E hia ngā wā kua tūtaki koe ki ētahi e whakapono ana ko rātou tonu te tino tauira o te tino pai? He tangata e whakapono ana he tino pai rātou, ā, kei raro iho i a rātou te katoa. Āe, ki te mea kei te whakaaro koe ki tō hoa i te pānui i tēnei, kāti, kāore mātou e pai ki te whakapuaki atu ki a koe, engari kei te whakaipoipo koe i tētahi tangata he matatini atua tōna.
He aha te Matatini Atua?
Ripanga o Ihirangi
Kei te whakaaro koe he aha te matatini atua? Āe, i roto i ngā kupu māmā, ko te matatini atua he whakaahua pohehe o te tangata ake e hangaia ana i roto i ōna mahunga. Ko tēnei whakaahua pohehe e akiakihia ana e te hiahia ki te mana, te hiahia ki te whakahaere i ngā mea katoa, te hiahia ki te whakahaere i te katoa, me te kaha o te whakaaro ki te Tuhinga o mua.
E ai ki te ingoa, ko te ariā atua he whakaaro kei te rite te tangata ki te atua. E whakapono ana rātou he rite tonu tō rātou hiranga ki te atua, ā, ka meinga rātou kia whakaaro he tika rātou ki te whakaiti i te hunga e karapoti ana i a rātou, kia ngākau mahaki hoki. Nā tēnei ka tata kore e taea te mahi tahi me te tangata he ariā atua tōna.
12 Ngā Tohu kei te Whakaipoipo Koe i tētahi Tangata he Matatini Atua
Kei te whakaipoipo koe i tētahi tangata he nui rawa tōna whakaaro mōna ake? Kua tūtaki koe, kua whakaipoipo rānei i tētahi tangata he matatini atua tōna? Tērā pea kua pērā koe, engari kāore anō kia taea e koe te tautuhi i a ia. Kaua e mataku, kei a mātou tō tautoko.
Kua kohikohia e mātou ētahi tohu hei tirotiro māu, mēnā kei te hiahia koe ki te kite i ēnei tāngata. Pānuihia tonu kia mōhio ai koe ki ngā tohu 12 o te whakaipoipo i tētahi tangata he atua tōna, ā, kia kitea ai!
1. Ka whakararuraru tonu rātou i tā kōrua kōrero
Ko te hunga whai whakaaro atua, kāore e taea te noho puku me te whakarongo ki tētahi atu e tū ana i waenganui o te atamira. Me wawahi kōrero rātou, me whakapuaki whakaaro, ahakoa he iti noa iho ō rātou mōhiotanga mō te kaupapa e pā ana. Ko te kōrerorero ā-rua te pūtake o te pai. rautaki korero, ā, he akoranga tēnei kāore e mārama ki te tangata whai ariā atua.
Ehara i te mea koinā anake, engari ka whakarite hoki rātou kia tau te kōrero ki a rātou anō. Ko te hunga whai whakaaro atua me whakararuraru i tētahi, me noho hei tirohanga mā te katoa. Ka tino kitea e rātou kāore rātou e aro ki ō whakaaro.
2. Kī tonu rātou i a rātou anō
"I karanga tonu mai ia ki ahau hei awhina i a ia"
"Kāore e taea e ia te mahi i tēnei mea me te kore taku āwhina"
"I waimarie ia i reira ahau"
Kua rongo tonu koe i ēnei kupu a tō hoa rangatira? Āe, ehara i te mea miharo kei te piri tahi koe me tētahi tangata he wairua atua tōna.
Te pānui e pā ana: Me pēhea te whakatau i tētahi tāne Alpha: 8 ngā huarahi hei whakatere mārie
Ko te whakaaro ko koe te tangata tino hiahia ki te tino tika, ko ia te tangata tino nui o tēnei ao, ā, e mōhio ana ki ngā mea katoa, koia ētahi o ngā tohu nui kei a ia te wairua atua. Whakarongo ki ā mātou tohutohu ka oma ki tētahi atu huarahi!
3. Ko te āhua o te whakaute o ētahi atu ki a rātou anake te mea e aro nui ana rātou ki ai
Kua tūtaki koe ki tētahi tangata he āhua atua tōna? Nā te mea, ki te tūtaki koe, e kore koe e whakapono ki ō kanohi. I te tīmatanga, ka kite koe he tino tika rātou i ngā āhuatanga katoa. He pai ā rātou kōrero, he ātaahua, he hihiri, ā, he tino atawhai.
Heoi, kia roa ake tō noho tahi me rātou, ka kite koe kāore rātou i te tino tika pērā i tō rātou āhua. Ko te take i whakaatu ai rātou i tēnei āhua o te hunga pai rawa atu, nā te mea e aro ana rātou ki te tirohanga a ētahi atu ki a rātou. He mea nui ake tō rātou āhua ki a rātou i te tuakiri tūturu, ā, ka taea e koe te whakaaro kei roto koe i tētahi... whanaungatanga rūpahu.
Ko te tangata whai whakaaro atua, he tino āta whakaaro ia ki te āhua o tōna āhua ki te aroaro o ētahi atu, ā, ka whakapau kaha ia kia tino pai te whakaaro o ētahi atu ki a rātou. Ahakoa he whakaiti i a koe i roto i taua mahi.
4. E whakapono ana rātou kāore e taea te whakakapi i a rātou
Whakapono mai, kāore rānei, e whakapono pono ana te hunga i pāngia e te ao atua kāore e taea te whakakapi i a rātou. He rūpahu ngā mea katoa mō rātou, engari ko te mea kotahi e whakaponohia ana e rātou me ō rātou kaha katoa, ko te kore he rite ki a rātou, ā, kāore e taea te whakakapi i a rātou.
Ma te maumahara ki tēnei whakaaro, mā ā rātou mahi me ā rātou tauhohenga, ka whakatenatena rātou i a koe e hiahia ana koe ki a rātou i roto i tōu ao, ā, kāore tōu ao e oti me te kore rātou.
Te pānui e pā ana: Me pēhea te whakatau i tētahi tāne e whakaaro ana kāore ia e mahi he
I te mea he tino tohunga ki te tinihanga te hunga whai atua, ka ngoikore koe, ā, ka mutu ka whakapono koe he pono tēnei, ā, ka whakapau kaha koe ki te whāngai i ō rātou whakapehapeha.
5. E rapu tonu ana rātou i te mihi
Ki te ruarua koe kei te pāngia koe e te wairua atua, ngana kia kaua e mihi ki a rātou mō tētahi rā. Āe, e hiahia ana mātou ki te whakatūpato atu, tera pea ka kino te mutunga mōu!
Ae, kei reira ngā huarahi hei whakaatu i te aroha ki tō hoa rangatira, engari ko te hunga whai whakaaro atua e hiahia ana ki te whakamana me ngā kupu whakamihi tonu pērā i te hāora.
E rapu tonu ana ēnei tāngata i te mihi. He rongoā tēnei mā rātou. Ki te kore koe e hoatu ki a rātou te mihi e hiahiatia ana e rātou, ka kiia koe he koretake, he koretake, he kore whakawhetai. Ka whakarite rātou kia mōhio koe ki te hē nui i mahia e koe nā te kore mihi ki a rātou.
Ko te take e mahi ai te hunga whai whakaaro atua i tēnei, he mea hei wawahi i tō whakaaro ki a koe anō, hei whakapakari ake hoki i a rātou anō. Nō reira, ka nui ake tō whakawhirinaki ki a rātou, ā, ka ngāwari ake tā rātou whakahaere i a koe.
6. E whakapono ana rātou ko rātou te hunga tino tika
He maha ngā wā kua rongo tātou i ngā kōrero mō ngā kīngi e whakapehapeha ana, e whakaaro ana he tika tā rātou ki te mahi i ngā mea katoa, ki te kōrero i ngā mea katoa, tika? Āe, he rite tonu te hunga whai whakaaro atua.
E whakapono ana rātou he tika tā rātou, ā, me noho koe ki tā rātou karanga, i ngā wā katoa e tonoa ana e rātou. Ehara i te mea e mihi ana ēnei tāngata ki ō mahi mā rātou, engari e kore rātou e mihi ki a koe. Engari, ka wareware noa rātou ki a koe.
Ki te pārekareka koe ki tēnei, ko te tūponotanga kei te whakaipoipo koe i tētahi tangata he matatini atua tōna, ā, kua tae ki te wā ki te mahi whakatakoto rohe i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga, puta atu rānei i roto i taua mea.
7. Ka whakahe rātou i te katoa
Ko tētahi o ngā mahi whakangahau nui a te hunga whai whakaaro atua ko te tuku kōrero koretake ki te tangata e puta ake ana i roto i ō rātou hinengaro. E ai ki a rātou, kāore he tangata tino tika i tua atu i a rātou.
Engari, kei roto hoki koe i tēnei. Ka whakahawea rātou ki a koe me te mea kāore koe i te tino mōhiotia, ā, he mahi āwhina tā rātou mā te noho tahi me koe, me te whakaipoipo i a koe.
Kaua rawa koe e mahi i tētahi mea kāore i tika kia mahia e koe. Ka whakapau kaha ēnei tāngata ki te mirimiri i te mea nei ki roto i tō ihu, kia puta ai tō pouri, ā, koinei tētahi o ngā tohu kino rawa atu o te whakaaro atua kei roto i te tangata.
8. Kāore e taea e rātou te aro atu ki ngā whakahē hanga
Kāore e taea e koe te hē o te whakahē i tētahi tangata he matatini atua tōna. Kāore rawa ngā kīanga pēnei i te "Kāore i tika kia mahia e koe tēnā" "He hē koe" "I hē koe" rānei, kāore rawa i roto i te papakupu a ēnei tāngata.
Te pānui e pā ana: Te Noho me te Whakahē a te Hunga Ture
E ngā wāhine, ki te kore e taea e tō hoa tāne te aro atu ki ngā whakahe, tera pea ka whakaaro koe ka taea e koe te whakarongo mai mā te whakatūpato atu pēnei i te "Kia ora, kaua e pouri, he mea whai hua noa iho taku e hiahia ana ki te whakapuaki atu ki a koe". Heoi, tera pea ka kino te mutunga.
Kāore e taea e te hunga whai whakaaro atua te whakaae he hē rātou. Engari, he pai kē ki a rātou te tahuri ki te whakapae i a koe.
9. He hiahia nui tō rātou kia whai mana
Ko te ngana ki te whiwhi mana ki runga i ō rātou hoa me tā rātou hoa wahine/tāne he tīmatanga noa iho tēnei o te āhua hiakai mana o te hunga whai whakaaro atua. He nui atu i tēnā.
Ko tā te hunga pēnei he hiahia kia whai mana rātou ki ngā āhuatanga katoa o tō rātou ao. Me tutuki ngā āhuatanga iti katoa i runga i ō rātou ake hiahia me ō rātou ake hiahia. He maha ngā wā ka pohehe te tangata i tēnei hiahia hei wawata, engari he hē rātou. Ko te hunga whai atua he hiahia noa iho ki te mana, ā, e kore rātou e mangere ki te whakamahi hē i taua hiahia.
10. E whakapono ana rātou he "nama" tōu ki a rātou
Ko te hunga whai atuatanga, ka whakaari rātou he tino atawhai, he aroha, he manaaki. He mea whakakatakata tēnei. He pono, ka hangaia e rātou tēnei āhua kia whiwhi ai rātou i tētahi mea hei utu. Ko koe, hei hoa mō tētahi tangata pēnei, ko koe te patunga tuatahi mā rātou.
Ko te whakapono kei a koe te nama ki a rātou tētahi o ngā tohu nui rawa atu he matatini atua tō te tangata. I ia wā e hiahia ana rātou ki tētahi manaakitanga, ka honoa e rātou ki te āhua o tō nama ki a rātou me te tika o tā rātou tono.
11. Ka whakamahia e rātou tō rātou whanaungatanga hei painga mō rātou anō
He maha ngā wāhine e whakaipoipo ana ki tētahi tangata he wairua atua tōna, ā, ka waiho hei ngenge, ka korekore noa iho i muri i te tahaetia e ō rātou hoa i a rātou i te hinengaro, i te kare ā-roto, i te taha pūtea hoki. Nā te mea ka whakamahia e te hunga he wairua atua tōna i roto i ngā whanaungatanga katoa e uru atu ana rātou.
Ora i te nuinga hoa mahi tinihanga, ko te hunga whai atua matatini ka whakamahi i taua patu tino kaha – te mahi korekore. I ētahi wā, ka puta te āhua he hiahia nui rātou, engari ko koe anake te tangata ka taea e rātou te whakaraerae, nō reira me āwhina koe e rātou. Ka hangaia e rātou he aroha mō rātou anō, ā, ka whakamahia tēnei aroha hei whakamahi i tō rātou whanaungatanga ki a koe. He pono, koinei tētahi o ngā tohu nui kei a ia he atua matatini.
12. E hae ana rātou ki ētahi atu engari e hae ana rātou ki a rātou
Ko te take he matatini atua tō ētahi tāngata, he hiahia nō rātou ki te mana me te mana kāore i a rātou. Nā tēnei ka hae nui rātou ki te hunga pono, māia, mātau hoki.
Ko te tikanga, kāore e taea e rātou te whakaatu i ō rātou hae, nō reira, ka puta te āhua me te mea ko rātou te hunga e haea tonutia ana. Mā tēnei whakaaro ka whakapono rātou ko rātou te hunga whai mana, ā, ko ētahi atu kei te ngana noa ki te whai i a rātou.
Ki te mea kei te mahi tahi koe me tētahi tangata he matatini atua tōna, kei te uru atu koe ki tētahi haerenga kare ā-roto tino uaua. Ka tohutohu mātou kia kaua e rēhita ki tēnei.
Ki te mea kei roto koe i te porowhita o te whakaaro atua me te whakaaro rangatira, kia mōhio koe he kino rawa atu te whakaaro atua i te whakaaro rangatira. Ahakoa kaua e pāngia e tētahi o ēnei. He tika rawa kia whiwhi koe i te mea pai ake.
Te pānui e pā ana: Kāore au i te mōhio kei roto ahau i tētahi whanaungatanga tukino kare ā-roto
Kia tūpato, ko Āri, ko Ākuari, me Libra ngā tohu e toru e whai ana i te matatini atua. Ki te aroha koe ki a koe anō, me whai wā ki te mōhio ki ngā tāngata whai i ēnei tohu i mua i te piri atu ki a rātou, nā te mea ka taea e ēnei tohu whai i te matatini atua nui rawa atu te waiho i a koe kia koretake, kia ngenge hoki te hinengaro.
Kaua e ngana ki te whakaora, ki te āwhina rānei i tētahi tangata kei a ia ngā tohu o te atua. Ko tāu mahi he oma atu pērā i te hau, kia tawhiti rawa atu i a rātou. Kia ora!
12 Ngā Mea Whakamamae Kaua rawa e Kōrerohia e Koe, e tō Hoa rānei ki a Koe
Te Ora Hei Whaea Takakau I Muri I Te Matenga O Te Tāne Tinihanga
Kāore tō koha e kiia he kaupapa aroha takohaMā tēnei ka taea e Bonobology te kawe mai i ngā mōhiotanga hou me ngā mōhiotanga hou ki a koe i roto i tā mātou whainga ki te āwhina i te tangata katoa o te ao ki te ako me pēhea te mahi i tetahi mea.
