Mungakambirane Bwanji Zogonana Ndi Okondedwa Anu?

Kukambitsirana kosayenera komwe mungazengereze kukamba muubwenzi wanu ndi momwe mungalankhulire zogonana ndi okondedwa wanu. Kukambitsirana kugonana si kapu ya tiyi ya aliyense kapena kutumiza mameseji mphatso ya Mulungu kwa onse. Ambiri aife sitili m'nthawi yathu yabwino kuti tiyambe kukambirana zogonana ndi zokonda zathu kapena okwatirana.

Koma, pambuyo pa zopinga zoyamba, mutha kuwona mbali yanuyo yomwe simunayiwonepo m'moyo wanu. Funso lomwe nthawi zonse limakhala m'mutu mwanu ndilakuti mungamakambirane zogonana ndi wokondedwa wanu? Tidzavomereza kuti sikophweka kuyambitsa zokambirana zapamtima. Muyenera kukhala ndi mlingo winawake wa chitonthozo kuti muchite zimenezo.

Nthawi zina anthu ena akhoza kukhala omasuka pogona nanu koma zikafika pa nkhani ya kugonana amabwerera mmbuyo ngati kamba mkati mwa chipolopolo. Mwina munayeserapo kuyambitsa zokambirana zogonana ndi wokondedwa wanu koma pamene sanayankhe bwino kapena kusonyeza kusapeza bwino, simunapite patsogolo. Koma mutha kuyambitsa zokambiranazi popanda kuopa kukanidwa ndipo tidzakuuzani momwe mungachitire.

Malangizo Kukhala Okonzeka Kukambirana Zogonana

Ndi chowonadi chovuta koma mwina simudziwa momwe mungalankhulire zogonana ndi wokondedwa wanu. Pali kusiyana kwakukulu pakati pa kulankhula ndi zochita. Mabanja ambiri amaona kuti kuchita zinthu n’kosavuta kuposa mawu. Koma nkhani zogonana ndizofunikira chifukwa mutha kukambirana zomwe zingakuthandizireni, zomwe sizingayende bwino ndipo mutha kukambirana zanu zongopeka ndi zovuta ndikupangitsa kugonana kukhala kwabwino komanso kokwanira. 

Choncho, tiyeni tikambirane za kugonana momasuka ndi kukambirana zimene mungachite kuti mukonzekere kukambirana nkhani zokhudza kugonana komanso kukambirana nkhani zimene anthu amakonda kukambirana.

1. Nthawi yoyenera yokambirana zogonana

Nthawi yoyenera simabwera, muyenera kuyipanga. Mwadziuza nokha kuti muyenera kuphunzira kulankhula za kugonana. Ingowonani mwayi ndikukambirana. Koma onetsetsani kuti mukukhala omasuka mukamakambirana zogonana.

Ngati wapanikizika ndi ntchito ndipo mukuyesera kuyambitsa zokambirana zapamtima ndiye ino si nthawi yoyenera. Pamene mukupumula pa vinyo kapena kuwonera kanema pampando kungakhale lingaliro labwino kuyambitsa. Mutha kuyamba zabwino ndikulankhula zomwe mumakonda pa sesh yanu yomaliza yogonana.

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2. Pezani chidziwitso

Werengani, werengani, kenako werengani zinanso zokhudza kugonana ndi ubwino wake. Phunzirani zonse zomwe mungachite kuti mukope wokondedwa wanu komanso nthawi yoti musiye. Izi zidzawasangalatsa. Ngati mukuganiza za kunyengerera mwamuna wako, ndiye kutenga zidule zingapo ndi malangizo ndi lingaliro labwinonso.

Njira yabwino yoyambira macheza ogonana ndikugula bukhu lokhudza kugonana ndikuwerenga limodzi. Ndiye mukamadutsa pamodzi mutha kuyankhula zomwe mwakonzeka kuyesa ndi zomwe sizikukuthandizani. Mukhoza kuyesa mavidiyo a msonkhano wogonana pa YouTube. Ndi njira yabwino kuseka ndi kuphunzira pamodzi.

3. Yesetsani zomwe munganene

Ngati muwafunsa za izo, ndiye sungani mizere ndikuziyesa. Onetsetsani kuti simukumveka ngati zonyansa, zosimidwa komanso zotukwana. Khalani olunjika ndi osavuta, chitsanzo chimodzi cha mzere wotero ndi wakuti, “Hey!

Kuyambitsa kuyankhulana kwabwino pa kugonana kungatsimikizire kuti zomwe mukukumana nazo sizikugwirizana ndi zosayenera. Yesetsani luso lololeza musanapite patsogolo.

Muyenera kudziwa kuti mnzanuyo ndi womasuka kukambirana zogonana pofuna kupewa kukanidwa. Ngati muwona kuti sakumasuka, mwina mutha kuseketsa ndikuwapangitsa kukhala omasuka pankhaniyi.

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4. Werengani matupi awo

Kodi mungalankhule bwanji za kugonana ndi wokondedwa wanu popanda kukhala wamphamvu kwambiri ndikupangitsa kuti musamve bwino? Kuwerenga matupi awo ndiye chinsinsi cha chilichonse. Ngati achoka kapena akuwoneka kuti alibe chidwi, ndiye kuti salankhula za izo. Ngati akukopana kapena kumwetulira pa funso ndiye inde, ndi chizindikiro. Palibe chomwe chimatanthauzira bwino nkhani zogonana kuposa kutsimikizira.

Koma kuphunzira kulankhula za kugonana n’kofunika. Chifukwa chakuti anthu alibe macheza apamtima, nkhani zambiri zimadza m'miyoyo yawo yogonana. Ngati wokondedwa wanu ali ndi vuto la erectile ndipo akuwuma nthawi yomwe mukubweretsa, simungathe kuzisiya.

Pokhapokha ngati nkhaniyo yayankhidwa, izi zipangitsa kuti ubale ukhale wolimba. Chifukwa chake ngati sichoncho pakuyesa koyamba muyenera kuonetsetsa kuti mwakambirana zogonana nthawi ina.

5. Khalani otsimikiza pa zomwe mukufuna

Mukakhala pachibwenzi, mumadziwa kuti nkhani iyi ichitika nthawi ina. Ndiye bwanji osamveka bwino za zosowa zanu poyamba. Ngati simukufuna kukhala nacho ndiye dzifunseni chifukwa chake komanso ngati mukufuna kukhala nacho, bwanji komanso kuti.

Ndi mutu wovuta ndipo pokhapokha ngati muli ndi chidaliro chokwanira mungathe kuugwira mosavuta popanda kuvulaza munthu wina. Komabe, ngati simukambirana za kugonana ndi wokondedwa wanu, sangadziwe mavuto omwe mukukumana nawo, ndipo izi zimangowonjezera kusamvana muubwenzi wanu.

Ngati mukufuna kuwonjezera kuchuluka kwa kugonana kapena ngati mukufuna kuti mnzanuyo azitsogolera nthawi zambiri ndiye kuti muyenera kufotokozera. Mutha kunena nthawi zonse kuti mukumva kufunidwa ngati wokondedwa wanu ayambitsa. Koma nenani zimenezo molimba mtima osamenya tchire.

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6. Njira yolerera

Uwu ndi mutu wofunikira kwambiri womwe uyenera kufotokozedwa muzokambirana zogonana. Maanja ena amatopa ndi kondomu kotero atha kufuna kufufuza njira zina za kondomu kulera monga mapiritsi kapena IUD. Muyenera kukambirana zomwe zimakuthandizani ndikuyesera njira yolererayo.

Koma okwatirana onse ayenera kukhala ndi chonena m’njira imene mwasankha yolerera. Osawakakamiza chilichonse, ndipo musakhale ndi malingaliro aliwonse musanalowe muzokambirana. Ingochitani zomwe zikuyenera kuchitika.

7. Osadandaula, koma perekani lingaliro

Ngati mukukonzekera kuyambitsa zokambirana zapamtima ndi mnzanu ndiye kuti muyenera kusamala kuti kamvekedwe kanu sikamadandaula. Izi zitha kukhala kuyimitsidwa kwakukulu ndipo zitha kukhala ndi zotsatira zoyipa pamoyo wanu wakugonana.

Nthawi zonse muziganizira zabwino pamene muyamba nkhani yanu. Zomwe mumakonda kwambiri pa moyo wanu wakugonana zitha kukhala poyambira bwino. Ndiye inu mukhoza nthawizonse kunena zimene mukufuna kwambiri, kapena zimene simukonda pabedi.

8. Zilakolako za kugonana ndi malire

Muyenera kukhala okonzeka kuyankhula za zilakolako zanu zogonana ndi malire. Izi zitha kukutengerani nthawi koma ndikofunikira kuti mupitilize kuchita izi. Chifukwa ngati mukufuna kusewera malingaliro anu m'chipinda chogona ndiye kuti muyenera kukambirana momasuka. Ngati muli ndi chidwi ndi BDSM ndi sewero fufuzani ngati mnzanuyo ali wokonzeka kuyesa zimenezo.

Muyeneranso kukhazikitsa malire anu. Kuwonera zolaula ndikuzichita sikungakhale chinthu chanu, choncho onetsetsani kuti mukufotokozera mnzanuyo. Ngati simuchita izi ndikupita ndi zinthu mosafuna ndiye kuti sizingagwire ntchito pachibwenzi. N’chifukwa chake kukambirana za kugonana n’kofunika kwambiri.

Kugonana ndikwapamtima komanso kopatulika kwa ambiri aife, ndiye bwanji osatenga chisankhochi mwanzeru ndipo osanong'oneza bondo pambuyo pake? Kukambitsirana moona mtima za kugonana kutha kuwongola zinthu zambiri m'moyo wanu wakugonana ndikupangitsa kukhala kosangalatsa komanso kosangalatsa.

Sizidzangokwaniritsa kwa inu, koma kwa iwonso, ndipo ubalewo udzapitiriza kukhala wathanzi ndi wolimba ngati mukulankhulana ndikukumana ndi zovuta pamodzi. Ndipo tisaiwale kuti kugonana ndi gawo lofunika kwambiri paubwenzi.

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