E aroha ana ahau ki tētahi tama kua ū kē ki tētahi hononga mō ngā tau e whā kua pahure ake nei. E mea ana ia kei te aroha ia ki a māua tokorua. Kei te rua ngā wā o taku hoa tāne ki ahau, ahakoa he pono tana kōrero.
E rua ngā wā e tatari ana taku hoa tāne ki ahau
Ripanga o Ihirangi
I tinihanga ia mō tana hoa wahine pumau me ētahi atu kōtiro hoki. Engari ināianei kua kī ia kua rerekē ia i muri i tana tūtaki ki ahau. Engari e whakaaro ana ia nā te mea kāore taua kōtiro i te he, kāore e taea e ia te whakarere i a ia.
E huna ana e ia ngā kōrero katoa mō tōna ao i a ia, engari e kōrero mai ana i ngā mea katoa ki ahau. Ki taku whakaaro koinei te take e tinihanga ana ia i ahau, e tinihanga ana hoki i a ia. He tino uaua tēnei āhuatanga katoa ki ahau i ētahi wā. Engari ko au haurangi i roto i te aroha me ia.
Te pānui e pā ana: Ki taku whakaaro kei te aroha ahau ki a ia engari kei te hiahia ahau ki te hono atu ki ētahi atu
Tā tātou whanaungatanga rua-wā
E ono marama māua e noho tahi ana. I kōrero mai ia ki a māua engari i mea mai ia ka moe māua.
Kei reira tonu ngā tohu e rua āna hoa aroha ki ahau, engari ina kī mai ia kāore e taea e ia te whakarērea i ahau, ka whakapono ahau ki a ia. Ahakoa e mōhio ana ahau kei roto ia i tētahi hononga aroha, i aroha ahau ki a ia.
Ki taku whakaaro nōku te he. Aroha ana ahau ki a ia me tōku ngākau katoa, ā, kāore e taea e au te whakarere i a ia. Engari i ētahi wā ka whakaaro ahau he mea pea tēnei hononga kino kei a tāua. Ā, tera pea kei te teka ia ki ahau.
Te āhua o taku whakahaere i te āhuatanga
I ia rā, i ia rā, kei reira pouri i roto i tōku ngākau kei te hē taku mahi ki a ia. I ia pō ka ngaro noa ahau i a au anō. Nā tēnei hara ahau i noho kau ai i roto. Ko tāku anake e mōhio ana ko te āhua o taku mahi ki tētahi hoa tāne e rua ngā wā e tatari ana ki ahau. E mōhio ana ahau ki ngā mea katoa engari kei te ngoikore ahau.
Tena koa kia awhina ahau.
Hiha Aroha,
Kāore e taea e te reparo te whakarerekē i ōna ira. Āe, i ēnei rā, ka taea e rātou te whiriwhiri i te whakapiri kiri, engari me ahu mai te hiahia ki te whakarerekē i roto. Me whai tikanga anō hoki rātou. Nō reira, ko te pātai i konei –
a. E hiahia ana ia ki te huri?
b. Kei a ia ngā tikanga hei huri?
Te pānui e pā ana: Kua whakarērea ahau e taku hoa pai me taku hoa tāne, ā, kei te whakaipoipo rāua
Ka taea e koe te whakawhirinaki ki a ia?
Kei te mau tonu tana whanaungatanga ki ngā wāhine tokorua (tērā pea he nui ake, e kore rawa koe e mōhio, ā, he pono, e kore rawa koe e mōhio) e taea te whakawhirinaki ki a ia) te pupuri i tētahi i roto i te pōuri, me te mea i tētahi (koe) kia whakaae ki tōna āhua tinihanga.
Kei te tinihanga anō hoki ia i a koe. Kei te mōhio koe, ki te mau koe i ngā takirua tarau e rua, ka āhua rerekē koe. Waihoki, he mea tino rerekē tēnei tama. E kore rawa ia e moe i a koe, ā, e kore rawa ia e moe i te kotiro kē atu.
Ka taea e koe te pupuri tonu i tētahi whanaungatanga me te mōhio ki tēnei?
Kāore e hiahiatia kia mutu te whanaungatanga katoa ki te marena. Ahakoa ka marena ia i a koe, he maha tonu ngā tāngata e aro atu ana ki a ia i te wā kotahi – nō reira, whakapono mai ki ahau, ehara i te mea nōna te noho piri ki te wahine kotahi. He rite ngā wāhine ki ngā taonga whakahīhī ki a ia.
Mā te aroha koe e mahi i ngā mea rerekē
Ka whakaae ahau, ā, kāore he he o te noho i roto i tētahi aroha tauhou mēnā koinā tāu e hiahia ana. Ki te taea e koe te whakaae kei tua atu i a koe tētahi atu tangata, me noho tonu ki a ia.
Ki te kore e taea e koe, kaua e mahi. Nā te mea i mōhio koe i haere tonu tēnei whanaungatanga, ā, i muri i tō noho i roto i tēnei, ka hiahia koe ki te whakarerekē i a ia.
He hē tēnei nāu – te hiahia kia rerekē te tangata e arohaina ana e koe. Ki te taea e koe te whakaae ki a ia, ā, i ngā wā katoa murua ia mō ōna ara, kia mau tonu.
Arohaina ia me ōna hapa
Arohaina ia pēnei, hei tangata hapa mēnā me aroha koe. Ā, ki te taea e koe te whakaae ki tēnei, kāti e kore koe e kino ki a koe anō mō te aroha ki a ia. Koinei te mea ataahua o te aroha – mā te aroha koe e aroha ki a koe anō. Kia mau ki te aroha. Ake tonu atu!
aroha,
Joie Bose
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