te kīhini, ā, kāore he tangata i reira. Ka whakararuraru hoki i tō wairua mō te pō, koinei pea tana e hiahia ana.

Ahakoa ka ngana koe ki te kōrero ki tō tāne, ka uaua ki a ia te whakapono ki a koe nā te mea he tino pai ia ina tata mai ia.

5. He mea tauhou ki a ia te ariā o ngā 'rohe'

Ahakoa ō whakamahara maha, kāore tō hungawai wahine whakahihi e whakaute i a koe rohe whaiaro ā, e huna pai ana i te pokanoa hei 'aroha' mō tāna tama me koe.

Nō reira, ka whakapono pea tō tāne kei te whakaaroaro noa ia, kei te aroha, kei te manaaki noa iho – ā, kua mau tonu tēnei ki tōna hinengaro i te taumata huna.

Ia wā ka kōrero koe i tētahi mea whakahe mōna, ka whakahua ia i aua take, ka whakakore hoki i ō whakapae.

Me maumahara ia ko te pono tuatahi o te pakeke me noho ki tōna hoa rangatira. Ina hoki, he mea pai kia rua kōrua whakatakotohia ētahi rohe ki ngā hungawai mō te noho tahi i runga i te rangimārie.

6. Kāore ia e aro nui ana ki tōu ao

He huarahi māmā ake te pātai atu ki tētahi mō tōna oranga o te rā, me te pātai i ngā mea e pā ana ki tōna oranga, ki te whakaatu i tōna aroha ki a ia.

Engari kāore tō hungawai wahine. Kāore ia e pātai me pēhea tō rā, he aha koe i harikoa ai i tēnei rā, he aha rānei te take o taua marutanga i raro i tō kanohi. Kei te whakaaro tonu koe, "He aha te take e kino nui ai tōku hungawai wahine ki ahau?"

Tōu pūkenga me hungawai hae kāore e aro nui ana ki ō mahi, ā, kāore rawa e pātai mai ki a koe mō tetahi mea. Tērā pea ka kaua e tautoko i tāu mahi, ā, ka tohe tonu ki a koe, ka whakaiti rānei i ō kawenga mahi.

7. E whakaititia ana e ia ō whakatutukitanga katoa

Ahakoa tō hiranga i te mātauranga, ō wikitoria i roto i ngā hākinakina, tō tohu 'Kaimahi Pai rawa atu' rānei, kāore he aha o ngā mea katoa kua tutuki i a koe.

E kore ia e waiho i tētahi kōhatu kia kore e hurihia kia mārama ai koe kāore he tikanga o āu whakatutukitanga katoa ki a ia, kāore ia e whakahīhī, ā, kāore noa ia e aro atu.

He tino parakore rātou, ā, e kore rawa ia e tino harikoa mōu. Ka pā kino hoki tēnei ki tō whakapono ki a koe anō, he mea e tino hiahiatia ana e ia. Engari me mahara koe ki te aroha ki a koe anō ahakoa te nui o tana ngana ki te whakatenatena i a koe kia kaua e pērā.

E whakaititia ana e ia ō whakatutukitanga katoa — Ka whakaititia koe e te hungawai wahine

8. He mea tāna hei whakararu i a koe

He mea tāna hei whakararuraru i ngā mea katoa e mahia ana e koe, hei whakararuraru hoki i ō mahi katoa. Ahakoa ko te hararei kua roa e tatarihia ana Ahakoa ngā mahere kua whakaritea e koe, ngā kōwhiringa rānei mō āu tamariki, ka hiahia pea te hungawai hae kia hinga koe, kia ngoikore ai hoki ō mahi katoa.

Ka haunga kino te taiao e karapoti nei i a koe, ā, nā te mea he nui rawa tana whakataetae ki a koe, ka whakapau kaha ia ki te whakaiti i tō whakaaro i ngā mea katoa - te maia ki a koe anō, te pūkenga, te mana me te hinengaro.

He maha āna whakarite i a ia ki a koe, ā, kāore e kore ka pai ake ia i ngā wā katoa.

9. Ka whakakino ia i tō whānau

Ko tētahi o ngā tohu e kino ana tō hungawai wahine ki a koe, he kore aroha ia ki a koe. Kāore ia e mangere ki te kōrero kino, ki te tawai hoki i tō iwi, i ō whakapono, tae atu ki tō whānau.

Kāore pea ia e kōrero tika i ngā kupu kino, ā, i ētahi wā ka kōrero noa ia i te kupu whakamihi. Kāore pea koe e mōhio kua whakaititia tō whānau.

He iti te utu o tēnei, engari he hungawai wahine paitini Ko te tangata e tino mauahara ana ki a koe, kāore he rohe hei aukati i a ia. He tohu ēnei kāore tō hungawai wahine e pai ki a koe. Ko te mea anake ka mahue ko te whakaaro me pēhea te mahi ki te hungawai wahine e kino ana ki a koe, kāore he take e taea te whakamārama.

10. He nui tōna hihiri ki te kōrero mō ngā hoa o mua o tāu tāne

Ka horahia e te hungawai wahine te paitini - kāore he mea kē atu. Tērā pea ka kōrero noa ia mō ngā hoa o mua o tāu tāne. Kāore ia e mangere ki te whakarite i a koe ki a rātou.

He tino mamae tēnei, engari ka kore hoki e ruarua koe kei te whakaaro tō hungawai wahine, he kaha rawa tana mahi ki a koe.

Ko tana hihiri ki te whakaiti i a koe, ki te whakarite i a koe ki ētahi atu he tohu mārama tēnei o te hungawai wahine, he ngāwari ki te whakahaere kare ā-roto.

Kōrero atu ki a ia he mamae, ā, me mutu tana mahi i tēnei. Ki te taea rānei, kaua e aro ki a ia ina kōrero kino ia pēnei.

11. Kāore he whakaahua o kōrua ko tō tāne

I tēnei ao o ngā tānga me ngā pikitia, kei a koe ngā whakaahua o ngā mea katoa. Tae atu ki ngā mea e kainga ana e te tangata me ngā mea e mimi ana (āe, ehara i te mea tūturu). Ko te mea nui, ki te kore koe e kite i tētahi pikitia āu i roto i tōna whare, kāore he take e whakaaro tuarua ai koe - e tino kino ana ia ki a koe.

Tirohia taua pakitara. Kei roto ngā whakaahua o ngā wāhanga katoa o te oranga o tana tama, o ngā whanaunga me te katoa – engari kāore he whakaahua o te marena, o muri mai rānei – i a koe i tōna taha.

Kei te whakaaro koe ki te hoatu i tētahi koha ki a ia?

12. Ko te tākaro i te patunga te hākinakina tino pai ki a ia

E mōhio ana koe he aha tana hākinakina tino pai? Te tākaro i te kāri patunga! Mā tēnei kāri ka riro i a ia te aro katoa o tana tama (tae atu ki ngā hoa noho pōhēhē).

Ina puta mai tētahi mea i a koe, ka takaro ia i tēnei kāri, ka maringi ngā roimata nakahi, ka whakauru i te whānau katoa kia tapaina ai koe he tangata kino. Ka kohia e ia te aroha, ka ataata mai hoki ki a koe, kua mutu katoa ngā mea katoa.

E hae ana ia ki a koe, ā, e tinihanga ana i tāu tāne kia kotahi noa te taha o tana titiro. Kōrerohia ki tāu tāne kia kite mēnā he tika.

13. E kino ana tō hungawai wahine ki a koe, ā, e whakataetae ana ki a koe i ngā mea katoa

Ahakoa ko tō kākahu, ko tō kōrero rānei, ka kitea e koe kei te ngana tonu tetahi ki te whakataetae ki a koe, kia toa ai. Ka whakataetae te hungawai hae ki a koe i ngā mea katoa, te tunu kai, ngā hararei, te ataahua me ngā mea e pānuihia ana e koe, e mahia ana hoki e koe.

Ki te mea kua hokona e koe he kākahu hou, tera pea ka haere ia ki te hoko i tētahi mea utu nui ake. He maha ngā hungawai wahine kino e whakataetae ana ki ā rātou hunaonga wahine i ngā āhuatanga katoa.

E mataku ana ia i a koe ā, ka whakapau kaha koe kia toa ai ia. Koinei anō tētahi o ngā tohu e kino ana tō hungawai wahine ki a koe.

He whakataetae tino kino, tino kino hoki tēnei, ā, ka mimiti i te harikoa o te whānau.

14. Kāore ia e pai kia whai wāhi koe ki ngā huihuinga whānau

Ko te whāinga o tēnei he whakaiti i tō ingoa pāpori ina tae mai ki ngā huihuinga whānau. Tērā pea ka wareware te hungawai wahine e kino ana ki a koe ki te karanga i a koe ki ngā huihuinga whānau, ki te kore rānei e kōrero ki a koe i tētahi wāhanga matua o tētahi tumanako.

Tērā pea kāore rawa te hungawai wahine e kino ana ki a koe e kōrero he mate huka te matua kēkē o tō tāne, kāore he huka i a ia – ā, ina tukuna atu e koe he keke ki a ia, tērā pea ka tawaihia koe mō te kore mōhio. Kāore ia e hiahia kia taunekeneke koe me te whānau whānui nā te mea kāore ia e hiahia kia mōhio rātou ki a koe te whānau tūturu (me te whānau pai).

Ā, ko te mea nui, he ngāwari noa iho koe ki a ia te wareware. Heoi anō, ko te mea kino rawa atu, tērā pea kāore tō hoa rangatira e kite i tēnei mea e tupu ana mēnā kāore koe e kōrero mōna.

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15. Ka amuamu nui ia ki tana tama mōu

Kaua i mua i a koe; kāore rawa ia e hiahia kia whakahē koe i ana whakapae! Engari ina kitea ia ko ia anake, ina tautohe rānei ia ki a koe, ka noho ia ki raro, ka kōrero ki a ia te kaha o tana ngana, engari KOE.

Ā, whakapono mai ki ahau, he roa tana rārangi amuamu, ā, ka kaha tonu tana amuamu. kōrero ki tāna tamaNā te mea kua riri kē te tangata ki a koe, ka rite ēnei amuamu ki te wahie ki te ahi, ā, tera pea ka kore ia e aro mō ngā rā.

Ā, kei reira koe, e miharo ana he aha te mea i tupu.

Mā ēnei tohu ka kore e ruarua te tangata ehara tō hungawai wahine i te tino kaiwhaiwhai mōu. Ahakoa he rerekē ngā whakaaro o tō tāne, e mōhio ana koe ki te āhua rerekē o tō wairua ina tata mai ia. Me pēhea te whakatau i tētahi hungawai wahine e kino ana ki a koe?

Ko te tohutohu pai ko te ngana ki te whakatika i ngā hē me tō whānau, me te whai i tētahi te whakataurite whakamarie ki a iaEhara pea i te mea tino pai, engari he mea tika, he mea whakaute, he rohe kua whakaaetia. Heoi, i mua i tō tīmatanga ki te mahi i tēnā, me mōhio koe mēnā e tino kino ana tō whaea ki a koe, e rite ana rānei ki te momo kuri tawhito o tōna momo.

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Mā ngā tohu o runga ake nei koe e āwhina ki te tautuhi i tētahi hungawai wahine kino e tino riri ana ki a koe. Whakamaherehia ō nekehanga kia rite ki tēnā – kaua e whakaaro ka taea e koe te whakarerekē i a ia, engari patua ia i tana ake kēmu me te kore e tukua kia pōrearea te whanaungatanga o te whānau.

I ētahi wā, ina kite koe i ngā tohu e kino ana tō hungawai ki a koe, kāore he nui o ngā mea ka taea e koe te mahi, engari me whakamahi noa i ngā mea katoa kei a koe, ka tuku atu.

FAQs

1. Me pēhea taku kore aro ki tētahi hungawai wahine e whakapataritari ana?

Mā te kore e tukua tana whanonga kia pā ki tō rangimārie hinengaro. Tērā pea ka kino tō hungawai ki a koe, ka ngana rānei ki te mahi i ngā mea katoa hei whakaiti i a koe, engari me aro nui koe ki tēnā. Mā te hamama, te whakautu, te whakautu rānei ka meinga koe hei tangata kino. Kia maumahara ki tēnā.

2. He aha i hae ai ngā hungawai wahine?

Ka hae ngā hungawai wahine nā te mea he rangatira ā rātou tama, ā, kāore e taea e rātou te aro atu ki tā rātou tama e hoatu ana te aroha me te aro ki tētahi atu wahine. Ka tīmata rātou ki te whakataetae mō te aro o te tama, me te ngana ki te whakaatu kei te whakaaro tonu ia he nui ake te hiranga o te whaea i te wahine.

3. Me pēhea koe e mōhio ai mēnā kei te kino tō hungawai wahine ki a koe?

Ka mōhio koe e kino ana tō hungawai ki a koe i te wā e whakapau kaha ana ia ki te turaki i a koe, ki te whakataetae ki a koe, ki te whakauaua ake i tō koiora, ā, ka ngana ia ki te takaro i te kāri patunga me te whakaatu ko koe te tangata kino.

4. He aha i kore ai e noho tahi ngā hungawai wahine me ngā hunaonga wahine?

I puta mai tēnei raruraru katoa i te mana pupuri o te whaea ki tana tama. I a ia e moe ana, ka tīmata te whaea ki te māharahara mō tōna tūranga, ā, ka ara ake ngā raruraru ki te hunaonga wahine.

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