Kodi Ndikofunikira Kusintha Surname Pambuyo pa Ukwati?

Kodi ndikofunikira kusintha dzina pambuyo paukwati? Ngakhale yankho lalamulo ndiloti ayi, anthu omwe amaoneka onyoza amataya njira yanu ngati simusintha dzina lanu ngati simukufuna. Mwadzidzidzi, kulimba kwa ukwati wanu tsopano kukudalira chosankha chimodzi chokhacho, chimene chalinganizidwa kupangitsa mkaziyo kudzimva kukhala wosayenera.

M’dera lathu, kusintha dzina lachibadwidwe pambuyo pa ukwati kumatanthauza kudzipereka. Monga ngati kudzipereka kwa mkazi ku ukwati kungaweluzidwe kokha ngati iye wasintha dzina lake kapena ayi. Koma kudzipereka kwa mwamuna sikumakayikira.

Mosasamala kanthu za zimene anthu amanena, maganizo anga pankhaniyi ndi omveka bwino. Pamene ndikugawana zomwe ndakumana nazo pakusintha dzina la surname mutalowa m'banja, ndikhulupilira kuti mukhala ndi malingaliro abwino oti muyankhe funso, "Kodi ndikofunikira kusintha dzina pambuyo pabanja?"

Mavuto Anga Ndi Kusintha Surname Pambuyo pa Ukwati

Kuofesi ya kalembera wa ukwati ku Bengaluru, mwamuna wa pa desiki anandifunsa kuti, “Kodi ndilembe chiyani monga surname yako?” Ndinayang'ana mozungulira mazana a maanja omwe akudikirira zikalata zawo zaukwati, ena akudina zithunzi panja, ena akujambula zithunzi zawo ngati tsamba ndi tsamba likutuluka mu fotokope. Shakespeare kuchokera m'makalasi anga a zolemba adalankhula m'makona a malingaliro anga kuti 'mudzina muli chiyani?'. Ndisanayankhe, mwamuna wanga anawonjezera kuti, “Chonde usunge dzina lake lachimuna.”

Ndinamwetulira. Ndinali ndi wopambana m'manja mwanga - wokonda zachikazi, wonyadira kuti ndi ndani komanso wodzilemekeza. Apa m’pamene anatsamirapo n’kunong’oneza kuti, “Ndani asintha chilichonse papasipoti ndi poto, tiyeni tizingosunga momwe zilili.

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Mkhalidwe wabwino waukazi unagwa ndipo ndinathokoza ntchito ya m’maofesi a boma yochitidwa ndi nkhono imene inandithandiza kusunga dzina langa lachibwana. Apo ayi, ndikanakhala Narang m'malo mwa Kewalya. Ndine wa Pushkarna Brahman wochokera ku Rajasthan wokwatiwa m'banja la Chipunjabi. Pamapu aku India, zigawo ziwirizi sizitalikirana, koma zenizeni, zitha kukhala choko ndi tchizi.

ndipo banja labwino ndi dokotala wamaso wabwino kwambiri, yemwe amakupatsirani magalasi abwino kwambiri, osawoneka bwino kwambiri, kukuthandizani kuti mutsike mpaka kudontho komaliza. gotra kusonyeza kusiyana kwenikweni kumene chikondi chinasiya kumakona akutali oiwalika.

Chifukwa chake tinalipo zaka zisanu ndi zitatu zapitazo, muofesi, choko ndi tchizi ndikusunga dzina langa lachibwana. Kunena zowona, ndinalibe nazo ntchito. Zinalibe kanthu basi. Ndipo m’kupita kwa zaka, kutsimikiza mtima kwanga kwangowonjezereka. Bizinesi yosintha/yosasintha iyi ndiyokwera kwambiri. Ndikuuzani chifukwa chake.

Chifukwa chiyani kusintha dzina pambuyo paukwati sikuyenera kukhala vuto lalikulu

Yankho ndi cloves. Inde, zonunkhiritsa zaku India zija, zomwe zili mumtsuko wanu; yomwe imayikidwa mumphika wa biriyani kuti itulutse kukoma kwake. Zinandibweretsera chisangalalo muukwati wanga.

Mbalameyi imakhalanso chida chachinsinsi chomwe amayi anga amagwiritsa ntchito pa matenda awo onse. Kukhala dzanzi/kupweteka m'miyendo, kupweteka kwa mano, mutu, nseru, kuzizira kapena vuto la m'mimba. Ndikhulupirireni, cloves, pamodzi ndi mbewu za carom ndi ginger, zimaphimba matenda aliwonse mumtanthauzira mawu wachipatala wa amayi anga. Ndalandira chidziwitso chamankhwala ichi kuchokera kwa iye, ndikuchichita, ndipo ndidapulumuka usiku wochuluka kutali ndi amayi.

Usiku wina, titadya kwambiri chakudya chamadzulo, mwamuna wanga anadandaula ndi ululu pachifuwa chake ndipo mwamsanga anandifunsa kuti, “Kodi mungandipatseko ma clove angapo?” Ndinatero ndipo m’mphindi zochepa chabe, anamva kukhala wopepuka ndipo anayambiranso kuonera TV.

Zimenezo zinabweretsa kumwetulira pankhope yanga. Zaka zisanu ndi zitatu zapitazo, bambo uyu sakanagwirapo cloves ngakhale ndi forceps. Iye sanafune kuyesa chirichonse chatsopano ngakhale moyo wake unali wolendewera ndi ulusi. Koma usiku umenewo, iye anali atawoloka pakhomo kuti asakhale yemwe iye anali ndipo anapita patsogolo, kukhala monga ine.

Ndikudziwa kuti muyenera kudabwa kuti vuto lalikulu la clove ndi chiyani. Koma zoona zake n’zakuti kaya mutasintha dzina kapena ayi, m’banja mumakhala ngati winayo tsiku lililonse. Ndikusintha kwapang'onopang'ono kwa nkhono komwe sumazindikira kuti mukukumana nazo mpaka mutasintha. Ndi pamene inu mukudziwa kuti inu mutero khalani m’chikondi kwamuyaya.

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Kusintha dzina pambuyo pa ukwati sikutanthauza chikondi

Ngakhale popanda kusintha dzina langa, popanda kutsimikizira kwa anthu athu kuti ndine kudzipereka ku ukwati wanga, zimakhala ngati ndikuyamba kukhala wa Narang pang'onopang'ono ndipo mwamuna wanga akukhala wa Kewalya. Ndipo ndikudziwa kuti nthawi idzafika, zaka zingapo, pamene kusintha kudzakhala kotheratu popanda aliyense wa ife kusintha mayina athu.

Ngakhale kuti sindinasinthe dzina langa papepala, kusintha kwa umunthu, makhalidwe ndi makhalidwe athu kumawonekera pakapita nthawi. Zimakugundani tsiku lina mwadzidzidzi mutakhala ndi makolo anu kunyumba kwawo ndipo mumazindikira kuti zomwe angonenazi sizinamveke ngati zoseketsa monga momwe zikanakhalira zaka khumi zapitazo.

Kapena mwina kapu ya tiyi ija yomwe mudaikonda kale koma tsopano mwapeza mkaka kwambiri. Mwina, ngakhale momwe amayi anu amayika mphasa patebulo. Panthawi imeneyi mumamva kusiyana, mtunda umene watulukira zaka zonsezi zomwe mwakhala m'banja. Mukuzindikira kuti pali zinthu zambiri zomwe mumayanjana nazo ndi banja la mwamuna wanu.

Mofanana ndi kapu ya tiyi. Kodi shuga amasakanikirana ndi masamba a tiyi kapena onse amasungunuka m'madzi? Kodi zimapanga kusiyana kotani mukakhala ndi kapu yabwino kwambiri ya tiyi yokhala ndi ma cloves m'miyezi yozizira yachisanu?

Kodi ndikofunikira kusintha dzina pambuyo paukwati?

Kubwerera ku funso lomwe lili pafupi, monga mukuonera, maganizo anga sanasinthe. Bizinesi yosintha dzinali iyenera kuthetsedwa. Ndipo 'mphamvu' yotani posunga dzina lanu lachimuna? Sizinapatsidwe ndi bambo ako? Ngati mungandifunse, ndikuganiza kuti mayina oyamba ndi odabwitsa.

Zambiri zakambidwa za dzina la mtsikana wokwatiwa. Nthawi zambiri za momwe mkazi osasintha dzina lake amatanthauza kuti sakufuna kukhala mbali ya banja. Nthawi zina, ngakhale kusunga mayina onse awiri atakwatirana ku India amaonedwa pansi. Pamenepa, kodi akazi ayambanso kusintha dzina loyamba m’banja?

Ndipo ngati tikufunadi dzina lachibale, bwanji osalenga? Zingakhale zozikidwa pa khalidwe limene timasirira ndi kulemekeza. Chinachake chomwe chimalongosola 'kukhala okondwa muzinthu zazing'ono'. Pamapeto pake, dzina lanu silimatanthawuza chikondi chomwe banja lanu liri nalo. Izi zili choncho, mu dzina?

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