He aha ngā mea e whakakitea ana e ō tikanga kai mō tō momo aroha?

E ai ki te kōrero, ko te huarahi ki te ngākau o te tangata mā roto i tōna puku, engari me pēhea mēnā ehara te huarahi ki te mārama ki tētahi whanaungatanga i ngā mahi whakahirahira, i ngā tina aroha rānei, engari i ngā kai o ia rā? Mai i te hunga whiriwhiri kai ki te hunga kai mōrearea, he maha ngā wā ka whakaatahia e ā tātou tikanga kai tā tātou huarahi ki te aroha me te hononga.

Ngā Kai mō te Hononga Pumau

He tino pakari te kai a te tāne a tētahi hoa, ā, ka taea e ia te kai i tētahi hanawiti kūkamo i ia ata mō te toenga o tōna oranga, me te kore amuamu. Ko te tikanga, me tapahi te kūkamo i tētahi ara motuhake, me tunu te taro kia parauri, me te tote me te pepa kia ōrite te tohatoha ki ia wahi kūkamo, ā, me nui te pata kia kore ai e maroke te taro. E kī ana ia ehara ia i te kai huawhenua, engari he heihei anake tāna e kai ana. Ahakoa koia te mea e whakawhirinaki ana ki tōna oranga, e kore ia e whakamātau i tētahi kai hou.

I pātai atu ahau ki taku hoa mēnā i whakararuraru tēnei whanonga i a ia. Ka whakahoki ia, "I te rā ka tīmata ia ki te kai i ngā kai moana hei utu mō te heihei, ka mōhio ahau kei te tinihanga ia i ahau." Nā tēnā ahau i whakaaro ai ki te hononga tata o te kai me te aroha.

Te āhua o tā tātou titiro ki te kai

Hei tauira, ki te pai koe ki te kai i te momo kai kotahi i ia rā, kei te rapu koe i tētahi wāhi whakamarie i roto i tō whanaungatanga. Kāore koe e māharahara ki te whakamātau i ngā rihi hou me ngā tāngata hou i ētahi wā, engari ko tāu e tino hiahia ana ko te hoki ki taua hanawiti kūkamo, ahakoa te hoha.

Ā, ki te pai koe ki ngā momo kai rerekē, koinā tonu te mea e hiahiatia ana e koe i roto i ō whanaungatanga. Ehara i te mea he tangata tinihanga koe, nā te mea ka taea e koe te whai momo kai rerekē ahakoa ki te tangata kotahi, ki te kore ka taea e koe te kai rerekē. whakamātauria ō hiahia moepuku mā te kai.

Kātahi anō ka puta he momo tangata kāore e aro nui ki te kai e kainga ana e ia, ā, e kitea ana tēnā i roto i ngā whanaungatanga. Ki te kai koe i te mea e whiwhi ana koe, tera pea kei te kai koe i te coq au vin tino reka o te ao (rapua ki Google, i mahi ahau) ā, kāore koe i te mōhio ki te kai i taua mea kia pai ai te reka.

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Kai, me te aroha, whakamahia ō tātou māia katoa

Ehara i te mea ko te reka anake te mea e pā ana ki te kai. Ka whakamahia e koe ōu mātanga katoa ki te wheako i te kai, pērā i te moepuku, tae noa ki te aroha.

Ka whakamahia e koe ōu mātanga katoa ki te wheako i te kai, pērā i te taatai, tae noa ki te aroha.

Ki te mea ko koe te momo tangata e ruku hohonu ana ki te kai, tae atu ki tōna hītori me ōna takenga mai, tuatahi me whakaaro koe kia noho hei kairīti kai, tuarua me tino whiriwhiri koe i roto i ō whanaungatanga, tae noa ki ngā kōrero iti rawa.

He pai ki tētahi o ōku hoa ngā tikanga kai me te āhua o te wāhi e kai ana ia. "E mōhio ana ahau ki te wāhi kai hou, pai rawa atu i te tāone." Ā, e mōhio ana ia. Engari kāore ia i te tino hiahia ki te kai. Ko ana whiringa hoa e whakaata ana i te taua. He mea nui ki a ia ngā āhuatanga o te whakaipoipo, te whakawai me te āhua o waho, engari he mea ruarua tonu te pakari me te mau o taua hoa.

Ā, ki te mea kua wehea e koe te kai kia rite ki ngā rōpū pūmua, warowaihā me ngā kaora, tera pea kei te ara whanaungatanga koe ki a koe anō. Kei te tirotirohia e koe ngā hiahia me ngā wawata o tō tinana, ā, ina puta koe ki tērā pito o tēnei, ka kite koe kua rerekē tonu ō hiahia mai i tētahi whanaungatanga.

Kātahi anō ka kai hauora ētahi i te aroaro o te marea, engari ina waiho ko rātou anake, ka kai nui rātou. Tērā pea ka hiahia rātou ki te tirotiro i ō rātou hiahia moepuku huna. Ae, tera ētahi e pai ana ki te kai, engari e mōhio tonu ana ki ngā wāhanga kai. He aroha whāiti pea?

Kaua e tatau i ngā kaora, i ngā rohe rānei o te aroha

Pērā i te kore e tatauhia te kai i roto i ngā kaora, me wheako hoki te aroha me te kore e aro. Tāpirihia "pata nati hauora"Ehara i te mea ka whakarei ake i ō wheako tunu kai anake te tāpiri i te kai reka ki roto i tō kai, engari ka puta mai hoki he ngāwari hou me te harikoa ki ngā āhuatanga o tō whanaungatanga."

Ko te nuinga o ngā wāhine e mōhio ana ahau he hunga kai kare ā-roto. Āe, kia ora te tangata e tūtaki ana i ahau ina hiakai ahau. He pai ki taku tamaiti e whā tau te pakeke te kupu 'hangry' e whakarapopoto ana i ōku kare ā-roto ina hiakai ahau. Ki te hiahia koe ki te moe tahi me te kore e whāngai i ahau, tera pea ka rite ahau ki te manu uwha e kai ana i te upoko o tana hoa i muri tonu i te moe tahi. He whakaaro tēnā ka taea e au te ngaungau…

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Kāore i taea e ngā kuia o te ao te hē ake i tā rātou kī ko te huarahi ki te ngākau o te tāne kei roto i tōna puku. Āe! Ki taku whakaaro he pono ake tēnei mō te wahine. Kāore he mea miharo. he mea kukume ngā wāhine ki ngā tāne e tunu kai anaKo te tangata e aroha ana ki te whāngai i a koe, he tangata atawhai nui anō hoki ia i ngā mahi katoa.

Ko te tangata e aroha ana ki te whāngai i a koe, he tangata atawhai nui anō hoki ia i ngā mahi katoa.

Nō reira, ā tērā wā ka hiahia koe ki te tiakarete, kia tika te nui hei whakaoho i tō wairua, kātahi ka mahi tahi me te takaro i roto i te rūma moe. He aha tāu e kī atu ai?

Thoughts Final

He hononga uaua, he hononga whakamīharo hoki te hononga i waenga i te kai me te aroha. Mai i te whakamarie o tētahi rihi kua mōhiotia ki te whakahihiri o te whakamātau i tētahi mea hou, he maha ngā wā ka whakaatahia e ā tātou wheako tunu kai ngā harikoa, ngā wero, me ngā āhuatanga rerekē o ā tātou whanaungatanga.

Mā te aro ki ā tātou ake tikanga kai me ā tātou hoa, ka taea e tātou te whiwhi māramatanga whai hua mō ā tātou momo aroha, ngā tauira whakawhitiwhiti kōrero, me ngā wāhi hei tipu ake. Ahakoa he awhi i te ngāwari, he whakanui i ngā hiahia tahi, he pārekareka noa rānei ki ngā ahuareka o te kai tahi, ka taea e te kai te noho hei taputapu kaha mō te whakawhanake i te hononga hohonu ake me te aroha pumau.

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