Mavuto a maubwenzi ndi owopsa kwambiri. Amatha kuchoka ku kusagwirizana pa kugawa ntchito zapakhomo kupita ku zisankho zosintha moyo. Ngakhale kuti nkhani za ubale zimatha chifukwa chosowa chikondi, zimathanso kumalepheretsa munthu kukhala ndi chikondi ndikumusiyira malo.
Palibe kuchepa kwa zovuta zaubwenzi zomwe zingaphe chikondi. Ichi ndichifukwa chake, ndizowona kuti chikondi ndi ntchito yambiri kuposa momwe mukuganizira. Kusunga ubale ndikukonza nkhani za ubale kumatenga nthawi, kudzipereka komanso mphamvu.
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Ngati chikondi chikanakhala ndi Chinsinsi chachinsinsi, chinthu chachikulu chikanakhala chosaweruza okondedwa, kuwavomereza momwe aliri. Ngakhale kuti izi zimamveka ngati zachikondi komanso zofunika kwambiri, sitiyeneranso kuiwala kuti chimodzi mwazinthu zovuta kwambiri za chikondi ndicho kuona zolakwa za winayo.
Nkhani za ubale nthawi zonse zimachokera ku kusamvetsetsana. Munthu aliyense ali ndi zokonda zake komanso malingaliro ake, ndipo anthu omwe ndi osiyana nthawi zambiri amawoneka ngati osangalatsa kwa ife, monga momwe mwambi wakale umaneneranso - zotsutsana zimakopa.
Koma ndichomwe chimayambitsa nkhawa ngati mukupeza kuti mukusokoneza umunthu wanu kapena kukhala osamasuka nthawi zonse ndi/okondedwa.
Akatswiri a zaubwenzi amakhulupirira kuti nthawi zonse pamakhala zizindikiro zobisika mu maubwenzi ambiri omwe sanathe bwino zomwe zimanyalanyazidwa poyamba zomwe zimasonyeza kuti zinthu sizikuyenda bwino. Zizindikiro izi nthawi zambiri zimakhala zosavuta kuziphonya. Ngati simuthetsa mavuto anu aubwenzi, zingayambitse mikangano muubwenzi . Nthawi zambiri izi ndi zizindikiro zobisika zosonyeza kuti mavuto akubwera mtsogolo.
Nazi zinthu 5 zofunika zomwe zingayambitse kusagwirizana. Izi ndi zotheka kuzinyalanyaza ndipo sizingawonekere mosavuta.
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1. “Chilichonse ncholakwika ndi dziko chifukwa chakuti wina ndi wolakwa”
Rishabh ndi Swati anali ndi chibwenzi chambiri muofesi. Anali wamkulu wake, koma monga mu ofesi nthawi zonse amakankhira mlandu m'moyo wake.
Rishabh akuti, “Kaya chinali chinthu chaching’ono monga kuchedwa kufika pa chibwenzi kapena chinthu chachikulu monga kuima kwa usiku umodzi ndi munthu wina, m’njira inayake, Swati sanayenera kuimbidwa mlandu m’lingaliro lake.”
Ngati mtsikana wanu sanachedwe chifukwa choti anachoka panyumba mochedwa kuposa momwe ayenera kukhalira, tsiku limene chilichonse chomwe chili cholakwika ndi dziko lapansi chidzayamba kukhala vuto lanu silidzakhala kutali. Mwamsanga chikondi cha kuntchito chinasokonekera.
2. “Palibe kulankhulana kozama kwenikweni komwe kukuchitika, kungolankhula”
Sudip ndi Harleen anali oyandikana nawo ndipo amapita kusukulu imodzi. Atayamba chibwenzi ali ku koleji, adazindikira kuti zimamuvuta kukamba nkhani zofunika kapena zovuta kufotokoza momwe amamvera.
Sudip anati: “Ankangokhala phee, ndinkangokhalira kufunsa kuti vuto lake n’chiyani. Kodi sali bwino?
Mu chibwenzi ndikofunikira kukhala omasuka komanso oona mtima. Ngati sichoncho, ndi malo ofunikira kwambiri pa nkhani zaubwenzi. Akazi ena amangodzipatula pamalingaliro awo akamavutika maganizo, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti okondedwa awo azimva kuti akunyengedwa kapena "akusungidwa pafupi" chifukwa cha kusinthasintha kwawo, komanso nthawi zina kukwiya kwa chikondi, " kutonthola chete ".
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3. “Anthu amene anali ofunika kwa ine sankamukonda ngakhale pang’ono”
Samir anakumana ndi Kirti paukwati wa bwenzi lake. Iwo adadina pafupifupi nthawi yomweyo. Posakhalitsa chikondi chawo cha Delhi-Gurgaon chinakula, koma atangodziwitsidwa kwa anzake ambiri ndi achibale ake adanena kuti sanali woyenera kwa iye.
Samir ananena kuti: “Sindikudziwabe kuti ndi chiyani chimene anthu amene amandidziwa bwino ndi amene “anamusiya” chomwe chinkaoneka choonekera kwa anthu amene amandidziwa bwino kwambiri.
Nthawi zambiri, mukakhala pachibwenzi chatsopano, kumva kudzudzulidwa za "wokondedwa" wanu watsopano sizomwe ubongo wanu umalumikizidwa kuti musangalatse.
Popeza mukuyamba kukondana mofulumira kwambiri , simungathe kuganizira zinthu moyenera. Koma ena omwe amadziwa makhalidwe anu ndi umunthu wanu angaone zinthu momveka bwino kuchokera kwa anthu ena. Mvetserani mosamala anzanu chifukwa angakubweretsereni zinthu zosayenera zomwe simungazione.
4. "Anali akadali wokhazikika muubwenzi wake wakale"
Divika anali msungwana wotchuka kwambiri ku yunivesite nthawi ina, kotero inde anali ndi maubwenzi akuluakulu atatu asanakwatirane ndi Rehan.
Rehan anati: “Anandiuza chifukwa chimene maubwenzi ake a m’mbuyomo sankachita zinthu molimba mtima ndipo ineyo sindinkasangalala kuti adakali mabwenzi ndi azibwenzi ake onse akale.
Ngati mkazi sangathe kuwunika chifukwa chake maubwenzi ake am'mbuyomu sanayende bwino, kapena nthawi zonse amadzudzula amuna am'mbuyomu m'moyo wake chifukwa chazovuta zonse, zitha kukhala chizindikiro chachikulu kuti chiwonongeko chomwechi chikhoza kuyembekezera chibwenzi chanu. Izi ndizochitika zomwe zikudikirira kukupatsirani nkhani zazikulu zaubwenzi.
5. “Nthawi zonse ankakhala ndi zochita zandalama”
Alexa ndi Martin onse anachokera ku banki kotero chinali chinthu china chomwe ankagwirizana kuti akambirane za ndalama; komabe analekana chifukwa Alexa anachita chigololo pazachuma . Martin anali mlangizi wazachuma mu kampani yayikulu, iye anali katswiri wopereka upangiri wa za chuma.
Martin anati: “Mopanda kudziwa, iye anaika ndalama zambiri m’maakaunti athu n’kupanga “mnzakeyo.” Nthaŵi zambiri ndalamazo zinkakhala zongopeka kapena ankangochita mwamwano za kubweza.”
Pamapeto pa tsiku, ubale uliwonse umakhala wokhudzana ndi kukhulupirirana ndi kukhulupirika, ndipo izi zimaphatikizapo kuwona mtima pazachuma. Ngati mnzanu akusunga zinthu zazikulu zachuma, ndi nthawi yoti musunge zomwe mukufuna, kwenikweni.
Ubwenzi uliwonse wachikondi pakati pa anthu awiri ndi wapadera ndipo chifukwa chake zizindikiro zowopsa zomwe zimafuula kuti "musapite" zidzakhalanso zapadera. Kotero pamene mukugwa mutu pamwamba, khalani otseguka ndipo mkati mwa mtima mumvetsere ku ubongo, nthawi isanathe!
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Izi ndi mbendera zofiira zomwe tiyenera kudziwa ngati amuna kapena akazi. Chifukwa ubale sikuti kumangocheza m'malo, komanso kujambula ma selfies. Ndi zochuluka kwambiri. Pamafunika kuzindikira zinthu zotere kuti musankhe nokha ngati mukuchita bwino m'moyo wanu wamalingaliro, kapena muyenera kuchotsa poizoni m'moyo wanu.
Ubale wa manjari ndi wozama kwambiri kuposa kungolumikizana, wokondwa kuti mwakonda izi
Maubwenzi ndi ovuta, kotero ndizomveka kuti ena otchedwa ophwanya malonda akuyenera kunyalanyazidwa, koma zina mwazinthu zimakhala mbendera zofiira zowoneka bwino zomwe zimayenera kuvomerezedwa.
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