Kei roto koe i tētahi o ngā whanaungatanga e hiahia ana koe ki te whakapau i ia wā o te ara me tō hoa? Ahakoa he iti noa te wā e ahua mamae ai te tinana. He pai tonu te aroha kaha pēnei, engari i tētahi atu taha, tera pea ka tino kino ngā pakanga a kōrua. Ka huri ngā kōrero hei tautohetohe, ka huri ngā tautohetohe hei whakataetae nui, ka waiho koe kia titiro noa ki te mata e tatari ana mō tētahi karere kuputuhi. Ko tēnei whanaungatanga kaha engari he kino, tera pea kei roto koe i tētahi whanaungatanga karmic.
Ki te mea ko tō wā tuatahi tēnei ki te rongo i tēnei kupu, tera pea he āhua pōhēhē. Tērā pea kei te whakaaro koe he pānga ki te kaupapa "ko te mea ka huri, ka huri" he tohu rānei tō whanaungatanga o te karma. Āe, kāore koe i te tino hē i konei, engari kāore hoki tēnei whakamāramatanga i te tino tika. Pōhēhē? Āe, ka pōhēhē pea te tikanga me ngā āhuatanga o te whanaungatanga karma.
Koinā te take i konei ai mātou – hei whakamārama atu māu. He māmā noa iho, ko te whanaungatanga karma he taputapu whakaako, kaua hei hononga aroha pumau. Nā, me ruku hohonu ake tātou kia mārama ai ki te tikanga o taua kōrero, ngā tohu o te hononga karma i waenganui i te tokorua, me pēhea te whakatere i taua whanaungatanga.
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Kei te whakaaro koe he aha te whanaungatanga karmic? E ai ki te mātauranga whetū whanaungatanga karmic, e whakaponohia whānuitia ana ka puta ēnei whanaungatanga ina tūtaki anō ngā wairua e rua kua kore e whakatauhia ngā take o mua i roto i tō rāua ao o nāianei. I roto i te ao o mua, i hanga e ēnei wairua e rua tētahi momo kawenata hei āwhina i a rāua i a rāua e anga atu ana ki ō rāua ao hou. Ka āwhina rāua tetahi i tetahi, engari kāore te tukanga i te tino pai. Koinei te mea e wehewehe ai ngā hoa karmic i ngā wairua māhanga, i ngā mura māhanga rānei.
Ki te waiho te kōrero rangi ki te taha, i te ao tūturu, ko te whanaungatanga karmic tētahi e rongo ai koe i ngā tohu o te hononga tahi e kore e taea te whakakorekore me tō hoa. Tērā pea te āhua koretake o te tikanga o te whanaungatanga karmic, engari ina arotahi koe ki te āhua o te whakaaturanga o ēnei hononga, ka mārama haere ngā āhuatanga. Anei ētahi tauira matua hei tirotiro māu:
- Ina tūtaki koe ki tētahi hoa wairua karma, e rite ana ki te mea kua mōhio koe ki tēnei tangata i tō oranga katoa, ā, ka taea e koe te whakatuwhera i ō whakaaro me te kōrero i ngā mea katoa ki a ia.
- Ka taea hoki e ēnei hononga te tino pakarukaru, ā, i ētahi wā ka arahi ki ngā whanaungatanga kino, hauora rānei.
- Mā ēnei āhuatanga ka tino hoha ngā whanaungatanga pēnei
- He rite tonu te pumau o tō kōrua whanaungatanga aroha ki te kakau pepa, i ia wā, i ia wā.
- He hae tonu, he raruraru whakawhirinaki, he mana pupuri
He aha te kaupapa o ngā whanaungatanga karmic?
He maha ngā wā ka kiia ngā whanaungatanga karmic he kirimana wairua. E kiia ana kua whakaritea kētia, ā, ko te tikanga he whakaako i a tātou ki ngā akoranga nui, he āwhina i a tātou kia tipu wairua, me te whakatau i ngā whanaungatanga o mua me ō rātou raruraru. He whanaungatanga kaha, he whanaungatanga kare ā-roto, he whanaungatanga uaua, he whanaungatanga hauora rānei ēnei, engari he tino whai hua, he whanaungatanga whakarerekē, ā, ka arahi pea ki te oho ake i te wairua. Ko tētahi whanaungatanga tukino e tata ana koe ki te waranga ki roto, ko tētahi o ēnei. Ko tēnei āhua pōrearea te mea i wehewehe ai rātou i ngā whanaungatanga hoa wairua me ngā mura māhanga.
Mā te awhi i ēnei whanaungatanga karma me te ako mai i aua whanaungatanga, ka taea e tātou te noho hei putanga pai ake o tātou anō, ā, ka ora ake i ngā oranga whai hua. He mea nui kia whakatata atu ki ēnei whanaungatanga me te hinengaro tuwhera me te ngākau tuwhera, kia hiahia hoki ki te ako me te tipu mai i aua whanaungatanga, ahakoa he tikanga tēnei kia tukuna te whanaungatanga tonu. Hei whakamutunga, ko te kaupapa o ngā whanaungatanga piripono karma he āwhina i a tātou ki te whanake me te tipu wairua kia taea ai e tātou te whakatutuki i tō tātou pūmanawa teitei rawa atu i tēnei ao, ā, hei te mutunga ka ako ki te hanga hononga hauora. Ko te kaupapa o ngā whanaungatanga karma ka taea te whakaahua penei:
- He wāhanga o te haerenga a tō tātou wairua, hei āwhina i a tātou kia whanake me te tipu hei takitahi
- Ka uru pea ki ēnei whanaungatanga ngā take kāore anō kia whakatauhia mai i ngā oranga o mua, ā, me mahi tātou ki te whakaoti i tēnei ao.
- He āhuatanga tēnei o ngā kare ā-roto kaha me te hononga hohonu, engari ka taea hoki te whakararuraru me te wero
- Ka taea e rātou te whakaako i a tātou i ngā akoranga nui mō tātou anō, tae atu ki ō tātou kaha, ō tātou ngoikoretanga, me ngā wāhi hei whakatipu ake i a tātou anō.
- Mā te aro atu ki ngā mamae me ngā raruraru o mua i roto i ēnei whanaungatanga, ka taea e tātou te whakaora me te neke whakamua i roto i ō tātou ao me te māramatanga me te whai kaupapa nui ake.
- Hei whakakorikori i te huringa whaiaro, hei ārahi i a tātou ki te hanga i ngā huringa pai i roto i ō tātou ao
- Ka tutuki noa i ēnei whanaungatanga tā rātou kaupapa mēnā ka hiahia tātou ki te ako mai i a rātou, ki te tipu hoki.
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He aha ngā tohu o te whanaungatanga karmic?
He uaua te kite i ngā tohu e whakaatu ana ko tō whanaungatanga o nāianei he hua o te hononga karma, ina koa mēnā kei te pirangi koe ki te noho tonu ki te whakakahore. Ahakoa he reo pōrearea kei roto i tō mahunga e kī ana he rerekē, he hē rānei te āhua o tēnei whanaungatanga, ka taea tonu e koe te whiriwhiri kia whakapono noa ka mutu ko tēnei tangata.
I a koe e whakapono tonu ana ki tēnā me te ngākau pono, ka huri te hononga karma hei hononga kino nā te mea kei te aukati tō whakakore i te whakatutuki i tana kaupapa i whakaritea. Mā tēnei ka arahi pea ki te ao mamae me te pōuri. Hei āwhina i a koe ki te tiaki i a koe mai i tēnā, ka whakarārangihia e mātou ngā tohu o te hononga karma kia taea ai e koe te whakatau mēnā kei roto koe i tētahi:
1. Hononga inamata
Mai i te meneti i tīmata ai kōrua kōrero, i rite ki te mea kua mōhio kōrua ki tēnei tangata i tō oranga katoa. Ki te pai koe, me kī ko te aroha i te kitenga tuatahi tēnei. He mea whakamiharo te tere o te noho tahi o kōrua. Kāore he kōrero whakamā, kāore kōrua i whakaaro ki te aha hei kōrero i muri mai, ā, i rere tonu ngā kōrero.
Nā ēnei kare ā-roto kaha pea e pā ana ki a koe mō te wā tuatahi, ka whakaaro koe kua kitea e koe te mea tika. Ko te hononga tonu he rite ki te taonga tuku iho. Ko te tīmatanga tētahi o ngā wāhanga pai rawa atu o te whanaungatanga karma. Engari ko ngā piki me ngā heke e whai ake nei ka huri hei haerenga hoha.
2. Ka whakatupu te whanaungatanga karmic i te whakawhirinakitanga tahi
Ko tētahi o ngā tohu kino rawa atu o te whanaungatanga karmic ko te whakawhirinaki tahi ki tō hoa . Kei te pēhia koe e te mate. Kāore e taea e koe te noho mō te rā kotahi me te kore kōrero ki tō hoa karmic, ā, ko tō harikoa kei te āhua o tā rātou mahi ki a koe. Koinei tētahi o ngā tohu tino kitea o te whanaungatanga karmic.
He tohu te whakawhirinakitanga ki te tangata, ki te wahine rānei, mō ngā whanaungatanga kino, nā te mea ka akiaki i ngā take whakawhirinaki kino, te hae, me te mana pupuri. Me mārama koe he oranga tōu i waho o tō whanaungatanga. He mea ātaahua pea te karanga i tō hoa "te tiēre māpere ki aku panikeke" engari he tuakiri anō ō ngā panikeke me te tiēre māpere.
3. E tino mataku ana koe kei mutu
E ai ki te kōrero, he pai ake te rewera e mōhiotia ana e koe i te rewera kāore koe e mōhio. Kāore he pono o tēnei i roto i te whanaungatanga karma, i reira nā te whakamarie me te mōhio, ahakoa te whakaaro ki te whakamutu i ngā mea me tō hoa, ka taea e ia te whakaoho i te mataku. Heoi, ko te mōhio ki tētahi āhuatanga kino kāore e whakaiti i te kino. He mea maori te wehi i te mea ngaro ina kore e taea e koe te whakaaro ki te ngaro i te tangata e tino nui ana ki a koe. Mā tēnei wehi ka uaua te wehe atu i tētahi whanaungatanga karma.
4. Ko tō hoa te tangata tino whakarihariha kua tūtaki koe
...engari e aroha tonu ana koe ki a rātou. He tino uaua ngā tohu whanaungatanga karmic. Mā ngā hononga hononga karmic ka taea te hanga hononga hohonu, wairua hoki, ā, ka wareware koe ki te whakarihariha o tō hoa karmic. Ina tūtaki koe ki te whakatau i tētahi pakanga, ka mutu ka kihi koe, ā, ka wareware koe ki te mea i whawhai ai kōrua. Kia puta anō rā anō, i te rā e whai ake nei pea. He karere kuputuhi pukuriri, he kōrero kino, he mahi kore whakaaro, he maha atu anō ngā mea. He whanaungatanga tukino pea he whanaungatanga karmic huna.
5. Kāore e memeha ngā raruraru
Ko tētahi atu tohu tawhito tēnei i roto i te rārangi whakararuraru o ngā tohumate whanaungatanga karma. Ko te take o tō kōrua wehenga tuatahi (e kī tuatahi ana mātou nā te mea e mōhio ana mātou ka pāngia kōrua e te iti rawa o te kotahi piriona o aua tohumate) he mea e raru tonu ana i roto i ō kōrua whanaungatanga hauora kore. E mōhio ana kōrua me whakatau ngā take, engari ko tō kōrua whakaaro mō te whakatau pakanga ko te aukati me te wetewete i a rātou anō i runga i te Instagram.
Mā te kore e taea te whakatau i ngā raruraru e pā ana ki tō whanaungatanga ka rite koe ki te mea kei roto koe i tētahi porowhita mutunga kore o te pōrearea me te ngangau. Engari ko te mea nui, kāore pea koe e kaha ki te whakaoti i ō raruraru i roto i tēnei whanaungatanga nā te mea ehara i te mea hei whakatau engari hei akoranga māu kia tipu ai, kia whanake ai. Koinei tētahi o ngā rerekētanga maha o ngā whanaungatanga karmic mai i ngā whanaungatanga māhanga me ngā whanaungatanga wairua.
6. He awhiowhio o ngā kare ā-roto
I tētahi wā, ka rite koe ki te mea kei te tihi o te ao, ā, i tētahi wā anō, ka rite ki te mea kua tangohia te whāriki i raro i a koe. Tērā pea ka kitea koe e neke haere ana mai i te āhua o te aroha nui ki te kore e hiahia ki te whai wāhi atu ki tō hoa wairua karma.
Ka pōhēhē pea, ka waiho koe kia mauheretia i roto i te huringa o te whakaaro he aha te mamae o tō whanaungatanga. Ko te ngenge hinengaro me te ngenge kare ā-roto o tēnei katoa ka waiho koe kia ngenge me te hinga, ka whakamahara koe ki te take i kīia ai ka rite ake tātou ki a Squidward i a tātou e pakeke haere ana.
7. Ka whakaputa mai tō hoa i ngā rewera i roto i a koe
I taua ata ngenge i te korenga o te miraka, kua pau katoa ngā hua manu, ā, kāore i kitea ō tōkena, i whakaaro koe ko koe te tino pukuriri rawa atu. Kia whakakitea rā anō e tō hoa aroha te momo riri ka taea e koe te whakaatu, mā te whakamātautau i tō manawanui i ia rā, i ia rā. Ka huri tere ō pakanga ki te kino. Ka whakakitea atu ki a koe tētahi taha o koe kāore koe i mōhio kei reira.
Nā te mea kei roto i ngā tohu o te whanaungatanga karmic ngā raruraru riri, e tika ana kia pā tēnei ki a koe. Kua whakaaro koe, "He aha i puta ai ngā whanaungatanga karmic mēnā he tino ngangau?" Āe, koinei te kaupapa o ngā whanaungatanga karmic - ki te ako i a koe i ngā mea mōu ake kāore e taea e koe te mōhio ki tētahi atu ara.
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8. He mea nui te whanaungatanga
He aha koe ka hiahia ai ki te wehe? Kei te tino pai te haere. E mōhio ana koe i roto i tō hinengaro ka mutu ko tēnei tangata. He kaha te whanaungatanga, kua whakakitea ki a koe te āhua o te aroha e pā ana ki a koe, ā, e hiahia ana koe ki te pā o tō hoa, 24/7. Kāore he mea e hiahia ana koe i tua atu i te ngaro i roto i ngā ringa o tō hoa.
Ko te whanaungatanga karmic he whakaaturanga o te "pai i te wā e mau tonu ana". Ko tētahi o ngā wāhanga whanaungatanga karmic pai rawa atu ko te wā e tino pāngia ana koe e te mamae, e tuku ana i ō kare ā-roto kaha kia haria koe ki ngā taumata hou.
9. E mōhio ana koe kāore e mahi
I tētahi wāhi, i raro i ngā hiahia nui me ngā tohu whero e kore e arohia e koe, e mōhio ana koe kāore tēnei whanaungatanga e mau tonu . Ahakoa te nui o tō oma atu i tēnei mōhiotanga (pērā i tō oma atu i te pauna pauna), e mōhio ana koe ki te pono engari kāore koe e hiahia ki te whakaae. Kei te hanga tonu koe i ngā whakamārama me te tinihanga i a koe anō. Nā te mea, ahakoa tō ngana, e kore koe e angitu ki te wehe atu i tētahi whanaungatanga karma kia tae rā anō ki te wā e pāngia ai e koe ngā mea katoa i whakaarohia kia pāngia e koe, ngā piki me ngā heke.
10. Tukutahi
He tūponotanga whai tikanga ngā hononga honohono, e ahua rite ana ki ngā hononga wairua hōhonu, kaua ki te tūponotanga matapōkere. I roto i ngā whanaungatanga karmic, tera pea ka kite koe i te maha o ngā hononga honohono i waenganui i a koe me tō hoa. Tērā pea e pā ana ēnei ki ngā wheako o mua, ki te ao tūroa rānei.
Hei tauira, tērā pea ka kitea e koe i whānau kōrua ko tō hoa i te rā kotahi, he rite tonu te pukapuka, te waiata rānei e pai ana ki a kōrua, he rite tonu rānei te moemoeā. Ka taea e ēnei hononga te tohu he tohu kei te whakaarohia kōrua ko tō hoa kia noho tahi mō tētahi kaupapa hohonu ake, pērā i te whakaora i te ao, te whakaara ake rānei i te hinengaro.
11. He āhua kua oti
Ina mutu te whanaungatanga karma, tera pea ka rongo koe i te otinga, i te kati rānei. Tērā pea ka rongo koe kua ako koe i ngā akoranga e tika ana kia akohia e koe, ā, kua tae ki te wā hei neke atu ki te wāhanga e whai ake nei o tō haerenga wairua. Tērā pea he tohu tēnei kare ā-roto kua tutuki i te whanaungatanga tōna kaupapa i roto i tō oranga. Ahakoa i mutu te whanaungatanga i roto i te mamae, tera pea ka rongo koe i te whakawhetai mō ngā akoranga i akohia e koe me te tipu i pā ki a koe.
He mea nui kia whakaute i ō kare ā-roto, kia whai wā hoki ki te tukatuka i te mutunga o te whanaungatanga kia taea ai e koe te neke whakamua me te māramatanga me te whai kaupapa. Kia maumahara ahakoa kua mutu te whanaungatanga, ka noho tonu ngā akoranga i akohia e koe me te tipu i pā ki a koe mō te toenga o tō oranga. He mamae pea te whakaora i muri i te whanaungatanga karmic engari he pai te hua.
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Me pēhea te haere atu i tētahi whanaungatanga karmic
He maha ngā wā ka kaha, ka whakarerekē hoki ngā whanaungatanga karmic, engari ka taea hoki e rātou te huri hei paitini me te kino. Ina paitini te whanaungatanga karmic, he mea nui kia mōhio ki ngā tohu me te mahi hei tiaki i a koe anō. He uaua te wehe atu i te whanaungatanga karmic, inā koa kua nui te wā me te kaha kua pau i a koe ki te whanaungatanga, engari ko te noho tonu i roto i te whanaungatanga paitini ka kino ki tō oranga me te aukati i a koe ki te tipu wairua. Ka taea e koe te kite mena he nui rawa ngā piki me ngā heke e kore e taea te whakahaere.
Ko ngā tohu kua huri te whanaungatanga karmic hei mea kino ko te tautohetohe me te whawhai tonu, te tukino ā-hinengaro, ā-tinana rānei, te whakahaere me te whakahaere i ngā kare ā-roto , me te kore whakawhirinaki me te whakaute. Mena kei te pāngia koe e tētahi o ēnei tohu, he mea nui kia whakaarohia te wehe atu i te whanaungatanga kia pai ai te noho me te tipu o tō ake oranga. I roto i tēnei tuhinga, ka tūhuratia e mātou me pēhea te wehe atu i te whanaungatanga karmic paitini me te neke whakamua i roto i tō haerenga wairua. Anei ētahi huarahi ka taea e koe te mahi i tēnei.
1. Whakaritea nga rohenga marama
He mea nui te whakatakoto i ngā rohe mārama hei wehe atu i tētahi whanaungatanga karmic. Ko te tikanga o tēnei me mārama koe ki tāu e kī nei he whanonga tukino, he whanonga kino rānei e kore e whakaaetia, ā, me te whakapuaki atu ki tō hoa. He mea nui anō hoki kia piri ki ō rohe, kaua hoki e tukua tō hoa kia takahi i aua rohe. He uaua pea tēnei, engari he mea nui mō tō oranga me tō tipu.
2. Rapua te tautoko
He mea nui te rapu tautoko ina wehe atu ana i tētahi whanaungatanga karmic nā te mea he kaha rawa, he whakapau kaha, he ngenge hoki ēnei kare ā-roto. Ka taea e tētahi pūnaha tautoko te whakarato i te kaha me te whakatenatena e hiahiatia ana e koe hei anga whakamua me te whakaora. Kei roto i tēnei pūnaha tautoko ko ngā hoa, te whānau, he kaiwhakaora whanaungatanga, he rōpū tautoko rānei.
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3. Whakamutua te hononga
Me mutu pea te whakapā atu ki tō hoa rangatira kia ora ai, kia neke atu ai. Ko te tikanga o tēnei ko te muku i tā rātou nama waea, te whakakore i te whai i a rātou i runga i ngā pāpāho pāpori, me te karo i ngā wāhi ka tūtaki pea koe ki a rātou. He mamae pea i te tīmatanga, engari me motu te hononga hihiko e here ana i a koe ki tō hoa rangatira. Kia mahara, ki te kore koe e motu i te whakawhirinaki nui rawa atu, me te motu i te urunga mutunga kore, e kore te ngenge o te kare ā-roto me te whakaaro kei te mauheretia koe.
4. Arotahi ki te tiaki i a koe anō
Ka taea e te wehenga atu i tētahi whanaungatanga karmic te whakararu i te hinengaro, ā, he mea nui kia aro nui ki te tiaki i a koe anō. Ko te tikanga o tēnei ko te mahi i ngā mea e hari ai koe, e whāngai ai hoki i tō wairua. Whakapaua te wā ki te taiao, mahi yoga, whakaaroaro rānei, tīmata rānei i tētahi mahi whakangahau hou. Mā te tiaki i a koe anō ka āwhina i a koe ki te ora me te neke whakamua.
5. Whakaarohia ngā akoranga i akohia
Ka taea e ia whanaungatanga, ahakoa he whanaungatanga kino, te whakaako i a tātou i ngā akoranga whai hua. He mea nui kia whakaaroarohia ngā akoranga i akohia mai i te whanaungatanga karma me pēhea te whakamahi i aua akoranga hei hanga whanaungatanga hauora ā muri ake nei. Ka taea e tēnei te āwhina i a koe ki te tipu me te whanake hei tangata, me te kukume mai i ngā whanaungatanga hauora mō te wā roa ā muri ake nei.
Tohutohu Matua
- Ka puta ngā whanaungatanga karmic ina huihui ngā hoa wairua o ngā oranga o mua i te ao o nāianei ki te whakatau i ngā take kāore anō kia whakatauhia o te ao o mua.
- Ko ngā whanaungatanga karmic, e tohuhia ana e te hononga kaha tonu, te whakawhirinakitanga nui ki te tangata, me te hurihuri haere tonu o ngā kare ā-roto, ka taea e ngā whanaungatanga karmic te noho hei huinga whakamate o te whakatutukitanga me te pouri.
- He mea nui mēnā kei roto koe i tētahi, me mōhio koe ki te wā e tika ana kia wehe atu
- He uaua ake te wehe atu i tētahi whanaungatanga karmic i te tomo ki tētahi, nō reira me waihanga rohe, me arotahi ki ngā mea kua akohia e koe i te haerenga porangi, ā, me whai hononga hauora ki a koe anō.
He uaua te wehe atu i tētahi whanaungatanga karmic, engari he mea tika mō tō oranga me tō tipu. Kia maumahara, e tika ana kia noho koe i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga hauora, whai hua e tautoko ana i tō tipu me tō whanaketanga, me tō oranga. Ko te tumanako kua āwhina tēnei tuhinga i a koe ki te kimi i tētahi whakautu mō te aha te whanaungatanga karmic, ā, kua āwhina hoki i a koe ki te aromatawai mēnā kei roto koe i tētahi. Koinei te wā ki te tīmata i tō whakaora i muri i tētahi whanaungatanga karmic, he haerenga whakamārama pea tēnei.
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FAQs
E ai ki te whetū whanaungatanga karmic, ko ēnei whanaungatanga he hua nō ngā wairua e rua i kore i oti ā rāua mahi i ngā oranga o mua, ā, i tūtaki rāua i roto i ō rāua oranga o nāianei. Ka hua ake tēnei i te āhua o te mōhio me te whakaaro kua roa kē te wā e mōhio ana koe ki tēnei tangata.
Ko te kaupapa matua o te whanaungatanga karmic he ako i a koe ki te aroha ki a koe anō me te whakaute i a koe anō, me ētahi atu mea anō hoki. He kino e tika ana kia pā ki te tangata i roto i tōna oranga, kia pai ake ai tōna mōhio ki a ia anō me āna e hiahia ana. Engari, ehara i te mea he kino katoa, kia mutu rā anō, ka kite koe i a koe e pakeke haere ana. Ka whakatata atu koe ki tō whanaungatanga e whai ake nei me te nui ake o te manaaki me te pumau o te hinengaro, kia pai ake ai. "Kia kite rā anō koe i te pōuri ka maioha koe ki te māramatanga"
Kāore ngā whanaungatanga karmic i te tikanga kia roa. Ki te mea kei a koe tētahi hoa rangatira, hae, me te whakapehapeha, e kore e roa te whanaungatanga ahakoa te kaha o tō ngana. He uaua ki te whakaae ehara tēnei tangata i te tangata e tika ana kia noho tahi māua, engari he wheako ako kawa me te reka. I te mutunga, ka nui atu āu i whiwhi i tāu i whakaaro ai kua ngaro.
Nā te āhua whakangaro o te whanaungatanga, he maha ngā wā ka mutu kino ngā whanaungatanga karmic. E taea tonu te wehenga hauora, engari me mahi te murunga hara me te toi o te aroha ki a koe anō. Heoi anō, he pai te kōrero mō te wehenga kino. Ka kata koe mō tēnei mea katoa me ō hoa i mua i tō mōhio.
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